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Topic: Never-married people.
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Marandana
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posted November 28, 2015 11:03 PM
  
Hello, I'd like to know which aspects in a chart may have a tendency to never get married? I'm asking better for the ones that are afraid of commitment, like men or women who have a lot of couples but never want to settle down.
...Well, okay I'm also asking for the ones who seem to be forever alone (I know about that saturn 7th house myth, but do you have any other reasons?)IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 28, 2015 11:13 PM
Aries Moon people don't want to get married!But it still seems to happen to them lol The ones who manage to successfully avoid it usually have a predominance in transpersonal signs and houses. :edit: And the ones with an emphasis on social signs/houses, are the most likely to marry - or at least have several long term relationships (10 yrs+) IP: Logged |
Piscean Tigress
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posted November 28, 2015 11:13 PM
Hi!I have Neptune conjunct Ascendant and both opposite moon and trine Venus (btw Venus sextile moon). Venus conjunct Karma and Chiron, and this triple conjunction is opposite Uranus. I'm in middle 40's and never been married. I'm very idealistic and need too much space at the same time. Besides the aspects, my luminaries and Ascendant are in mutable signs (Pisces, Gemini and Saggitarius). I really love once (and I still do for the same person), but we canīt be together by life's situations... He is the only one with I wanted settle down. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 28, 2015 11:16 PM
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Marandana
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posted November 28, 2015 11:20 PM
Aries moon, right! no wonder...@piscean, venus opp uranus seems legit for that. I've got venus in aquarius, so I understand how it works. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2
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posted November 28, 2015 11:49 PM
I have a cousin who is an aquarius sun and venus but his mars (cap) is square his juno. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted November 30, 2015 07:51 AM
Never married. Never getting married. No desire whatsoever to. Venus in Aquarius.IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
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From: Pandora's Box Tech
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted November 30, 2015 12:35 PM
I reject the institution of marriage, not commitment but I'm likely to remain single anyway and it's not all up to me. Aquarius Venus, Pisces DSC, Sun-Neptune-Uranus conjunction.------------------
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Lerena
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posted November 30, 2015 03:18 PM
I have a friend who has like four personal planets in Aquarius. I highly suspect she'll never get married.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 30, 2015 03:59 PM
Which houses are transpersonal houses?IP: Logged |
Belage
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From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 30, 2015 06:56 PM
How old are those never married people we are speaking of? Some people (aries moon people and people with aquarius planets) swear they are not interested in getting married, then by the time they reach their 40s or 50s, they're married. IP: Logged |
appleberry
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Registered: Jun 2011
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posted December 01, 2015 01:12 AM
I'm Aries Moon (H7) & Venus Aquarius (H5).There are only two things that would make me marry:
- Pregnancy/children
- To be legally able to live in the same country when you are not from the same country. Otherwise, it seems like a pointless hassle and a party that I don't want to be at the centre of.... But I have Venus conjunct Juno less than a degree so I think that's part of the reason I would if I met the right person... And no doubt would be hella committed... Umm and I have Sun conjunct DC exact... Lol... ------------------
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Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 01, 2015 01:27 AM
I used to think Monogamy was stupid (more recently)..
But for the majority of my life all I wanted was one person to cherish with everything and have a very meaningful connectionNow I realize that there's too many people and time changes people and it doesn't always work out Not to say I won't get married one day 😎
I just feel like it would be a waste because I can't keep a solid relationship My record is like two and a half months How on earth am I going to spend the rest of my life with someone ahhhhh Anyways back to the situation! My half sister is 33ish and she's still not married. She doesn't plan on getting married ever!!
She is a
Sun Taurus
Moon pisces
Mercury Taurus
Venus Gemini
Mars Taurus
Ascendant pisces P.S. I'm a Libra dominant. My moons in Sagittarius and my Venus libra Mars Scorpio IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 01, 2015 01:50 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Which houses are transpersonal houses?
9th, 10th, 11th and 12th! IP: Logged |
maggie
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posted December 01, 2015 11:12 AM
I'm in my early 30s and never been married. I've had a few relationships but I've never been in love.  That's not to say I never liked anyone, but it just happens that they don't feel the same way or I happen to be not interested in the guys that likes me. Just my luck, oh well... :| Sun Pisces
Moon Libra
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Libra IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted December 01, 2015 12:27 PM
I have never even thought about it tbh.
I would maybe sometimes look at it in a romantic way, usually when I have fallen in love, but besides that I do not see it as something that would signify my love for another any more than it is, for as long as we were together.
Sun Pisces
Asc Gemini
Venus Aquarius (square Uranus)
Moon Sag
Mars Pisces
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hearttreasure
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posted December 01, 2015 01:53 PM
My sagittarius mars hardly wants to settle down into marriage. My aries moon gets bored really easily. My aqua sun wants freedom and my venus in pisces is very idealistic and has been through some painful things in relationship, so some traumatic experiences are really a lesson learned and make me look at marriage as painful prisons.If I can never be married, I will choose it. If only I could. IP: Logged |
Readytochill
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From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted December 01, 2015 03:42 PM
I feel like I'm too complicated to get married lol but if it did occur, the guy I marry has to be very understanding.There are days I want to get married but I don't understand the point sometimes. I don't trust my Venus square Pluto. I thought I had a handle on it, but I just found out that really don't. That scares me and made me not want to be a relationship for a while. I like my alone time so I can space out and dream of ridiculous things. I don't want to have to ask for approval from my husband. My Aquarius descendant wants someone just as weird as me and who will give me as much space as I want. IP: Logged |
margym0o
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Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 01, 2015 03:55 PM
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Originally posted by Readytochill:
I feel like I'm too complicated to get married lol but if it did occur, the guy I marry has to be very understanding.There are days I want to get married but I don't understand the point sometimes. I don't trust my Venus square Pluto. I thought I had a handle on it, but I just found out that really don't. That scares me and made me not want to be a relationship for a while. I like my alone time so I can space out and dream of ridiculous things. I don't want to have to ask for approval from my husband. My Aquarius descendant wants someone just as weird as me and who will give me as much space as I want.
I'm interested to know why you thought you had a handle on your Venus sq. Pluto and now you don't? If you care to share  I have it too almost exact and I am always curious to hear other experiences.
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Randall
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posted December 01, 2015 04:21 PM
I see a Venus Aquarius trend. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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Registered: May 2015
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posted December 01, 2015 04:25 PM
I can also attest to a handsome and charming Venus in Aquarius in his mid-50's having never been married before, though he is a serial monogamist. I sense his parent's traumatic marriage is the reason for his holding back in this arena of life. Understandable. Also people who mentioned Moon in Aries.. dead on. If they do get married, it's when they're very young and then swear off of it ever again (my mother) Hypothetically I always assume I want to get married.. societal and cultural/ethnic expectations play a huge hand in that. When I have been taken to look at rings, my first instinct is to get the hell out of there. I don't know. It's very up in the air for me. Moon in Aquarius/Venus in Aries IP: Logged |
AquaLeo29
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From: Canada
Registered: May 2015
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posted December 01, 2015 05:35 PM
I have a friend, she has Sun/Mercury in Pisces, Moon in Capricorn, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Libra...She doesn't want to marry, but wanted to have a child with her 'secret bf' with Sun/Mercury/Venus in Gemini, Moon in Aries, Mars in Leo... (who is married to someone else btw) ------------------
Aqu Sun, Leo Asc, Moon in Cap, Ven/Mar Pis IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 01, 2015 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
My sagittarius mars hardly wants to settle down into marriage. My aries moon gets bored really easily. My aqua sun wants freedom and my venus in pisces is very idealistic and has been through some painful things in relationship, so some traumatic experiences are really a lesson learned and make me look at marriage as painful prisons.If I can never be married, I will choose it. If only I could.
Let's be friends! What's your email? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 01, 2015 08:01 PM
Ask myself or a Mod to exchange emails. DO NOT post them.IP: Logged |
Readytochill
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From: In my head
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted December 02, 2015 12:18 AM
quote:
Originally posted by margym0o:
I'm interested to know why you thought you had a handle on your Venus sq. Pluto and now you don't? If you care to share I have it too almost exact and I am always curious to hear other experiences.
I think I've touched upon it briefly on some threads here but never really went into it too deep. If you want, we could email each other. Just saw Randall's post up there about exchanging emails. Not sure how that all works, but I'd be happy to go into full detail with you. I have Venus square Pluto almost exact as well. My love life is like going through hell and back, yet not learning from past mistakes so I go through hell and back once more. If you don't want to email, that's fine I just wouldn't go into that much detail lol I would love to hear your experience with the aspect as well
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