posted August 09, 2015 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I have Venus trine Uranus and Venus in 11H with Mars in Cancer.

Casual sex is not something I ever thought I would be interested in, but over the past month I've developed a friends with benefits type "relationship" with a guy. Due to my Mars in Cancer, it was rough at first. I had never been with someone physically who didn't have strong feelings for me, and I started developing feelings. Since I squashed those out, it's been a nice little arrangement, although I find sex with someone you love deeply to be much more fulfilling. And a lot less scary.

To sum up, I wouldn't sleep around, but I kind of like the whole friends with benefits deal, aside from the emotional complications.

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Mars in Cancer? Really? What house does your mars fall in? What aspects does your mars make? And what is your moon sign?

posted August 09, 2015 02:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Mars in Cancer? Really? What house does your mars fall in? What aspects does your mars make? And what is your moon sign?

If you dont mind me asking of course.

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Yes Mars in cancer 1 degree. I did feel my Mars in cancer when it first started up. After we slept together the first time I "caught feelings" but when I realized he didn't or at least wouldn't admit it (I think he actually does) I hardened up. I'm still very self protective though and am thinking about calling it off.

posted August 09, 2015 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Notice how most of you that say 'not my thing' have an Earth Mars. It's quite astounding.

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posted August 09, 2015 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by SDragon:
Ya, noticed that too. And weird that Mars in Taurus gets such a bad rap!

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posted August 09, 2015 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Mars is in my 12th house, and is sextile with Mercury, opposes my moon in Sagittarius.

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A-ha! Your Sag moon is the enabler (I have Sag moon too).

posted August 09, 2015 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
A-ha! Your Sag moon is the enabler (I have Sag moon too).

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posted August 09, 2015 06:03 PM            

I think politicians and governments should stay out of this kind of thing. Period.

But if you are looking just for personal opinion, I will tell you that I don't condone it for everyone.

I cringe when I see kids (which can mean a 15-year-old or a 24-year-old, depending on maturity) engaging in sex. I was mature, had a job and an older boyfriend at age 15, started college right before I turned 17, etc. and as smart as I was, I didn't have the emotional fortitude to deal with how I would feel -- especially considering the mind games that many people in relationships tend to play. I don't think I developed an emotional maturity until I was 26-27ish and it took me a bit longer (until about 30) to block/eliminate people who would try to manipulate me. I was slow to mature in that way.

I also don't think that non-traditional sexual practices work well for people with anxiety issues, schizophrenia, or untreated bipolar disorder, etc. and in fact, maintaining relationships of any kind is difficult for these people, never mind the sex aspect (and I am speaking as someone who was once unstable).

So I would condone non-traditional sexual experiences not necessarily attached to long-term monogamy as long as everyone involved has the emotional fortitude to be responsible with all partners involved.

It's also prudent to play safe. I am living proof that one can be a total **** and never have an STD (not even HPV) as long as the experiences are initiated in a healthy manner. Obviously, if you meet a random stranger at a bar and you are drunk out of your mind, playing safe won't be a top priority... just something to consider.

With that I say, "happy humping!"

posted August 09, 2015 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
❤️ Moon in Sagittarius! I think it has saved me from soul crushing heartache like a million times

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Oh me too! I have a Scorpio Venus, apparently notorious for jealousy, but my Sag Moon lightens the energy. They put Scorpio in the back seat then my Libra Mars takes the wheel with that Sag Moon riding shotgun and is like, "Let's go have fun!"

posted August 09, 2015 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Oh me too! I have a Scorpio Venus, apparently notorious for jealousy, but my Sag Moon lightens the energy. The put Scorpio in the back seat then my Libra Mars takes the wheel with that Sag Moon riding shotgun and is like, "Let's go have fun!"

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posted August 09, 2015 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Ha! I have Venus opposite Pluto so I know how you feel. My cancer Mars doesn't help though.
What is your sun sign?

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Virgo. So practical.

(And so Virgo, I go back and fix my typos haha)

posted August 09, 2015 06:33 PM            

The idea of flings always leave me worrying about my health and then I'd want to find the nearest clinic. I feel that's my Virgo IC and Pluto in the 6th kicking and screaming.

posted August 09, 2015 10:00 PM            

Don't do the casual sex thing, but I don't judge those who do.

posted August 10, 2015 05:51 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:

In my opinion, I don't think Uranus/ Moon has anything to do with this trait. It has WAY more to do with Venus.

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posted August 10, 2015 06:37 AM            

If I'm single, bring on the fun, but I'm very choosy about who I sleep with. I've only ever had 1 one night stand and it was FUN, and I would do it again, given the opportunity to do it over. I'm more of a FWB type I suppose. And I would be the one to end things if they caught feelings or tried to change the status quo.

I would never look down on someone for their sexual appetite or preference. If they were participating in reckless behavior and it was someone I care for I would voice my worry, but never try to degrade or belittle them.

I think Moon/Uranus allows for the fleeting emotional attachments needed for casual sex/one night stands. Whereas Venus/Uranus would show a tendency to like unconventional forms of love and beauty...

posted August 10, 2015 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by MsAlohaPanda:
Yeah, more of a venus/mars thing.

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posted August 10, 2015 04:52 PM              

Not for me

posted August 11, 2015 11:48 PM            

Moon square Uranus
I pretty much believe "to each his own" also but am mindful of the negative aspect it can have on women.

The Ascendant, if it's mutable will be more lax and spontaneous in which case you know what happens.

posted August 11, 2015 11:56 PM            

I'm a recovering schizoid, and asexual. I need a profoundly deep emotional and psychological connexion and committed relationship to explore sexual intimacy.

MOON conjunct URANUS (0°30). (But might be largely due to it's being Scorpio.)

Now, my relationship with my boyfriend -- highly unconventional -- was not legitimately 'official' for over a year. It was, however, de facto from the start. We give each other a lot of space, as needed.

posted August 12, 2015 12:09 AM            

Leo Moon and Taurus Mars do not aspect. Moon has it's own T square with Jupiter and Neptune, Mars is unaspected.