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hypatia238
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posted June 27, 2015 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for a while before they show interest back?

Curious............

Are you like this? and if so is it your mars or what? and please let me know your gender in your response.

Thanks!

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posted June 27, 2015 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini lol

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posted June 27, 2015 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for midnightvenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I heard Aries Venus can make men want to be chased lol

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posted June 27, 2015 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReadingTheStars95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^

Yeah, I could kinda see that too.. Venus in Aries can be kind of playful in their approach to love.. And well, I could kind of see it manifesting that way for some people.

However, this is something I don't really desire all that much. However, I do want to know the person I am with is dedicated. But, I think most people would.

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posted June 27, 2015 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for selenafae96     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I admit to being like this. I want to know for sure a guy likes me before I take interest in a relationship. I love flattery, and I have to know that the guy is serious.. not just playing around. I have Venus in Leo, 8th house.

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Mars in Gemini 12th house

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posted June 27, 2015 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
I heard Aries Venus can make men want to be chased lol

^ True. Mainly if they have a feminine Mars to go with the Aries Venus - e.g. Taurus, Cancer, Pisces.

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posted June 27, 2015 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't know about the feminine Mars, Odette, but it makes sense!

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posted June 27, 2015 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus in Gemini lol


quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
^ True. Mainly if they have a feminine Mars to go with the Aries Venus - e.g. Taurus, Cancer, Pisces.

Interesting guys! Thanks.

So perhaps a venus in gemini with mars in cancer or venus in the first with mars in cancer.

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posted June 28, 2015 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i thought aries venus like to DO the chasing?

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People with Sun/Moon oppositions?
Only because they're indecisive?

That's just my guess from experience.

I was going to list more possibilities, but I do have an afflicted mars in Sagittarius on my 7th house cusp so maybe I just attract guyswho like to be chased because up until recently, I liked to do the chasing. Haha

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posted June 28, 2015 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
i thought aries venus like to DO the chasing?

I think the way it works it Venus in Aries women like to chase and Venus in Aries men like to be chased.

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posted June 28, 2015 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in 7th
Saturn in 7th

Venus conjunct Asc /1st house
Venus in Libra
Venus in Taurus

Venus in aspect to Sun/Moon/Asc

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posted June 29, 2015 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I think the way it works it Venus in Aries women like to chase and Venus in Aries men like to be chased.

oh wow i've had it all wrong if that's the case.
i would've thought the men would be more into the chase. now im so confused lol

any aries venus men here that like to chase or be chased? whats your preference?

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posted June 29, 2015 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ In my version of the way things go down (this isn't what you normally read)... Venus stands for "the ideal woman" or "ideal feminine principle"... and Mars stands for the "ideal man/masculine principle".

So a man with Aries Venus sees Aries-like (aggressive/overt) behaviour as ideal in women.
A woman with Aries Venus ^ has the exact same mindset, and for that reason she would feel comfortable in a traditionally "masculine" role.
Aries Venus women are much (much!) more likely to be confident, overt and openly chase someone.
Aries Venus men are very -loving- of this behaviour ^ coming from a woman. They find it beautiful and appealing.
Venus is considered detriment in Aries, since Aries is one of the Martian signs - and this is exactly why people with Aries Venus are so unconventional. They don't conform to the typical social norms about boys & girls.

I disagree with Aries23 about Taurus/Libra Venus or Venus in the 7th, because imo those Venus signs are actually the most conventional. Their ideal version of being "female" in this world - conforms to social standards.

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posted June 29, 2015 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Venus Aries (conjunct Mars!) woman and when I like someone I like to pursue them. It's very hard for me to just stay back and let them pursue me. Because I have learned that a guy needs to have the chase in order to stay interested in someone. Unless they are a Venus Aries man of course

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posted June 29, 2015 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in cancer, because I cant assert myself for crap.

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posted June 29, 2015 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have learned that a guy needs to have the chase in order to stay interested in someone

It also depends on culture ^.

But astrologically speaking.. other than Aries Venus men... those who have compatible Venus signs: Gemini, Aquarius, Leo, Sagittarius - will not care either way.
They won't mind being chased. They don't actively *want* to be chased... but they wouldn't be put off by your forward/fiery approach.

You'd definitely feel these positive aspects ^ if they are within an orb of 3 or so... 5 at most.
The connection won't be as strong if your Venus is at 2' Aries.. and their Venus is at 16' Aquarius, for instance. The closer, the better!

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posted June 29, 2015 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Mars in cancer, because I cant assert myself for crap.


I hear you. MIne is too

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posted June 29, 2015 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
^ In my version of the way things go down (this isn't what you normally read)... Venus stands for "the ideal woman" or "ideal feminine principle"... and Mars stands for the "ideal man/masculine principle".

So a man with Aries Venus sees Aries-like (aggressive/overt) behaviour as ideal in women.
A woman with Aries Venus ^ has the exact same mindset, and for that reason she would feel comfortable in a traditionally "masculine" role.
Aries Venus women are much (much!) more likely to be confident, overt and openly chase someone.
Aries Venus men are very -loving- of this behaviour ^ coming from a woman. They find it beautiful and appealing.
Venus is considered detriment in Aries, since Aries is one of the Martian signs - and this is exactly why people with Aries Venus are so unconventional. They don't conform to the typical social norms about boys & girls.


perfect! thanks Odette. makes a lot of sense now.

edit: what if the sun is in aries? would this make someone likely to chase? or does it only pertain to mars and venus placements?

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posted June 29, 2015 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first love was a venus in gemini he did not like to be chased he did not like anything. He liked to be ignored then he would come running. He routinely fell in love with women who treated him badly and hurt the ones who cared for him..

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posted June 29, 2015 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah ^.. You can never judge by one placement alone.
You can approximate.. or take an educated guess.. but you can never be certain. We're all generalising here
The behaviour you described doesn't have much to do with the energy of Gemini Venus, imo.
But we all have so many different placements and aspects (constantly interacting with each other). People are so complicated!

Other than the varied natal aspects that can alter the influence of *one* particular placement... there are also psychological factors, cultural factors, conditioning etc. to take into account.

For example, an Aries Venus person who was born autistic - regardless of gender... would behave very differently on a romantic level, to what we see as the 'typical' Aries Venus.
There are so many variables! That's why astrology is not an exact science.

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posted June 29, 2015 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
perfect! thanks Odette. makes a lot of sense now.

edit: what if the sun is in aries? would this make someone likely to chase? or does it only pertain to mars and venus placements?


That's not an easy question lol
I have an Aries Sun myself. Aries Suns are generally confident people.. or more confident than the average person.
So they are not normally 'shy' in this department. But that's not to say they necessarily 'chase'.
You'd still have to look at the Mars sign. An Aries guy with a Taurus or Cancer Mars - will be pretty laid back and too loving of his comfort zone to make a move.

An Aries guy with Scorpio Mars - could be extremely decisive and likely to chase (regardless of Venus).
The only difference is .. if he had *both* Venus and Mars in Martian signs - e.g. Aries Venus/Scorpio mars... he would both *be* the chaser.. and also, be attracted to a woman who is just as intense and fiery as he is. So he would like a scenario where they chase each other.

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posted June 29, 2015 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoAquaSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aries men for sure.

My boyfriend has this and I have Mars in Aries. I definitely am more of a go-getter than him and I usually do the chasing. But they don't also just sit still and do nothing either. They will initiate some kind of action so you are intrigued.

Think of it like a little boy who would pull your hair or tap on your shoulder to get your attention then run away expecting you to run after him. If you do, he will like it. If you don't, he might consider you a challenge but will lose interest in the long run.

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posted June 30, 2015 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
That's not an easy question lol
I have an Aries Sun myself. Aries Suns are generally confident people.. or more confident than the average person.
So they are not normally 'shy' in this department. But that's not to say they necessarily 'chase'.
You'd still have to look at the Mars sign. An Aries guy with a Taurus or Cancer Mars - will be pretty laid back and too loving of his comfort zone to make a move.

An Aries guy with Scorpio Mars - could be extremely decisive and likely to chase (regardless of Venus).
The only difference is .. if he had *both* Venus and Mars in Martian signs - e.g. Aries Venus/Scorpio mars... he would both *be* the chaser.. and also, be attracted to a woman who is just as intense and fiery as he is. So he would like a scenario where they chase each other.


hmmm ok how about this combo then? Aries sun, Taurus ASC, Gem mars, Aries venus

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