posted August 22, 2015 02:26 PM            

Astrologically Cancer and Taurus are signs associated with the curvy beauty ideal. Maybe influence of Jupiter could be a factor as Jupiter "expands".

posted August 22, 2015 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by HoodBlaze:
Haha I'd say almost every guy wants skinny over curves. Less chance of getting fat when if we get in with the long haul with you. Just saying lol.... Everyone's worst nightmare is once their wife or girlfriend cuts their hair short, stops giving bj's, they gain weight. Making me agitated just thinking about it..... ha!

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posted August 22, 2015 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Dreaminess,

You're a hottie. Just tell those un-appreciators to get stuffed. Don't change to suit someone's questionable tastes, which could change later anyway.

Just decide -- with fierceness -- that you are only going to give any dating time/attention to someone who can appreciate you [b]as you are. Then, just see what happens. Don't waver at all. You might have to say 'no' to a few first ... Hold the line on it. This is the kind of strength a real man will appreciate in addition to everything else you've mentioned.

Then it will be irrelevant what astrological particulars are in his chart. They'll fit you and be compatible -- promise.

My wife did this in terms of respect because she got tired of dating jerks that didn't respect her. Once she made the decision, I showed up, and we've been happy together ever since.

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posted August 22, 2015 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
You look great! Please stop with this non-sense, lol. Plenty of women would love to have your body.

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posted August 22, 2015 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:

I am thin for brazilian standards, but curvy for americans/europeans.

For men, I actually don't like muscles. I like thin (but fit) guys.

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For Brazilian standards, you mean the Brazilian TV standard, right? xD

the thin and fit guys have the Muscles, the big dudes have something else but not raw Muscles xD

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I think most of the beauty standards come from the media and TV, but I rather prefer a curved women than a Model kind of skinny one, kind of funny to talk in that way.

But also for me it`s the face that makes the difference, the body comes afterwards

posted August 22, 2015 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
You live in Norway?
maybe it`s because of that :P

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posted August 22, 2015 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by SoaringLeaves:
You should check this http://www.popsugar.com/fashion/Body-Type-Photoshop-Experiment-38102622?st ream_view=1#photo-38102650 for a very interesting geo-social experiment regarding the "ideal" body type.

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posted August 22, 2015 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Just decide -- with fierceness -- that you are only going to give any dating time/attention to someone who can appreciate you [b]as you are. Then, just see what happens. Don't waver at all. You might have to say 'no' to a few first ... Hold the line on it. This is the kind of strength a real man will appreciate in addition to everything else you've mentioned.

Then it will be irrelevant what astrological particulars are in his chart. They'll fit you and be compatible -- promise.

My wife did this in terms of respect because she got tired of dating jerks that didn't respect her. Once she made the decision, I showed up, and we've been happy together ever since.[/b]

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I love this comment.

posted August 22, 2015 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
As a cancerian influenced woman i got the famous breasts, fleshy face, chubby little hands and a fleshy butt, lol. This– https://www.flickr.com/photos/106526535@N06/20140388404/in/datetaken/ is just not preferred. If you take a look at my stomach to, you` might see that i even got the famous cancer stomach haha. I try to be proud of my curvy body but damn those skinny beautiful creatures wins everytime and makes me idealise them. When guys have been attracted to me and i them i am NEVER their "usual" type bodywise and that has made me want to lose weight and try in a pathetic attempt to get a skinny body. Every man i`ve seen around me has preferred skinny. I envy those curvy women out there that have found themselves a curvy loving man that makes them feel physically beautiful. What in a chart of a man do you think will make him love curves? I need to be on the lookout for them haha. I am just tired of not being a man`s "usual" type.

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posted August 22, 2015 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by SoaringLeaves:
You should check this http://www.popsugar.com/fashion/Body-Type-Photoshop-Experiment-38102622?st ream_view=1#photo-38102650 for a very interesting geo-social experiment regarding the "ideal" body type.

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thank you for posting, SL

Spain, Romania and Columbia just made her a little thinner.

Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes)

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

posted August 22, 2015 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I love this comment.

I think you may have just summarized everything a woman needs to know about dating.

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posted August 22, 2015 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
I don't think such a diverse group of people should be put into a box. Men love what the love. I am best friends with many men and they prefer intelligence, wit, charm and ambition over looks. You are a very good looking woman, maybe they just pass over you because they think of you as too sexual? Some men like women who wear tight clothes that hug their curves, for a night. Although I'm best friends with very professional minded signs: Scorpio, Virgo, and Capricorn. My Virgo man best friend has his venus in libra and his mars in cancer but he prefers an intellectual connection, but affection is important to him. What's your venus and mars sign?

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posted August 22, 2015 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
These men that you say prefer skinnier women? Where the hell are they at cuz as a pretty thin girl, I'm always being told by men that I could use a few pounds.

But it could be because I am black and black men and black culture idealize women with curves.

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posted August 22, 2015 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes)

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posted August 22, 2015 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
True, all men have their tastes and its absolutely nothing wrong with that. I`ve just been around thin lovers for way too long that i have almost convinced myself that the curve lovers is just a dream, lol. Haha. My venus is in leo and my mars is in Libra. Why do you ask?

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posted August 22, 2015 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
Hahahaha we should switch places then lol.

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posted August 22, 2015 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
thank you for posting, SL

Spain, Romania and Columbia just made her a little thinner.

Many of them made her uglier (in my eyes)

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I was quite proud of these countries, LeeLoo!! Personally what I saw in this experiment was not the "ideal" body type, but the degree of celebration of the fact that body types come in every shape and every size.

posted August 22, 2015 04:54 PM            

First an foremost, at least to me, is personality and a sort of attraction that seems like an energy rather than anything observable.
With that, I've lived with a woman who was 215 pounds (she carried it VERY well!) all the way down to one woman that I remember was BARELY 100 pounds.
Big breasts, little breasts, 5 foot 1, up to 5 foot 10 in height.

My point is that attraction goes beyond all of this anyway. I have a wandering eye, but it in NO WAY means that I want to or would have any sexual contact. It's just looking.

posted August 22, 2015 05:01 PM            

Yeah.

I like your comment above.

Honestly I went through my single life believing men preferred thin women because that's what seemed to be happening all around me...thin girls getting asked out, curvy girls not as much.