posted December 08, 2015 10:17 PM            

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Exactly! They are so weird for being a "simple" earth sign! I had a crazy obsessive crush on a Taurus and he knew it. I think he may have liked me back but nothing happened, blah blah blah. Anyway so I delete him off Facebook a year later after I've grown up some. We never spoke, I was indifferent, he was a person from the past to me. Well, I run into him a month later or something and he's like "You deleted me off Facebook?" I'm thinking "Why do you care?!?! You have another gf!?" This went 'round for several times over the course of two years and now he won't speak to me if I run into him. ????? I never had a problem with him but social media is like a diary for friends. Was I wrong?! Was he right?! Is my name even Hanna?

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A full Taurus moon did something similar to me. I sent a friend request but they didn't accept. Nonetheless I persisted; I sent messages, readings, and results from spying I'd done on them. I never got a message response, but pics they put up clued me in...on the things they wanted me to know. I knew what they did for a living, where they lived, that they knew I was no longer in the state we met and my new state.

Eventually I stopped sending messages, but would still spy their page. A year or so later I decided it was time to leave the past behind and go ahead and block them. Honest to God, within a few days 2 or 3, the profile pic changed. It was a sexy pic meant to get a reaction out of me.

How did they know they were blocked? Don't ask how I was able to spy a blocked page.

posted December 09, 2015 07:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Taurus likes routines. If you don't like the one they're on give 'em a new one.

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posted December 09, 2015 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Well so...if a guy is into it hell call or text.

But

Taurus isn't an initiator. I have a Taurus moon and I won't ever initiate unless the person is even more timid than me or has a calm energy. I don't make plans w my more aggressive friends unless they text me first asking (I also have Moon Saturn and Saturn squares too though, so...)

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Hanna can I pick your brain? I have the hugest crush on an Aqua Sun/Taurus Moon man (he also has his Moon Sq Saturn). We are technically friends. We actually hadn't hung out in a bit (but have continued to text and write on FB) and I recently admitted in one text that I still like him (which is huge for me...Cap Moon/Taurus Venus)...it was through text so easier for me to do.

In the same convo I suggested we hang out at some point in the future (didn't feel the need to specify lol to give him a way out), and he literally text me back like 3 mins later suggesting I come by this week lol (I will have to text him sometime this week to give specifics).

I'm just not sure how to navigate this, I don't want to read into things, and assume something is there (from what I described what do you think now that he has confirmation of how I feel). I know my own Taurus energy is that if I spend time with you...that is huge partly due to the Cap influence. I actually am aggressive and straightforward for a Cancer (Cancer Mars Conjunct Sun and Asc in the 1st), so out of both of us I'm the more aggressive person (he has Mars in the 12th Conjunct Neptune/Uranus/Venus). Anyway would a Taurus Moon hang out with someone if they know the person is into them? I gave a nebulous hangout suggestion in case he wanted to blow me off, and he didn't so is there a chance he cares romantically and my Venus/Saturn in Taurus just doesn't see it. Or could him hanging out after I admitted to liking him just be his way of being nice. Also do Taurus Moons initiate at all? Like even if you actually want to connect with someone do you wait for them to make a move? He doesn't seem to initiate much but I did say something that bothered me and he changed his behavior towards me, and actually made an effort (he's an Aqua Sun/Mer and Taurus Moon...that was huge for him). Thanks.

posted December 09, 2015 06:14 PM            

The thing is I see so many women second guessing and overthinking their love interests, and as a Taurus moon we get down to basics and as an Aries I'm pretty black and white...so ladies, if he likes you he'll spend time with you! Lol! Men are really not this complicated. The relationship dynamics are, but not men's interested behavior.

posted December 09, 2015 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm on my phone so I read enough to get the jist of your post.

The thing is I see so many women second guessing and overthinking their love interests, and as a Taurus moon we get down to basics and as an Aries I'm pretty black and white...so ladies, if he likes you he'll spend time with you! Lol! Men are really not this complicated. The relationship dynamics are, but not men's interested behavior.

Anyway I think T. Moons are very much into the physical attraction they feel for someone, perhaps we're even the most likely to be emotionally into someone IF we are also physically attracted. That's put simply, don't have the patience atm to explain, but to answer your question he's perking up his ears but I would wait for the follow through. Sometimes I can really be exicted about someone but get scared last minute and flake, and I've seen this in other Taurus people too.

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I love your comment about not having patience lol. Such an Aries thing to say haha. I will ask you to elaborate when you have the time or feel like it. I know he wants to sleep with me...is that the same thing? I got the impression due to his body language and the fact that he can't really keep his hands to himself...not in a crude way but in a sweet way. Plus we have an exact Moon Mars Conjunction.

He hasn't been shy in expressing that I would be a good girlfriend because I'm nurturing, kind, etc. Prior to telling him how I felt, I asked him to be a friend to me and introduce me to someone (if he's my friend and thinks I'd be a good gf I didn't see why that would be a problem). He was unwilling to. And when I did/do go on dates and the like, or if I ever mention anyone (to keep him updated on my romantic life) I go on a date/flirt with he gets distant and downright unresponsive. I'm not trying to make him jealous (Venus in the 11th), I'm just trying to be a friend...as friends can talk about anything (plus he's an Aqua Sun/Mer with Venus/Mars/Nep/Uran/NN in the 11th...BUT his Sun and Mer in the 12th are tightly Square Pluto and his Mars/Ven are Sex Pluto).

posted December 10, 2015 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
I love your comment about not having patience lol. Such an Aries thing to say haha. I will ask you to elaborate when you have the time or feel like it. I know he wants to sleep with me...is that the same thing? I got the impression due to his body language and the fact that he can't really keep his hands to himself...not in a crude way but in a sweet way. Plus we have an exact Moon Mars Conjunction.

He hasn't been shy in expressing that I would be a good girlfriend because I'm nurturing, kind, etc. Prior to telling him how I felt, I asked him to be a friend to me and introduce me to someone (if he's my friend and thinks I'd be a good gf I didn't see why that would be a problem). He was unwilling to. And when I did/do go on dates and the like, or if I ever mention anyone (to keep him updated on my romantic life) I go on a date/flirt with he gets distant and downright unresponsive. I'm not trying to make him jealous (Venus in the 11th), I'm just trying to be a friend...as friends can talk about anything (plus he's an Aqua Sun/Mer with Venus/Mars/Nep/Uran/NN in the 11th...BUT his Sun and Mer in the 12th are tightly Square Pluto and his Mars/Ven are Sex Pluto).

He also won't mention being in arelationship or if he even has a love life. The first time we hung out he actually told me he was "hiring" for a girl (I think that was his Venus in Cap). I laughed it off because it sounded so corny and I made a joke about being black and Latino and how that counts as some sort of slavery with him being southern (lol I know). All of this is to say what do you think? If I'm to understand you correctly, the way a Taurus Moon works is a physical relationship equals wanting an emotional relationship. We've known each other for nine months now, so I'd firmly say I think he cares about me. And when you say follow through should I just let him know when I'm free. He said I should come by (by...isn't that less formal than over and implies a short visit...maybe now I'm reading too much into stuff lol) sometime this week. I also realize I shouldn't get bogged down with what was said. Point is he didn't blow me off and is willing to see me after I admitted I liked him. Hopefully this jumbled mess makes sense lol. It's been a LONG day. Thanks!!

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posted December 11, 2015 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm really rooting for you to pull it together, because as a Taurus moon I'm balking at 85% of this post! A rule for people in general is they won't put all their cards on the table unless they know it's safe. You talking about other dates you've been on does NOT equal safety, double that for a Taurus moon who's shy to begin with. If you're his friend why aren't you being more considerate of his feelings when you have all these signs pointing towards him liking you? It just sounds manipulative and Taurus are pretty sensitive to being provoked in any way. It makes them dig their heels in even more. He isn't mentioning his love life probably because you're a big part of that...
As for the sex, I wanted to recant what I said because I forgot he had Venus in Cap. They like to bed women pretty quickly. I think they're the most likely to categorize women between girlfriend material and casual dating depending on when you sleep with them. He's got Moon trine Venus though eh? He probably has many female friends himself, esp. being an Aqua. wherever his interest is he's double fixed so they won't have anything to worry about.

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The best thing about anyone Aries influenced is they will give it to you straight...no bs. My Cap side LOVES that. So thank you for calling me on what I'm doing. You are absolutely right. If the shoe were on the other foot and a man was doing this to me, I would label him a game player and move on (but keep him as a friend). I'm not really trying to do that. I do like him a lot, and do think he is very special. A big reason why I am doing what I am doing is because of self protection. Months ago he said a comment about not finding me attractive that has stuck with me. Granted it was after I had swore I would date him if he weren't southern, and had turned down his advances to get"closer" (ie a back rub on his bed...and while on said bed he asks me what I'm thinking about...I reply that I'm not thinking of anything...he replies with he highly doubts that), and also turned him down when he mentioned he was "hiring" for a girl. So I'm not so sure how reliable that comment was.

When I think about it I have to admit to myself there are signs that have been there since we first met. The mentioning he wanted a "real" relationship (that is what Cap influenced ppl do when they want to flirt...that and talk about what they have or what they want to build...he did that as well), the only being responsive when I admit how I feel. The telling me I'd be a good gf, being affectionate, not responding when I use friendly terms (such as: "buddy"), telling me I deserve to feel sexy and desirable (in my last relationship I gained 50 lbs...it ended but I have been dealing with losing weight and getting back to my old self), not being able to think of anyone he could introduce me to when I asked him if he knew of single men. Getting quiet (this was even months ago) when we worked together when he found out I had a bf. Wondering why I was still in contact with said ex (an Aqua with a loaded 11th house is wondering why I would stay friend?? He never met the guy, and can't stand him). Or getting quiet when I mention other men, and most recently altering his behavior because something he does hurts me. I thought there were signs...I even mentioned them to him in passing...and he (months ago) mentioned that he's friendly and he wasn't treating me any differently than he treats other people (that he was just talking). So I chucked it up to seeing what I wanted to see (esp because he has a Cap Mars that would go after ppl...but it's all tied up with Neptune...that makes everything iffy), but perhaps it was his Aquarian side that was resistant to admit he was doing anything else than treating me like he treats others.

I think I'll stop the talking about other men, and just try to be a friend and make him feel special. He is a great guy, so he deserves that.

Hanna thanks so much!! I do have one question for you though...you said you have your Taurus Moon tied to Saturn. How does that affect your self worth? Or better yet how does it affect you when others are emotionally expressive towards you? Does it make you doubt them or how they feel...basically any info you have would be great. Thanks so much!!!

posted December 11, 2015 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
So when I'm around him I just feel like,
OooooOoooOooo
buy me stuff
Let's go grocery shopping
Let me cook for you
Try this new soap I found
Let me just watch you work really hard
<3333333

This is romance to me

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posted December 11, 2015 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
No I'm saying that when I'm around him that's how I feel!

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posted December 11, 2015 12:12 PM            

I'm glad I didn't offend! I just hate seeing relationship opportunities go to waste.

My Moon-Saturn helps me control my emotions a lot. I don't know if anyone can tell how intense my reactions are (Maybe they can, i have Mercury sextile ASC and Moon-Pluto...so they can see it but maybe cant guess how long im feeling that way). In the same breath I'm more comfortable being introverted, serious, and analyzing. I can never quite let completely go and not assess any given situation. I'm a pressure cooker emotionally and I think people confuse my opinionated nature with being expressive, but they're very different. I rarely cry, but when I do it's bad and deep and cathartic.

I also have Mars conjunct ASC! I am attracted to aggressive things and feel uncomfortable when I have to be delicate. Anyone who has this will probably attract a lost of sexual advances. So yeah, I get hit on despite my perceived flaws but they're not romantic at all or really there as a friend or long-term (but blame Uranus in the 7th for their departure I guess).