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Topic: Does anybody on here litterly have no friends in real life?
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meissieri
Knowflake Posts: 1491
From: Neptune with Faith, Bella, Muddy and Doux. Commuting between that and Chiron.
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 07, 2019 07:33 AM
  
I have had trouble making friends since I left high school. Even then, but there with the number of people there it was easy enough to find a few like-minded people. Even during my higher education, which was due to my health circumstances always night school, I struggled. Joined a lot of courses, clubs, internet communities over the years to find new friends but often felt that either I was way more invested than the others, or it was that I could quite easily make acqauintances, just not really friends. Like getting to know them better and developing more of a bond. I have Sun in the 11th, which you'd think would be perfect for having lots of groups of friends, organizations, etc. But with my South Node there as well, it's actually really hard! Sun squares Pluto so especially when I was younger, not having friends/good friends cut me so deep. No Capricorn/Saturn/Chiron 11th house or ruler in Capricorn like so many of these threads and articles suggest. Saturn makes a minor hard aspect to my Sun, though. It's funny I would take a lot of notes about threads like these and I have now used them for reference for my astrology channel!
(Ugh why isn't my signature showing? It includes the link to my channel...)
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Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 918
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 07, 2019 09:09 AM
What's the definition of Friend actually ?
I have many acquaintances but no close friend. For details astrological reason please check my chart.------------------
My Chart :
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pocketrocket
Knowflake Posts: 256
From: Italy
Registered: May 2017
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posted May 07, 2019 10:34 AM
Somna, maybe you should consider possibility that your birthdata is incorrect? I'm saying that because on many topics (99% of them) you are pointing to differences of your chart and your life, like you can't relate to their interpretation at all.
It's not just about life events, it's more how you don't even relate with natal aspects in internal level.
Being interested in astrology, find some good astrologer who will make you a rectification of your chart.
Ontopic,
Having Sa0Mo in 11th, I was always drawn to friends. Consider them very seriously, like chosen family. When I was younger, esp child, I was too much into that, wanting to have as much as possible friends, and ofc failed so many times 
Basicly, friends were more important than my family.
Over time, when you grow up, like in my case, I prefer to have a few close friends. I'm not that social as before and I don't mind.
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Stawr
Moderator Posts: 4155
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 07, 2019 09:46 PM
For me it’s more of the transits. I love having different groups of friends. I’m a 11th house sun. (Aries)I was pretty isolated going through the Saturn oppose Venus transit. Having Saturn and Pluto square sun...I know I have friends but really can’t make plans with them for a few more weeks. I appreciate their patience. I’ve had great stability in friendships in this decade overall. If I feel like I’m being used by someone it’s not a loss for me. One girl in my class seemed cool. Wanted to meet up and “study” but then she pulled out her laptop and wanted answers to online quizzes that were all due the next day. I had no indirectly tell her that’s not what I agreed on coming here for and then told her I had to get going. The next day she was cold to me and I did not care, and could care less in keeping in contact with someone like that. I also have Gemini rising and Scorpio Moon in 6th house IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 918
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 08, 2019 12:22 AM
quote:
Originally posted by pocketrocket:
Somna, maybe you should consider possibility that your birthdata is incorrect? I'm saying that because on many topics (99% of them) you are pointing to differences of your chart and your life, like you can't relate to their interpretation at all.
It's not just about life events, it's more how you don't even relate with natal aspects in internal level.
Being interested in astrology, find some good astrologer who will make you a rectification of your chart.
Can you see any indication of long lasting friendships in my chart ? If not then why are you complaing that data is wrong ? What planetery placement or aspetcs indicate long lasting friendships ?
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ballerina
Moderator Posts: 1946
From: A Place on Earth
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2019 12:36 AM
Walk away from astrology..
and you shall find yourSelf...------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 918
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 08, 2019 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by ballerina:
Walk away from astrology..
and you shall find yourSelf...
I can not.
It's Planets,the reason for this.
You can not do anything when you want and what you want. You can argue, debate etc but it's the truth. I can't read natal chart or I'm no Astrologer doesn't mean Astrology is Fake.
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ballerina
Moderator Posts: 1946
From: A Place on Earth
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2019 02:16 AM
Astrology is the negative agenda..
It shall not lead you to God...That is Truth. ... ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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ballerina
Moderator Posts: 1946
From: A Place on Earth
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2019 02:24 AM
Giggling..excuse me, i have
to hehe make a first meeting
chart...Hearty Laughter ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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ballerina
Moderator Posts: 1946
From: A Place on Earth
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2019 02:29 AM
Gosh darn it..
Follow your heart. .
Gut=tugGo within..be good...
Know the God in you...
Know Truth... ------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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DualGemV2
Knowflake Posts: 694
From: Toronto, Ontario
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 08, 2019 02:49 AM
I have a close Aquarius Female Friend (I'm male) whose a bit older then me that always knows how to make sense of things. We always help each other out.I literally re-tiled her floor and painted her room for her. My Jupiter always conjuncts Aquarious suns. I prefer one or two really close people that I can rely on and know they can rely on me. My Planets
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ballerina
Moderator Posts: 1946
From: A Place on Earth
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2019 03:12 AM
So..this must happen before
you even know their astrology
chart!? It just happens naturally,
or do you seek that!?------------------
All my love, with all my Heart
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Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 855
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 31, 2019 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I also have 11H Saturn, and my friends are very limited. I don't tolerate drama or insincerity, and a lot of people don't tolerate my eccentricity, so...Also, I don't like to be bothered a lot of the time. I kind of enjoy being by myself. I often become good friends with people I work with, because there is zero effort required to hang out, lol. Most of my friends I have either met while in school, or were coworkers at one time. And I basically never hang out with any of them anymore. That's part of the reason that it's so important for me to have coworkers I get along with. I often use work as my social outlet, because I'm already there, and we usually care about the same issues.
Same here!
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Cancer Rising
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
ULT12
Newflake Posts: 6
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Registered: Jul 2019
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posted July 31, 2019 08:13 PM
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anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 7171
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 31, 2019 09:26 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ballerina:
Giggling..excuse me, i have
to hehe make a first meeting
chart...Hearty Laughter
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SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 732
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted July 31, 2019 09:27 PM
Me. I don’t even really have social media. I mean I do have an instagram but not for friends. For memes and following celebrities I like lol. But Ive always been a loner. My teacher in elementary school told my mom that I was alone a lot anf would just sit alobe and read a book while other kids were playing. I like being alone and rarely get lonely.
Pisces and Aquarius stellium
12th house stellium
1st house stellium ------------------
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