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Topic: Venus in Scorpio
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hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 205 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: One of my best friends has been dating a Libra sun/Scorpio Venus for two years. He does play games. For instance he tells her he is fine with her doing something and then seethes about it. When she asks if he wants her to stop, he says No, she can do whatever she wants, he loves her. So....she does it again. And he gets irate again, freezing her out. Then comes back saying he's fine with it. Okayyyyy that is games to me.
lol. Yes, I found one too and I think that is a game playing. Although they will make it clear, they still test the water with you and the outside sometimes. They do not trust people easily, until they found you surrender in their feet, then they'll give their heart, otherwise, they secretly cheat as a revenge as you are not trusted enough. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 14654 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 12:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: They do not trust people easily, until they found you surrender in their feet, then they'll give their heart
My 8H moon is the same way... it's saying you surrender first, then I will. Scorpio Venus says, no YOU surrender first. Stalemate. This is why I will probably never be with a Scorpio Venus. Though....they are hot as hell. Geez! IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 291 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 12:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by misspriss:
If I REALLY like someone, and this has probably happenned 3 times in my 38 years - then i can be absolutely horrible at the start of a relationship. I can dump people to shy from risk, I can test them, try to make them jealous, play mind games.Not proud, but i am testing to see if I am safe to give them my heart. Of course, this is self destructive!
Thank you for the insight, misspriss. This does resonate. My friend was with a Libra sun/Scorp venus. He pulled a lot of come-chase-me tricks, upto and including pretending to dump her and date another girl. After it was all over, he admitted he was trying to see 'if she would fight for me'. They need to know you feel or are capable of feeling as intensely as they do before they let their guard down. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1576 From: The land of WP Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 12:54 PM
Ha! I must be the Venus in Scorpio whisperer. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 14654 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 01:10 PM
^ Make us jealous, why don't you!  IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1576 From: The land of WP Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 01:28 PM
Honestly I believe it is my natal. Mars conjunct mercury (Venus nearby) playing a strong role as well as a few other things. Maybe Pluto conjunct asc. Harmonious Sun/moon. Because the former for sure makes me more, "what you see is what you get. I don't play around when you're on my romantic radar." I've historically not even been very cautious. I jump right in and see what's what.
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: ...through a series of what she perceives as "games."
Y'all think he's doing this, too? It's just silly because as a Scorpio moon I don't do this. I only test people once they've become "committed". But I'm not looking for commitment. Just casual sex. IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 01:46 PM
lol if you're looking for casual sex, why ask this question? He's a guy just go for it -_- quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Y'all think he's doing this, too? It's just silly because as a Scorpio moon I don't do this. I only test people once they've become "committed". But I'm not looking for commitment. Just casual sex.
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 1576 From: The land of WP Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 01:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: lol if you're looking for casual sex, why ask this question? He's a guy just go for it -_-
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 01:58 PM
Ok ok so...I haven't known him very long and upon meeting him we found out that we both like drugs. Soooo the next time we hung out we did shrooms and had sex and stuff. It was fun it was great. He opened up but the next day I knew he was closed off again. Since then he's just been ignoring my texts. But he'll text me and when I reply he doesn't reply IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 291 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Y'all think he's doing this, too? It's just silly because as a Scorpio moon I don't do this. I only test people once they've become "committed". But I'm not looking for commitment. Just casual sex.
Are you really, though? IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:03 PM
why don't you just text him asking for sex. That's what he knows you for now, maybe he's not interested in talking about other things ahahahhaha quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Ok ok so...I haven't known him very long and upon meeting him we found out that we both like drugs. Soooo the next time we hung out we did shrooms and had sex and stuff. It was fun it was great. He opened up but the next day I knew he was closed off again. Since then he's just been ignoring my texts. But he'll text me and when I reply he doesn't reply
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:03 PM
Consistent casual sex.  IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: why don't you just text him asking for sex. That's what he knows you for now, maybe he's not interested in talking about other things ahahahhaha
You right you right hahaha I got to stop over thinking it sometimes But I feel like these guys run away because they fear that I'm gonna get attached ? IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:08 PM
I want him to be my secks and drug buddyIP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:09 PM
since u guys had sex while he was on drugs, he does not care if you will get attached or likes you in that way sex doesn't really count for venus in scorpio while theyre drunk or on drugs from what I have seen quote: Originally posted by goatcat: You right you right hahaha I got to stop over thinking it sometimes But I feel like these guys run away because they fear that I'm gonna get attached ?
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: since u guys had sex while he was on drugs, he does not care if you will get attached or likes you in that way sex doesn't really count for venus in scorpio while theyre drunk or on drugs from what I have seen you're sounding like a trolllll or you're just dumb
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:12 PM
Well shrooms are pretty spiritual and he had some insightful comments for me!I definitely felt our Mercury sextile Pluto synastry going on IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 65854 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 24, 2015 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Does Venus in Scorpio like to be pursued? Do they play games? What's up?
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:14 PM
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Nine Moderator Posts: 2516 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 24, 2015 02:15 PM
quote: My friend was with a Libra sun/Scorp venus. He pulled a lot of come-chase-me tricks, upto and including pretending to dump her and date another girl. After it was all over, he admitted he was trying to see 'if she would fight for me'.
A Scorpio/ViS told me the exact thing after I walked away, "You gave up too easily, you should've fought for me." I did! That is how we got involved in the first place. Sorry, but I refused to keep fighting the same fight over and over. Another ViS/Sag tried to "dump" me. I wasn't interested and didn't care for the attention so I quickly took up with another person. All hell then came loose. Oops. IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 230 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:15 PM
well idk what you want since deep conversation wasnt what you listed as things you are looking for with him so why does it matter stop wasting our time quote: Originally posted by goatcat: Well shrooms are pretty spiritual and he had some insightful comments for me!I definitely felt our Mercury sextile Pluto synastry going on
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goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:17 PM
Lundan I thought you were cool. IP: Logged |
goatcat Knowflake Posts: 1565 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 24, 2015 02:19 PM
Yes I want casual sex but I'm not gonna have sex with just anyone. Having sex with someone with great conversation is great. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 291 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 24, 2015 02:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: A Scorpio/ViS told me the exact thing after I walked away, "You gave up too easily, you should've fought for me." I did! That is how we got involved in the first place. Sorry, but I refused to keep fighting the same fight over and over.Another ViS/Sag tried to "dump" me. I wasn't interested and didn't care for the attention so I quickly took up with another person. All hell then came loose. Oops.
Sorry that you had to go through that. P.S. whaddya mean all hell came loose? What did he/you do? IP: Logged |