posted August 13, 2015 03:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Free Leon:
1H Moon Quintile 11H Uranus (2 degree Orb)
3H Venus Bi-Quintile 11H Uranus (1 degree Orb)
4H Cancer Mars

Two years ago I rampantly indulged in casual sex. It was an attempt to boost my self-esteem (I'm not bad-looking, talentless, and unaccomplished; Saturn Conjunct Ascendant is just a b*tch) and in retrospect I've realized it was a subconscious desire to understand the extent of my powers of attraction (4H Mars Bi-Quintile 8H Pluto), among other things. I noticed early on that these shallow, casual acts were taking a spiritual/emotional toll on me, but I continued on (I reached a point when I wasn't compelled by any personal reasons/desires; I just felt like I had to continue, I didn't know why at the time). Long story short, I eventually discovered tantric practices/crown chakra orgasms, and realized that pursuing the opposite sex is a waste of my time. I'm not celibate; I just aim to invest every second of my time into something important/of value to me, and I'm very discriminatory as to who I'll spend time with (karmic connections). All in all, I don't care if people engage in casual sex, but I prefer a deep connection with a S0W00LM8

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Interesting. Another Mars in cancer that has engaged in casual sex. Cookbook astrology usually states that Mars in Cancer and casual sex dont mix.

posted August 13, 2015 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Interesting. Another Mars in cancer that has engaged in casual sex. Cookbook astrology usually states that Mars in Cancer and casual sex dont mix.

What is your moon and venus sign if you dont mind me asking? Im guessing your moon is aries and venus is gemini?

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Yeah, for the most part I was forcing myself. The sexual attraction was there, but for me the experiences were dull if they lacked an emotional connection.

posted August 13, 2015 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Free Leon:
Yeah, for the most part I was forcing myself. The sexual attraction was there, but for me the experiences were dull if they lacked an emotional connection.

And yes, Aries Moon quintile Gemini Venus (2 degree orb)

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posted August 13, 2015 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:

I had a poly relationship where we were each seeing other people separately (he was a real boyfriend, it was a real relationship, but we had others on the side). We're friends still and he'd still be my boyfriend if my husband would allow it (I'm working on that).

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posted August 13, 2015 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Just looked up your chart. I see you have a mars singeton. And....your're also a guy lol.

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I haven't researched mars singleton; can you tell me about it, both in general, and as it pertains to me or this post?

And yes, I'm a guy

edit: Okay I did some quick research and I must say it sounds sh*tty lol, but not entirely accurate in my case. I think a few of my other natal placements mitigate the negative effects.

posted August 13, 2015 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Free Leon:

I eventually discovered tantric practices/crown chakra orgasms, and realized that pursuing the opposite sex is a waste of my time. I'm not celibate; I just aim to invest every second of my time into something important/of value to me, and I'm very discriminatory as to who I'll spend time with (karmic connections). All in all, I don't care if people engage in casual sex, but I prefer a deep connection with a S0W00LM8

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posted August 14, 2015 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by HoodBlaze:
See you in a few years when you orbit back!

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posted August 15, 2015 12:49 PM            

Mars in Leo/Venus in Virgo also conjunct.

posted August 16, 2015 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by HoodBlaze:
Uh oh............. Lol.....

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I have a Virgo Sun to ground me. I won't do anything that is dishonest.

posted July 01, 2019 11:10 AM            

I recall that it was when progressed Venus conj natal Uranus that I moved to Varsity. The years 2003,2004, 2005,2006 were probably the most sexual times of my life.

I was nowhere near ready to settle down.And I feel like progression conjunctions/squares tend to take the foreground for 2-3 years with the added transits.

I think Uranus just removes self judgement and makes impulsive actions all that occupy your mind. Its the "love at first sight" aspect. And the momentum starts off on an electric high.

posted July 01, 2019 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
It is reasonable to put these two together i.e Ven/Uran when it comes to casual sex.

I recall that it was when progressed Venus conj natal Uranus that I moved to Varsity. The years 2003,2004, 2005,2006 were probably the most sexual times of my life.

I was nowhere near ready to settle down.And I feel like progression conjunctions/squares tend to take the foreground for 2-3 years with the added transits.

I think Uranus just removes self judgement and makes impulsive actions all that occupy your mind. Its the "love at first sight" aspect. And the momentum starts off on an electric high.

I do however think that this aspect differs greatly from those who experience it by progression(Me) and those who experience it natally etc. The natal people have learned to manage and harness the impulses a lot better than those who have it by progression.

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posted July 01, 2019 08:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
It is reasonable to put these two together i.e Ven/Uran when it comes to casual sex.

I recall that it was when progressed Venus conj natal Uranus that I moved to Varsity. The years 2003,2004, 2005,2006 were probably the most sexual times of my life.

I was nowhere near ready to settle down.And I feel like progression conjunctions/squares tend to take the foreground for 2-3 years with the added transits.

I think Uranus just removes self judgement and makes impulsive actions all that occupy your mind. Its the "love at first sight" aspect. And the momentum starts off on an electric high.

I do however think that this aspect differs greatly from those who experience it by progression(Me) and those who experience it natally etc. The natal people have learned to manage and harness the impulses a lot better than those who have it by progression.

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posted July 02, 2019 06:54 AM            

i have a cap mars (3rd house, that forms a t-square with my moon and venus it's also loosely conjunct neptune in cap)

i don't view sex as necessarily anything special, it can just be fun sometimes like spending a night drinking or some **** , intimacy comes from feelings not sex

as a result i'm all for casual sex and friends with benefits outside of my relationship and i don't do monogamy

when it comes to what other people do, i don't really care what consenting adults choose to do with each other and can't see a reason to

my fiancee and i actually had this conversation yesterday because the friends with benefits we've shared have this tendency to get really attached to me and then convince themselves i feel the same (with no effort on my part to make things that way) and she feels bad for an old one because he handled things ending poorly (in his head there was a relationship and it's one he's recently been actively trying to get going again)

she told me i'm emotionally detached, cold (towards them i'm not like that with her), and that it's sad that i can have sex and share things with people without caring about them because she thinks the new guy has feelings and that i broke the last one's heart

other people have a tendency to assume i have more feelings than i actually do i've noticed and develop this false sense of closeness to me after sex and some time together to a point that's confusing

mostly because i'm open about how i feel about sex and these are people who are fine with casual sex having it with me and then taking it too seriously, but apparently i come off way less detached than i am in the moment and that's confusing for other people

i can have a great time with someone sexually and otherwise, really like them, and feel next to nothing about it outside of "this is fun"

posted July 02, 2019 07:35 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I was talking to a guy who has Venus square Uranus. He said he doesn't do relationships anymore because it's just drama. And that he would always attract short term relationships. Or relationships with women who were unstable. So he decided to turn to art because art is easier to deal with having this aspect. I agree with him actually because it seems to be the same with me. I'm thinking maybe I should leave relationships alone as well.

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relationships are a lot of work and consistent effort over time, definitely not for everyone

posted July 02, 2019 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
relationships are a lot of work and consistent effort over time, definitely not for everyone

art isn't entirely a substitute for it though, not to me anyway, i love music but i can't **** my guitar

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posted July 02, 2019 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Well you can **** without being in a relationship lol.

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lol true, but i like both relationship sex and casual sex at the same time

they're different, relationship sex is more meaningful outside sex is just fun there's no balance if it's all one or the other

if i wasn't with my fiancee i'd probably be hesitant about another relationship, but i could see me ending up in one as long as the other person was cool with me not being monogamous

maybe it's the difference between the square and the sextile but i'd rather have a relationship with a heavy friendship side to it than solely focusing on something creative, it could be the libra in my chart though too that changes it (maybe, i'm not sure)

for me though i can't see art filling the same space a person can, the flipside is i don't think a relationship is a substitute for art either

they both seem equally important to me, neither outweighs the other and i can't see how they're interchangeable