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margym0o
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posted August 10, 2015 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since we're a few weeks in I thought I'd update with a few ironically yet not so ironically timed instances:

- Best friend FINALLY got engaged to her boyfriend of 5 years last week (good or bad?)
- Ex-boyfriend reached out to tell me he and his girlfriend have broken up (thanks for sharing?)
- My boyfriend randomly reunited with a good male friend he hasn't seen in over 5 years on the weekend

As for myself, I've had a lot of ups and downs in my relationship lately and have taken a lot into consideration, yet I feel like with every hurdle we're stronger, so it seems we're surviving!

Anyone else?

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Meatballzzzzzz
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posted August 10, 2015 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Meatballzzzzzz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nothing too significant for me. Only thing that happened was that my two guy friends both confessed they had feelings for me on the same day. My friend and his girlfriend broke up and my other friends ex boyfriend tried to get back together with her. I have been feeling a little bummed about being single, which I wasn't even remotely feeling before the retrograde.

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ail221
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posted August 10, 2015 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
-I've sorta rebuilt my relationship with my mom for the time being.
-I've heard about one of my ex-friends speaking badly about me, which is childish if you don't want to be friends or resolve things why am I being spoken about.
-I've opened up to another friend about -something she was completely unaware of that finally filled in the blanks for her.
-Lastly dealing with ex nostalgic tendencies from the combination of Saturn 1 minute from my 7th again and venus rx.

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Gabby
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posted August 10, 2015 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Break up!! Whoa hoo!! Although the relationship started during Merc RX, so it shouldn't be surprising!
2 exes contacting me....

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goddessofthemoon
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posted August 10, 2015 03:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1) 3 male friends have said they have feelings for me

2) sexual tension has been higher with some people that I knew liked me but never like this

3) I got into a relationship with someone new that I met recently

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DopGang
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posted August 10, 2015 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had urges to get in contact with people. (Old friends, exes).

Only friendly intent just to say hi. Maybe because Venus rx is in my 11th.
Actually, my mom has been cyber-spying my exes and giving me the scoop. LOL

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Venusincap89
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posted August 10, 2015 03:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Incredibly significant one for me, as Venus retrograde is in my 1st house...

I am quitting smoking and all the other pleasurable but harmful chemicals.
Also breaking up with gf

Sincere thanks to Ami Anne, for encouraging me to live healthier, and thank you Leeloo, Amelia, Indigo, Chiemi and other astrologers who helped me out big time in the Interpersonal Astrology posts.
You guys gave me the right advice (4th house stellium synastry/composite may sometimes make a karmic relationship look like a soul-mate relationship xD), but I ended up not listening :'(
A year of my love life wasted~~ but still a fair learning experience xD
well.. now that I think of it was meant to be xD

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Yanmorg
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posted August 10, 2015 03:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My job s closing.

I start a new job today! In a few minutes actually. I'm not sure if this is positive or negative, but I was officially hired BEFORE venus retrograde, but I'm just now actually starting. (Good or Bad?)

I lost the last of my set of childhood friends the very day Venus turned retrograde so I guess it's time to start fresh in the friendship department. I guess I'm getting older.


Feelings for my first love came creeping back during the shadow period and the BAM! I contact him a couple of days before the Transit only to be disappointed once again and having an emotional, hysterical breakdown.
(Transit Karma was in opposition to my Moon EXACT during this time also)

I am moving back to an old house I moved out of right before Saturn entered Scorpio. (Unfinished business?)

I just hope this job lasts and runs smoothly. That's my only real concern with Transit Venus Retrograde.

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bella_taurus
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posted August 10, 2015 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Met a man online... all was well until a week ago. Everything started out so nice, now I am not sure if we will ever meet. I really liked him though.

Time will tell.

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DopGang
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posted August 10, 2015 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
Met a man online... all was well until a week ago. Everything started out so nice, now I am not sure if we will ever meet. I really liked him though.

Time will tell.


What happened?
Unless you'd rather not get into it.

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bella_taurus
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posted August 10, 2015 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
What happened?
Unless you'd rather not get into it.

I actually posted a topic in Personal Readings about it. Long story short, we met online, hit it off and last week he cooled off, but still wants to pursue it, I guess. He's a Gemini...so, this wasn't so much of a shock. I thought I came so close, but not quite, I suppose.

Here's a link to the topic:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/016670.html

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NYCdodger
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posted August 10, 2015 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lot of old flames have been popping up in my head, as well as old friends. I've connected with a few

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SnowCatcher
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posted August 10, 2015 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SnowCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've seen my ex manifest through other people. It's hilarious. One person even was carrying an item identical to the one I bought my ex. Lots of other old stuff coming in, but most importantly, lots of reconcilicing.

My Solar return will fall on the last days of venus retro... I'm assuming this means for the next year my life will be colored with Venus retro??? hmm.

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DopGang
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posted August 10, 2015 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I actually posted a topic in Personal Readings about it. Long story short, we met online, hit it off and last week he cooled off, but still wants to pursue it, I guess. He's a Gemini...so, this wasn't so much of a shock. I thought I came so close, but not quite, I suppose.

Here's a link to the topic:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/016670.html



Ahhh thanks!

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Selenite
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posted August 10, 2015 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
-Broke up my unhealthy relationship
-Cut out my 'best' friend of 8 years (for now, I guess)
-Released my emotional attachment to everyone in my family
-Got rid of the last piece of me that wants to please people, became more confident
-Put in a lot of time and energy into my health (and appearance)
-Gained clarity about what I really value and need from myself and my relationships with others
-Learned how to set boundaries
-Developed a crush on a friend with Venus rx in natal ^-*


Venus is in my 1st house, it started the retrograde while conjunct my Mars in the 1st.

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posted August 10, 2015 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Incredibly significant one for me, as Venus retrograde is in my 1st house...

I am quitting smoking and all the other pleasurable but harmful chemicals.
Also breaking up with gf

Sincere thanks to Ami Anne, for encouraging me to live healthier, and thank you Leeloo, Amelia, Indigo, Chiemi and other astrologers who helped me out big time in the Interpersonal Astrology posts.
You guys gave me the right advice (4th house stellium synastry/composite may sometimes make a karmic relationship look like a soul-mate relationship xD), but I ended up not listening :'(
A year of my love life wasted~~ but still a fair learning experience xD
well.. now that I think of it was meant to be xD


Same here! Similar things happening my way. Aha 'time wasted,' sounds just like Venus in Cap At least you had the experience and grew from it ^-^

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Gabby
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posted August 10, 2015 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Selenite:
-Broke up my unhealthy relationship
-Cut out my 'best' friend of 8 years (for now, I guess)
-Released my emotional attachment to everyone in my family
-Got rid of the last piece of me that wants to please people, became more confident
-Put in a lot of time and energy into my health (and appearance)
-Gained clarity about what I really value and need from myself and my relationships with others
-Learned how to set boundaries
-Developed a crush on a friend with Venus rx in natal ^-*


Venus is in my 1st house, it started the retrograde while conjunct my Mars in the 1st.


I can relate to this!! It's been hard so far, lots of things, dreams, ppl turning into things that hurt or cause anger around here. Venus rx is in my 11th house and started going RX with a sextile to my Mars and square to my Sun/Merc.
I would have thought it wouldn't be so hard with the Mars sextile but nope....it's been tough?!!

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CosmiqPhuz
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posted August 10, 2015 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmiqPhuz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been listening to a lot of music I listened to when I was a teenager. I'm still a blues man, but this retrograde has had me going back to my first musical love....funk! I used to be big into Frank Zappa too, and I just went to a Frank Zappa tribute concert on Saturday.

Also just started a guitar teaching job at the shop where my parents bought me my first guitar when I was 10.

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posted August 11, 2015 11:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
Same here! Similar things happening my way. Aha 'time wasted,' sounds just like Venus in Cap At least you had the experience and grew from it ^-^

Wait!!! I also remember you contributing to my obnoxiously insecure relationship advice posts!!?? Thank youu!!

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posted August 11, 2015 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
I've been listening to a lot of music I listened to when I was a teenager.

Oh my Lord, me too!

It's been a long time since I listened to Nickelback, Avril Lavigne, Blink 182, Sum 41, Kelly Clarkson, Good Charlotte ... Yet, I find myself listening to music from when I was 13-16.

This retrograde threw me back to music habits I had a decade ago. It's good though. I was far more in touch with my feelings back then because I used to listen to music which would allow me to relate or daydream.

I usually listen to "happy" music that have no real meaning and which are only supposed to make you dance and upbeat. This time around, I had to channel my inner teenager! I feel like I'm 15 all over again, it's great ha. I can't wait to return to my 24 year old self once this retrograde is over though!

It's also not a coincidence that I bumped into my best friend from high school. We were so tight at 15! She hasn't changed much since she still lives in her small hometown. I became a totally different person. It sort of allowed me to feel grounded again.

I've also checked a bunch of my HS friends/crushes on Facebook but I won't add them. I want to know what they're up to. Some got married, some are nowhere, some are living your typical middle-class life. Most of them are in a relationship though! I'm the only one who seems to be eternally single, good times

I met a new guy when Venus went backwards, but I lost interest all together pretty much out of the blue! Weird.

It allowed me to see how much progress I've made since HS. I'm excited for the next chapter. Can't wait for Venus to move direct!

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posted August 11, 2015 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for livictori     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moved into a new house (was essentially homeless for 5 months)
fender bender (cost me money I don't have BUT no one was hurt)
Man I fell in love with stopped talking to after consistently speaking every day.

I feel like crap about my looks and weight
I see my depression coming like a tidal wave
I feel so isolated and alone. I'm listless and discouraged

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♓️Pisces Sun, ♌️Leo Moon, ♎️Libra Rising, ♈️Aries Venus

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posted August 11, 2015 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouspisces89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This has been a very emotional month for me...and I dont know if its because of Venus or maybe some other planet but God I was thinking a lot about what I want to do in life...where am I going...etc...My venus is retrograding currently in my second house...

Also I handed in my resignation letter to my boss, but my director had a meeting with me to tell me that he really doesn't want me to go...bizarre situation but its nice to know that they like me that much

During this retrograded I have finally realized what I really want to do, which will require going back to school again lol and starting from the beginning with my career

Also in love life, my boyfriend went on a holiday in Asia for 3 weeks lol lots of misunderstanding, no communication, arguments and etc, but now we are fine I think we have both learned a lot about each other and a lot about ourselves

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posted August 11, 2015 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for livictori     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by curiouspisces89:
This has been a very emotional month for me...and I dont know if its because of Venus or maybe some other planet but God I was thinking a lot about what I want to do in life...where am I going...etc...My venus is retrograding currently in my second house...

Also I handed in my resignation letter to my boss, but my director had a meeting with me to tell me that he really doesn't want me to go...bizarre situation but its nice to know that they like me that much

During this retrograded I have finally realized what I really want to do, which will require going back to school again lol and starting from the beginning with my career

Also in love life, my boyfriend went on a holiday in Asia for 3 weeks lol lots of misunderstanding, no communication, arguments and etc, but now we are fine I think we have both learned a lot about each other and a lot about ourselves


That's what mine did. Left for 2 weeks, not a word except for arguing over text.

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posted August 11, 2015 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouspisces89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by livictori:
That's what mine did. Left for 2 weeks, not a word except for arguing over text.

Ohh... Sorry to hear that, but I know how you feel... Hopefully when Venus goes direct everything will go back to normal

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Gabby
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posted August 11, 2015 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HUGE realization!
Retrograde transit Venus is exact on my Saturn/Moon midpoint today.
Tr. Rx Venus leo@25.13
Moon/Saturn midpoint leo@25.42
Mars/Venus midpoint leo@24.18
Chiron/Mars midpoint taurus@26.53

It's like tVenus has forced me to look at myself(retrograde) and take responsibility(Saturn) for my moon which is acting out in an unloving way.

I feel like such a weight is lifted, like something that's been holding me back now I have a better idea of what to do to overcome it. I see what I'm doing and how it's not supporting to my goals or life path, it's destructive to me because I'm ruled by love(Venus chart ruler) and these behaviors are not loving to anyone.
I also see the guys I've allowed into my life have been mirroring what I was feeling inside and acting out unconsciously. They were hurting me and holding me back through those behaviors.

Now I know what direction I need to grow and how to help myself overcome my own self. Yeah!!
One more issue down, only a thousand more that still need to be seen! Lol


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