posted August 07, 2015 02:27 PM            

If you see a person visibly cringe when someone expresses anger or is confrontational, you may be in the presence of a Libra. Libra craves balance and harmony. The problem is that it is just not realistic. Hence, Libra must find some way to deal with the dissension which is part of everyday life.

A fire sign may look for the opportunity to fight. An Aries will insert himself into any debate, for the sheer joy of butting heads. Libra is the sign opposite Aries. The opposite signs have opposite traits, as that is the nature of the Zodiac wheel. Aries thinks in a self centered way. Libra thinks in an “other centered” way. The sign of Libra is in it’s detriment for the Sun. Hence, a Libra Sun will always have some deficit of ego compared to other signs. He may be more self doubting. He may harbor an inner insecurity. The sign of Libra just does not go well with ego, which demands a narcissism, albeit a healthy narcissism.

Venus becomes her best self in the sign of Libra. The Libra Venus has a natural refinement. She does not like coarse behavior. She does not like off color jokes. She has a natural balance and harmony. That which does not work well for the Sun, works wonderfully with Venus. The Libra Venus will, usually, be an art or music lover. Her favorite date may be to an art museum. She will attempt to beautify any space in which she finds herself.

Libra does not do well in Mercury, as Libra is indecisive. Mercury is the mind. The mind likes being definite. The mind does not like to yin/yang from side to side when trying to think and reason. It is a distraction of great magnitude. Hence, the Libra Mercury may, always, struggle due to the inherent, indecisive nature of the sign of Libra.

In the same way, Mars does not like to be in the sign of Libra. Mars is one’s drive: one’s pursuit of goals. Libra is an indecisive sign. Mars likes to do his thing and not be encumbered with too much debate.

Libra is a Cardinal sign which does mean leader. I suppose one could say that Libra will stay the course, once he makes up his mind, if you can wait around long enough.

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posted August 07, 2015 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
What about Moon in Libra? I enjoy peace and harmony, but I'm definitely not indecisive or cowardly..

Are Libras cowards? I've never met a cowardly Libra even when they have several planets in them.

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Ummm

I cannot say that without looking at the whole chart, my Friend lol

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posted August 07, 2015 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ummm

I cannot say that without looking at the whole chart, my Friend lol

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posted August 07, 2015 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Big TIME coward, Yes I am a Libra. Libra ASC, Libra Venus, Mars in Virgo and Cap Moon.

I cringe at public displays of disharmony yes. And run a way mainly because of my own safety even more so if there's vulgar language or actions. I don't like confrontation and never put myself in such a situation to be confronted. I just go about my business..I have Sun, Venus and Mars in the 12th..run away run away lol

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posted August 07, 2015 07:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Libra, in certain planets, will argue for the sake of arguing. I hate that lol

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posted August 07, 2015 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Big TIME coward, Yes I am a Libra. Libra ASC, Libra Venus, Mars in Virgo and Cap Moon.

I cringe at public displays of disharmony yes. And run a way mainly because of my own safety even more so if there's vulgar language or actions. I don't like confrontation and never put myself in such a situation to be confronted. I just go about my business..I have Sun, Venus and Mars in the 12th..run away run away lol

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You might find this interesting about me and my astro-twin, both with Libra stelliums:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/003137.html

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Of course she's going to see you as a threat, sexually all that saggy stuff is in your 5th house.....falls in her 12th.

All that you express through that easy going fun loving sexual energy of the 5th house, she represses, she's scared of it. That makes you very intimidating to her, which in turn makes you a threat and she acts out on that fear you bring up in her.

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That said, I actually admired her ability to confront me directly whereas most girls were passive aggressive and behind my back about it so she wasn't a coward in all things. (Heh, I can just imagine both of us before Judge Judy, another Libra, when both of us could be as assertive and verbally forceful as the judge, that might make a fun episode called Clash of the Fiery Libras. )

I know many consider me very "intense" and I expect that as she was also Plutonian in her own way that she felt the intensity to be frightening or at least deserving of being controlled (whereas I just flow with it). I also think she saw me as disruptive of the social harmony she embraced and had to react against that (her Sag stellium which includes Mars and Uranus would compel her to as well as being born the Year of the Dog which barks at threats). Without all that Sag energy she may have not been able to confront me directly at all.

posted August 07, 2015 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
That said, I actually admired her ability to confront me directly whereas most girls were passive aggressive and behind my back about it so she wasn't a coward in all things. (Heh, I can just imagine both of us before Judge Judy, another Libra, when both of us could be as assertive and verbally forceful as the judge, that might make a fun episode called Clash of the Fiery Libras. )

I know many consider me very "intense" and I expect that as she was also Plutonian in her own way that she felt the intensity to be frightening or at least deserving of being controlled (whereas I just flow with it). I also think she saw me as disruptive of the social harmony she embraced and had to react against that (her Sag stellium which includes Mars and Uranus would compel her to as well as being born the Year of the Dog which barks at threats). Without all that Sag energy she may have not been able to confront me directly at all.

In any case, houses matter significantly to the chart.

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That Libra stellium is crazy! So then that means you really know what its like..

posted August 08, 2015 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I have mercury in Libra and I am far from being indecisive. I do tend to see both sides of most issues, therefore I usually make statements that have the word "but" somewhere in the middle to separate two contradictory or different opinions or viewpoints. For instance:

Denise is very short, but she has a nice shape.

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Yeah I know this, I have a libra mercury too... But I like to really think about stuff in general. I like to see both sides of every issue, in fact not just "both sides" but I like to think about as many sides as there is.

posted August 08, 2015 11:31 AM              

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Thats interesting. I've known Libras to not like disharmony, but not be afraid of it. The Libras I know would stop it immediately instead of running away from it. Or they would take a stand for what is right. I've actually seen Aries who were punks lol

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Yea it makes me nervous those type of display so I just distance myself from it asap. I think it has to do with the fact that my Libra planets are in the 12th :/

posted August 08, 2015 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Yea it makes me nervous those type of display so I just distance myself from it asap. I think it has to do with the fact that my Libra planets are in the 12th :/

@PixieJane, wow! look at all those planet placements! My best friend is a Libra himself and I attract a lot of Sagittariuses, DSC in Aries Conjunct Jupiter.

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posted August 08, 2015 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Agree, what degree is your moon on?

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posted August 08, 2015 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
What about Moon in Libra? I enjoy peace and harmony, but I'm definitely not indecisive or cowardly..

Are Libras cowards? I've never met a cowardly Libra even when they have several planets in them.

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posted August 08, 2015 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
I have seventh moon in libra at critical degree... and it's not as much indecisiveness or cowardliness as it is the never ending tries at being fair and objective. I'll always weight the pros and cons, or see the two side of the medal heavily before making a decision. I'm not indecisive, because it's not that I don't know what I'm looking for, it's just that I need to know what and why I go I'd in a certain way instead of the other. I know what I'm looking for, but sometimes it takes longer than others to find it because I need to be CERTAIN it's the optimal choice for me.

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posted August 08, 2015 01:27 PM              

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
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posted August 08, 2015 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
hey its conjunct my Venus and ASC.

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posted August 09, 2015 12:17 PM            

Libras have a subtle power. In a leadership position, we'll make decisions that are fair for all, and we'll do it confidently. We don't need to spread fear or lies to gain approval. Our ability to relate to everyone, or appear relative, wins. We also genuinely care about fairness. It's one of the main fibers of our being.

But if you screw us over and mess with something we care deeply about, you'll get what is coming to you. Don't throw us under the bus to get ahead. We don't need to use force and violence to get what we want. We defend ourselves by turning important people against you with valid points to support our arguments. Or arguing. Most likely it would be things we overlooked before because none of us are perfect. And people will agree. A slight undermining so subtle will take place while you eat your sandwich and check your fantasy football scores. And you'll look like the jerk. Or get fired. Iron fist in a velvet glove.

We will stand by the causes that are important to us. We are also fighters in our own way. Mars Librans make great debaters and attorneys. There are many Libran (or Libra-influenced) judges, scientists, and teachers. Mercury Librans are analytical thinkers. They'll get the message across with tact. Many people with several personal planets in Libra are intelligent, tactful, well-spoken, and know how to defend themselves verbally. They also can think logically during a time of chaos.

Libra stellium (Sun, Saturn, Jupiter, Pluto) in the 6th house.

posted August 09, 2015 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquarian Moon:
We don't need to use force and violence to get what we want. We defend ourselves by turning important people against you with valid points to support our arguments. \o/

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