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Topic: Do you get along with people who square your Sun?
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 02:57 PM
I'm a Sagittarian Sun, Mercury, and Uranus. I have trouble with Virgo and Pisces energy, to be quite honest.My chemistry with Gemini is normal, not the greatest but okay or so-so.But Virgo and Pisces energy can be very judgmental or snobby to me, even to the point of being toxic or venomous. I notice that the other 10 signs are not like that towards me. But Virgos and Pisces seem to hate me even though I don't do anything to them. Oh well, it's their karma. I know not all Virgos and Pisces are like this to me but like half of them are. I think it's just bad chemistry or something! You?? IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1256 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 03:55 PM
I get on well with Scorps, but I dont know about those who'd square my Sun. I tend to meet those, who dont square my Sun, at least tightly to really feel the negative energy. But I have other placements, that help our interraction, including Scorpio angle, duads and Pluto aspects.Taurus, hmmmm, don't know many now. Those I do, I feel there is something off. There was a time when most of my friends were Taurus girls (around 14y.o) None of them squared my Sun either. Since you mentioned your opposing sign, I must admit, that I dont like Aquas all that much. Opposites dont attract in my case IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 741 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 04:06 PM
Gemini male, and I generally have problems with Pisces and Virgo women, or they with me... Virgo men make good work partners and sometimes friends. I think in part the shared Mercury rulership, and part the fact that I have 4 planets in earth signs and a Taurus Decendant.IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 04:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Liliya: I get on well with Scorps, but I dont know about those who'd square my Sun. I tend to meet those, who dont square my Sun, at least tightly to really feel the negative energy. But I have other placements, that help our interraction, including Scorpio angle, duads and Pluto aspects.Taurus, hmmmm, don't know many now. Those I do, I feel there is something off. There was a time when most of my friends were Taurus girls (around 14y.o) None of them squared my Sun either. Since you mentioned your opposing sign, I must admit, that I dont like Aquas all that much. Opposites dont attract in my case
Usually Aquarius and Leos get along, must be something in your chart!
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 04:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: Gemini male, and I generally have problems with Pisces and Virgo women, or they with me... Virgo men make good work partners and sometimes friends. I think in part the shared Mercury rulership, and part the fact that I have 4 planets in earth signs and a Taurus Decendant.
It's like you rub each other the wrong way, eh? It's kind of funny at times. Sometimes not funny at all.
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Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 741 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 04:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: It's like you rub each other the wrong way, eh? It's kind of funny at times. Sometimes not funny at all.
With Pisces, not even so much rub the wrong way. More like... I don't exist in their reality. The spot in their peripheral vision that if they look at directly they can't see. 2+2=bathtub... I can have a perfectly wonderful conversation with them and then it's like the Silence from Doctor Who.
Virgo, yeah rub each other the wrong way, but it usually amuses them anyway. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2015 04:56 PM
Yeah. The getting to know you part is rough, esp if we met at work, but after we like join forces and make a dream team. That was actually a nickname for me and a Scorpio coworker lol.IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 542 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 15, 2015 05:09 PM
It's interesting in fact because there's not really friction. There's actually dullness there. I have more problem with Virgos (it's about 50/50 hit or miss) and that's where my stellium is. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 05:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: With Pisces, not even so much rub the wrong way. More like... I don't exist in their reality. The spot in their peripheral vision that if they look at directly they can't see. 2+2=bathtub... I can have a perfectly wonderful conversation with them and then it's like the Silence from Doctor Who.Virgo, yeah rub each other the wrong way, but it usually amuses them anyway.
For some reason, I see a lot of negative Gemini/Pisces friendships, like both want to strangle each other. Nice to know at least Pisces don't strangle you! LOL. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 05:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: It's interesting in fact because there's not really friction. There's actually dullness there. I have more problem with Virgos (it's about 50/50 hit or miss) and that's where my stellium is.
I can see that happening. Pisces can ignore me at times. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3339 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 05:53 PM
Hmm...Taurus: yes, but I also have a Cap stellium and Taurus Jupiter and Mars, which really helps the situation out. A lot of my good friends have Scorp energy in there. Scorpio: normally yes, having a Pisces Moon will help as well. I really like Scorpio energy, and rarely have I had issues with anyone with Scorp energy. Never really had issues with square energy, and in fact I love it. I have a square heavy chart, so that could be why as well. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2 Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 05:54 PM
I'm a Capricorn sun. I do fine with Libras and have some very close friends who are but Aries man. Let me tell ya. It's like, calm down already and no, I won't drive down that block because you say so, hot damnit. IP: Logged |
deepseablues Knowflake Posts: 755 From: the ocean floor Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 08:01 PM
In a relationship for almost 6 years and our Sun's squared by 2 deg. I think our AC's were quincunx with my Sun quincunx his AC as well. Our communication wasn't always great but were really in love for a long time, head over heels in love. It was nice until it wasn't. My bosses Sun is square mine by 3 deg and our relationship is extremely rocky. I currently have a crush on someone who squares my Sun by 4 deg but our communication is terrible and nothing will ever happen. All Leo's . I have a lot of Leo's in my life but no Aquarius and no Taurus which is opposite, I find Taurus energy/opposition more difficult than the Leo or Aquarius square. I don't always get along with the people whose Sun square mine but they seem to be in my life nonetheless. IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 15, 2015 08:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I'm a Sagittarian Sun, Mercury, and Uranus. I have trouble with Virgo and Pisces energy, to be quite honest.My chemistry with Gemini is normal, not the greatest but okay or so-so.But Virgo and Pisces energy can be very judgmental or snobby to me, even to the point of being toxic or venomous. I notice that the other 10 signs are not like that towards me. But Virgos and Pisces seem to hate me even though I don't do anything to them. Oh well, it's their karma. I know not all Virgos and Pisces are like this to me but like half of them are. I think it's just bad chemistry or something! You??
My hubby is a sag and im a pisces. I totally get u on the virgo thing. Their critical demeanor bugs me too, but if a pisces is judgmental, it's caused by other placements because that sign is known for being a friend to everyone. It's weird how it works for me and my husband. He has a cancer rising which meshes with my sun sign and i have an aries rising which meshes with his sag sun. Also our moons are compatible (libra and leo) so dont write someone off based on their sun sign. Its only 1 small piece of the chart. I love Sagittarius energy, but the one thing I notice I'm unable to get past is their bluntness. We pisces are super sensitive, and Sagittarius tells it like it is. Another thing that can go wrong with these 2 signs is that they're both ruled by Jupiter and that expansive energy doesn't get weighed down by practicality. Which is the reason my hubby and i cant go to Vegas together anymore lol. IP: Logged |
RoseLily Knowflake Posts: 47 From: Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 15, 2015 08:20 PM
Gemini sun woman here I have so much difficulties with Pisces and Virgo man. My father is a pisces and our relationship was... rocky and not always very good, he is temperamental and emotional, and he always had this "talent" to make me cry during our arguments. And if one thing I hate when arguing, it's crying. It's the most shameful and weak thing I can do in front of people (IMO), but he can get under my skin like no other. I think (haven't look) he has a prominent scorpio or 8th house, because we get along wonderfully when analyzing other people. But emotionally? No, just... no, don't. I also had a classmate who was virgo gosh I couldn't stand the man, he was just so nitpicky in criticizing in everything he did, yet because he was the same with himself, no one could fault him anything, but I just couldn't stand his sight and I hated him with a passion. I don't know why, but he rubbed me the wrong way and I just wanted to smash his face in his desk so many times. However, I get along great with pisces and virgo women... search me why IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 12289 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 15, 2015 08:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Never really had issues with square energy, and in fact I love it. I have a square heavy chart, so that could be why as well.
Same. My Cap sun is square Aries Jupiter and Libra Pluto. I usually do get along with those signs. I've had some gripes but I just diplomatically edited them. IP: Logged |
mamawolf Knowflake Posts: 218 From: the universe Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 15, 2015 08:50 PM
Let's see...Libra males yes for the most part, as for the females there's never really a connection. I have fire venus and mars so usually the same with Aries. Hmm guess I really don't know many Libra and Aries females that personally..especially Aries. Do I even know an Aries female?!?!IP: Logged |
selenafae96 Knowflake Posts: 116 From: Cranbrook, BC, Canada Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 10:05 PM
I love seeing all the Virgo hate that happens in threads like these. I get along great with both Gemini and Sagittarius (that might have something to do with my Saggy rising). Most of my really good friends are Sagittarius and most of my crushes are Gemini. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 15, 2015 10:15 PM
I wanted to add that while i get along with people that square my sun, I typically dont do well with people with placements that might square my cancer moon or cap stellium!IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10182 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 15, 2015 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I'm a Sagittarian Sun, Mercury, and Uranus. ...But Virgos and Pisces seem to hate me even though I don't do anything to them. Oh well, it's their karma. You??
Why do you say it's their karma (not only that, but why isn't it yours as well? ) I more or less don't care for Cancers. They confuse me, honestly and their indirectness is petty to me. The ones I have met need emotional nurturing and I'm anything but. This is probably universal, but I like being around people I can provide for in some way, OR being friends with people I also need vs. being the only one "needed" if that makes sense. Capricorns though...oooo mama do I love me some manly, "strong but silent BUT SENSITIVE" Capricorn energy! I can compile a deeply organized list of why they would not care for me (but also reasons they need me in their lives). The top three reasons being my impulsiveness, my short-term thinking, and probably my lack of poise. But I'm also fun and secretly...secretly I think they value Aries' (emotional) expressiveness and lack of control [u]on SOME level[/u]. I have a strong Saturn-themed chart though plus a Taurus moon. __ Aries Sun, Mercury, Venus Taurus Moon Gemini ASC, Mars and Jupiter Virgo IC / Pisces MC
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wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 582 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 15, 2015 10:22 PM
Not really. I'm an Aries. The Cancers I know who square my sun seem too sensitive/defensive, and the Capricorns seem too harsh and intimidating. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 10:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: My hubby is a sag and im a pisces. I totally get u on the virgo thing. Their critical demeanor bugs me too, but if a pisces is judgmental, it's caused by other placements because that sign is known for being a friend to everyone. It's weird how it works for me and my husband. He has a cancer rising which meshes with my sun sign and i have an aries rising which meshes with his sag sun. Also our moons are compatible (libra and leo) so dont write someone off based on their sun sign. Its only 1 small piece of the chart.I love Sagittarius energy, but the one thing I notice I'm unable to get past is their bluntness. We pisces are super sensitive, and Sagittarius tells it like it is. Another thing that can go wrong with these 2 signs is that they're both ruled by Jupiter and that expansive energy doesn't get weighed down by practicality. Which is the reason my hubby and i cant go to Vegas together anymore lol.
I noticed some Pisces don't like my wildness, or over-wildness. I think it scares them a little. I can't say I blame them but then I feel judged or hurt. It's not always meant to be, that's all.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 10:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by RoseLily: Gemini sun woman here I have so much difficulties with Pisces and Virgo man. My father is a pisces and our relationship was... rocky and not always very good, he is temperamental and emotional, and he always had this "talent" to make me cry during our arguments. And if one thing I hate when arguing, it's crying. It's the most shameful and weak thing I can do in front of people (IMO), but he can get under my skin like no other. I think (haven't look) he has a prominent scorpio or 8th house, because we get along wonderfully when analyzing other people. But emotionally? No, just... no, don't. I also had a classmate who was virgo gosh I couldn't stand the man, he was just so nitpicky in criticizing in everything he did, yet because he was the same with himself, no one could fault him anything, but I just couldn't stand his sight and I hated him with a passion. I don't know why, but he rubbed me the wrong way and I just wanted to smash his face in his desk so many times. However, I get along great with pisces and virgo women... search me why
I once had a Virgo ex-friend who made me feel very judged. She meant well, but it didn't work out in the end.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 10:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by mamawolf: Let's see...Libra males yes for the most part, as for the females there's never really a connection. I have fire venus and mars so usually the same with Aries. Hmm guess I really don't know many Libra and Aries females that personally..especially Aries. Do I even know an Aries female?!?!
So you're either a Cancer or Capricorn?
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Lincoln, Nebraska, USA Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 15, 2015 10:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by selenafae96: I love seeing all the Virgo hate that happens in threads like these. I get along great with both Gemini and Sagittarius (that might have something to do with my Saggy rising). Most of my really good friends are Sagittarius and most of my crushes are Gemini.
To be fair, they can hate me back sometimes. IP: Logged |