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Topic: How to flirt with stoic capricorns?
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maggie
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posted November 08, 2015 01:53 PM
  
So there's this capricorn guy I work with, he also has mercury in capricorn, double cap! Oh my... he's funny but so stoic and cool. I need some ideas on how to flirt with him. He's so hard to read.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted November 08, 2015 02:16 PM
Capricorn men like really feminine women...IP: Logged |
maggie
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posted November 08, 2015 02:25 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Capricorn men like really feminine women...
I think he does lol, especially with his Venus in Pisces. But I have no idea how to flirt with him, believe me I tried... I just can't tell if he's flirting back.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 08, 2015 02:27 PM
Cappys HAVE to respect you. If there is no respect, there is no relationship of any sort. How to flirt? Don't be too sexual. Be sweet and someone they can respect lol ------------------
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unforgiven_soul
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posted November 08, 2015 02:30 PM
They love women with personalities, serious, sweet, funny and sexy at the same time. A clever woman will also blow their minds  You also have to check the rest of the chart. Venus in Pisces can make him seek ethereal and dreamy partners.IP: Logged |
maggie
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posted November 08, 2015 03:08 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Cappys HAVE to respect you. If there is no respect, there is no relationship of any sort. How to flirt? Don't be too sexual. Be sweet and someone they can respect lol
We butt heads a bit at work. Sometimes I ask for his opinion but didn't take it lol, there were times where he tries to give me advice unsolicited! If we disagree I usually stand my ground (not intentionally but my Taurus rising can be stubborn as hell. :P) Hope he respects me instead of hates me haha. IP: Logged |
maggie
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posted November 08, 2015 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
They love women with personalities, serious, sweet, funny and sexy at the same time. A clever woman will also blow their minds You also have to check the rest of the chart. Venus in Pisces can make him seek ethereal and dreamy partners.
He has described himself as dreamy, lazy and not ambitious, which is weird for a Cap lol. His chart:
Sun Capricorn
Moon Pisces
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
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maggie
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posted November 08, 2015 03:15 PM
Actually, I will really like to know, given his chart how is his flirting style like? How would I know if he is flirting with me?I am hopeless at such things and I haven't dated all that much. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted November 08, 2015 03:32 PM
He is lazy because he doesn't have any air planets and only one fire planet. He probably likes women who are spiritual so i can imagine talking about spiritual things like astrology would interest him.IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted November 08, 2015 03:34 PM
Mars, Venus and Moon in Pisces? Don't be surprised he describes himself as lazy, dreamy, etc. His personality and emotional life and way of acting is more Pisces than Capricorn.
The Moon can be surprisingly strong and alter the Sun's characteristics quite a bit.And the ASC...if it was in Pisces putting that stellium in the first house...it's a pitty you don't have the Time of Birth. That always frustrates me when I wan't to check synastry with someone IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted November 08, 2015 03:40 PM
Does he treat you like he likes you at all? Does he stand close, seem to radiate body heat, make steady eye contact, have a soft expression in his eyes when he's talking to you? Does he drag out conversations, as if he just wants an excuse to hang around you, not really caring what's being said? I'm a Cap sun, Pisces moon, Venus conjunct Neptune (similar to Pisces Venus.) That's how I've always been if I liked someone. It's demonstrative in a very quiet way...I would encourage the other person to talk a lot just so I could soak in their energy and revel in it... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 08, 2015 03:48 PM
MaggieCappys value CHARACTER above all else. Have integrity. They need that in any relationship, friend or otherwise. ------------------
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Mergoatsun
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posted November 08, 2015 03:55 PM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
He is lazy because he doesn't have any air planets and only one fire planet. He probably likes women who are spiritual so i can imagine talking about spiritual things like astrology would interest him.
I would advise against this. He is a Mercury Capricorn and because of this his thinking is very conservative and rational. Astrology is none of those. My advice would be to talk about his dreams and goals. Where does he picture himself being in 5 years? Did he picture his life like this as a child? ------------------
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Aqua Merc
Aqua Venus
Cap Mars
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athenegoddess
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posted November 08, 2015 03:59 PM
Um I was referring to what he likes in a woman which is spirituality.IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted November 08, 2015 04:05 PM
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Violets
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posted November 08, 2015 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
They love women with personalities, serious, sweet, funny and sexy at the same time. A clever woman will also blow their minds You also have to check the rest of the chart. Venus in Pisces can make him seek ethereal and dreamy partners.
As a Pisces Sun with Cappy Mars in my 6th house, I endorse this comment.  Although I am a female, and obviously a Pisces and not a Capricorn Sun, I'll just throw some stuff out there. I like clever, reasonably discreet "flirting". Mostly conversation that makes me laugh, or makes me think. Most Caps I know actually value a deeper level of conversation than their Sun sign descriptions would have people believe, and I believe they value wit and a down-to-Earth intelligence as well, and basic humanitarian values (this is also often understated in their Sun sign description...remember, Kahlil Gibran was a Capricorn, as well as Martin Luther King, Jr.) But I do believe that they enjoy feminine women as well. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted November 08, 2015 04:39 PM
Since his moon and his venus are both in Pisces he wants a sensitive and romantic woman. He has the danger of falling for women who need a savior though, especially with his strong cap aspects. Show him that your sensitive and want him but also capable to take care of yourself, strong Cap influenced people love independent women. Because of his strong Pisces influneces he is probably a very caring, compassionate and selfless man in love and with his emotions. He will work for you, and to make you happy. Sweet, and very feminine women also make him happy. When talking to him though keep in mind his Mercury Capricorn which makes his thinking very conservative/rational. While his Pisces influences love dreamy and sweet natures, his thinking will be against this. Talk about his goals, what he wants to accomplish in his life and how he feels about family (ALL caps are suckers for family). ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted November 08, 2015 04:52 PM
I vote he's totally a fixer and wants a woman (Moon Ven in Pisces) who molds to his expectations (Mercury in Cap). He probably won't make the first move as a Mars in Pisces, and it will probably be a lot of guessing and you feeling like you're not making progress. I notice Pisces placements love to be in an "I don't know" state which drives someone as Cardinal as myself CRAZY.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 08, 2015 04:54 PM
Be sensitive, don't hurt his feelings or be brash. He seems like he'd read into nothing (well not him but Pisces gets offended by even the slightest feeling of rejection even if that's not what you were doing)IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted November 08, 2015 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Be sensitive, don't hurt his feelings or be brash. He seems like he'd read into nothing (well not him but Pisces gets offended by even the slightest feeling of rejection even if that's not what you were doing)
Yes to both of your posts IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted November 08, 2015 05:01 PM
He has Mercury conjunct Neptune so he is not conservative in his mind whatsoever. Sorry to say.IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted November 08, 2015 05:10 PM
I don't vary TOO much in my approach to people or how I show interest, which has worked well for me.
It seems to be fairly universal that people like a genuine person. That's not to say boring but someone who seems to show GENUINE interest in them. Someone who's compliments are genuine and from the heart. Someone who's playfulness is genuine and not forced.
People of all kinds tend to like a person showing personal interest in them. Granted, there are people who are very private and etc but no matter who it is if you come across friendly, approachable, and genuine it goes a long way. It has for me. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted November 08, 2015 06:12 PM
He doesn't seem much like a stoic Capricorn to me from what you have said, especially with all of his Pisces influences. He is definitely a Pisces dom, maybe look for help with that? Pisces are very up-in-the-air, so that's probably why you're having trouble knowing how to flirt with them. ------------------
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Aqua Merc
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Violets
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posted November 08, 2015 06:59 PM
I'm just going to throw this in for fun.  Here is one awesome Capricorn guy (Jemaine Clement from Flight of the Conchords) making light fun of another Capricorn (David Bowie). Don't underestimate a Capricorn's subtle and hilarious sense of humor!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yc4efBM_9JM And one more. Sorry for the Flight of the Conchords bombardment (sorry not sorry, because they're hilarious, and a bit can be gleaned from observing Capricorns or any sign, even in the spotlight).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqZcYPEszN8 IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted November 08, 2015 07:05 PM
Im a capricorn woman with venus in pisces.Im very romantic but also very conservative so when im in love seems to be difficult to people notice it. IP: Logged |
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