posted November 04, 2015 07:57 AM            

This energy throws me for a loop and unsettles me. When the moon is transiting in Cancer, I feel like my somewhat orderly inner space is being subjected to an earthquake that shakes everything down from the walls and shelves and forces me to realize I'm not as strong as I had thought.

While I have had some phenomenal experiences with Cancer sun people (waves to venus2tinkerbell)...some of my worst experiences have been with Cancer suns. Furthermore, predictably, this is the sign where any planet in that sign is probably going to deeply unsettle me at some point. I can like and respect the person very much, but still be unsettled.

Cancer occupies my 12H, so planets that fall there can mystify me. At the same time they will ping my 8H Pisces moon. It's like someone tapping you on the shoulder, and you turn, and no one's there. I feel a lot but can't grasp what it is.

Cancer in the mid degrees forms a cardinal grand cross with my Capricorn sun, Aries Jupiter, and Libra Pluto. Maybe that's all I needed to say, right from the beginning.

Plus: all other signs are represented rather strongly in my chart, and if I want to tap into them, I have some connection to that energy from within. That's not really the case with Cancer...for some reason it feels almost alien to me.

My NN is in the 4th house so that could be another reason I struggle with it. And my draconic moon is in Cancer (but conjunct my tropical Saturn.) I feel like I have a lot of learning to do here. So I'm focusing on it. (And sorry for the length.)

I don't mean to invite a sign bashing extravaganza, just wondering if there is any one sign in particular that you consistently have trouble with?

Why the struggle?

Do you feel that you could grow by overcoming those difficulties?

posted November 04, 2015 01:16 PM            

With some exceptions, such as LeeLoo.
Leo moon, mercury, Venus, mars, and from what I've experienced, Pluto.
Sun is ok. I get along with them. Maybe it's energy is more naturally expressed, I suppose.
The others though. Ugh, I could kick them into next week.
I know you're Leo asc and you're one of two that I know of. Both I like!

Why?
I'm not sure. My Saturn is there so maybe that's it. I'm pretty feisty myself so maybe we just bang heads. To me they come across as too righteous and just, buttholes I guess that think that they can do no wrong. What they think is THE only way there is to think. (Just my perception that is) Horrible when given authority.

posted November 04, 2015 01:29 PM            

I have my MC in Pisces, however, I can't handle the energy of the sign very well, mostly because it is a dreamy sign and it is prone to illusion and irrationality. My Venus opposes my MC, so that could count for it, too.

I have encountered quite a few Pisces suns and Moons in my life. For the most part, I appreciate their creative qualities and their tendency to just love, however, I just can't seem to understand them--what they're really thinking, who they really are, and why they seem to always allow themselves to get lost in their own delusions.

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posted November 04, 2015 02:24 PM            

I Imagine Scorpio's and Capricorns probably think that the worst parts about me are my Leo Sun,Mercury and Midheaven.I think a lot of people would be wrong if they thought that though.I will admit My Leo Placements can be completely pig headed and loud but they aren't the planets of mine that you should watch out for.In my opinion My Moon in Virgo and Venus in Cancer are the really cold blooded planets of mine that would never forgive an enemies faux pas.My Leo Planets and Taurus Mars can certainly hold a grudge however I think that they would let something go quicker than my Moon or Venus would.

posted November 04, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
For me, I think it's Pisces.

I have my MC in Pisces, however, I can't handle the energy of the sign very well, mostly because it is a dreamy sign and it is prone to illusion and irrationality. My Venus opposes my MC, so that could count for it, too.

I have encountered quite a few Pisces suns and Moons in my life. For the most part, I appreciate their creative qualities and their tendency to just love, however, I just can't seem to understand them--what they're really thinking, who they really are, and why they seem to always allow themselves to get lost in their own delusions.

Being a Virgo mercury, I like to figure things out. The sign itself is just too vague for me. Sometimes, I even wish I didn't have Pisces MC because I really do not know what career I want. When I do, I'm confused as to how to get there.

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This is very interesting. What aspects does your Mercury in Virgo make to the Pisces Mid-heaven(if any)?

I have a conjunction of Mercury to the Mid-heaven and I can't quite settle into doing one thing or know where I am headed.

posted November 04, 2015 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is very interesting. What aspects does your Mercury in Virgo make to the Pisces Mid-heaven(if any)?

I have a conjunction of Mercury to the Mid-heaven and I can't quite settle into doing one thing or know where I am headed.

I am often confused as to where to go actually: Too many options and "what ifs?" etc.

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My Mercury actually doesn't aspect my MC. It's conjunct my Venus, but too far to oppose my MC.

I totally agree with the too many options thing. Like it seems there's always some other thing more interesting than I had in mind, so I go after it. Then another more interesting thing comes up, and I go after it again until it becomes an endless cycle -_-

posted November 04, 2015 04:09 PM            

Sag is another mysterious one. They wear me out mentally. Just something about their talkative, cheery dont stop nature just doesnt go well with me. Ive also found them to be very judgemental and unaccepting of other peoples values and viewpoints, and I just cant get behind how they get super hyped up over something them forget it and move on 2 hours later.

posted November 04, 2015 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Leo... or just all the fire signs actually... But for some reason especially leo. I just... don't get leos. They are so out there. They make grand sweeping gestures without much emotional investment. Ive never gotten close to leo women or even had a leo man on my dating radar. I have nothing in leo. Leo is my 12th house cusp maybe that is why they are so unknown to me.

Sag is another mysterious one. They wear me out mentally. Just something about their talkative, cheery dont stop nature just doesnt go well with me. Ive also found them to be very judgemental and unaccepting of other peoples values and viewpoints, and I just cant get behind how they get super hyped up over something them forget it and move on 2 hours later.

Also I HATE libra men. Libra placements are the only one that I will just say no to without a chance.

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I had a good think on this and I actually agree with you somewhat.

Libras I find to be TOO diplomatic and "sweet" sometimes...like take my side and be passionate about it dammit! Not to say they can't be passionate, but sometimes you just want someone in your corner without being objective ya know?

Sags can be fun and easy going but I find some of them difficult to talk to because they tend to dismiss you if you "bore them with details" or take too long to tell a story. They can also be a little blase about important issues - too much optimism?

Leos I don't mind all that much actually, I find them kinda funny. When they start tooting their own horns I just roll my eyes and giggle. They can be a bit selfish though...

Cancers I'm still trying to decide. I'm on the fence about this energy. I just find me going like ???????? when I'm around them but as long as you're gentle with them and don't push them too much they're ok.

posted November 04, 2015 06:44 PM            

I find Pisces / Cancer NEVER tells the straight up facts of a situation. The people I knew always twisted it to their favor, or they were the victim, or straight up lied out of insecurity. Even when called out on it they refused to admit anything, and Im like "Is losing friendships because people can't trust you really worth all of that????"

I don't like other Aries most of the time or Leos! Ugh, I don't like Leos. I'm sure it's something else along with that but still.. they have been some of the most selfish people towards me when I've gone out of my way because I cared about them. Maybe it's the fixed quality bc Scorpio can be that way towards me too, but I get along really really well with Taurus and Aquarius, so...maybe because those signs are balanced? 😊

I don't like the Aries I know because they act very presumptuous and all knowing about everything including people and they love everybody worshipping their opinion when it's actually sh.t and incorrect. YES I'm an Aries, it's true, but unless you make me mad I honestly feel and act way more Taurean.

posted November 04, 2015 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessinworld:
all of them

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Pretty much... lol.

Leo takes the cake though.

They're just the anti-thesis of Scorpio, so there's a natural annoyance/frustration going on, a lot of the time.

Same for Aquarius, but interestingly I enjoy Aqua Suns (and Mercuries <3) a LOT more than Leo Suns (& Mercuries) [My Saturn is in Aqua.]

What I dislike most about Leo energy is how self-centered and grandiose it is about the self, and their over-the-top exuberance, at times. That's just not my thing...

Although for some bizarre reason, I've been getting involved with quite a few Leo ascendants (in one way or another) these past few years. It's quite odd. (My Saturn falls in their 7H usually... A pattern? Something I need to learn about relationships from them?)

posted November 04, 2015 07:48 PM            

I have and empty 6th and 12th house (Aries and Libra respectively). The only cardnal I have is Venus in Cancer conjunct NN, so early Libra is square the nodes and the sign ruler. I'd think Gemini Sun and Mercury would help... Don't know. Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. Interestingly enough, Mom was Aries, Dad was Libra.

posted November 05, 2015 02:04 AM            

Even other placements in Libra like Moon or Mars. But mostly Libra suns. They seem so fake and..idk, contrived.

Libra squares me as a Capricorn. I also have issues with Aries at first but then we get along after the initial headbutting.

Oh yeah, cant forget GEMINI. Sooo annoying, they seem to lie a lot. The men are the worst!

Cant really stand most Virgo women, either. Fellow Capricorns also tend to **** me off.

posted November 05, 2015 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
My Mercury actually doesn't aspect my MC. It's conjunct my Venus, but too far to oppose my MC.

I totally agree with the too many options thing. Like it seems there's always some other thing more interesting than I had in mind, so I go after it. Then another more interesting thing comes up, and I go after it again until it becomes an endless cycle -_-

What sign is your Mercury?

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A question

Do you conclude that two planets reacting with a common planet/point but not necessarily in aspect to each other, are in an indirect relationship with each other?

This because of the common relationship with that planet/point i.e

Moon in Cancer 12 Deg
Mid-heaven Cancer 18 Deg
Mars in Libra 24 Deg

Moon conjuncts Mid-heaven(6 Deg orb)
Mid-heaven squares Mars(6 Deg orb)

The common point here is the Mid-heaven. So I would say that Moon-Mars are interacting through the common factor; the Mid-heaven.

In the same breath; your Mercury conjuncts Venus. Venus opposes the MC. And therefore by the virtue of the relationship that Venus and Mercury have to the common sensitive angle/point(MC),they interact with each other?

So your Mercury would also oppose the MC...Is it a stretch?

My Mercury is in Cap BTW.

posted November 05, 2015 07:00 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I had a good think on this and I actually agree with you somewhat.

Libras I find to be TOO diplomatic and "sweet" sometimes...like take my side and be passionate about it dammit! Not to say they can't be passionate, but sometimes you just want someone in your corner without being objective ya know?

Sags can be fun and easy going but I find some of them difficult to talk to because they tend to dismiss you if you "bore them with details" or take too long to tell a story. They can also be a little blase about important issues - too much optimism?

Leos I don't mind all that much actually, I find them kinda funny. When they start tooting their own horns I just roll my eyes and giggle. They can be a bit selfish though...

Cancers I'm still trying to decide. I'm on the fence about this energy. I just find me going like ???????? when I'm around them but as long as you're gentle with them and don't push them too much they're ok.

Scorpios I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. So passionate, so emotive, so strong.

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That is exactly why I hated dating a libra, he was super scorpionic but normally he would just be really easygoing and please everyone, it just... I dont know. Id rather have someone that is opinionated and follows his own path even if it offends people, because then if you are part of his path he will defend you.

OMG yeah like if I had a bad day he would be like "weeeelllll you were technically in the wrong here... the other person has more of a say in the matter etc etc" And Im just like ......

posted November 05, 2015 07:21 AM            

Why?
Astrologically, I'm an Aries/Sag, so in theory Leo placements should work pretty well, right? Unfortunately, my South Node is in Leo and my Mars is opposite Leo in Aquarius. Depending on the degrees, many Leo placements also set off a T-square with my natal Mercury in Taurus and Pluto in Scorpio.

On a more personal note, I often feel like the Leo Ascendants/Moons that I know just suck the life out of me (especially the Moon). They need so much constant focus and attention that I - as an Aries Sun/Sag Moon/Aqua Mars - am just not prepared to give, that I start to become resentful after a while. I need time to be alone and/or have fun in a group without always needing to think about feeding someone's ego.