posted November 06, 2015 08:35 AM            

Even though I'm a hopeless romantic dreamer, I love being single and doing me

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted November 06, 2015 09:59 AM            

Leo, Libra and Scorpio influence doesn't really like being single. (That's cause they rule houses 5, 7 and 8 - the "romantic" houses.)
They can be "okay" being single but they'll seldom be as fulfilled single as when they are in a relationship.

The most neutral ones are Gem, Virgo, Cap, and Aqua.

Sag tends to prefer single life.

posted November 06, 2015 11:24 AM              

Gemini seems to think they want a relationship but may actually just want constant attention...I do like Geminis but they've been the most vulnerable to bad relationships because of their tolerance for bad behavior.

Cancer men I've known / observed have been highly promiscuous but ultimately I believe they like being in a relationship more than single. They're natural nesters.

Leos... I think Leos can go either way, honestly.

Virgos I would think would like being in a relationship better because that's someone who needs their constant help or something, but I also have observed them to be highly promiscuous. Maybe they too can go either way?

Libra likes to play the field, they might like someone but they're more indecisive so it takes longer to wrap that up.

Scorpio does fine being single, and I would think they prefer it because many, many relationships are superficial (to them?) and they don't like getting attached and then having that be over, and not by their choosing.

Sagittarius is way fine being single and that probably suits them better. I think this is a sign you have to be best friends with first before they see you as a romantic option, it's another one that has a hard time letting people in....maybe even worse than Scorpio.

Capricorn. Y'know? Idk. Capricorn would be in a relationship because that's next on their list, but does that mean they LIKE being in a relationship?

Aquarius...I think Aquarius needs a relationship. They're super people oriented but they give a lot to other people in all these different ways that it can be draining, they need a rock who will kind of protect them.

Pisces....Pisces likes being single. All the Pisces I've known have complained they don't have enough space. They're hard to understand and seem to expect other people to read their minds (which is sort of odd because they're also great communicators and very smart). Ultimately I think they like being single. They still believe in love but they're built to be patient and just go with the flow rather than having to compromise with someone else. With them it's like "If it works easy I'm in," but they won't force anything like a lot of other people do.

I personally enjoy being single more than being in a relationship. I'm happy in a relationship at first, but long-term NO. Not so far. I have three Aries placements and Gemini ASC, Mars in Gemini, Jupiter in Gemini. To be honest I think my Taurus moon just makes me even more selfish. *Shrug*

posted November 06, 2015 11:45 AM            

OMG i hate being single!!!!!! but i also love being single and being free uranus square moon natal over here.

moon in aries in the 7th house square 5 ruler uranus in the 4th house.

posted November 06, 2015 03:37 PM            

Capricorn loves being single
Cancer loves being in a relationship

Sagittarius loves being in a relationship
Gemini loves being single

Scorpio loves being single
Taurus loves being in a relationship(actually this is a tricky one !)

Leo loves being single
Aquarius believe it or not , loves being in a relationship (this is a tough one also)

posted November 06, 2015 03:38 PM            

I'm a Libra dominant

posted November 06, 2015 06:17 PM            

My packed 5H Sag is probably why I appreciate being single (but still want my friends)...and may also have something to do with why any new relationships will almost certainly involve long distance travel near or even at the very start.

posted November 06, 2015 06:57 PM            

Aries, the trigger being in relationship is winning the other person.

Taurus, give me a comfy world that I need? I'll marry you.

Gemini, actually much HAPPIER in the relationship rather than being single.

Cancer, they love nurturing the loved one and receiving them back. And they can found it in the relationship.

Leo, as long as there are some people give them the attention they need, single is fine and better if the relationship can not give them the attention they need.

Virgo, family picture is perfect so they need one.

Libra, single is the lonely world, depend so much in the relationship.

Scorpio, if they are single, probably because they get hurt before and need some times.

Sagittarius, will wait until finding someone who can give them some freedom they need.

Capricorn, seems like a duty call. lol.

Aquarius, never see being single is the saddest thing in the world. Happy being single, happy being in relationship.

Pisces, being single is sad. Being in relationship? Escaping to their own fantasy world.

posted November 06, 2015 08:09 PM              

Taurus: Wants to have a family and white picket fence already

Gemini: I think they like companionship but never feel ready for the responsibility of a real relationship

Cancer: Serial monogamist. Like taurus, just wants a domesticated life already hurry up!

Leo: Wants to be single and party

Virgo: A mystery to me. Most virgos Ive known were in long relationships or is a weird on off situation but I dont explicitly get the sense that they are actively seeking to be in a relatonship

Libra: NEEDS a relationship. They will actively seek it and are serial monogamists. Will date someone days after a breakup

Scorpio: NEEDS a relationship as well. Like libra, almost ever single and if they are they are on the hunt. Even if they havent moved on from the last one they ill find someone new

Sag: SINGLE. The ones that fool themselves into thinking a relationship is for them will still act single.

Cap: Another mystery. Most Ive known have been in long relationships but they dont really actively seek relationships when single. I cant really tell if they are truly blissfully happy but they dont seem to care about freedom either way.

Aqua: Want a relationship but want personal freedom too. Loners that might never talk to anyone if it wast for a relationship

posted November 06, 2015 08:25 PM            

I love being single too. I like the idea of a relationship and there are definitely benefits to it...it's nice having that security and always having someone to lean on and spend time with. But I prefer the excitement of being single. I like that there are so many possibilities for me.

posted November 06, 2015 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Aries: Prefers casual dating. Oh hey youre cute NEXT!

Taurus: Wants to have a family and white picket fence already

Gemini: I think they like companionship but never feel ready for the responsibility of a real relationship

Cancer: Serial monogamist. Like taurus, just wants a domesticated life already hurry up!

Leo: Wants to be single and party

Virgo: A mystery to me. Most virgos Ive known were in long relationships or is a weird on off situation but I dont explicitly get the sense that they are actively seeking to be in a relatonship

Libra: NEEDS a relationship. They will actively seek it and are serial monogamists. Will date someone days after a breakup

Scorpio: NEEDS a relationship as well. Like libra, almost ever single and if they are they are on the hunt. Even if they havent moved on from the last one they ill find someone new

Sag: SINGLE. The ones that fool themselves into thinking a relationship is for them will still act single.

Cap: Another mystery. Most Ive known have been in long relationships but they dont really actively seek relationships when single. I cant really tell if they are truly blissfully happy but they dont seem to care about freedom either way.

Aqua: Want a relationship but want personal freedom too. Loners that might never talk to anyone if it wast for a relationship

Pisces: Like gemini. Likes dating but not ready for responsibilities of a relationship. Sad because usually they are romantic but they also need their personal freedom. Most pisces I know seem really torn because of that.

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posted November 07, 2015 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Leo-Cancer, we have some similar energies! I am an Aries sun, Sagittarius moon, Taurus Venus, Cancer Mars and rising.

I love being single too. I like the idea of a relationship and there are definitely benefits to it...it's nice having that security and always having someone to lean on and spend time with. But I prefer the excitement of being single. I like that there are so many possibilities for me.

Strangely enough, I like the idea of being in love withOUT a relationship. Love, but not commitment. Like a wild, crazy summer fling where both people are in love with each other but it's never like "you belong to me"😈 it's weird. I guess the uncertainty makes it more exciting.

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posted November 07, 2015 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I love being in a relationship more than being single

I'm a Libra dominant

Actually I don't even need a relationship as long as I have friends and family that love me and are there for me whenever I need them, then I'm good

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posted November 07, 2015 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Ahlie! Took the words right out of my mouth. Where have you been all my life? Hahaha! Aside from always being honest, independent and freedom-loving, I don't find that I identify with the descriptions of Lunar Saggitarians. I'm outgoing and social when I want to be (which is like 1 or 2 days a week), but for the most part I'm a homebody who's very shy and reserved. It drives me crazy because I feel like I shouldn't be this way. I feel like I should be out in town strutting my 5'2 stuff and meeting different people from all over the world. But I end up staying home with family having nice dinners and watching movies and stuff. I'm also slightly emotional and warm which is uncommon for Sagg Moons. I hope I'll never be promiscuous either .. Even though I have yet to experience a relationship, I'm a one-man woman, there's no doubt about it lol.

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posted November 07, 2015 01:58 PM            

I would ideally love someone who is consistently there, almost like a best friend... That I can have sex with. lol.. But then they also leave sometimes... and there is no jealousy/control issues.

posted November 07, 2015 02:21 PM              

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Originally posted by missblyss:
I love being in love, but not in a "relationship"

I would ideally love someone who is consistently there, almost like a best friend... That I can have sex with. lol.. But then they also leave sometimes... and there is no jealousy/control issues.

I've got venus in aries mars in gemini

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posted November 07, 2015 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by jadave:
I don't like being single but relationships are too complicated and consuming...

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posted November 07, 2015 05:40 PM            

Aries: Likes a bit of a chase, and are impulsive when dating. If they like you they will get you and when they get bored of you they will drop you. Aries are so impulsive, but I've seen many Aries do very well in long-term relationships as well as being single for long periods. They can truly go both ways if they are in a good spot in their lives.

Taurus: Happy being in a long-term relationship. The more traditional the relationship, the better. They don't like surprises and are happiest in consistent situations.

Gemini: Gemini can go either way, but more often than not aim for relationships. They have an urge for someone to be with them on their journey, but they also don't want to be with someone who inhibits them. Ironically, if they do end up with someone who inhibits them they likely stay because of their partner's knowledge

Cancer: These folks have a need for love, however, they don't necessarily have a need for relationships. They dedicate their all into their relationships, but often times when a relationship goes sour they may feel better off alone. They can feel depressed and scorned when this happens and can feel that they will never love again or dedicate themselves to anyone again. However, they love things with their all, like their children and/or their pets

Leo: Leo likes to think they could go either way, but they truly have an inner need for a partner. Their inner nature needs a partner, not only to love them, but for Leo's to love as well. They have such a great capacity for warm emotions and love and a partner is a great outlet for that

Virgo: Virgo's are a bit of a contradiction. They crave a perfect partner, but they don't realize that no one is perfect. They can go quite a long time searching for a perfect partner to settle down with, yet all this time they are single. When they finally do find a "perfect" partner, because they have been single for such a long time they constantly struggle with relationship standards. They prefer and want relationships, and dream of the ideal family. Yet, getting there is easier said than done.

Libra: Libra's are so romantic to a fault. They are impulsive with love because they feel like they need to be in love. They can put themselves in relationships too quickly and end up suffering because they are too diplomatic to start conflict. They want balance, but end up sacrificing much of themselves to be in an unrealistic relationship.

Scorpio: Intensity. Scorpios can honestly go with someone or without. They are capable by themselves to get ahead, but they also have a desire to have an outlet for their intense caring feelings. They love with their whole being, but when something goes wrong beware the Scorpion sting because they can be as viscous as they are loving. It feels amazing to be have a partner for them to snap, but don't betray them because then they go back into dark thoughts and retract back into ruthless scorpions.

Sagittarius: If you have lots of Sag influences and are already a Sag sun, you are probably better off single. Always look at the full natal for clues, but more often than not Sagittarius's need freedom and they have an intense need to do whatever they want whenever they want. They don't do well with Saturn-types and will cringe at established relationship rules (pretty much the opposite of Taurus)

Capricorn: This one tends to surprise people who don't have much knowledge or background in caps. Caps actually need and very much want a relationship. The Capricorn sign isn't ruled by Saturn (Fatherly influences,long-term responsibilities and commitments) for nothing! Of course they love having a successful career and life, but family means the most to any cap dominant person. They crave someone to settle down with and to commit to. Caps are happiest when they can come home from a long day at work and see their happy spouse's face, reminding them why they work so hard.

Aquarius: Honestly, they are mix between Sagittarius and Gemini's. They can have very liberal ideas about relationships and how they should be, and are fine in a relationship or out. They go from having an intense want for a relationship to wanting total freedom to be themselves. If they do settle on a relationship, they want a partner to respect and contribute to their radical ideas and have a great mental connections. Best friends and loves are common with Aquarius.

Pisces: Pisces are like Cancer's in the sense that they have a strong need for love, but not necessarily a need for a relationship. If you are a Pisces dom or have many Pisces/Neptune influences, you are a dreamy idealist in love and it hurts very much when those dreams are squashed with a harsh reality. Pisces have a great affinity for love and love things so purely that it almost seems magical. However, they also have an affinity for the martyr/savior/victim complex and that causes much grief and suffering in relationships. Pisces can fall into unhealthy relationships easier than most, and it effects their psyche so negatively that they sometimes never want to trust again so then they become a non-relationship person. Pisces are very capable of not being in a relationship, but when they aren't in a relationship they wish they were. Once they realize that they are capable of making their own happiness single then only can Pisces truly shine in a relationship.

posted November 07, 2015 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Lostinweb:
I'm happily single!! Not the least bit sad about it , thank you very much 😆 I value freedom and autonomy more than relationships. As soon as I get into one all I can think about is getting out-- that and sex 😏 Always thought it was my Aqua Venus but maybe it's a combo Pisces sun, Sagi moon, Aqua Venus, Virgo Mars, Pisces rising.

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My opinion is that it's all of those! You have similar placements to a friend of mine. He is very much better off single. The Sag moon of yours needs to feel free and relationships have a habit of putting a damper on that. I'm an Aqua venus as well, but I am happiest in a relationship (cap dom).

posted November 07, 2015 09:40 PM            

Single: Aquarius, Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Pisces, Aries