posted December 02, 2015 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Let's be friends! What's your email?

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Why do you want to be friend with me? LOL. Jk. Thanks, it's a nice of you @DesiringShadows.

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Originally posted by Randall:
Ask myself or a Mod to exchange emails. DO NOT post them.

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posted December 02, 2015 03:41 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
How?

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Go to a forum that has a moderator you want to use, and on the top left hand side under the logo with lion & lamb you'll see this:

Beneath that are the names of the mod (IN the forum itself).

Right (mouse) click on your choice of moderator and select "Copy Email Address." This will copy the email address (though you won't see it).

Then go to your email account and prepare to send a new email. Paste the email within the part to "To" (that is where it's to be emailed to).

posted December 02, 2015 03:36 PM            

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My Venus in Aquarius sister was desperate to be married. Her Venus opposes Saturn.

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posted December 02, 2015 03:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
[QUOTE]My Venus in Aquarius sister was desperate to be married. Her Venus opposes Saturn.

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I can't remember the orb. Pisces Moon, descendant = 29*Virgo.

posted December 02, 2015 04:29 PM            

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I can't remember the orb.

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posted December 02, 2015 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
My Venus in Aquarius sister was desperate to be married. Her Venus opposes Saturn.

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My girlfriend was like that. She would work herself into a fit of tears talking about how badly she wanted her boyfriend to propose to her and how all she ever wanted to do was be married and have a family (at a young age to boot). He finally proposed to her this summer after 5 years of dating and she's happier than a clam. He is only her 2nd long-term boyfriend (her first was 7 years) so she is definitely a serial monogamist.

She's a Gemini Sun, Aquarius Moon, Gemini Mercury, Gemini Venus, Pisces Mars...Aquarius DSC...

Venus opp. Saturn, Venus opp. Uranus...

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I still can't figure this one out with that much air influence.

posted December 02, 2015 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
Peculiar indeed, especially if that Venus-Saturn opposition isn't very tight.

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posted December 02, 2015 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Ask myself or a Mod to exchange emails. DO NOT post them.

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posted December 02, 2015 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
[QUOTE]I can't remember the orb.

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Later. It's just really hitting me that my favourite aunt is dead.

posted December 03, 2015 07:09 AM            

Men can stay unmarried and this is not unusual. So I am likely to be given less flack for skipping the marriage part of life.

But would it be accurate for me to say that for women,marriage is often "expected" or is seen as one of the most fundamental aspirational points that they should reach(by the very virtue of them being female)?

So my assumption is that we are specifically tailoring this discussion towards women. Not so much men; whom can be indifferent to marriage?

posted December 03, 2015 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I'd call it semi-tight. But it's not tighter than the one with Uranus which one could expect. Weird case. Maybe she's very close with her family and that did the trick?

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posted December 03, 2015 04:37 PM            

This person. 33 yo woman, never married, never had a relationship, never had sex, NEVER EVEN KISSED! Fairly attractive, intelligent, wealthy, sociable person. I'm trying to figure out what is really a problem with her...She's a friend, btw...

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There is no problem unless she thinks it is, she is living her life the way she wants, just because someone is not having sex or a virgin and not in a relationship does not make them abnormal. Relationships, marriage, sex are all human constructs that does not mold a person. Contrary to what psychologist say, sex/relationships is not some human need every human has to engage in to feel satisfied, some humans work differently. It is how the individual engages in life on their own terms that matters. She may find someone or she may not, as long as she feels right about the situation it all works out in the end. She also could be a late bloomer and taking her time -- she does have Saturn/Moon and Saturn/Sun aspects.

Looking at her chart she has Neptune retrograde in 5th aspecting Moon and Sun so she has a sensitive constitution when it comes to relationships, intimacy etc. this person is not going to just take anyone. Her Venus in 12th in Leo as well as Gemini Moon means she is keeping her options open. Also Pisces in 8th, means she likes profound relationships. A strong Neptune can make someone more sensitive to intimacy. Even in synastry too much Neptune can make the relationship more Platonic and less sexual, it depends.

posted December 04, 2015 04:39 AM            

She wants a relationship, marriage, even kids (or at least she says so) but it feels like something is blocking her, she doesn't really know what to do and how to communicate on that more intimate level, she would want to live her life like any average person, still she just doesn't fit in all that, though she wouldn't admit it and just let it all run naturally, the way she feels it should be...Instead of that she spends a lot of her money trying to look as pretty and polished up (for others, mind you), her life is all about going to clubs, taking pictures for instagram and facebook, flirting with kids basically (cause she looks a bit younger) and living that superficial life where she feels uncomfortable, but wants it desperately, poses around trying to draw attention and when she gets it, acts like she doesn't care, never even gave a chance to someone and go out on a date with them...

Just wanted to help her, she wants intimacy so badly she isn't acting like a regular person anymore, she is living in some fake celebrity fantasy, it's really quite tragic...I was talking to her regularly before, but now her behaviour is getting more ridiculous and unreal, it's tragic ...And no, she doesn't have family problems, she has a loving family and an older brother...