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Topic: What's the longest you've stayed single bcuz u were n love with someone u missed?
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Gabby
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posted July 26, 2015 08:07 PM
  
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
It's almost been two years. I've met a bunch of guys since and even had a major crush on one of them, but it faded away as quickly as it was sparked. I don't have a sound understanding of synastry aspects, so I can't really elaborate on the placements causing this "longing".
I've experienced the crushes to but they always fizzle out so quickly and i go back to missing the one I really loved. I'm sorry MineAgain! IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
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posted July 26, 2015 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Wow!! That's a long time GB, what aspects did you have with them?
Let's see... Moon opposite Saturn DW
Her moon-chiron-venus T-squares completed my Uranus-Saturn-Mercury T for mutual Grand Mutable Crosses
Her Venus on my anti Vertex
Her Saturn completed my Grand Fixed Cross
Sun Quincunx Sun exact Yeah... Stuff like that (lol!) IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
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posted July 26, 2015 08:43 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Sounds like a very deep bond, your right karmic/psychic connections are the hardest to get over for sure! I hope you can move on quicker than you anticipate if that's what you want! 
Our composite even has Venus in the 8th, so yeah, we did have a deep bond. I hope I can move on quicker as well!! But I don't want to get my hopes up lol  Quote by Rumi I love: Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along. IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
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posted July 26, 2015 09:00 PM
About two years he had four planets in my 5th house and his natal mars was conjunct my draconic sun.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 26, 2015 09:55 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Let's see...Moon opposite Saturn DW
Her moon-chiron-venus T-squares completed my Uranus-Saturn-Mercury T for mutual Grand Mutable Crosses
Her Venus on my anti Vertex
Her Saturn completed my Grand Fixed Cross
Sun Quincunx Sun exact Yeah... Stuff like that (lol!)
A lot of completion aspects and balancing aspects, those are tough to get over! I noticed your thread a few days ago Saturn/Lust...I was surprised to find I have so much on top of your asteroid, it's kind of amusing! 
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/003049.html IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 26, 2015 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Our composite even has Venus in the 8th, so yeah, we did have a deep bond. I hope I can move on quicker as well!! But I don't want to get my hopes up lol Quote by Rumi I love: Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.
I love that quote it fits perfect here...and beautiful! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 26, 2015 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
About two years he had four planets in my 5th house and his natal mars was conjunct my draconic sun.
I've never been with anyone that made a huge splash in my 5th house, I guess because my 5th is ruled by Uranus and Aqua's are great n awesome ppl but not emotional enough for me personally. BUT the one guy who I couldn't get over had his Uranus on my AC/Karma...so maybe it affects me more than I realize. What sign is your 5th and where is it's ruler located in your chart? How does that same planet in his chart overlay in your chart? I had not thought of house rulers, but the guy I couldn't get over, not only had libra Uranus(my 5th ruler) on my AC, his gem Mars(my 7th ruler) was exactly opposed his saggy Moon/my saggy Sun/my saggy Merc....his Uranus exact sextiled my Sun/Merc and trined his Mars. IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
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posted July 26, 2015 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I've never been with anyone that made a huge splash in my 5th house, I guess because my 5th is ruled by Uranus and Aqua's are great n awesome ppl but not emotional enough for me personally. BUT the one guy who I couldn't get over had his Uranus on my AC/Karma...so maybe it affects me more than I realize.What sign is your 5th and where is it's ruler located in your chart? How does that same planet in his chart overlay in your chart? I had not thought of house rulers, but the guy I couldn't get over, not only had libra Uranus(my 5th ruler) on my AC, his gem Mars(my 7th ruler) was exactly opposed his saggy Moon/my saggy Sun/my saggy Merc....his Uranus exact sextiled my Sun/Merc and trined his Mars.
Mercury rules my 5th and it's the ruler of my Moon and Venus. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted July 26, 2015 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Mercury rules my 5th and it's the ruler of my Moon and Venus.
Wow, that really would make an impact!! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted July 26, 2015 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by Isa:
I'm going through this right now. It's só painfull.
His pluto conjuncts my Venus
Yeah, that aspect really blows unless you get to be the Pluto and have all the power. If not, you get to be a slave.
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Julz87
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From: Over the Rainbow
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posted July 26, 2015 11:50 PM
Going on 4 years the first 3 years took me long enough to let go/get over it my Saturn conjunct his Sun (I stuck to him through thick and thin isn't that a wet blanket aspect?) his south node conjunct my Pluto I had the upper hand sex was WOW talk about stamina coming from both parties) his Vetex & Mars conjunct my ASC. We also had Moon trine Moon-with his conjuncting my Mars (I was the pursuer -__-) This last year I'm using it to work on myself, was finally able to let that one go and tbh I have enjoyed my alone/me time, that was a 6 yr relationship. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
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posted July 27, 2015 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
A lot of completion aspects and balancing aspects, those are tough to get over! I noticed your thread a few days ago Saturn/Lust...I was surprised to find I have so much on top of your asteroid, it's kind of amusing!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/003049.html
Wow, I just saw it. I have Jupiter @14° Taurus as well, between your Hera and Isis. Pluto at 11 Virgo in the 11th to complete the grand trine. IP: Logged |
ueharaa
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posted July 27, 2015 12:13 PM
The longest I stayed infatuated with someone was 5 years. I had to delete him from all social media to lessen it, and it still sometimes sadden me. I don't know what caused it. I do have Pluto in the 5th and a bunch of cardinal planets so maybe that is my stubborn nature. But the thing is I really wanted my feelings to stop and I just couldn't. I have no control on my feelings when it comes to this person to be honest so I tried to alter them
In synastry his Saturn conjunct my Venus. My Saturn/ Neptune square his sun, and my Descendant -moon -Mercury conjunct his NN while his Venus and moon square my nodal axis. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted July 27, 2015 12:40 PM
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TensionEmpire
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From: Hamburg
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posted July 28, 2015 03:02 PM
I just am going trough this now and it seems that her Sun conj. my south node, actually I think her south node also conj my south node.Kyron is around there also crazy stuff Edit:
Her Virgo Moon also opposes my Pieces Moon, but I don`t know if that is something IP: Logged |
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