posted February 05, 2016 01:22 PM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by Faith:
Worst Leo placement for me is Leo Mercury, probably because of the opposition to my Mercury. (Not talking about you, venus2tinkerbell, your Jupiter conjunction modifies it.)

---

Actually... I am a really aggressive and authoritative communicator in real life. I'm the effin boss. Lol. Seriously. It's not uncommon for my family members to say (under their breath), "you're not always right"

Wanna know what I hear them saying? I'm right 98% of the time. Good enough for me.

Lol. Faith are you sure Jup isn't just making my Merc expression worse?

This is the thing. If I'm not responsible for you or a project or work I'm so cool. I'm the fun girl/party chic. However, if my name is attached to a piece of work or project I take seriously, I'll be damned if I am going to sit idly by and let someone screw it up with my name attached

Where my family is concerned, I came from a broken home and got married early. I am also my mother's oldest. I grew up looking out for my mom, and my mother even depended on me to make decisions or make things right. To put it simply I was born into a role of responsibility and authority, and I've held the reigns until my brother grew up and got married, and my parents grew up and reconciled.

Whether it's my Western Mercury in Leo or Vedic Mercury in Cancer (which happens to have one of the worst reputations because of the Nakshatra), or Vedic Aries Moon; when it comes to this reality $hit , my adult family members and colleagues love and hate me. But really they love me more

eta: I tell my brother I know he went to law school just so he might have a fair chance at winning an argument with me

Lol. I can imagine Faith, DopGang, and Dreaminess all giving me the stinky eye.

Interestingly I have a very different approach with my children. They are like partners...

Ok, so to the original question. I have a hard time with Cancer Mars in men (ETA: but I guess it's a matter of incompatibility). I just want to get tangled up and have dirty sex with Cancer Mars, the way only we Cancers can. But I'm too loud, and untraditional. I don't play right, I don't play nice. They turn on me. I feel like they attack me from behind or something..and not in the fun way.

I love water moons to death. I just can't work with them. Again I am too aggressive, impatient etc. There are plenty of water Moons I consider wiser and more capable than myself, and I would still not work with them. I know the frenzy I get into when I work would ruin our relationship and I would feel like such a loser.

------------------
Correction:

Cancer Asc
Aries Moon
Taurus Mars
Gemini Venus
Aquarius (?) SN

posted February 05, 2016 08:45 PM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by Seimei:
I Have never met an aspect I did not like,,
a few people

---

I've seen you comment a few times on threads like this and I always appreciate your input.

posted February 05, 2016 10:06 PM              

also, they are too sensitive and make me look like a monster in comparison because im straight forward and no nonsense.
ive learned my lesson indeed.

posted February 05, 2016 10:29 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Since this topic is still here...

Scorpio or 8th house Moon can give me fits. My 8th house Gemini Sun and Merc want you to tell me how you feel, but Scorp Moon is the black hole on that score.

Me "I can't read your mind. Use your words."
Them "..."

I don't typically have this problem with other Scorpio placements.

---

OMG!!! I too have have the same exact placements in Gemini Sun comjunct Mercury in the 8th! I attract Scorpio moons like a moth to a flame and i want to see inside their heads. I obssess with knowing their feelings but of course...they never show it.

posted February 05, 2016 10:42 PM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I've seen you comment a few times on threads like this and I always appreciate your input.

---

posted February 05, 2016 11:47 PM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by Gemini30:
OMG!!! I too have have the same exact placements in Gemini Sun comjunct Mercury in the 8th! I attract Scorpio moons like a moth to a flame and i want to see inside their heads. I obssess with knowing their feelings but of course...they never show it.

****** me off.

---

posted February 06, 2016 05:21 AM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by Seimei:

venus2
Are you stroking my Leo moon?

---

Mmmm...that sounds so naughty

but no. I really mean it. Thank you!

posted February 06, 2016 09:01 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I love water moons to death. I just can't work with them.

---

Hehehe I love that I dissed your Mercury and you make it sound like my moon is incompetent. Now we're equal!

Mars conjunct Mars...that's how it should be.

*fist bump*

posted February 06, 2016 09:34 AM              

Example:

My son's gavel club mentor who is a water moon trained at Oxford. Wanna talk about articulate and refined? She wants me to help her in some way. I'm not sure how. I'm scared to. I'm scared that when I feel things aren't going the way they should for some reason and I want to act now, and she says we should wait or take a different course of action, I'll feel my face getting hot like it does. I'll start breathing heavy, pacing and talking to myself like a maniac in order to stay myself...

I admire her ability to sit quietly and patiently while someone (another organizer) is rude or condescending, and then calmly, gently deliver a rebuttal. She looks passive in a moment I see her being attacked. I'm ready to draw blood, and the minutes go by...she waits...

I can't work in partnership with her.

But! You know what? I am willing to work for her. If I relinquish all responsibility except to do what I'm told, I can calm down and actually learn something. I'm seriously not willing to work as a subordinate to many, but this water moon might have me. This is the same reason I'm fascinated with Kris Jenner.

posted February 06, 2016 10:16 AM            

I hear you, about water moons.

As a Pisces moon I hate to delegate. I was asked to be the art director for my kids' group's play, and I tried to be as democratic as possible, which p*ssed off some parents who wanted things done NOW. Well hey, it takes time to work up to Pisces, we have to ask alllllll the members of the zodiac how they want everything to look. But after all that surveying was done, THEN we could work, because I knew a lot of people were on board, willing and happy to carry out their design. And the time we "wasted" (?) at the beginning, I compensated for at the end, with work marathons, with the people who most WANTED to be there. So. It got done. The Cap-Pisces way.

My critics would have sacrificed democracy for efficiency and order, and that is very cool, too...but with an art project?? Please.

Good luck with this project, I think your concerns make perfect sense (what with your ARIES moon and all!) and it's interesting to read about...you're always interesting.

Must be the...uh...AWESOME Leo Mercury.*

*Aspected by a ton of planets, on the ASC, not your usual crappy Leo Mercury.

Just kidding!! Honestly, I regret ever complaining about that placement here, I overstated my case.

posted February 06, 2016 10:49 AM              

I know that my aggressive get 'er done style comes from some kind of childhood trauma that triggers a fight or fight reaction when things seem to go wrong or I feel threatened or challenged. But life has changed, and I know I need to change too.

So nice for me you find crazy people interesting lol.

You're right. I'm not old yet, but I am scared of a lot of random things, like being misunderstood 😌 lol.

posted February 06, 2016 11:50 AM            

Actually I have the same thing, overreacting, and people say What happened to you, to make you like that?

Beats me. No idea. Musta been so bad I forgot!

How interesting though, I was just thinking about it yesterday...how I need to change.

Happy Saturday, I gotta get off this computer!

posted February 06, 2016 05:00 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It's not that serious fam. You'll never see it if you try too hard lol. Their thing is they feel and react like any other normal person but they won't show that reaction. If you just listened to them with your intuition more and your mind / thoughts less you'd get it.

---

posted February 06, 2016 05:54 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Julz87:
One aspect, Mercury square Neptune - you pathological LIAR!

EDIT: But fantastic storytellers

---

posted February 06, 2016 06:16 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Odette:
I don't really feel comfortable with retrograde personal planets, specially Venus. There are exceptions to this... but often the planet is expressed in a way that is just peculiar - not good nor bad - just "wth"
I still like these people though. It's not a matter of not liking them. It's just that I feel a bit like I can't count on them in whatever area the planet rules - because they are unpredictable and erratic - and not always honest/upfront when it comes to those particular matters.

---

Tell me abut the other Retros, in your opinion, because I value it a lot, Odette.

------------------
Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.

posted February 07, 2016 10:49 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I don't like moon/mars hard aspects. In my experience they react and speak and get angry before they listen things through and can get themselves into a lot of embarrassing misunderstandings, and they can be selfish and arrogant too. I`m not a fan of strong gemini or pisces influence either, i have no time and can't stand the two (or more) faced silliness and lies. And i`m like you i am also not a fan of cap mercuries i usually find conversations with them boring, for me its like listening to a teacher in class and waiting for the bell to ring so i can get out of there haha.

Btw this is just my opinion and experiences with these influences in a chart you might have a different experience with them

---

I'm not going to get into a fight, but I do take things like this personally - even though I know a lot of people in the world have no idea what a Gemini Moon or Venus is.

posted February 07, 2016 10:52 PM            

An aspect I cannot stand is moon opposite neptune. Way too manipulative and dishonest. The sad thing is they believe their own BS.

Scorpio suns and moons are great! However, I'm wary of venus in scorpios. They have always betrayed me in the past. I just can't trust them.

posted February 07, 2016 10:58 PM            

In recent years, it's been one Leo woman, and a couple of Capricorn women - one being my sister. But I don't want to offend anyone like Faith, so I will resist going into one of my huge angry/depressing rants about them. The second woman was fine with me occasionally, but for the most part, two years ago, she seemed to both look down on me, and resent me - just like my sister - and I felt like it was because I'm an Aries. That **** drives me nuts, when someone is really nasty with it. They get caught behind their own assumptions about a sign, rather than paying attention to the actual person, and then act on them as though they're right.

posted February 08, 2016 01:35 AM              

quote:

---

Originally posted by teasel:
I'm not going to get into a fight, but I do take things like this personally - even though I know a lot of people in the world have no idea what a Gemini Moon or Venus is.

I also have them square Mars in Pisces. And I think the mutable nature softens my reactions, unless I'm just getting absolutely pelted by life (people).

---

posted February 08, 2016 03:28 AM            

There already stubborn to begin with, but with the Aries added in there pretty much a "stubborn loose cannon". They can easily flare up over nothing and don't forget about the stubbornness.

But when they don't flare up there as sweet as apple pie