posted August 22, 2015 10:22 AM            

But I just want to say that I personally LOVE and PREFER curves.
Maybe it's my virgo. Well and as we've talked earlier, my Eros is in Cancer as well. I would say that a shapely woman is my number one turn on! Absolutely, no doubt whatsoever. I like curves, and some flesh on those bones.
Cancer has seemed to play a very significant role in my love life, as well as Libra. Not exclusively, but prominently.

posted August 22, 2015 10:24 AM            

And what do you mean by "curvy"? Do you mean hips and waist? There are several different body types out there its hard to describe it.

posted August 22, 2015 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Venus in Cancer loves curves, as I can vouch for personally. I imagine other Cancer placements as well.

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posted August 22, 2015 10:33 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
LOL I'm not trying to make any personal comments.

But I just want to say that I personally LOVE and PREFER curves.
Maybe it's my virgo. Well and as we've talked earlier, my Eros is in Cancer as well. I would say that a shapely woman is my number one turn on! Absolutely, no doubt whatsoever. I like curves, and some flesh on those bones.
Cancer has seemed to play a very significant role in my love life, as well as Libra. Not exclusively, but prominently.

But then if I were to talk to her and her attitude sucks, etc, then it's gone again. LOL

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Why aren`t guys like you around me?? damn. Haha. But virgos?? i thought they like fit types..

posted August 22, 2015 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:

Why aren`t guys like you around me?? damn. Haha. But virgos?? i thought they like fit types..

Is jupiter making any aspects to your moon or venus?

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posted August 22, 2015 10:43 AM            

I am thin for brazilian standards, but curvy for americans/europeans. I like to be BIG on the right places. I go to the gym daily and I follow a diet by a sports nutritionist. I actually enjoy going to the gym and eating the exact same thing everyday. I blame this on my moon in virgo.

posted August 22, 2015 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:

Why aren`t guys like you around me?? damn. Haha. But virgos?? i thought they like fit types..

Is jupiter making any aspects to your moon or venus?

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I think Virgos won't care so much about the physical shape as they will about if you're wearing nice perfume, clothes and make yourself look pretty in a natural and simple way. At least that's what happened to me with a guy with Mars in Virgo.

posted August 22, 2015 11:10 AM            

I wonder if something else is going on and you believe it's that.
You could intimidate them. (?)
They are insecure about not feeling sexually able to be enough or things of that nature. (?)

posted August 22, 2015 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
In my opinion, most men prefer women with curves. A lot of them. But are we talking curvy or are we talking fat?

I am thin for brazilian standards, but curvy for americans/europeans. I like to be BIG on the right places. I go to the gym daily and I follow a diet by a sports nutritionist. I actually enjoy going to the gym and eating the exact same thing everyday. I blame this on my moon in virgo.

For men, I actually don't like muscles. I like thin (but fit) guys.

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This is my body and what i meant with curves– https://www.flickr.com/photos/106526535@N06/20779539422/in/datetaken/

posted August 22, 2015 11:22 AM            

I personally prefer women with curves. I have Pisces Venus in 5H,Aqua Mars in 4H, Venus/Jupiter and Mars/Jupiter. My friend who has Cancer Venus prefers women with huge breasts. I do know couple of guys who prefer “skinny” women, they have Gem Mars/Gem Venus and Virgo Mars/Scorpio Venus.

posted August 22, 2015 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
This is my body and what i meant with curves– https://www.flickr.com/photos/106526535@N06/20779539422/in/datetaken/

I am not skinny curvy but more fleshy curvy and i wish guys around me would like that a bit more.

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posted August 22, 2015 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I agree. I think most do prefer it.

I wonder if something else is going on and you believe it's that.
You could intimidate them. (?)
They are insecure about not feeling sexually able to be enough or things of that nature. (?)

Just throwing things out there!

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posted August 22, 2015 11:39 AM            

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I dont know but all their other girls look the same bodywise. But I have seen men be attracted to me but never actually doing anything about it.

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It's only a very minor guess but it seems possible that they just get intimidated. In the second picture you look strong and confident to me at least.
It could be a lot of things concerning vibes given off including things pertaining to sex and commitment. Whatever it is I wouldn't worry about your physical attractiveness.
You just may have to be more direct with men that you're interested in. (Maybe you are. These are things I don't know) I just get the feeling that there is doubt somewhere within them or questioning themselves to where they need a clearer opening to make a move.
Just throwing things out there!

posted August 22, 2015 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
You’re very sexy!!

I personally prefer women with curves. I have Pisces Venus in 5H,Aqua Mars in 4H, Venus/Jupiter and Mars/Jupiter. My friend who has Cancer Venus prefers women with huge breasts. I do know couple of guys who prefer “skinny” women, they have Gem Mars/Gem Venus and Virgo Mars/Scorpio Venus.

In my opinion, you have a great body, there is no need to idealise other women.

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posted August 22, 2015 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
You look great! Please stop with this non-sense, lol. Plenty of women would love to have your body.

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posted August 22, 2015 12:30 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
It's only a very minor guess but it seems possible that they just get intimidated. In the second picture you look strong and confident to me at least.
It could be a lot of things concerning vibes given off including things pertaining to sex and commitment. Whatever it is I wouldn't worry about your physical attractiveness.
You just may have to be more direct with men that you're interested in. (Maybe you are. These are things I don't know) I just get the feeling that there is doubt somewhere within them or questioning themselves to where they need a clearer opening to make a move.
Just throwing things out there!

Nice name on the account by the way. LOL

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I tend to be shy and reserved around a man i am attracted to. Maybe because of that i might give out a cold vibe or something? Do you understand when a woman is attracted to you but is not of the direct kind but goes more into shyness and reservedness or would you have mistaken her shyness and reservedness with coldness?

posted August 22, 2015 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:

I tend to be shy and reserved around a man i am attracted to. Maybe because of that i might give out a cold vibe or something? Do you understand when a woman is attracted to you but is not of the direct kind but goes more into shyness and reservedness or would you have mistaken her shyness and reservedness with coldness?

Haha and thanks x) so not Libra of me that user name haha.

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I think I'm FAIRLY good at knowing the difference, personally. .

I think that's a very good possibility as contributing to your experiences! You may come off cold and standoffish. I do! I look angry a lot. LOL I'm simply thinking though.

Do you have any strong pluto/scorpio/8th or even Mercury/Virgo influence? I've noticed that trait with both. Or what house is your Libra, etc? Is it below the horizon and possibly hidden? (I forget your asc)

posted August 22, 2015 02:22 PM            

You're a hottie. Just tell those un-appreciators to get stuffed. Don't change to suit someone's questionable tastes, which could change later anyway.

Just decide -- with fierceness -- that you are only going to give any dating time/attention to someone who can appreciate you as you are. Then, just see what happens. Don't waver at all. You might have to say 'no' to a few first ... Hold the line on it. This is the kind of strength a real man will appreciate in addition to everything else you've mentioned.

Then it will be irrelevant what astrological particulars are in his chart. They'll fit you and be compatible -- promise.

My wife did this in terms of respect because she got tired of dating jerks that didn't respect her. Once she made the decision, I showed up, and we've been happy together ever since.

posted August 22, 2015 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I think I'm FAIRLY good at knowing the difference, personally. .

I think that's a very good possibility as contributing to your experiences! You may come off cold and standoffish. I do! I look angry a lot. LOL I'm simply thinking though.

Do you have any strong pluto/scorpio/8th or even Mercury/Virgo influence? I've noticed that trait with both. Or what house is your Libra, etc? Is it below the horizon and possibly hidden? (I forget your asc)

I don't think it's a lack of attractiveness, but being attractive may play into it in fact. If they're good looking and yet shy, it almost doesn't make sense to others and therefore they automatically believe that the person is stuck up.
I ran into this recently actually when a coworkers very attractive daughter, who works at a bar (a laid back place) was talking to us about battling depression and anxiety. We were stunned! She is young, attractive, very friendly, she's smart and responsible. It just didn't make sense, but you never know from looking at someone.
One only assumes. Could be your problem!
You might need to put yourself out there. Let that cardinal, social Libra side work her charm.

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