posted September 04, 2015 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I tried to tell her what I felt...she started to turn on me, so I stopped. I knew all I could do was try to be there for her to help her deal with whatever was about to happen to her.
Her mind was made up.

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I knew a woman who was very similar to this, perhaps even worse, but she had no Pisces. She had a lot of Scorpio in her chart, though (and was a Libra sun). She RADICALLY changed for him, it was like she became a pod person in a way, a complete stranger. She went from independent to submissive, she loved her dog above all but was going to give her dog to the pound where he'd probably be put down because her sweetums didn't like dogs (and she had her dog for years, she only knew him well for months), and she finally did find someone near the time limit he gave her at which point I heard she was actually in tears thinking she wouldn't find anyone before the due date he'd given her. All her unicorns and everything else she loved and decorated her room with came down and her room became HIS room.

I don't get it and it terrifies me. And he wasn't rich or good looking or charming (he was actually infuriating in his smug superiority complex) and at the time he was even out of a job so she was supporting him as well (and he moved into her home) as being his ***** living according to his whims and rules. Whatever caused it about everyone who knew her said he was bad news and he'd order her not to be around them...she couldn't admit she was under his control so she'd invent reasons to get rid of them as he bid (hey, if she'd give up her dog then her friends were even easier).

Of course other women do this, as you well know, but I NEVER expected it of her, of all people!

I went to assess the sitch myself and told her the same as her other friends and she rewrote our entire personal history in a psychotic way and said I was just jealous and trying to destroy her happiness and didn't need me. It was frightening and she's dead to me now (and I suppose I am to her), and I do mean that somewhat literally, it's like she's a completely different person--a stranger living in her body. Frankly, I think heroin wouldn't have damaged her so badly.

If you've seen the series Humans where the android Mia was "wiped" and just a regular android and the other free willed androids said Mia was dead and said to "take it" (the android body before them that had no memory of being Mia), I had an idea how they felt and how disturbing it was. (Found the scene here, though it probably won't be up for long.)

That was so frightening that I gave my BFF (and another friend) written permission to "deprogram" me if I ever did something that insane, and that includes authorizing my own abduction (by them though they can have help as long as one of them is always present) to take me somewhere for it. Since it would be foolish to tell me how they'd go about it I just gave suggestions (and included "try magic, just in case I'm under some kind of spell" as the brain doing that is mysterious to me) as I don't want to be able to prepare my defenses should I become a pod person of love (who would presumably remember and worry about these arrangements). My own suggestions were creative and doable enough and to think both of them have Aquarius suns who are very creative (and the Russian American is tough as nails and is related to professional criminals) and my BFF combines the most creative aspects of Aquarius & Pisces to come up with fiendishly diabolical plans to dissuade her tormentors, and if she (with our other friend's help) turned that genius onto me (especially after I briefed them on how to take me if I became such a pod person) I'm sure they could manage it.

posted September 04, 2015 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I know in vedic virgo rising is supposed to be like the worst rising. I kind of feel that way. No one ever clearly understands what I am trying to say and I just get overlooked most of the time

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posted September 05, 2015 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
What do you call a drummer who just broke up with his girlfriend? Homeless.

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... He should have been all about that bass, bout that bass,
no tre ( trou ) ble.

posted September 05, 2015 10:37 PM            

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what is the most mysterious sign in your opinion

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People with - especially their big 3 in the 4th, 8th or 12th houses.

My Sun's in the 4th, Moon's in the 8th and I'm intensely private. That can come off as 'mysterious' i guess, to people I don't know well.

posted September 05, 2015 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:

If you've seen the series Humans where the android Mia was "wiped" and just a regular android and the other free willed androids said Mia was dead and said to "take it" (the android body before them that had no memory of being Mia), I had an idea how they felt and how disturbing it was. (Found the scene here, though it probably won't be up for long.)

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PixieJane, wow!.. I watched Humans last night ( only one episode then I went back to a show on which I did not have to think on, just trash ) .. lmfao, funny thing is I literally picked that out of the IMDB options that had arisen from originally when a friend prior asked if I watched Interstellar.. since I was in no mood for a movie I chose Humans.
When she said " Leo... "
I have never seen something like this, and I adore how it is taking place in an environment where I can slightly have a minute to think of language, culture, and heck everything else! They get RIGHT to the point ( hope they can continue with this, will be hard after first episode ).
P.S. I will eventually get back to what you wrote on MTS.

posted September 05, 2015 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I knew a woman who was very similar to this, perhaps even worse, but she had no Pisces. She had a lot of Scorpio in her chart, though (and was a Libra sun). She RADICALLY changed for him, it was like she became a pod person in a way, a complete stranger. She went from independent to submissive, she loved her dog above all but was going to give her dog to the pound where he'd probably be put down because her sweetums didn't like dogs (and she had her dog for years, she only knew him well for months), and she finally did find someone near the time limit he gave her at which point I heard she was actually in tears thinking she wouldn't find anyone before the due date he'd given her. All her unicorns and everything else she loved and decorated her room with came down and her room became HIS room.

I don't get it and it terrifies me. And he wasn't rich or good looking or charming (he was actually infuriating in his smug superiority complex) and at the time he was even out of a job so she was supporting him as well (and he moved into her home) as being his ***** living according to his whims and rules. Whatever caused it about everyone who knew her said he was bad news and he'd order her not to be around them...she couldn't admit she was under his control so she'd invent reasons to get rid of them as he bid (hey, if she'd give up her dog then her friends were even easier).

Of course other women do this, as you well know, but I NEVER expected it of her, of all people!

I went to assess the sitch myself and told her the same as her other friends and she rewrote our entire personal history in a psychotic way and said I was just jealous and trying to destroy her happiness and didn't need me. It was frightening and she's dead to me now (and I suppose I am to her), and I do mean that somewhat literally, it's like she's a completely different person--a stranger living in her body. Frankly, I think heroin wouldn't have damaged her so badly.

If you've seen the series Humans where the android Mia was "wiped" and just a regular android and the other free willed androids said Mia was dead and said to "take it" (the android body before them that had no memory of being Mia), I had an idea how they felt and how disturbing it was. (Found the scene here, though it probably won't be up for long.)

That was so frightening that I gave my BFF (and another friend) written permission to "deprogram" me if I ever did something that insane, and that includes authorizing my own abduction (by them though they can have help as long as one of them is always present) to take me somewhere for it. Since it would be foolish to tell me how they'd go about it I just gave suggestions (and included "try magic, just in case I'm under some kind of spell" as the brain doing that is mysterious to me) as I don't want to be able to prepare my defenses should I become a pod person of love (who would presumably remember and worry about these arrangements). My own suggestions were creative and doable enough and to think both of them have Aquarius suns who are very creative (and the Russian American is tough as nails and is related to professional criminals) and my BFF combines the most creative aspects of Aquarius & Pisces to come up with fiendishly diabolical plans to dissuade her tormentors, and if she (with our other friend's help) turned that genius onto me (especially after I briefed them on how to take me if I became such a pod person) I'm sure they could manage it.

If my giving them written permission for that with suggestions sounds strange, well that just goes to show how badly seeing that Libra with Scorpio stellium change like that terrified me...if it could happen to her then it's conceivable it could happen to me (and I've read some scary articles on neurochemistry related to this this is pretty damn frightening and how love chemicals in the brain can induce a condition very similar to Stockholm Syndrome). Heh, remembering everything I suggested I could become quite paranoid if I ever become a pod person for love, but from my current perspective I'd already be insane (and hope to gods they succeeded in rescuing me from myself and my malfunctioning brain)...

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posted September 05, 2015 11:56 PM            

Scorpio
Virgo
Capricorn
Pisces

in no particular order. I feel Scorpio and Pisces are water, so they are ever changing and VERY hard to pin down their core traits.. Virgo and Capricorn are Earth, but we are very cautious as to what we show and display to others. Both signs are about control over matter(Earth) and self, so they restrain themselves very often in interactions with others and when underdeveloped, we are closed off from ourselves as well. I have read that Saturn, censors, I have a Saturn-Sun opposition. I am a 8th House Virgo Sun with Capricorn Rising and Neptune/Uranus in first house. I also have aspects from my Moon to Pluto and Sun to Pluto. I have been told I am uber mysterious and closed off.

posted September 07, 2015 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Very private...even when I'm public.

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