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Topic: How do you court a Taurus man?
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goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 03:03 PM
  
What does this mean for me Faith?!?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 07, 2015 03:14 PM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
What does this mean for me Faith?!?
Faith can't tell you what it means for you, take what you want from what she said? Ime Taurus are picky, but possessive. Like Faith and others mentioned - they may not call you for two weeks but you still belong to them in their heads (not because they think of you as a couple but because THEY know YOU therefor you're theirs.) There's a lot of reasons this combo works and a lot that it doesn't. Capricorn understands responsibility and finishing something even if they don't want to do it while Taurus... well once a Taurus gets going they'll finish it, but the hard part is getting them going. Rousing them up from their couch and saying "C'mon let's clean the garage!" is not romantic to a lounging-enthusiast like Taurus, but if you cleaned the garage for a Capricorn they'd love you forever. To put it simply and very basically - gifts are Taurus' love language while acts of service are Capricorn's. You want to see effort and action like the other cardinal signs, Taurus is okay with routine day after day even if there's no definition because they find comfort in sameness and the expected. Sorry if I kind of rambled or didn't make sense. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 03:33 PM
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goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 03:34 PM
It made sense. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 03:36 PM
In my last relationship, once he got comfortable he never did anything to spark up the relationship. Venus in Taurus. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 07, 2015 04:11 PM
Thanks hanna.  quote:
Ime Taurus are picky, but possessive. Like Faith and others mentioned - they may not call you for two weeks but you still belong to them in their heads (not because they think of you as a couple but because THEY know YOU therefor you're theirs.)
That was my experience!! YES. I forgot, I dated TWO Taurus sun men. "Dating" is not the right word with these people.  But same with him. We were together briefly with no follow-up for weeks, then he assumed he was my boyfriend (my actual boyfriend!  ) next time I saw him. A third Taurus sun that I never even dated bewildered me by showing feelings out of nowhere, getting visibly upset with me for pursuing a new relationship.  Advice? I have none. I didn't marry a Taurus for a reason, I guess. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 04:15 PM
I think I'm just in love with his stuff and the way he takes care of himself. But I also feel like he can be quite romantic. He's really simple and seems quite easy to please. I love to serve so I want to please him more often than once a week! Also, I love how affectionate he is. Our sex is magical. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 07, 2015 04:16 PM
Oh but I can say, take comfort that they might care a lot more than they usually are willing to show. Don't get your feelings hurt...chances are they will surprise you and make up for lost time later.ETA: We were writing at the same time.. quote:
But I also feel like he can be quite romantic. He's really simple and seems quite easy to please. I love to serve so I want to please him more often than once a week! Also, I love how affectionate he is. Our sex is magical.
^ Aw! Good luck, seems all you have to do is keep up what you're doing and tolerate the slow pace. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 04:17 PM
I really hope so. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 07, 2015 04:19 PM
I can't even say that we're "dating" yet. And it's killing meIP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted December 07, 2015 06:43 PM
Develop patience.------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted December 07, 2015 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Develop patience.
LOL as a Taurus moon.... yep. Pretty much. We're worse than Gemini because Taurus isn't going to share all their inner workings until they're comfortable around you. Completely. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 07, 2015 11:37 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Thanks hanna. That was my experience!! YES. I forgot, I dated TWO Taurus sun men. "Dating" is not the right word with these people. But same with him. We were together briefly with no follow-up for weeks, then he assumed he was my boyfriend (my actual boyfriend! ) next time I saw him. A third Taurus sun that I never even dated bewildered me by showing feelings out of nowhere, getting visibly upset with me for pursuing a new relationship. Advice? I have none. I didn't marry a Taurus for a reason, I guess.
Exactly! They are so weird for being a "simple" earth sign! I had a crazy obsessive crush on a Taurus and he knew it. I think he may have liked me back but nothing happened, blah blah blah. Anyway so I delete him off Facebook a year later after I've grown up some. We never spoke, I was indifferent, he was a person from the past to me. Well, I run into him a month later or something and he's like "You deleted me off Facebook?" I'm thinking "Why do you care?!?! You have another gf!?" This went 'round for several times over the course of two years and now he won't speak to me if I run into him. ????? I never had a problem with him but social media is like a diary for friends. Was I wrong?! Was he right?! Is my name even Hanna? IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 08, 2015 09:29 AM
^ quote:
They are so weird for being a "simple" earth sign!
They are! I never had any idea which way was up, either. The second Taurus I mentioned treated me so calmly, NO indication of interest, then he was in my room one day, flipping through my sketchbook. I saw him write something and put the book down. I didn't see what he wrote, and he was completely lukewarm towards me for the rest of our time together. After he left I got curious about what he had written, and it was a very convincing and beautiful love poem! W.T.F.  quote:
We're worse than Gemini because Taurus isn't going to share all their inner workings until they're comfortable around you. Completely.
I was friends with that guy for years before we got together, maybe that's why he could be so revealing... But anyway... Is it accurate to say that Taurus builds a relationship more through physical interaction than words or dating conventions? Looking back with that road trip Taurus, every time we were together, there was more closeness, even if we weren't talking about it...so by the last time I saw him, we were emotionally very close while still almost strangers. As if the usual stuff didn't matter.
In Chinese astrology, Taurus relates to Snake, which is the most mystical and perceptive Chinese animal. If I think of them as Snakes, it makes a little more sense. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:34 AM
Now that I think about it, when we were laying together he mentioned he loved that we can comfortably lie next to each other without saying a word. In my head I was like "lol ok I guess" haha IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 08, 2015 09:35 AM
Yeah! That's how they are!!!!I think it's all finally making sense. LOL IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 08, 2015 09:40 AM
I'm thinking of Adele...she said the guys she was with had no idea about the depth of her emotion, until she wrote the songs.Seems they are just quiet or something. Sorry for spamming your thread but my experiences with these boys really, really confused me. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:45 AM
He's not even aware of how earthy he is. Being around him soothes me. He has no idea. From his kitchen, to his living room, to his neatly organized closet, I'm just like sooooooo attracted to it allIP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:47 AM
So when I'm around him I just feel like,
OooooOoooOooo
buy me stuff
Let's go grocery shopping
Let me cook for you
Try this new soap I found
Let me just watch you work really hard
<3333333This is romance to me IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:49 AM
That's what Taurus wants too, right?And I feel like we could already be there if we just talked more. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:50 AM
Or is he not aware that this is what he actually wants?IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:53 AM
How do I make him aware of what I want when I've only seen him twice and we barely talk? He doesn't call or text?I just want to let him know that that's what I'm interested in and if he's not interested then that's okay I'll move on. But supposedly being this straightforward with Taurus runs them away? IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted December 08, 2015 09:57 AM
I had a Gemini sun, Mars Aries, Mercury & Venus Taurus guy appreciate me being straightforward with my feelings though it did make him uncomfortable. And I always had to voice my desires my Aries Sun, Mars in Gemini, Venus in Taurus ex boyfriend, instead of having him intuit my needs like I like (Pisces Venus) IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 08, 2015 02:20 PM
Well so...if a guy is into it hell call or text. But Taurus isn't an initiator. I have a Taurus moon and I won't ever initiate unless the person is even more timid than me or has a calm energy. I don't make plans w my more aggressive friends unless they text me first asking (I also have Moon Saturn and Saturn squares too though, so...) IP: Logged |
yota13
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posted December 08, 2015 09:25 PM
Taurus likes it slow. Go their pace or slower. Be clear and honest about your intentions. Keep drama and surprises minimal, basically anything that strays from routine is novelty. I grew up with a taurus dad and stepmom. I am an aquarius and it drove me crazy sometimes but in general they are awesome people to be around. IP: Logged |
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