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posted August 15, 2015 04:41 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Which ritual did you perform? x

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I actually looked it up online.

I found the one that spoke to me the most on this website http://thegirlwhoknows.com/letting-go-ritual/

There are plenty of them online which more or less follow the same guidelines, however I felt more inspired to do the above-mentioned one. It seemed less "dark" as opposed to certain rituals I read about.

Funny thing is on the night I was supposed to perform the ritual, an unexpected thunderstorm ruined (almost) my plans. The city I'm in rarely experiences thunderstorms during summer time yet the rain was so heavy, the clouds were so dark that it looked like some sort of apocalyptic episode. It sure could have been a great representation of my former anger, resentment and sadness. I nonetheless managed to perform the ritual and threw the ashes in some nearby river. I promised myself I'd never return to that spot, as a commitment to leaving the past behind.

I felt quite sad the following day, with waves of energy taking over my body. I could barely breathe. I kept replaying certain episodes of that encounter, but I'm good today! They didn't cross my mind until I saw your post. Yay!

I think you should do it. It definitely helps a lot, especially if you have been holding onto the story/person for far too long, knowing that there isn't much hope left. Releasing their energy from your life allows you to purify your soul and start anew. Sometimes you have to do more than just wait for time to heal those wounds. You gotta take matters into your own hands and cut the energetic cords that tie you to this ghost.

Good Luck, ikja

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posted August 15, 2015 09:12 AM            

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Venus Rx is in my 6th house. So far no job hum. But friend reuniting went very well and I met a really nice interesting guy, totally my type, crazy chemistry. Hope things don't go bad when Venus goes direct.

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posted August 15, 2015 10:17 AM            

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Guys, when does Venus turns direct? Only in september?

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posted August 15, 2015 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
Guys, when does Venus turns direct? Only in september?

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September 6th.

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posted August 15, 2015 11:34 AM            

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September 6th.

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Thanks, MineAgain.
Still a long way to go...

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posted August 15, 2015 11:35 AM            

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Thanks, MineAgain.
Still a long way to go...

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Yeah! Last year's retrograde was very short.

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posted August 15, 2015 10:31 PM            

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I thought it'd be horrible but not at all. I've already gained so much clarity on life and my relationship with others.

-The bf and I finally said "I love you" and for the first time in my relationship history, I said it first.
-Finally getting comfortable with the intense relationship that I've always craved. It's a healthier Pluto relationship now. Rawr the passion is still there.
-4H issues with home have gotten extremely better this week and most of the stress is gone.
-Ok with letting go of a 5 year friendship.
-Friend came to the realization that this same friend has been using and manipulating him. Finally standing up for himself and she no likey
-Ex texted that he's been having dreams about me and that it's annoying but glad they are at least good dreams. He's coming back from tour in a week before he moves back home. Should be interesting.
-Old friend sent me a random fb message last night. I noticed he is no longer with his gf and he must have seen that Im not with my ex. We were both secretly crushing on each other for a while. He finally starting being flirty the last night I saw him before he moved away but I had started seeing my current bf and had no interest. Bad timing dude!
-Learning to love my body for what it is

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posted August 17, 2015 07:27 AM            

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Venus Retrograde is real. Lately, Boyce Avenue has been doing covers of popular songs circa 2005. Fun!

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posted August 17, 2015 07:51 PM            

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Just figured out that the venus is in retrograde now.
It seems like this RX affecting me a lot.
- Old flame said that he still loves me and we're kinda got back together. Explored our sexual intimacy for the first time. But idk that now i just felt a bit off of it and him.
- Paid attention to my appearance, since i kinda didn't take care of it these last few months. Starting over skincare and workout regimes.
- Decided to fix my haircut and get a neq haircolor, failed. Woke up next morning to the color that i dislike.
- Talked to a new guy, who shares a lot of similarities with me to Z. We even born in the same date of birth! Thats crazy.
- Unsatisfied with the result that i have seen so far with my work progress. Feel sick of it a lil, just hopefuly the spirit will come around soon.
- Met and hungout with my frienemy last week. We didn't talk for a couple months back, but now we've been kinda talking and in touch again.

This venus RX s

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posted August 17, 2015 11:29 PM            

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Can anyone help me find where Venus is transiting in my natal chart? Astro.com doesn't help me much cuz I don't really know how to interpret the way their charts are set up.

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posted August 18, 2015 12:35 AM            

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Venus is going over my 5th house. You'd think that be significant, but nope. I haven't really felt it...and my moon is in the 5th??

I even make sure my hair looks good everyday, you know, just in case i run into some past flames LOL gotta make sure i look better than them (moon in leo issues)

The only thing i can think of is that me and my hubby are trying to have a baby, but we're not making it the central focus of our lives. If it happens, it happens kinda thing idk

Anyway im enjoying reading about all of your experiences. Guess this goes to show you it doesn't necessarily matter what house venus is transiting for the energy to be felt

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posted August 18, 2015 06:18 AM            

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Can anyone help me find where Venus is transiting in my natal chart? Astro.com doesn't help me much cuz I don't really know how to interpret the way their charts are set up.

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It's around 20-21 Leo right now.

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posted August 18, 2015 07:29 AM            

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My ex started contacting me. Whereas before he would scream at me whenever the past came up, we have been able to have some good talks about why I left him and he seems more understanding.

I met a guy. A beautiful guy. But I'm not sure I want a relationship.

Another guy I've been seeing has been contacting me less and less. I'm becoming more aware that he is playing games with me and trying to keep me "on the hook" and I am about done messing with him.

A male friend who has feelings for me has told me he is going to work on being strictly platonic with me because he knows I'm not interested, which is fine. But I feel sad because we had made plans to do a lot of fun things together which he now doesn't want to do because he considers them "romantic things."

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posted August 18, 2015 08:43 PM            

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Venus rx is in my 9th. I actually didnt think it would have an affect on me. I guess i didnt account for the squares. I actually had one act of kindness a few weeks ago, and thought maybe this venus rx will be good...

Anyway; an old fling came back. And although i didnt cheat or have any desire too. My current bf and first loving/caring partner feels betrayed. I might walk out of this retrograde with a broken heart.

I found so other possibe relevant stuff to while browsing LL. Like the fact that he has neptune conj nadir creating 4 hard aspects. We have neptune conj sun in composite. Not seeing me clearly? And his saturn is in scorpio so the transit could be hitting him too. Or us both since its probably his saturn conj my moon thats kept us together :/

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posted August 18, 2015 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
It's around 20-21 Leo right now.

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Exact square my NN...maybe that's why I'm suddenly thinking about the way I go after love and never money and my independence, needing to learn how to let ppl in love be there for me...start acting in accordance to my NN.

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posted April 15, 2020 12:36 PM            

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