posted January 09, 2016 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluestar33:
I have Venus and Mercury in Gemini I'm a woman when I was very young I liked to flirt a lot but everything had to be playful in order to hold my attention if it was very serious or dull I would move on quickly..now that I'm much older I think what grabs my attention the most in a guy is honesty with a bit of mystery at first but not to much if that makes any sense..but what really turns me off is at the beginning of a relationship to be to serious with words to soon it's better to take it slow with words at first with Venus in Gemini and then we stick around oh and friendship is key if your fun and playful you will win over any Venus in Gemini

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Wow great advice, i do love this placement so much, my current best friend has it. Your advice really explains a lot bc I have venus and mars in the 8th in Leo with moon ruling 8th so i could see how I have sabotaged a bit some good connections even though they liked me..

Like with my current best friend we hit it off right away but our connection was not romantic when i like a venus in gemini romantically my venus in the 8th conjunct mars is too much...I could see based on your advice clearly what I need to do differently.