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Topic: What's the longest you've stayed single bcuz u were n love with someone u missed?
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Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 09:23 PM
  
What's the longest you've stayed single bcuz u were n love with someone u missed but couldn't be with....what aspects do you think contributed to that? What aspects made that person so important to you?IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 25, 2015 09:48 PM
Ooo.. Interesting question. Another thread I plan to respond to when I've got a moment to sit down on the computer..IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted July 25, 2015 09:49 PM
Three years.His Venus and Mars are conjunct my South Node. I just was so in love w/him. IP: Logged |
Seimei
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posted July 25, 2015 09:54 PM
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Ami Anne
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posted July 25, 2015 10:00 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Three years.His Venus and Mars are conjunct my South Node. I just was so in love w/him.
Yes, SN is powerful and overlooked imo ------------------
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Little Doe
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posted July 25, 2015 10:03 PM
Just one time, for a year, because of someone that really affected me. He wasnīt interested, but I was "stuck".
His venus conjuncted my SN too.. 
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Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:03 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Three years.His Venus and Mars are conjunct my South Node. I just was so in love w/him.
Oh yes...very tough aspects, I had his Venus/Merc on my SN...took many years. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Ooo.. Interesting question. Another thread I plan to respond to when I've got a moment to sit down on the computer..
Looking forward to your input RTS95!! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by Seimei:
Admit how much of a hopeless romantic I am,, no way,,lol
Oh, come on...you know your a big marshmallow deep inside!  IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by Little Doe:
Just one time, for a year, because of someone that really affected me. He wasnīt interested, but I was "stuck".
His venus conjuncted my SN too..
Wow!! You to?? So 3 of us now....mine also was his Venus/Mercury on my SN!!
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Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, SN is powerful and overlooked imo
Looks like it Ami, 3 of us so far with Venus on SN. IP: Logged |
Little Doe
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posted July 25, 2015 10:12 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Wow!! You to?? So 3 of us now....mine also was his Venus/Mercury on my SN!!
SN is haunting. It is after all about the souls lifepath. Someones venus there is basically affecting your soul path, thatīs how I see it.
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Gabby
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posted July 25, 2015 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by Little Doe:
SN is haunting. It is after all about the souls lifepath. Someones venus there is basically affecting your soul path, thatīs how I see it.
Yes, I agree. It's an unfinished love. Karma to work through. Love that's still there, still alive and active but yet in the process of needing completion. It's hard when you need and want so much to finish this up and they are not ready for it. IP: Logged |
Little Doe
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posted July 25, 2015 10:24 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Yes, I agree. It's an unfinished love. Karma to work through. Love that's still there, still alive and active but yet in the process of needing completion. It's hard when you need and want so much to finish this up and they are not ready for it.
I always wondered though - how do you "complete" a love? Like, do you get together until youīve realized that you are actually bored with eachother?
He/ we were also not ready for it..
Do you guys have NN aspects that show that you might get a second chance in another lifetime?
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athenaia
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posted July 25, 2015 10:29 PM
Three years. Dark times! I still remained single for another two after that but those years were mostly filled with dating various people to get him out of my system. We had no SN connections but his Venus/Moon conjunction was SMACK dab on my IC by zero degrees. I've been leery of IC/Planet contacts ever since truthfully lol, separating was like slowly severing off a beloved limb. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 25, 2015 10:36 PM
Hmm.. Quite a few years actually. I actually haven't been with anyone since that relationship. However, I started becoming open to relationships about 2 or so years afterwords.I guess now that I look at it, her South Node is close to my Venus. Not quite a conjunction though. Her Moon is on my Mars.. My Kaali is on her Venus.. Considering those two aspects alone, it was a very intense relationship. Since our charts are pretty similar, there are certain aspects in my chart she kind of brings out more when I'm around her. She has her Sun conjunct the apex of my Kite formation which is Saturn in Pisces..(Personally, I feel my kite plays a pretty big role in my chart.. Especially considering Saturn is parallel my ascendant.. And, my Life-Path number is 8) In our composite we have a Grand Fire trine involving Jupiter, Leo, and Mercury.. It then forms a Kite with the Moon in Libra. That composite Moon is conjunct my Draconic Sun. We have a composite 8th house Sun.. Our composite Draconic Moon is conjunct my Venus/Neptune midpoint, and also conjunct my Eros and a few other asteroids.. Which I have opposite Spirit.. Our composite Draconic Mars is conjunct my IC. (another Mars/Moon kind of vibe going on there..) Composite Draconic Venus conjunct my Draconic Saturn. Hey Venus/Sun midpoint is conjunct my Draconic Ascendant.
We still hang out from time to time.. But, it seems I always lose my composure around her, and I feel like because of this, a lot of the times she isn't seeing me for who I truly am. I'm not even sure why I lose my composure when I am around her. I'm no longer really all that attracted to her. It's kind of like.. There's almost some kind of void. The interesting thing is, we pick up on eachother's thoughts A LOT.. It's almost as if it makes it hard for us to actually speak, because our thoughts become muddled with one another, therefore making it hard to express our thoughts.. So, in that, I guess a part of me also feels she understands me, because we kind of see through the words..
(We do have a composite Mercury in Pisces..) lol.. I probably just went way too in depth.. xD IP: Logged |
Little Doe
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posted July 25, 2015 10:42 PM
ReadingThe StarsFwiw I reacted similarly around the person whos venuswas conjuncting my SN.
The losing composure, not being yourself, yet seeing through the words. My guess is that this is an ancient lover aspect. It doesnīt make sense.
The void feeling was also there for me.I think itīs because the SN aspects donīt have a sense of purpose and anticipation, like maybe NN aspects. Itīs more like been there done that (but only on a soul level), and although you really love the person you feel like there is more to life that you need to experience. I know of a couple with Venus conj SN who met young, separated for 35 years then came back when they were older. BUT they had a NN conjunct moon aspect too, so..
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HoodBlaze
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posted July 25, 2015 11:07 PM
I was gonna call you girls crazy, but after thinking about it I am basically the same! Man, this girl was like Artemis she grew up in the middle of the desert, and I was crazy for her. Even though I've stayed active with other girls nothing ever translated into a full blown relationship. I've stayed single between 19-22 which is pretty crazy thinking how many girlfriends I had before that. Even though it was dark I learned so much about myself, and now wish nothing for the best for her. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 25, 2015 11:08 PM
Yeah.. I've always considered her as being one of my Soul-Mates or us having some type of Soul-relation or being from the same Soul-group.There were times I even wondered if she was my Twin Flame, but I am pretty much certain she isn't. IP: Logged |
Seimei
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posted July 25, 2015 11:35 PM
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Seimei
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posted July 25, 2015 11:43 PM
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goddessofthemoon
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posted July 26, 2015 12:04 AM
I stayed single for 3 years after I broke up and moved away from my first love. That was probably the longest I've ever been single. No one ever made me feel the same intensity. I was always bored. I dated around but never settled down or got serious. I haven't felt a love quite like that again until last summer. 5 years later  We were only together for 9 months, but we had a rollercoaster ride of a relationship. When we were on breaks, I would get offers to date other people, but I couldn't. We broke up 2 months ago and cut the communication chord. I feel like I'll be single for quite a while, to be honest. His sun, Venus, Mercury were conjunct my Venus. His Venus, Sun, & Merc were opposite my Ascending but conjunct my DSC. His Moon trined my NN.. No one has really kept my interest the way he did. Even when we were on our breaks, I never really cared about the other people. He was always on the back of my mind. He's also the first guy I had heavy prophetic dreams about as well as my first telepathic connection. I don't have a desire to be back with him now. We're both totally different people with paths that aren't on the same wave length. We both have different life missions that don't involve each other. I feel we definitely had a karmic relationship and those are the hardest to deal with as well as get over fully. I feel realistically, I will need to stay single at least a year before getting into a new relationship. I'm still stuck in between needing to heal and needing to get out of the mentality that he's the only person that will "get" me and give me the love I need. IP: Logged |
Meatballzzzzzz
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posted July 26, 2015 12:13 AM
Only happened to me once probably because he was the best boyfriend I ever had and the first guy I ever genuinely loved and it was for a little over a year. His SN conjunct my Moon.IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
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posted July 26, 2015 12:17 AM
Honestly, I think it is kind of a good thing I haven't been in a relationship for many years.. Back when I was younger, I was never single for more than a few months. I was ALWAYS in some type of relationship. (and, I think this is partly where my South Node in the 7th shows up..)Also, with me having Uranus square Venus, I think it has been important for me to spend this time alone. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted July 26, 2015 03:00 AM
10 1/2 yearsIP: Logged |
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