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Topic: Do you get along with people who square your Sun?
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Sulkyarcher
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From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA
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posted August 15, 2015 10:43 PM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Why do you say it's their karma (not only that, but why isn't it yours as well?  ) I more or less don't care for Cancers. They confuse me, honestly and their indirectness is petty to me. The ones I have met need emotional nurturing and I'm anything but. This is probably universal, but I like being around people I can provide for in some way, OR being friends with people I also need vs. being the only one "needed" if that makes sense. Capricorns though...oooo mama do I love me some manly, "strong but silent BUT SENSITIVE" Capricorn energy! I can compile a deeply organized list of why they would not care for me (but also reasons they need me in their lives). The top three reasons being my impulsiveness, my short-term thinking, and probably my lack of poise. But I'm also fun and secretly...secretly I think they value Aries' (emotional) expressiveness and lack of control [u]on SOME level[/u]. I have a strong Saturn-themed chart though plus a Taurus moon. __ Aries Sun, Mercury, Venus
Taurus Moon
Gemini ASC, Mars and Jupiter
Virgo IC / Pisces MC
Your Taurus and Saturn likes Cap men, huh?
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Sulkyarcher
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posted August 15, 2015 10:46 PM
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Not really. I'm an Aries. The Cancers I know who square my sun seem too sensitive/defensive, and the Capricorns seem too harsh and intimidating.
I get along fine with Capricorns only because of my 10th house stellium and Saturn influence. I don't have much in common with Cancers, but there's not an intense dislike like with Virgos and Pisces, when it comes to me!
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StubbornVirgo
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posted August 15, 2015 10:46 PM
Virgo female here. I get along fairly well with Gemini men and Sagittarius men. I can usually relate to Virgo men too, but not Virgo women. I guess we're just too much alike to get along. Strangely enough, and I know there are some who will dispute this, but I find Pisces women to be really criticizing. It just always seems like they have a comment about everything I say or do, or they laugh at something when I'm being completely serious. I usually get along well with Aries (women), Cancer (women), Scorpio (men and women), Capricorn (men and women) and Libra (women). IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 15, 2015 10:58 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Your Taurus and Saturn likes Cap men, huh?
Oh yes. I have Saturn in Capricorn, so that squares with my Sun, Mercury, and Venus. Saturn in the 7th. Moon trine Saturn. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 15, 2015 10:59 PM
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Not really. I'm an Aries. The Cancers I know who square my sun seem too sensitive/defensive, and the Capricorns seem too harsh and intimidating.
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lilithpluto
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posted August 15, 2015 11:59 PM
I don't get along with Scorpio Suns, we hv clash of ego, too sensitive n defensive towards every sentence I make. Unless I give in willingly, just to make peace or out of democratic social reasons... And I make effort to avoid them in personal life if I hv no choice but to work with them.Other aspects matter too; like I hv stellium of Virgo personal planets w my Scorpio sun dad in composite so our relationship is still manageable. And my ex has his asteroid Child (Scorpio) conjunct my Moon n again with a stellium of personal planets in Leo in composite chart... I still think of him. Else no. An ex with Scorpio sun but no stellium in composite, I avoid him like plague n cut him out of my life.  I am Leo Sun with Aquarius Moon, Libra ascendant, Pluto n Mars. IP: Logged |
Seimei
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posted August 16, 2015 12:00 AM
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MilaBirkin
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posted August 16, 2015 12:01 AM
I'm Pisces and I have good relationships with Sagittarius and Gemini, especially females. I have Jupiter in Sagittarius and Venus in Aquarius, maybe that helps.I only had bad experiences with some Sagittarius guys but when we were like 14. And with a Gemini, he started a stupid rumor at school but he was 13 lol.
So I actually get along with them. I'm very flexible, chill, and I always want to have good relationships, have some fun and all that  . IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted August 16, 2015 12:23 AM
I've gotten along (even close to) enough Cancers and Capricorns. Though it's rare I know much about a chart of someone I don't get along with so who knows if I'd have noticed a pattern. (One of those I don't get along with was born 11 hours after me in the same hospital as well. She had a Capricorn rising, however, but then my BFF at the time was born 3 days after me and had a Cappie moon. I have a Leo ASC and Sag moon in case you're wondering.) IP: Logged |
piscesearthed
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posted August 16, 2015 12:35 AM
I'm a pisces male and one of my best friends is a gemini guy. He drives me insane, so flakey. Also, i feel the gemini energy too interested in stuff that i consider superficial.
I get along ok with Sag ppl and i really can't see on which things Sag and Gemini are that different.IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted August 16, 2015 12:41 AM
I'm a cap sun (n multiple cap placements). I have more libras in my life than any other sign (husband, best friends, etc..). Aries is fine. One aries friend I met on line and we just clicked. Share the same goals and now we're working together. It's nice. Cancers are something else. I feel it's hard to relax around cancer energy. Capricorn women I generally like. Capricorn men are more of a hit-n-miss, although when I like them I really like them. I find that compared to cap women, they are more likely to be the cold-on-the-outside, nutty-on-the-inside type. Recently I've been working with a cap guy who is so similar to the character Levi Ackerman from Attack on Titan, minus the super-human abilities. Everything else, from the stoic expression down to the angst n streaks of emotional volatility, he has them all.  The Aries friend mentioned above is smitten with him and now wants to enlist my help in her quest for love - "Because you two share so many similar placements n aspects" she said. Bad idea introducing her to astrology. IP: Logged |
bananaz
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From: Orlando, FL USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 16, 2015 03:46 AM
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Originally posted by selenafae96:
I love seeing all the Virgo hate that happens in threads like these. I get along great with both Gemini and Sagittarius (that might have something to do with my Saggy rising). Most of my really good friends are Sagittarius and most of my crushes are Gemini.
No Virgo hate here! They are my least favorite sign and my most favorite sign, if that makes sense. I both admire and cringe at virgo energy. They have traits i desire for myself, and the best people I've ever known have been virgos. Their critical tendencies bug me, but i realize its part of their nature. I think its common for opposite signs to clash, and squared signs too, but in the end it doesn't matter because we're all made up of all the signs. Virgos have pisces energy and pisces have virgo energy. Its just distributed differently
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mollywu
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posted August 16, 2015 08:35 AM
Yes, I can get along with Gemini and Saggitaurius male and females. The one I like most whose Sun square my Virgo Sun/Venus about 2-3degrees..... I can get along with any signs who is kind and not double-faced.IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted August 16, 2015 02:09 PM
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Originally posted by bananaz:
No Virgo hate here! They are my least favorite sign and my most favorite sign, if that makes sense. I both admire and cringe at virgo energy. They have traits i desire for myself, and the best people I've ever known have been virgos. Their critical tendencies bug me, but i realize its part of their nature. I think its common for opposite signs to clash, and squared signs too, but in the end it doesn't matter because we're all made up of all the signs. Virgos have pisces energy and pisces have virgo energy. Its just distributed differently
I'm glad that you elaborated on this. What a great way to look at it.
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted August 17, 2015 12:49 AM
Scorpio males are awesome and I tend to get along with them. Females, however, tend to start some sort of rivalry with me. Not sure why, they just do.I don't really talk to many Taureans, but I get along with them just fine as long as they're not being too stubborn. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 17, 2015 01:14 AM
Funny I find the square to feel like a lack of energy also, like stagnant energy. Or it feels like something is literally preventing us from having a natural energy flow, like a void of energy.
The sign I feel this the most with is cap/cancer Suns...
I feel like I'm literally being held back, or held down around these ppl. Even my mannerisms feel limited and controlled and feel tired around them like maybe I'm not breathing as much or as freely and I get tired from lack of oxygen. Actually I can't figure out what causes me to fall asleep around them.I know that no matter what degree of cap or cancer they are they will square something major in my chart
BM Lilith aries@2.50
AC libra@7
Pluto libra@11
Jupiter aries@15
Venus libra@19
Vertex aries@21
Chiron aries@24
Sun/moon midpoint libra@26(I like the ppl squaring that though) You can be a pisces/virgo/gemini and still not square me so there are many ppl with these signs that I like.
I've a saggy sun/merc/nep....I get along with pisces and virgo as long as the square isn't tight. I have a virgo moon in 12th....so I like some virgos, esp if their sun touches my moon and have a love/hate with pisces. I love them until their softness starts turning into something else not so attractive, then I have to run away before I get to hurt for trying to love them. Odd lil fishes! Gemini? I was married to a gemini and we could talk n be best friends but he was not as deep as I need to feel head over heels in love. We can still talk n have fun together but I don't want to be with him. IP: Logged |
Sunnya
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From: Sunnyland
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posted August 17, 2015 06:10 AM
I don't mind Taureans neither Scorpios. My moon is in Taurus (it doesn't square my Sun though) and my own Scorpio placements probably help.I have a good Taurus Australian friend and one of my cousins is a Scorpio and we get along pretty well too. Both are females. IP: Logged |
Meatballzzzzzz
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posted August 17, 2015 09:21 AM
I am a Capricorn and I get along very well with Aries and Libra.IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted August 17, 2015 05:39 PM
I am Pisces Sun, Sag Rising and my bf is Sag Sun and possibly Pisces Rising (there's is 30min +/- with his birth time). We get along very easily! Too easy almost.. that's how we started going out. We couldn't believe how easily we meshed!My sister is Virgo Sun, Pisces Rising and her fiance is Sag Sun, Pisces Rising.. they get along well too and held onto each other through very long, long distance relationship. I'm happy they will be getting married soon! So we are bunch of Squares by Sun Signs but we are also friendly and easy going individuals at the same time. So far no major issues! Despite of this tho, I am not too fond of air sun ppl (Aquarius and Gemini for me)... I don't seem to get along with them well.. So I think squares work as long as your chart supports other compatibility between the Square signs.. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted August 17, 2015 11:35 PM
I'm a sag sun. I don't mind virgos, I actually find their humour quite witty and intelligent. Pisces women on the other hand are just bullies, not to mention two faced and dishonest. The Pisces men seem more cool, sensitive although abit flaky for my taste. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 17, 2015 11:43 PM
My Sun is in Aries.
I get along just as well with Capricorn, as I do with my trines.
But that's because I have a Capricorn stellium.Cancer can be difficult for me... It depends on the rest of their chart. quote:
I feel hard to relax around cancer energy.
Yeah... That's how I feel, basically...
But I don't want to generalise, because I've also met Cancers with Gemini/Leo influences who were more optimistic and fun to be around. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 18, 2015 12:09 AM
No joke I found a new Capricorn a few days after this post! He is true to form. 25, no debt, good job, etc. Plans for everything, takes care of his family, self-made. Money, money, money and arrogant. It's arrogance in a different way than Aries'...it's more condescending. No bueno.IP: Logged |
bananaz
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posted August 18, 2015 12:22 AM
I forgot to add that my best friend of the last 15 yrs is a gemini. So yeah...the square energy theory doesn't hold up in my book. Considering I married a Saggy, my bestie is a Gemini while im a Pisces female who idolizes Virgos....yep debunked lol at least for meIf anything it feels like I need that energy more in my life. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted August 18, 2015 12:44 AM
I'm a Pisces Sun and I get along pretty well with Gemini and Sag people. That could be because of my Sag stellium, though.
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