posted December 17, 2015 11:08 AM            

What are your personal planet positions?
(Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars)

What is the Sun sign of your significant other?

What aspects do you think led to you two getting married?

I'm asking these questions regarding married Scorpios because I haven't really heard of or seen any married Scorpios ad the way I feel at this point in my romantic life, maybe I should just give up on the whole idea. I just can't imagine giving up total control for another or I can, I just can't imagine meeting someone who's WORTH me giving up my power.

What do you all think about this mindset?

posted December 17, 2015 11:20 AM            

also you don't need to give up your power,: marry a Pisces. It is so easy to control them not that I would know, being a Libra and all 😆

posted December 17, 2015 11:25 AM            

This is part of what motivated me to creat this post. I thought I wanted a nice, soft, sensitive man after dating many stubborn, hard-headed Earth signs (I looooove Taurus' and Capricorns), but I'm beginning to realize not so much Another Scorpio has always been the best choice for me because they're a mix between strong and sensitive despite being a water sign. But the problem is, two Scorpios rarely ever make it past the bedroom without getting burned.

posted December 17, 2015 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
It's funny you say that because I'm actually dating a Pisces male currently and yes, they're very easy to control but it's not appealing to me like I thought it would be (my first real relationship with a Pisces). He's TOO submissive. Sometimes I feel like I'm in a relationship with a child or another woman in which I don't want to be in either one, haha,

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posted December 17, 2015 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I have, but I'm dealing with a PISCES remember? They rum from any sign of conflict or confrontation so nothing much ever gets accomplished with communication. Not to mention, my guy also has moon square saturn and chiron natally.

I believe Scorpio women are a lot harder to tame than most of the other women in the zodiac, but not in a free-spirit Sagittarius way. Scorpios are hard to tame emotionally and spiritually which is a lot deeper than the flighty free-spirit.

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True. But what does having Moon Square Saturn have to do with it? I agree though, Scorpios are hard to catch emotionally/spiritually because they need to build that trust.

As time unfolds they show hidden parts of themselves because if they trust they'll become vulnerabile which gives them the opportunity to be hurt.
Etc etc. Sagittarius just wants to create new experiences. Have tons of fun diverse places. Scorpio wants the few but meaningful ones. I'm kind of like that in a way. Hehe

posted December 17, 2015 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I believe Scorpio women are a lot harder to tame than most of the other women in the zodiac, but not in a free-spirit Sagittarius way. Scorpios are hard to tame emotionally and spiritually which is a lot deeper than the flighty free-spirit.

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posted December 17, 2015 12:22 PM            

Jokes apart, the married scorps - yes they exist. There are plenty out there. I've found earth suns a pretty nice fit for them, when it comes to marriage. Taurus-Scorp, Cancer-Scorp and Virgo-Scorp couples abound.

posted December 17, 2015 12:44 PM            

She's Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Virgo Venus, Sag Mars, Aqua rising

He's Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Mercury, Venus and Mars, possibly Taurus rising opp her Sun.

Their composite, if I'm right about his Asc, shows a Moon-NN conjunction in the 5th and a Saturn-Jup on DC. They also have the Venus-Uranus square in the composite and they couldn't have made it work if they didn't give each other a lot of freedom. Must have been hard on her.

posted December 17, 2015 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Well my cousin is a Scorpio and she's married to a Gemini. They've been together since they were teenagers, dated for 10 years, married for another 10, parents of two boys. Their synastry and composite isn't jaw dropping, but somehow it kept them together for 20 years and counting, despite the fact that he cheated on her once. That was a very low point in their relationship that I know of and she has changed her behavior towards him a lot since then, I think a part of her simply died then. It was after ~3 years of being together. They also had a few obstacles in the beginning, his family didn't initially approve of my cousin, but I guess that made the two teens even more determined to stay together. They're in their mid-30s now.

She's Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Virgo Venus, Sag Mars, Aqua rising

He's Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Mercury, Venus and Mars, possibly Taurus rising opp her Sun.

Their composite, if I'm right about his Asc, shows a Moon-NN conjunction in the 5th and a Saturn-Jup on DC. They also have the Venus-Uranus square in the composite and they couldn't have made it work if they didn't give each other a lot of freedom. Must have been hard on her.

I can post their charts if you'd like, though maybe they'd be more fitter for IA.

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NOW THIS IS JAW DROPPING.

How did she deal with all those Gemini placements and that critical Virgo moon?! Posts like these make me question Astrology's significance for at least a good 2.5 seconds... Haha, seriously.

posted December 17, 2015 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
My boss is a happily married Scorpio. This is his second marriage. His wife is an Aries. They are so in love with each other. He even has a special ringtone when she calls. I think it's "My Girl" or something like that lol.

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This is something I've noticed with Scorpio MEN. They always seem insanely attracted to Air and Fire signs vs. Water and earth which would naturally be a better fit even under general compatibility in my opinion.

posted December 17, 2015 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Are there even any married Scorpios?

What are your personal planet positions?
(Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars)

What is the Sun sign of your significant other?

What aspects do you think led to you two getting married?

I'm asking these questions regarding married Scorpios because I haven't really heard of or seen any married Scorpios ad the way I feel at this point in my romantic life, maybe I should just give up on the whole idea. I just can't imagine giving up total control for another or I can, I just can't imagine meeting someone who's WORTH me giving up my power.

What do you all think about this mindset?

I feel this way because Scorpios feel everything so deeply. & I have Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, DSC, 7th house ruler in Scorpio along with Sun and mars conjunct Pluto, Sun/ Mars/ Pluto opposite my Taurus ASC/ conjunct my DSC in Scorpio.

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Whaaaaat?

I very much beg to differ - I think half of my friends who are married, and commited/happy, are Scorpios!

The trend I've seen most is Scorpio male with Virgo woman (going solely by sun signs), or Scorpio woman with Pisces or Cancer males.

But YUH. Super committed - they were the ones who dated their now-spouse for like ten years and were basically married years before they actually put a ring on it.

posted December 17, 2015 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
But what does having Moon Square Saturn have to do with it?

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posted December 17, 2015 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Damn, that sucks. Virgo? Virgos are submissive. Scorpio and Virgo are both very on edge signs so maybe you could go with Cancer which is more chill and less like your Pisces. But overall if you're already like seeing the guy , its safe to voice your thoughts and feelings..COMMUNICATION IS KEY 😚😉🚨

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Virgos are not submissive, I am not easy to control at all and most virgos I know arent either. Have a chat with my parents and husband lol.

posted December 17, 2015 01:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Virgos are not submissive, I am not easy to control at all and most virgos I know arent either. Have a chat with my parents and husband lol.

Scorpios and virgos get along awesome actually, instant connection always with me.

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posted December 17, 2015 01:50 PM            

My cousin is: Libra Sun/Sag Moon/Scorp Merc/Virgo Venus/Sag Mars

Her Husband is: Scorpio Sun/Aries Moon/Sag Merc/Libra Venus/Scorp Mars

posted December 17, 2015 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Virgos are not submissive, I am not easy to control at all and most virgos I know arent either. Have a chat with my parents and husband lol.

Scorpios and virgos get along awesome actually, instant connection always with me.

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posted December 17, 2015 03:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
From what i've read regarding moon-square saturn is a deep-seated fear of emotional intimacy which results in "childlike" tactics when in confrontation with another. This also makes him very reserved so the communication is strained.

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This probably explains why my friend got mad at me!! I have this new friend that slept over, we watched a movie and then I said "sleepy time" and went to bed. And it was only like 11:30pm and he got mad and complained about It to me.. Like I'll hang out with you and if we re are doing things there stuff to talk about... But if I have to wake up at 6am for work in the morning and I'm watching a movie I have seen three times... Then you get my reasoning. I'm not that reserved emotionally !!!

posted December 17, 2015 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Well my cousin is a Scorpio and she's married to a Gemini. They've been together since they were teenagers, dated for 10 years, married for another 10, parents of two boys. Their synastry and composite isn't jaw dropping, but somehow it kept them together for 20 years and counting, despite the fact that he cheated on her once. That was a very low point in their relationship that I know of and she has changed her behavior towards him a lot since then, I think a part of her simply died then. It was after ~3 years of being together. They also had a few obstacles in the beginning, his family didn't initially approve of my cousin, but I guess that made the two teens even more determined to stay together. They're in their mid-30s now.

She's Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Virgo Venus, Sag Mars, Aqua rising

He's Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Gemini Mercury, Venus and Mars, possibly Taurus rising opp her Sun.

Their composite, if I'm right about his Asc, shows a Moon-NN conjunction in the 5th and a Saturn-Jup on DC. They also have the Venus-Uranus square in the composite and they couldn't have made it work if they didn't give each other a lot of freedom. Must have been hard on her.

I can post their charts if you'd like, though maybe they'd be more fitter for IA.

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I'm betting theres some kind of Venus-Moon contact with her Venus in Virgo and his moon and Virgo.

So that might make things work.

I've seen more Gem female - Scorpio male couples, not so much the other way.

This Gem wouldn't dare get to close to a Scorpio female. There little firecrackers, but don't get too close. Handle with care and caution.

Maybe thats way he cheated on her? Figure she was too much of a burden.

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
NOW THIS IS JAW DROPPING.

How did she deal with all those Gemini placements and that critical Virgo moon?! Posts like these make me question Astrology's significance for at least a good 2.5 seconds... Haha, seriously.

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I gather they critique things together, "hardcore" Scorpio women can be very opinionated. They just want to be heard, Gemini can do the same sometimes so they may have that in common.

posted December 17, 2015 06:01 PM            

For Example, One might be a sun in scorpio in the 5th house and have let's say moon conjunct uranus in leo in the 1st house and let's say there a cancer rising and the aspects there moon makes is to uranus in the 1st house in leo and the only scoprio placement they would have is the sun in the 5th house. Now this person would appear more detached, unusual, have a large group of friends and be very much embody that leo energy within themselves plus a spark of that heavy uranus in there chart ruler. Those with a sun in scorpio in the 5th house would have a strong fixed sun placement and embody scorpio energy as well but expressed through the 5th house. Also let's say there sun in scorpio is afflicted by moon in leo and uranus? now i guess there scorpio would be dicapted in this case then a typical individual with heavy 8th house, pluto, or obtain a scorpio stellium in there chart.

my point is i believe that aspects, house placements, and the rulerships have to be 100% considered. this is just from my research and from my observation.

Also i can take a look at your chart and give you my personal opinion to what your going through sounds like you've got a lot of oppositions in your chart taurus vs scorpio.

posted December 17, 2015 10:10 PM            

Yes. Many! I feel they all have been taking additional responsibilities with babies.

What are your personal planet positions?
(Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars)

I am Aries Moon, Libra Venus, Sag Merc,Virgo Mars

What is the Sun sign of your significant other?

Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Asc

What aspects do you think led to you two getting married?

Saturn and Pluto in 1st. ( Backbone)
Taurus Mars falls in 5th house. (Fun)
Aries Moon conjunct
our Saturn Placements is such that we would find difficult to leave each other. That is sticky.

I am not at all worried about giving up power, I guess it is initial teething where you have to ask " Do you want to eat?" "Do you want to eat ?" Yes. Where?

Initially very irritating of having to do that but it is just going from single to married mode.

If you can decide and compromise there you are off to good start. However it is at both ends. I guess now I sort of keep mentally check where we are going and we both try to co-operate.

I would tell you as a Scorpio I give lot more and compromise more but ofcourse there are things I have given up power and regret but life is long that I would have it my way to later. Just having faith but my aries moon does get bit impatient.

Lots of Libra energy wit taurus mars, do lead to indecisiveness and slowness in my partner but I push a lot to make a decision and usually we come up with something good.However it is very difficult and time consuming. not at all like being single.

I do not mind just one person I guess my power when further divided up or is against my inlaws is when I get scary!!! I guess my decisions are mine and there are there at the end of it. I think in the long run to Scorpio it just helps knowing themselves more, what is acceptable and what is not.What are your values, and personal boundaries,etc?

posted December 17, 2015 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I meant like in comparison to a fire sign or air sign

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I think is a mistake to describe us as submissive ever regardless or describe any sign as dominant as I feel that also has very negative connotation too in my opinion as I find dominant people annoying, with poor interpersonal skills and social skills.

Just bec we are not trying to dominate others doesn't mean that we let others dominate us. From my experience Virgos are usually rebellious with a mind of our own.

Precisely bc I dont like to be dominated I respect my partner enough to not try to dominate him. I get very easily triggered by an imbalance of power and a person will soon realize they are trying to dominate the wrong person and are bad at reading people if they think they can dominate me.

I do have venus-mars in Leo in the 8th and mars parallel vertex, sag rising with jupiter conjunct uranus.