posted July 28, 2015 10:47 PM            

Sag- I was 19 he had a gf and did not tell me..

Aqua with sag rising- he had a gf did not tell me.. Then he told me everything was a lie between us and he loved her not me yadda

Recently a libra but I never told him how I felt I kinda was mean to him because meeting him bring up ever insecurity I had and he mDe me think a lot of my first love the Gemini.. I was awful I'm sure he thinks I hate him..

Sigh no
More air sign men ever..

posted July 28, 2015 11:37 PM              

sad4u it hurt to learn that as a general rule,
sextile and trine to Virgo only, then your Mars, then his venus,, or mars to venus and moon to mars if,your mars is not sextile by sign, also south node,
yeah I know its difficult to say, yeah okay but whats your birthdate and time and not wander if that messed up a good thing maybe
or you just ran off the right dude to run off.
Onward thru the fog

posted July 29, 2015 01:42 AM              

Mineagain do you have anything in virgo? Maybe the virgo is whats attracting all the other mutables to us.... I do remember you were really fixed. I am too. I really believe that fixed and mutable is the best combo. Because we dont change, we need someone that will adapt to fit us.

posted July 29, 2015 01:44 AM              

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Originally posted by Belage:
My biggest heartbreaks have come from people with heavy Aquarius influences.

Aqua is the sign that rules my 12th house, which has been called the house of undoing.

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posted July 29, 2015 01:50 AM              

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The problem with water signs is that they only care about their own feelings. That's when they get deep. People's feelings are the least of their concerns, at least for watery males.[/B]

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Yep.. I am a cancer moon and I am guilty of this. But honestly,, if you are in the middle of an intense emotional moment its really hard to consider other peoples feelings. But that might be the difference between like cancer and pisces and scorpio. I have never known a pisces moon personally but scorpio moons have enough self control to take care of you before themselves.

posted July 29, 2015 01:54 AM              

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Originally posted by DopGang:
A Pisces was the most difficult to part ways with.

A Libra was the most heartbreaking.

But that is only words. The truth is it's all very cloudy and difficult to remember from an emotional standpoint. I remember things and emotions but I can't remember how intensely I felt them. Therefore, it's speculation on my part.

Thank Venus 12th.

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posted July 29, 2015 03:03 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Um. Holy **** . All my major relationships, the ones that mattered in a way and lasted or somehow got really deep, were with mutable signs. All of them except virgo! But I don't know the gemini from before I was into astrology might have had a virgo inner planet! I have virgo asc but my angles are the only mutable in my chart.

[b]Mineagain do you have anything in virgo? Maybe the virgo is whats attracting all the other mutables to us.... I do remember you were really fixed. I am too. I really believe that fixed and mutable is the best combo. Because we dont change, we need someone that will adapt to fit us.

But I think the person that wrecked me the most was an aqua with scorpio moon, cap venus and mars. We never had a full blown relationship but we almost did. I dont know why but I never felt so devastated. It's not a scar anymore but I still remember how bad i felt.[/B]

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posted July 29, 2015 10:11 AM              

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Um. Holy **** . All my major relationships, the ones that mattered in a way and lasted or somehow got really deep, were with mutable signs. All of them except virgo! But I don't know the gemini from before I was into astrology might have had a virgo inner planet! I have virgo asc but my angles are the only mutable in my chart.

[b]Mineagain do you have anything in virgo? Maybe the virgo is whats attracting all the other mutables to us.... I do remember you were really fixed. I am too. I really believe that fixed and mutable is the best combo. Because we dont change, we need someone that will adapt to fit us.

But I think the person that wrecked me the most was an aqua with scorpio moon, cap venus and mars. We never had a full blown relationship but we almost did. I dont know why but I never felt so devastated. It's not a scar anymore but I still remember how bad i felt.[/B]

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posted July 29, 2015 10:17 AM              

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Wow a huge number of sagittarius, gemini, pisces and aquarius heartbreakers..... These are like the only important people I've dated. So I must like the heartbreakers... wow Im doomed.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:22 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Um. Holy **** . All my major relationships, the ones that mattered in a way and lasted or somehow got really deep, were with mutable signs. All of them except virgo! But I don't know the gemini from before I was into astrology might have had a virgo inner planet! I have virgo asc but my angles are the only mutable in my chart.

[b]Mineagain do you have anything in virgo? Maybe the virgo is whats attracting all the other mutables to us.... I do remember you were really fixed. I am too. I really believe that fixed and mutable is the best combo. Because we dont change, we need someone that will adapt to fit us.

But I think the person that wrecked me the most was an aqua with scorpio moon, cap venus and mars. We never had a full blown relationship but we almost did. I dont know why but I never felt so devastated. It's not a scar anymore but I still remember how bad i felt.[/B]

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Nope, I don't have any Virgo placement. All of my placements are either in Scorpio, Gemini or Cancer (Asc).

I like mutable signs because they tend to go with the flow. They're far less rigid than I am. I guess I'm attracted to my opposite.

I noticed that the one who broke my heart the most has an Aquarius Venus and a Cancer Moon. It confirms the rule regarding Aquarius placements.

posted July 29, 2015 10:32 AM              

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Nope, I don't have any Virgo placement. All of my placements are either in Scorpio, Gemini or Cancer (Asc).

I like mutable signs because they tend to go with the flow. They're far less rigid than I am. I guess I'm attracted to my opposite.

I noticed that the one who broke my heart the most has an Aquarius Venus and a Cancer Moon. It confirms the rule regarding Aquarius placements.

Aquarius influenced people are not empathetic in any way. I hate that.

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posted July 29, 2015 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

So far you have said that about all 3 water signs (at least the men) and now all Aquarians or even non-Aqua people with Aquarius anywhere in their chart, too. Maybe you're the one with some empathy issues? Just a thought.

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Why are you attacking me like this? You're taking this personally for no reason.

I have an Aquarius brother and a Pisces father, so I know how they function. They don't have any empathy whatsoever. They're all up in their feelings.

I think your comment was very uncalled for.

Getting rejected because you declined to have sex on too soon is not a matter of empathy, same goes for being called "ugly" after telling someone you liked them.

My "heartbreaks" are legitimate given the reasons I exposed. You can disagree all you want. It's your prerogative.

I have no problem with Capricorn, Taurus and Leo men. I actually dated some and I didn't mention them because I had good experiences with them.

If I truly had empathy issues, I would be having a problem with every single sign of the zodiac.

This thread was meant to share experiences, not throw shades at other zodiac signs. Just because I have bad experiences with a couple of signs, it's doesn't mean I'm the problem.

You're not in a position to comment on whether or not I have empathy issues when you have no clue what happened with those people. I didn't comment on anyone's story, so please, respect one's point of view.

posted July 29, 2015 10:45 AM              

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Why are you attacking me like this? You're taking this personally for no reason.

I have an Aquarius brother and a Pisces father, so I know how they function. They don't have any empathy whatsoever. They're all up in their feelings.

I think your comment was very uncalled for.

Getting rejected because you declined to have sex on too soon is not a matter of empathy, same goes for being called "ugly" after telling someone you liked them.

My "heartbreaks" are legitimate given the reasons I exposed. You can disagree all you want. It's your prerogative.

I have no problem with Capricorn, Taurus and Leo men. I actually dated some and I didn't mention them because I had good experiences with them.

If I truly had empathy issues, I would be having a problem with every single sign of the zodiac.

This thread was meant to share experiences, not throw shades at other zodiac signs. Just because I have bad experiences with a couple of signs, it's doesn't mean I'm the problem.

You're not in a position to comment on whether or not I have empathy issues when you have no clue what happened with those people. I didn't comment on anyone's story, so please, respect one's point of view.

Regards,

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OK so you've said that all water sign men have no empathy for anyone other than themselves and then said that about all people with Aquarius anywhere in their personal planets just because of two of your relatives. So you're stereotyping like a third of the people on the planet and you're claiming that other people don't have empathy, lol. I'm just saying. I was tempted to contribute to the "unpopular opinions" thread but chose to stay out of it because I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings who may be undeserving. Clearly the same thought never occurred to you before you typed. That speaks to a lack of empathy on your part.

posted July 29, 2015 11:01 AM            

What I said is that some of you on here mentioned that Aquarius men can be heartbreakers, and I said that the Pisces had an Aquarius Venus. I made a link to that statement. How does this equal to extending my point of view to ALL Aquarius men?

You're taking this personally because you have Aquarius placements which proves my very point. Some Aquarius people don't have any empathy.

I'm sure you would not be reacting in such a way if you didn't have any Aquarius placements.

I'm the first to say Scorpio individuals are heart breakers, so spare me the speech on having no empathy. I'm a very self-aware individual. I can list a thousand flaws about myself.

Besides, I'm only talking about males here. I have very good Pisces female friends and they're completely different from their male counterparts. Those women are very empathetic, generous and caring. Probably the most empathetic of all zodiac signs along with Cancer.

You discarding my experiences when I was just trying to have a conversation is uncalled for an absolutely offensive. I know every had bad "experiences". Thanks for waking me up! That's what this thread is for! Talking about our experiences without generalizing which is obviously a concept you didn't grasp when reading my post.

posted July 29, 2015 11:05 AM              

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Where did I say "all aquarius men"?

I never said "all aquarius men".

What I said, is that some of you on here mentioned that Aquarius men can be heartbreakers, and I said said that the Pisces had an Aquarius Venus. I made a link to that statement. How does this equal to extending my point of view to ALL Aquarius men?

You're taking this personally because you have Aquarius placements which proves my very point. Some Aquarius people don't have any empathy.

I'm sure you would not be reacting in such a way if you didn't have any Aquarius placements.

I'm the first to say Scorpio individuals are heart breakers, so spare me to speech on having no empathy. I'm a very self-aware individual.

Besides, I'm only talking about males here. I have very good Pisces females and they're completely different from their male counterparts. Those women are very empathetic. Probably the most empathetic of all zodiac signs along with Cancer.

You discarding my experiences when I was just trying to have a conversation is uncalled for an absolutely offensive.

The conversation is over, but please, feel free to throw shades at me if you feel like it.

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Actually, I was also offended by your implication that water sign men can't empathize (my boyfriend is a Scorpio and very empathetic and supportive). Where did I say that YOU said "all Aquarius men"? I didn't say that. You are reading my post wrong because you're too busy being defensive to absorb what I am saying. I made a reference to you saying this: "The problem with water signs is that they only care about their own feelings. That's when they get deep. People's feelings are the least of their concerns, at least for watery males."

I understand that you've been hurt by certain people but that doesn't change the fact that you've phrased things in a very unnecessarily rude and offensive way. You completely fail to see that, so where is your empathy? You were even careful to say that it's specifically water sign MEN, presumably to absolve yourself of the implication that YOU don't empathize.

We ALL have had negative experiences. Once again. I am wondering what about your chart causes a complete and total lack of objectivity about your behaviour.

posted July 29, 2015 11:12 AM            

Do you even remember that you said this?

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Aquarius influenced people are not empathetic in any way. I hate that.

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and...

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
The problem with water signs is that they only care about their own feelings. That's when they get deep. People's feelings are the least of their concerns, at least for watery males.

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posted July 29, 2015 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Seimei:
2) telling him I had become a lesbian

so cruel,, lol

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posted July 29, 2015 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
And fwiw, re: getting rejected because you declined to have sex too soon, that's completely subjective. What you consider too soon may not be to someone else. Maybe the difference in what is considered reasonable is an indication of not being compatible or a match. Recognizing that you may not be a match and telling the other party about it doesn't automatically make one a bad person. This is what I mean about synastry differences. I actually do empathize with a lot of the women here, but you just came off as bitter with that one to me if I'm being honest. Like you weren't even officially dating the guy you're just mad he didn't want to be your boyfriend. At least the other women here were actually DATING those men.

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You're being a ***** and this conversation is over.

I can't believe you had the nerve to attack someone based on a personal story you have no clue about. We're here to share experiences, not to discard anyone's pain.

You're being utterly hurtful. How dare you attacking me by throwing shade at a story that was merely used as an opening to this thread?

I never said my story was more or less legitimate than any other story. It also wasn't meant to be the subject of your offensive post.

I opened this thread to read about various experiences, certainly not to throw shade at someone's past. I never commented negatively on anyone's experience, so I don't see where you felt you were entitled to talk to me the way you did. You sound ridiculous.

posted July 29, 2015 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
MineAgain,

Do you even remember that you said this?

It seems like you totally forgot what you wrote.

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I didn't forget what I wrote, but I never said: "ALL" Aquarius influenced people. Pardon me if I had to specify "some".

I didn't know certain individuals on here were monitoring my words.

posted July 29, 2015 11:51 AM              

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
You're being a ***** and this conversation is over.

I can't believe you had the nerve to attack someone based on a personal story you have no clue about. We're here to share experiences, not to discard anyone's pain.

You're being utterly hurtful. How dare you attacking me by throwing shade at a story that was merely used as an opening to this thread?

I never said my story was more or less legitimate than any other story. It also wasn't meant to be the subject of your offensive post.

You're really a b*tch. Maybe you should reflect on this. That would take you a long way.

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First of all, no one attacking you, it's been brought to your attention that you should be more cognizant of your words; more diplomatic and less rude when you post because, yes, you may offend someone or hurt their feelings and believe it or not, feelings other than just your own do matter.

Second of all, my initial comment to you was not based on your story, it was, once again, based on your thoughtless words, which you have shown your endless capacity for in choosing to resort to name-calling.

You don't seem to be very emotionally stable to me, which is ironic from someone saying that others are all "up in their feelings."

Not really sure what's "innocent" about claiming that 1/3rd of the people in the world lack empathy. Oh sorry, it's just the men, right? So that's supposed to make it OK.

The post you're quoting was meant to help you gain perspective; you're not automatically entitled to the boyfriend of your choosing and him not choosing you does not automatically mean that he is a s*** person. Maybe an impatient person is better-matched with another impatient person - maybe he would be better with a more fiery temperament than your own. If you don't want your story referenced at all then don't share it as a way to justify slandering millions of people.

posted July 29, 2015 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I didn't forget what I wrote, but I never said: "ALL" Aquarius influenced people. Pardon me if I had to specify "some".

I didn't know certain individuals on here were monitoring my words.

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Say whatever you like...

But you gave the impression that you were accusing ALL Aquarius-influenced people of lacking empathy.

And apparently, when that same insult was applied to you-- "You, MineAgain, lack empathy"-- you got very upset.

So if you want to be careful not to upset other people the way you have been upset here, then yes, do use qualifiers like "some," to minimize the upsets.

posted July 29, 2015 12:12 PM            

You're asking me to act "less rude" but you are being absolutely offensive. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. At least, I didn't call Aquarius people "unstable" or "mentally challenged" which would be just as offensive as "emotionally unstable".

Furthermore, when other posters said: "No more air sign because XYZ", how is their post not "generalizing" either?

You could have just pointed out that my post was wrong and biased without turning it into a personal matter which by the way is more insulting than anything else. You turned my post into a personal matter from the get go.

If one of us is emotionally "unstable", it's most definitely you. Why? Because you can notice that none of my post is a personal attack to YOU or anyone else on this forum, whereas your post is filled with "insults" and judgments regarding someone's emotional state.

I talked about a ZODIAC sign and you turned it into a personal attack against a HUMAN BEING. You do realize you sound ridiculous right?

Making biased assumptions about a zodiac sign does not give you the right to personally insult someone you do not know. You're getting angry because of a zodiac sign. This is slightly stupid.