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Topic: Sagittarius and casual sex/One night stands.
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 22, 2015 11:29 PM
  
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I don't dispute that, but there's still a difference of looking for a BJ by saying you're a "top looking for oral" (and letting those interested come to you) and telling a specific person (OL) "those look like dick sucking lips, lol." The latter being directed at females despite that it's harder to find women who would act like all too many on Grindr (perhaps the straights feel she'll either buy it or metaphorically slap his face regardless of how delicate he puts it and is looking for a woman with low self esteem anyway, unlike the gay guy who knows if he offends then the one he's talking dirty to can just find someone else?)'Course I have yet to hear of a dating/hook up app for straights in which so many were extremely rude (and often racist, etc) in saying what they were looking for ('course just because I haven't heard of them doesn't mean they don't exist). But main thing is I didn't want people to say "typical gays" (and not even "typical gays on Grindr" but all gay men) as a few are prone to do...or act like that gay pride parades are just public orgies when they're no more erotic and outgoing than a lot of mardis gras, spring breaks, etc.
I kind of envy the gay guys in alot of ways... Atleast they get to be honest about what they want. As a straight guy I can tell you that you cannot be honest with women about what you want if what you are wanting is sex. Even if the woman is supposedly open to NSA. I still get weirded out by all the mixed signals women constantly send out when it comes to sex. I've lost count of all the dating profiles i've seen where women have pictures of themselves half-naked and showing all kinds of skin but they write in their profiles that they are good christians and don't hook-up. One time I messaged a girl that said that she was looking for hook-ups in her profile. I asked her if she was really into hook-ups just to make sure she was really into hook-ups and it wasn't a mistake. She messaged me back and said that I was being too blunt and would never get anywhere with her unless I "wooed" her. Huh?  So girls who want casual sex and hook-ups want to be wooed? That doesn't sound like a hook-up to me but what do I know. 
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lilting
Newflake Posts: 21
From: California
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 23, 2015 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I'm also wary of STDs...I've attributed that to my 6H Lilith. I wish I knew the ASC of a BFF from long ago as she had an almost identical chart as me (and would include Lilith) but I don't know her houses. She was far more promiscuous than me but had a Cappie moon instead of Sag (so less Sag), though she also had a bit more Scorpio.
I think Scorpio placements can go either way. Some I know are very in tune with their emotional needs and place a higher premium on sex and others just sorta throw up the middle finger and do what to them is just having a good time lol I don't know many who fall in between though.
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Ceridwen
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 23, 2015 09:29 AM
Are you really calling me sappy, Ceri?Faith, is that a bad word? Would sentimental be a better one?
"Are you sure you calculated that right? Isn't it more like moon = Mars/Neptune MP if the degrees were switched around?"
No, Moon is much too far awy from the Mars/NEptune MP Neptune is on the Venus/Mars-mp (well actually squrae it, but that doesn`t really matter; with midpoints we count the opposition, conjunct and square). Neptune would be semisquare the Moon/Venus-mp, which for most midpoint astrologer is a valid aspect. Well I prefer to limit them to the conj, opp and square actually, but there might still be a subtle resonance. We can argue that direct midpoints (conj, and opposition) are felt more insistently, but personally I have noticed the square very valid as well. In my own chart Moon is square the Sun/Pluto and Mercury/Pluto, and Venus squares the Sun/Saturn and Mercury/Saturn-mp, and both make tons of sense.
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Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 23, 2015 10:14 AM
I was just being silly...since yeah, I am sappy. (Thought you knew?  )I need to check those Ebertin midpoint charts because I don't see what you see. Oh but it makes sense what you were saying about one planet squaring other midpoints...I've seen that in my chart, ie Saturn square moon/Mars MP. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 10263
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 23, 2015 10:25 AM
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Neptune is on the Venus/Mars-mp (well actually squrae it, but that doesn`t really matter; with midpoints we count the opposition, conjunct and square)
Ohhhhh!! Yes, square it. 11 Virgo Mars/Venus MP
12 Sag Neptune  Amazing how you spotted that. quote:
Neptune would be semisquare the Moon/Venus-mp, which for most midpoint astrologer is a valid aspect. Well I prefer to limit them to the conj, opp and square actually, but there might still be a subtle resonance.
Right again.  Moon/Venus MP 27 Cap, 45 degrees away from Neptune. Just one more reason to be delusional 
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Ceridwen
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posted January 23, 2015 12:04 PM
"11 Virgo Mars/Venus MP
12 Sag Neptune"
BTW that means your Venus/Mars-mp is RIGHT on Mr Sag`s Mars-Jupiter-conjunction and opposing my Jupiter and squaring my Neptune-NN-conjunction.
You must be so turned on by our weird interaction. 
Of course with Neptune there it gets all that shiny glamour mist poured all over it.
"Amazing how you spotted that."
Not really. I just now and then switch on the "90° dial-eyes".
It`s easy really if you know that all cardinal signs fall onto 00°-30° in that sort, all fixed signs from 30°-60° and all mutables from 60°-90.
So a Moon on 18 Pisces, would end up on 78° (18 degrees mutable). and a 12 degree Neptune would be 72°, a 6° Venus, 66°, and from there it is easy. Of course a bit of information is getting lost that way (the actual signbackground), but for that you just have to reswitch the eyes for the whole zodiac. "
Moon/Venus MP 27 Cap, 45 degrees away from Neptune."
Funny enough my own MOon/Venus-mp is on 26°37 Capricorn, and hence semisquare my Neptune as well, and NN and Jupiter on the other side. making my Jupiter/Neptune and Jupiter/NN midpoing fall onto my Moon/Venus-midpoint. However I do put more stock into the square than the semisquare in terms of triggering aspects of midpoints. Funny enough Mr Sag`s Venus is on 25°55 Capricorn, it`s like he provides a (Venusian) magnifying glass for all these midpoints in my chart. So much idealization. :sighs:
As for your last sentence do we realy need a reason to be delusional?
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Ceridwen
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posted January 23, 2015 12:07 PM
If you want to check your midpoints you can simply go to astro.com, choose "Ebertin style" under the chart drawing style; go to the extratables and scroll downt o the last one : Midpoints in 90° order.There you can look for your planets, and all the midpoints within about 1 degree before or after your planet are either in conjunction, opposition or square to that planet. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 10263
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 24, 2015 11:32 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
BTW that means your Venus/Mars-mp is RIGHT on Mr Sag`s Mars-Jupiter-conjunction and opposing my Jupiter and squaring my Neptune-NN-conjunction.
You must be so turned on by our weird interaction.
LOL! Well...your composite Venus is on my sun, it's not like you gave me much choice... quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Of course with Neptune there it gets all that shiny glamour mist poured all over it.
Love that expression. YES. "Shiny glamour mist" improves everything.  quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Not really. I just now and then switch on the "90° dial-eyes".
Thank you! It never would have occurred to me to organize the placements that way. That's going to be so helpful, once I get the hang of it. My mind is so clunky about math. quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
"Moon/Venus MP 27 Cap, 45 degrees away from Neptune." Funny enough my own MOon/Venus-mp is on 26°37 Capricorn and hence semisquare my Neptune as well
Is it just me...or is that a bit freaky, that we have this same MP? I also have asteroid Lust @ 27 Cap, Valentine @ 25 Cap. ETA: Sun-Mercury MP 25 Cap, Jupiter-Uranus 26 Cap. quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
and NN and Jupiter on the other side. making my Jupiter/Neptune and Jupiter/NN midpoing fall onto my Moon/Venus-midpoint.
Wow! quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Funny enough Mr Sag`s Venus is on 25°55 Capricorn, it`s like he provides a (Venusian) magnifying glass for all these midpoints in my chart. So much idealization. :sighs:
That's crazy! !!! And with his Venus on my moon-Venus MP and Valentine, it also helps explain why I will watch a long YouTube video of him speaking German even though I don't understand a word of it. LOL But I would never seriously co-crush with you. quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
As for your last sentence do we realy need a reason to be delusional?
Oops I should have written, "One more reason for my being delusional." Sag Venus conjunct Neptune + Pisces moon = "Which way is up again???" IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 10263
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 24, 2015 11:46 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
If you want to check your midpoints you can simply go to astro.com, choose "Ebertin style" under the chart drawing style; go to the extratables and scroll downt o the last one : Midpoints in 90° order.There you can look for your planets, and all the midpoints within about 1 degree before or after your planet are either in conjunction, opposition or square to that planet.
 That is fabulous! Kinda embarrassed that I couldn't even figure out the purpose of that list before you explained it. Lots of interesting tidbits here... Moon-Pluto = sun-Neptune @ 29 Sag. Now it's just a matter of interpreting it...maybe just that there is intensity in my dreaming? Or this is another indicator that I have a dormant, but giant, power plant of psychic power LOL IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 24, 2015 01:56 PM
Faith,"LOL! Well...your composite Venus is on my sun, it's not like you gave me much choice..."
LOL
Maybe it is YOU who doesn`t give us/me a real choice?
Your Sun, just through the way you are, you illuminate that Venus, which is hidden in the 12th house.
Now the thing about 12th house planets is this, it might be a blind spot for the people involved, while everyone else can see it so easily. Especially with someone having Sun on that spot, the Venus-nature of our connection must seem just so clear to you,w hile we are just: What is going on? lol It gets a little challenging also, as my own natal Saturn is opposing our composite Venus, and hence your Sun. So I guess it must be like I am constantly pouring cold ice water onto that.
Well with my own Saturn, rx, in Cancer, in 8th house, we do know that the real reason for that is insecurity (ruling 2nd house) and fear of intimacy. I suppose things are even more difficult as composite Moon is not so far away and it is on HIS natal Venus; possibly he is inclined to be more attuned to that than me, though composite Moon is falling onto my Sun/moon-mp with about a degree, so ... "Love that expression. YES. "Shiny glamour mist" improves everything. "
Thanks. I thought it was a rather descriptive Neptunian expression.
And do not get me wrong I love the Neptunian magical dust. I really do. You know in a way Venus-Neptune or Mars-Neptune remind me a little of that (well maybe there is some other more sparkly energetic planet involved in that song as well). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=osgGQ-SOWsE "Is it just me...or is that a bit freaky, that we have this same MP?"
Yeah thought so, too.
I do not have any planet there, well unless we count the asteroid LINK (Mr Sag has his LINK and INTERKOSMOS there as well). Oh and my Draconic Midheaven and Draco Pluto at about 28 Cap though on my Anubis, right, Anubis is there at 28 Cap as well. "Jupiter-Uranus 26 Cap."
Love that how you have Jupiter/Uranus there, and I have Jupiter/Neptune. "That's crazy! !!!"
No, it`s lovely. Well maybe not for him, his Saturn/Uranus-mp has progressed to his Venus by 0°03. And it seems to not move. lol
Poor Venus of his. being targeted by his Saturn/uranus-mp AND his Neptune/Node-mp.
lol his solar arc Neptune is conjunct his Venus, too. Might experience just a bit of romantic confusion and feeling torn into several directions simultaneously.
But hey wait, until Tr Uranus reaches the end degrees of Aries, and fires up that Venus of his some more. lol Which will be the case in may 2017, when Tr Uranus will be squaring his Venus, Tr Saturn being conjunct his Sun-Moon-MC and squaring his ASC. Tr NN on his own NN. Tr Neptune on his pr Venus and opposing his natal Mars-Jupiter-conjunction. Poor guy. He`s in for *something*. (oh and that of course is accompanied and followed by Tr Pluto steamrolling over our composite Venus and Moon, and especially going back and forth over our composite Moon ad my Sun/Moon-mp for years as it seems. lol Well, months at least Seems I am not that safe either. lol )
"And with his Venus on my moon-Venus MP and Valentine, it also helps explain why I will watch a long YouTube video of him speaking German even though I don't understand a word of it. LOL2
LOL you watched the video in the train?
"Sag Venus conjunct Neptune + Pisces moon = "Which way is up again???""
LOL
Yes, exactly. Well where we are is up.
It is a terryfying mix though (for others, we are perfectly happy in our dreamworld ), as if Neptune/Pisces needs a boosting Jupiter that will make their dreams even bigger, grander and just make all boundaries disappear. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted January 26, 2015 01:09 PM
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misslani
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posted January 26, 2015 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Now i hear that Sagittarians are famous for casual sex and one night stands. Now is that only with the Sun signs or when the sexual planets (venus,mars) are in Sagittarius? Any Sag's here can verify this? lol
I'm sun/mer/uranus Sag. I don't exactly have one night stands. Not that I have anything against them. I do have a few "friends with benefits" experiences. I know a lot of Sag. dominant people and the situation varies from one person to the next. They are all very open minded when it comes to relationships, regardless of their own preferences. IP: Logged | |
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