posted October 25, 2015 06:23 AM            

I am Venus in Pisces - it's always more about the connection going on. I'm more about massages and comfort.

posted October 25, 2015 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:

I am Venus in Pisces - it's always more about the connection going on. I'm more about massages and comfort.

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That's me too.
Touching, teasing with the erogenous zones. Speaking with the eyes, if that makes sense. Anyway, you know what I mean. Being mutable Venus/mars, I adapt to the situation.

Flirting is through the mind. Fun conversation, playful sarcasm, reveal little bits of personal information. I listen very carefully and stay focused on them and what they are saying even in a room full of people. Subtly make them feel that they have me engulfed with their mind and their words. Build a connection. Confidence, eye contact, personality, presence, good listener. I guess I put a lot of work into building things up so that later, seduction is easy. LOL I don't know how to explain properly. Maybe it's even elusive to me how it happens. (Virgo Venus/mars 12th)

posted October 25, 2015 08:35 AM            

Hmm, I flirt, mostly with smiles and eyes. A little lopsided smile, raised eyebrow and side-way glances.

Usually it stops at that. It only escalates to hardcore stuff in an established relationship. But I don't really "seduce". From what I've seen, I think doing that takes control, self restraint and the ability to build up the tension for the right moment and let it blow up to a spectacular climax. I'm generally too impatient, aggressive and eager to be "seductive". Like this morning when my s.o gave me compliments on my physical appearance, I grabbed him and snapped my teeth and said "Well you look fine yourself. Good enough to eat".

But yeah, usually I just get my prey on his back, tear his clothes off and then have my ways with him. He says that there is unique charm in my cavewoman way lol.

He has 8th house moon/mars/venus. Between the two of us, he seduces. I usually just can't resist.

posted October 25, 2015 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
12th house cap venus.

Hmm, I flirt, mostly with smiles and eyes. A little lopsided smile, raised eyebrow and side-way glances.

Usually it stops at that. It only escalates to hardcore stuff in an established relationship. But I don't really "seduce". From what I've seen, I think doing that takes control, self restraint and the ability to build up the tension for the right moment and let it blow up to a spectacular climax. I'm generally too impatient, aggressive and eager to be "seductive". Like this morning when my s.o gave me compliments on my physical appearance, I grabbed him and snapped my teeth and said "Well you look fine yourself. Good enough to eat".

But yeah, usually I just get my prey on his back, tear his clothes off and then have my ways with him. He says that there is unique charm in my cavewoman way lol.

He has 8th house moon/mars/venus. Between the two of us, he seduces. I usually just can't resist.

I'm only mellow and gentle when I'm in "dreamy loving" mode.

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posted October 25, 2015 09:53 AM            

In a relationship I am more tender and sensual than seductive or sexy/ual (is that why I've always had something with Cancerian people? Not to say they're not sexual or into seduction, but you know, the whole "nurturing", "motherly" aspect). I'm more tactile than anything else, so touching is how I "work" (did anyone mention 'massage'?), although a deep conversation will always make me feel more safe and connected to someone and hence, more attracted.

But really for me it's just a natural unfolding of events. I don't need (nor am I fond of) "artificial" things (like particular clothes, words or candles or whatever), I like keeping it simple and natural.
Call me boring, I don't care.

posted October 25, 2015 11:05 AM            

Basically I like to hug and cuddle and kiss and rub them and just feel each other and appreciate the closeness and then give head etc

posted October 25, 2015 05:32 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Both our hands were down there for some reason. Our hands grazed and so I just grabbed her hand and held it

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posted October 25, 2015 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I am 50% Capricorn! You come to ME!! *glares at you suspiciously*

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posted October 25, 2015 11:23 PM            

I usually don't "seduce." If I'm interested in you I'll be your friend and talk to you a lot, pay you a lot of attention, make you laugh.

If it's clearly just sex, you better be the one who wants it because I can do with or without sex. I mean I am a red blooded human being but It's low on my list of priorities.

If the person actually brings up sex (which is literally always the case because like I said, it is never a priority) I will tell him all about my closet kinkiness (Aquarius eighth house lol) and when we're actually together I seduce by touching and flashing the eyes lol.

posted October 26, 2015 12:57 AM            

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I use humor and wits.

posted October 26, 2015 08:45 AM            

Now, if they show interest first and I like them back, I usually act friendly, like friends. Although I laugh and smile a lot. I'll put all my focus on them. I get big eyes, ok not creepy stalker eyes, lol, but I'm a Pisces so I like to show how pretty my blue eyes are. I also touch the guy's arm a lot too. That's about it honestly, nothing too exciting despite the fact I'm an Aries Venus/Mars.

posted October 26, 2015 09:27 AM            

Sag Venus conjunct Neptune

posted October 26, 2015 11:12 AM            

Guess my Venus

posted October 26, 2015 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I am 50% Capricorn! You come to ME!!

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Haha. Yeah, stuff like that will get me redline hot. Guess my Cap Desc. checks out.

I don't really have a particular style of flirting, but according to multiple sources, if I think a guy is attractive I put out some sort of sexual "aura" or "vibe". I'm not sure exactly what they mean, but I've heard it enough times to know it must be true.

-I have Sun, Venus, Mars, and Mercury in my 12th house.
-I have Chart Ruler Moon conj. Pluto and they both square my Sun and Venus tightly.
-All 4 of those in my Sun-Venus square Moon-Pluto are ruled by Mercury, and my Mercury is in my 12th in a 0° grand trine with my Scorpio BMLilith and my Pisces Eros.

So, I think all of that makes me flirt unconciously. If I think someone is attractive, I guess my subconcious just tries to flirt telepathically or something. If the person picks up on my telepathic "vibe", then my mind switches to overt action.

That happened with my husband when we met. I wasn't intentionally flirting with him, but I was undressing him in my mind. He must have picked up on it, because later that evening when we said goodnight, I was standing in my doorway, and he gave me this sensual goodnight kiss on my neck.

On.My.Neck.

That's My Erogenous Zone Prime Target Number One! I just looked at him stunned, then yanked him inside the door, slammed his back against the wall, then NSFW.

So, apparently, I only have 2 modes, 'Vague Unconscious Telepathic Projection' and 'Wall Slam'.

posted October 26, 2015 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Funny im a libra Venus and I could care less about frills and the perfect setting...probably because of venus conjunct Pluto but if i feel a connection and really want someone, i just want to get down to business right then.

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