posted July 26, 2015 08:24 AM            

But I've never stayed single **for** anyone else. If I have then only for a few weeks or a month maybe. I've been single for much longer but because I just felt like it.

posted July 26, 2015 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Little Doe:
I always wondered though - how do you "complete" a love? Like, do you get together until you´ve realized that you are actually bored with eachother?
He/ we were also not ready for it..
Do you guys have NN aspects that show that you might get a second chance in another lifetime?

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posted July 26, 2015 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Three years. Dark times! I still remained single for another two after that but those years were mostly filled with dating various people to get him out of my system. We had no SN connections but his Venus/Moon conjunction was SMACK dab on my IC by zero degrees. I've been leery of IC/Planet contacts ever since truthfully lol, separating was like slowly severing off a beloved limb.

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Oh yes great point! I believe the IC is just as sensitive as the SN.

posted July 26, 2015 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Hmm.. Quite a few years actually. I actually haven't been with anyone since that relationship. However, I started becoming open to relationships about 2 or so years afterwords.

I guess now that I look at it, her South Node is close to my Venus. Not quite a conjunction though.

Her Moon is on my Mars.. My Kaali is on her Venus.. Considering those two aspects alone, it was a very intense relationship. Since our charts are pretty similar, there are certain aspects in my chart she kind of brings out more when I'm around her. She has her Sun conjunct the apex of my Kite formation which is Saturn in Pisces..(Personally, I feel my kite plays a pretty big role in my chart.. Especially considering Saturn is parallel my ascendant.. And, my Life-Path number is 8)

In our composite we have a Grand Fire trine involving Jupiter, Leo, and Mercury.. It then forms a Kite with the Moon in Libra. That composite Moon is conjunct my Draconic Sun. We have a composite 8th house Sun..

Our composite Draconic Moon is conjunct my Venus/Neptune midpoint, and also conjunct my Eros and a few other asteroids.. Which I have opposite Spirit.. Our composite Draconic Mars is conjunct my IC. (another Mars/Moon kind of vibe going on there..) Composite Draconic Venus conjunct my Draconic Saturn. Hey Venus/Sun midpoint is conjunct my Draconic Ascendant.

We still hang out from time to time.. But, it seems I always lose my composure around her, and I feel like because of this, a lot of the times she isn't seeing me for who I truly am. I'm not even sure why I lose my composure when I am around her. I'm no longer really all that attracted to her. It's kind of like.. There's almost some kind of void. The interesting thing is, we pick up on eachother's thoughts A LOT.. It's almost as if it makes it hard for us to actually speak, because our thoughts become muddled with one another, therefore making it hard to express our thoughts.. So, in that, I guess a part of me also feels she understands me, because we kind of see through the words..

(We do have a composite Mercury in Pisces..)

lol.. I probably just went way too in depth.. xD

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posted July 26, 2015 09:48 AM            

I've met a bunch of guys since and even had a major crush on one of them, but it faded away as quickly as it was sparked.

posted July 26, 2015 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by HoodBlaze:
I was gonna call you girls crazy, but after thinking about it I am basically the same!

Man, this girl was like Artemis she grew up in the middle of the desert, and I was crazy for her. Even though I've stayed active with other girls nothing ever translated into a full blown relationship. I've stayed single between 19-22 which is pretty crazy thinking how many girlfriends I had before that. Even though it was dark I learned so much about myself, and now wish nothing for the best for her.

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posted July 26, 2015 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Seimei:

sheesh, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPBzTxZQG5Q

I left Austin in 1998. It was 2005(another old unrequited love to that point) before I
dropped trou, and that didn't replace the feeling, and I still dream/awake at 4AM with her(the 1) on mind from time to time and get up and check transits
Aspects I don't for sure know because when we met she wanted to be older than me and lied,( we were both young)I learned from her mother but unsure of her dob.I believe she has a grand trine Sun/Moon/Pluto with the pluto just behind my Sun @ my V/M midpoint but unsure. So Sun taurus and Moon cap trine my Sun .I know her day and it was a midnight birth but play games with the year,lol. Venus 135 my Venus. Her asc in the grand time as well. She literally screamed when her mother was telling me and I didn't here the year but I go by the one that fits and I know she had to be a few younger.
We were so incredibly comfortable together but she had a plan she stuck with.
So what is that, 7 years. So yeah call me a marshmellow.
Everyone else was either ships passing in the night, the ones who moved in next door, er the one nevermind.
TMI?

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posted July 26, 2015 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:

Venus 12 can get lost in love but at least for me it seems that it can also remove it, hide it, and it gets lost in the seas of subconscious while the consciousness moves on.

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I think my 8H Pisces moon functions the same way. Love remains deeper down, while I just move on.

I've never stayed single FOR someone, though there was a time when I had zero interest in anyone except one person...

posted July 26, 2015 07:49 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
I stayed single for 3 years after I broke up and moved away from my first love. That was probably the longest I've ever been single. No one ever made me feel the same intensity. I was always bored. I dated around but never settled down or got serious.

I haven't felt a love quite like that again until last summer. 5 years later

We were only together for 9 months, but we had a rollercoaster ride of a relationship. When we were on breaks, I would get offers to date other people, but I couldn't. We broke up 2 months ago and cut the communication chord. I feel like I'll be single for quite a while, to be honest. His sun, Venus, Mercury were conjunct my Venus. His Venus, Sun, & Merc were opposite my Ascending but conjunct my DSC. His Moon trined my NN..

No one has really kept my interest the way he did. Even when we were on our breaks, I never really cared about the other people. He was always on the back of my mind. He's also the first guy I had heavy prophetic dreams about as well as my first telepathic connection.

I don't have a desire to be back with him now. We're both totally different people with paths that aren't on the same wave length. We both have different life missions that don't involve each other. I feel we definitely had a karmic relationship and those are the hardest to deal with as well as get over fully.

I feel realistically, I will need to stay single at least a year before getting into a new relationship. I'm still stuck in between needing to heal and needing to get out of the mentality that he's the only person that will "get" me and give me the love I need.

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posted July 26, 2015 07:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Meatballzzzzzz:
Only happened to me once probably because he was the best boyfriend I ever had and the first guy I ever genuinely loved and it was for a little over a year. His SN conjunct my Moon.

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posted July 26, 2015 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Honestly, I think it is kind of a good thing I haven't been in a relationship for many years.. Back when I was younger, I was never single for more than a few months. I was ALWAYS in some type of relationship. (and, I think this is partly where my South Node in the 7th shows up..)

Also, with me having Uranus square Venus, I think it has been important for me to spend this time alone.

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posted July 26, 2015 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
10 1/2 years

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posted July 26, 2015 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
Like..for ever! i have Venus Rx in Virgo on my 12th house cusp & Moon aquarius in the 5th house

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posted July 26, 2015 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I've had obsessions last four years and I have had deep love for the same.

But I've never stayed single **for** anyone else. If I have then only for a few weeks or a month maybe. I've been single for much longer but because I just felt like it.

I think it's Uranus/moon in my chart and perhaps Venus 12th. (Maybe??)
Venus 12 can get lost in love but at least for me it seems that it can also remove it, hide it, and it gets lost in the seas of subconscious while the consciousness moves on.

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I've heard Venus in 12th makes love anything but typical! I think I'm happy it's my moon rather than Venus in my 12th, I have enough Venus afflictions I would never find love if it was in my 12th to!

posted July 26, 2015 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by florence:
Long. Tried to get over by dating / flirting with others but it only strengthened the feelings for the other in comparison so now I prefer to do the long walk back alone.

Aspects: neptune-venus, ic contacts, vertex, pluto - sun & natally venus sq saturn, moon conj neptune

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posted July 26, 2015 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Since all my exes treated me like $hit, I've never dated a guy I couldn't get over in a week or a few weeks. If he was that special he wouldn't be an ex.

#next
#seeya!
#uranianstyle
#buhbye

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posted July 26, 2015 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I think the only thing that could make it impossible for me to move on would be if the guy treated me like gold and the relationship was really positive, and then he went and died on me. That I don't think I could recover from swiftly, if at all.

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posted July 26, 2015 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Interesting topic...I'm going on 3 years. Currently I have progressed Mars in Virgo conjunct saturn....completely uninterested in any type of sexual relations with anyone else.

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posted July 26, 2015 08:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
I'm going through this right now. It's só painfull.
His pluto conjuncts my Venus

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