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Topic: Men, why aren`t curves so preferred with you guys?
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1124 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 02:26 PM
^^^ Those things are not important to every man. Maybe when you're immature. There's SO much more to physique than age and genetics. Being into martial arts and fitness, you should know that. One of the worst posts I've seen you make here.
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meyray Knowflake Posts: 488 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted August 22, 2015 02:26 PM
Keep in mind that beauty standards vary across the world and change significantly during different time periods. The constant influence of culture is more powerful than the natal astrological predisposition in my opinion. As we are in the "supermodel era" thin is the supposed ideal although this is shifting to fit and voluptuous women.Astrologically Cancer and Taurus are signs associated with the curvy beauty ideal. Maybe influence of Jupiter could be a factor as Jupiter "expands". Also don't despair, on a primal human evolutionary level curvy is definitely preferred - wide hips, soft stomach, big bosom. All of these are signals that a woman is healthy and fertile. It doesn't sound very sexy but this is the "code" in the brain that creates appeal and attraction. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by HoodBlaze: Haha I'd say almost every guy wants skinny over curves. Less chance of getting fat when if we get in with the long haul with you. Just saying lol.... Everyone's worst nightmare is once their wife or girlfriend cuts their hair short, stops giving bj's, they gain weight. Making me agitated just thinking about it..... ha!
Lol
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 02:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: Dreaminess,You're a hottie. Just tell those un-appreciators to get stuffed. Don't change to suit someone's questionable tastes, which could change later anyway. Just decide -- with fierceness -- that you are only going to give any dating time/attention to someone who can appreciate you [b]as you are. Then, just see what happens. Don't waver at all. You might have to say 'no' to a few first ... Hold the line on it. This is the kind of strength a real man will appreciate in addition to everything else you've mentioned. Then it will be irrelevant what astrological particulars are in his chart. They'll fit you and be compatible -- promise. My wife did this in terms of respect because she got tired of dating jerks that didn't respect her. Once she made the decision, I showed up, and we've been happy together ever since. [/B]
Aww what a nice story you have with your wife and so true what your saying 
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 13670 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2015 03:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: You look great! Please stop with this non-sense, lol. Plenty of women would love to have your body.
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TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 03:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa:
I am thin for brazilian standards, but curvy for americans/europeans. For men, I actually don't like muscles. I like thin (but fit) guys.
For Brazilian standards, you mean the Brazilian TV standard, right? xD the thin and fit guys have the Muscles, the big dudes have something else but not raw Muscles xD --- I think most of the beauty standards come from the media and TV, but I rather prefer a curved women than a Model kind of skinny one, kind of funny to talk in that way. But also for me it`s the face that makes the difference, the body comes afterwards IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13670 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2015 03:43 PM
It's about time we had a thin-shaming thread...  IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 03:55 PM
You live in Norway? maybe it`s because of that :PIP: Logged |
SoaringLeaves Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Pluto's heart Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:13 PM
You should check this http://www.popsugar.com/fashion/Body-Type-Photoshop-Experiment-38102622?st ream_view=1#photo-38102650 for a very interesting geo-social experiment regarding the "ideal" body type.IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by TensionEmpire: You live in Norway? maybe it`s because of that :P
Hahaha yes, i live in norway. Probably because of that hehe. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by SoaringLeaves: You should check this http://www.popsugar.com/fashion/Body-Type-Photoshop-Experiment-38102622?st ream_view=1#photo-38102650 for a very interesting geo-social experiment regarding the "ideal" body type.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 13670 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2015 04:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: Just decide -- with fierceness -- that you are only going to give any dating time/attention to someone who can appreciate you [b]as you are. Then, just see what happens. Don't waver at all. You might have to say 'no' to a few first ... Hold the line on it. This is the kind of strength a real man will appreciate in addition to everything else you've mentioned. Then it will be irrelevant what astrological particulars are in his chart. They'll fit you and be compatible -- promise. My wife did this in terms of respect because she got tired of dating jerks that didn't respect her. Once she made the decision, I showed up, and we've been happy together ever since.[/b]
I love this comment. I think you may have just summarized everything a woman needs to know about dating. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: As a cancerian influenced woman i got the famous breasts, fleshy face, chubby little hands and a fleshy butt, lol. This– https://www.flickr.com/photos/106526535@N06/20140388404/in/datetaken/ is just not preferred. If you take a look at my stomach to, you` might see that i even got the famous cancer stomach haha. I try to be proud of my curvy body but damn those skinny beautiful creatures wins everytime and makes me idealise them. When guys have been attracted to me and i them i am NEVER their "usual" type bodywise and that has made me want to lose weight and try in a pathetic attempt to get a skinny body. Every man i`ve seen around me has preferred skinny. I envy those curvy women out there that have found themselves a curvy loving man that makes them feel physically beautiful. What in a chart of a man do you think will make him love curves? I need to be on the lookout for them haha. I am just tired of not being a man`s "usual" type.
I don't think such a diverse group of people should be put into a box. Men love what the love. I am best friends with many men and they prefer intelligence, wit, charm and ambition over looks. You are a very good looking woman, maybe they just pass over you because they think of you as too sexual? Some men like women who wear tight clothes that hug their curves, for a night. Although I'm best friends with very professional minded signs: Scorpio, Virgo, and Capricorn. My Virgo man best friend has his venus in libra and his mars in cancer but he prefers an intellectual connection, but affection is important to him. What's your venus and mars sign? IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 16648 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by SoaringLeaves: You should check this http://www.popsugar.com/fashion/Body-Type-Photoshop-Experiment-38102622?st ream_view=1#photo-38102650 for a very interesting geo-social experiment regarding the "ideal" body type.
thank you for posting, SL Spain, Romania and Columbia just made her a little thinner. Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes)  ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala New Profiles IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I love this comment.I think you may have just summarized everything a woman needs to know about dating.
I second that 
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: I don't think such a diverse group of people should be put into a box. Men love what the love. I am best friends with many men and they prefer intelligence, wit, charm and ambition over looks. You are a very good looking woman, maybe they just pass over you because they think of you as too sexual? Some men like women who wear tight clothes that hug their curves, for a night. Although I'm best friends with very professional minded signs: Scorpio, Virgo, and Capricorn. My Virgo man best friend has his venus in libra and his mars in cancer but he prefers an intellectual connection, but affection is important to him. What's your venus and mars sign?
True, all men have their tastes and its absolutely nothing wrong with that. I`ve just been around thin lovers for way too long that i have almost convinced myself that the curve lovers is just a dream, lol. Haha. My venus is in leo and my mars is in Libra. Why do you ask?
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1483 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 22, 2015 04:43 PM
These men that you say prefer skinnier women? Where the hell are they at cuz as a pretty thin girl, I'm always being told by men that I could use a few pounds. But it could be because I am black and black men and black culture idealize women with curves. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 775 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 04:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: These men that you say prefer skinnier women? Where the hell are they at cuz as a pretty thin girl, I'm always being told by men that I could use a few pounds. But it could be because I am black and black men and black culture idealize women with curves.
Hahahaha we should switch places then lol. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13670 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2015 04:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes) 
The Netherlands gave her black boots instead of heels. Kinky Netherlands.
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: True, all men have their tastes and its absolutely nothing wrong with that. I`ve just been around thin lovers for way too long that i have almost convinced myself that the curve lovers is just a dream, lol. Haha. My venus is in leo and my mars is in Libra. Why do you ask?
I've never been to Norway so I have no idea what the dating scene is like there. It's unfortunate that those men can't appreciate such a beautiful woman like you. I asked your venus and mars sign because they indicate relationship needs and how you express yourself them. Mine is a aquarius venus and capricorn mars (I'm very complicated haha). You have very good planetary signs for a venus and mars, I'm not sure why guys aren't as attracted to you as they should be. Maybe it's a pesky transit?
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1483 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 22, 2015 04:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Hahahaha we should switch places then lol.
I'm going thru your pics! You're so cute! You look pretty melanated to me so I'm confused. What is your nationality? IP: Logged |
SoaringLeaves Knowflake Posts: 384 From: Pluto's heart Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: thank you for posting, SLSpain, Romania and Columbia just made her a little thinner. Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes) 
I was quite proud of these countries, LeeLoo!! Personally what I saw in this experiment was not the "ideal" body type, but the degree of celebration of the fact that body types come in every shape and every size. I agree about making her uglier! Some of these photoshopers changed everything about her--from hair to facial expression to her toes so to speak. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1124 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:54 PM
Well, I would like to add: First an foremost, at least to me, is personality and a sort of attraction that seems like an energy rather than anything observable. With that, I've lived with a woman who was 215 pounds (she carried it VERY well!) all the way down to one woman that I remember was BARELY 100 pounds. Big breasts, little breasts, 5 foot 1, up to 5 foot 10 in height. My point is that attraction goes beyond all of this anyway. I have a wandering eye, but it in NO WAY means that I want to or would have any sexual contact. It's just looking. There are all kinds of women, and all kinds of men with not only wide ranging physical preferences, but preferences about what's actually important and how important in a potential partner. Also, I agree with Kannon. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1124 From: <--------- over there. Registered: Jun 2015
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posted August 22, 2015 04:56 PM
Those photoshop pics were freaky! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13670 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 22, 2015 05:01 PM
 Yeah. I like your comment above. Honestly I went through my single life believing men preferred thin women because that's what seemed to be happening all around me...thin girls getting asked out, curvy girls not as much. IP: Logged |