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Stawr
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posted November 19, 2022 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I know several Aquarius Moons and I absolutely adore them. Stubborn? Yes, but I usually understand where they are coming from. I have a Libra Rising and Aquarius 5th house, so maybe that’s why I’m fond of Aquarius Moon.

I don’t know any particular sign placements that I would avoid, but my experience with natal Mars square Pluto has not been pleasant. It’s a very tricky placement when it comes to anger.


Aquarius moons. I just think they can be kind of rude, and they try to push my buttons with my control freak Scorpio stellilum. Their rhetorical questions and comments. It seems like they try to get under my skin on purpose. My niece has this Moon. We love each other, but omg sometimes the defiance. It was frustrating when I nannied because she was the oldest but also the most demanding. She is very well behaved in public. I like to take her on girly outings. We bond over being into make up and fashion.
I can click w/ straight men who have this moon sign. What can I say, I have mars here. I can give them a ragging hard on...but I need more of an emotional connection.

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posted November 19, 2022 06:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love how no one follows the thread topic which says which aspects do you not like, not which signs.
I can have issues with mercury square Mars people. they can be too stupidly blunt sometimes

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posted November 19, 2022 07:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In all honesty, I don't really dislike any particular aspect.

I will admit I will get annoyed at times, but each aspect has a place and time for its use.

I use to hate on particular aspects in people then I started realizing that you probably caught them in the moment were that person isn't meant to shine.

Then wait for a moment and right transits to be present for that person to really show the pros of those placements.

For example I really use to hate the intense energy and nasty bite scoprios give.

Then a couple strong scorpio individuals started using that intense energy to help me.

So I guess I think of every placement that way, it can be harnessed in a good way or in a bad way.

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I try not to discriminate by placements/ aspects and I might don’t know anybody I don’t have a negative experience with. So goods and bads often go together.

I used to like intense people with strong mars and Pluto, maybe Uranus. I thought they were kinda interesting, never boring. They could be helpful in war periods, but in peace time they often don’t know how to function and keep creating problems. I’m tired from it. I want to make deal with more chill, maybe boring, but supportive people nowadays.

Also, their inability to communicate properly is annoying.

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Someone said it here.. Female Aqua suns. They've got sth about them that comes off very haughty..

Female Cancer suns.. had a ton of ex-colleagues with this placement. Gossipy, they always wanna play the mom role despite being immature and unwise in many aspects.

Taurus moons and their stubbornness is a handful.

Pluto sq venus. Absolute creeps.

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posted November 20, 2022 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kani:
I love how no one follows the thread topic which says which aspects do you not like, not which signs.
I can have issues with mercury square Mars people. they can be too stupidly blunt sometimes

I'm glad you love it too

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posted November 20, 2022 03:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon square Venus

Holy mommy self esteem issues! My husband and SIL have this!

Their mom is psychologically abusive to them. Tries to pit same gender people in the family against each other. It works, and then they resent and hate that other person. They both were raised to be hard workers I give them that. But they both have self esteem problems. They hate themselves and project it on to other people that don't deserve it. Oh and they act like their mom is the queen. Obey just about her every command on short notice. They are obsessed with receiving validation from their mom. Their mom does like to give it to them, even if they accomplished something pretty awesome. My husband is decently aware. When we argue, sometimes he would say "you're just like my mom, nothing I do is ever good enough!"

My mom has also done toxic things to pit my sister and I against each other. But nothing to the level of cruelty of my MIL. Or maybe it just feels like it because my mom usually showed favoritism to me in a way, but on the downside I was very helicopter parented. My sister pointed this out to me, and how it makes sense because my mom does not have a good relationship with her two sisters. My sister and I did not get along when we lived together. But we became like best friends once she moved out. We bond over talking about how crazy our mom is.

I also think it helps that my sister and I were (and still are even after death) close with my Grandma and Great Aunt. They were close and supported each other. They survived the great depression, and my great aunt would watch my dad when my grandma had no choice but to work because of Grandpa's gambling problems. They role modeled good sisterhood to me and my sister.

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posted November 20, 2022 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
apparently i'm annoying according to this 😅 oh well

I don't think you are.

I'm always surprised if my aspects aren't mentioned. I'm a Gemini Moon conjunct Venus. Double trouble, to some. And they square Mars.

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posted November 20, 2022 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
In all honesty, I don't really dislike any particular aspect.

I will admit I will get annoyed at times, but each aspect has a place and time for its use.

I use to hate on particular aspects in people then I started realizing that you probably caught them in the moment were that person isn't meant to shine.

Then wait for a moment and right transits to be present for that person to really show the pros of those placements.

For example I really use to hate the intense energy and nasty bite scoprios give.

Then a couple strong scorpio individuals started using that intense energy to help me.

So I guess I think of every placement that way, it can be harnessed in a good way or in a bad way.

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Scorpio woman are always hit or miss with me. If a Scorpio sun woman doesn't like me or see's me as competition they are on everything I say or do like a fly on shite.
The Scorpio women I do get along with I like to go out with them and sizzle.
There was one exception Scorpio woman I have a love/hate relationship with. We make better friends than coworkers.

And the men, I'm obsessed with them to a point where it can get concerning. The early degree Scorpio's only trine and sextile in my chart, makes for great chemistry. (women too, not in that way, but affectionate.) I have Juno and Valentine in Scorpio...I would probably jump off a cliff if they told me too.

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posted November 20, 2022 04:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stawr:
Scorpio woman are always hit or miss with me…

And the men, I'm obsessed with them to a point where it can get concerning…


You’re a Scorpio Pluto Moon right? I think that without romantic chemistry it explains a certain competitiveness to the point of power struggles with Scorpio Suns. With romantic attraction, I can see how it could eventually lead to obsession. Pluto Moon natal aspects are very difficult because it points to a “death and rebirth” (Pluto) proces of our most sensitive inner part (Moon). It’s also very much internalized, so people often have no clue what kind of emotional turmoil the Pluto Moon native actually is going through.

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I don't really like intense, crazy, stupid (using feelings more than using the brain), emotional, unreasonable anger in people.

If we talk only aspects....

- Mars/Pluto contact, especially the hard aspect (but the soft aspect can act like one too). Some people may like their sexual aura, but for me, I feel uncomfortable living like I am always afraid to make the person next to me angry because their anger can feel dangerous. What I have observed, once angered, people around them know that they could do something dangerous to knock you down and they are not someone who will regret about it. People are afraid of them because of the anger and "what they can possibly do to harm", nothing else.

- Mercury/Mars contact, especially the hard aspect one. For some people their bluntness may be a fun thing, but in relationship, for me, I need someone who knows where to put their words at the right place, who knows how to control their anger in public. Sometimes they don't even know which one is private, which one is public. Once angered, they don't care who, when, where, the words are coming unexpectedly. They also don't even realize they could attract hidden enemy who take the advantage of their bluntness. Yeah, sometimes that stupid bluntness...

- Any aspect that link to "easily irritated mood" person, like, please... it's not even worth it.

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posted November 21, 2022 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You’re a Scorpio Pluto Moon right? I think that without romantic chemistry it explains a certain competitiveness to the point of power struggles with Scorpio Suns. With romantic attraction, I can see how it could eventually lead to obsession. Pluto Moon natal aspects are very difficult because it points to a “death and rebirth” (Pluto) proces of our most sensitive inner part (Moon). It’s also very much internalized, so people often have no clue what kind of emotional turmoil the Pluto Moon native actually is going through.

Misunderstood on steroids sometimes. Especially this entire month. I cannot wait for the Sagittarius stuff to move 11 degrees. I do not like having a 6th house Scorpio. Besides making me more into alternative health.

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posted November 21, 2022 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Moon in Scorpio 🤮

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posted November 21, 2022 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Oh yes. Mars is in Libra

I like this Mars. My dad has it, and one of my best friends has it. One of my childhood best friends has it too.

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My grandma has her Saturn and Pluto conjunction on her asc. She is the most controlling, manipulative and bigotted person I know. We do love each other but she is toxic. Like very very toxic. To everyone in the family, not just me.

I agree about Venus square moon meaning self esteem issues because of mother's psychological abuse. My aunt has it. And what my grandma has done (and continues doing) to her emotionally is nothing short of horrendous. Outside of that my aunt is a very nice person.

About only Saturn on the asc (Pluto Saturn conjunction is rare I suppose) my dad and a friend have it.

In the least negative expression it makes them afraid of life and very very serious and introverted. In the more negative expression it makes them controlling, abusive and authoritarian because they are profoundly insecure about themselves and attack others first because they are convinced others don't like them. Also depressive

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Moon- Pluto hard aspects, especially the square. Male or Female.

I have 5 planets in Scorpio loosely conjunct Pluto with Pluto also ruling my 7H.. conjunct mars.. so I am very self-aware and willing to dig.

People with moon-pluto hard aspects seem to shy away from digging below the surface despite the plutonic energy. It's very annoying.. because they're also usually very strong-willed and arrogant, in an emotional sense. They want undying love and loyalty, but run most people off with their mistrusting nature. No one in their right mind would stick around and endure endless tests just to be rejected anyway. It never ends.

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I second Saturn Pluto conjunctions as being short hand for “hard arse.” I know that wasn’t the phrase used but it’s all just semantics when you are up against that level of toxicity.

Another that I dislike is Sun opposite Saturn; there’s the unwillingness to assume responsibility. There’s the constant Debbie downer attitude and simultaneous yearning for public stature and status. If supported by an ill-placed Chiron, and a thwarted chart ruler, the self-esteem issues are so overwhelming as to make any contact feel like walking on eggshells. These people can hurt you simply by shrinking from their own imagined slights.

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moon/saturn difficult aspects **** me off because they can’t move on from their terrible childhood/life events and somehow think they just “have to suffer”, that life “has to be that way” when in reality every adult can change their entire surroundings in a matter of hours.
sort of “written” in stone kinda people, jealous of others who have it easier and extremely insecure.


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I can’t change my surroundings in a matter of hours. But I’m not going to get into it.

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I don't hate these people but it usually doesn't work out like 70%+ of the time. For me, as a Moon in Leo I have a hard time getting along with those with Moon in Taurus!

I get it it's a square, so there's always going to be tension there! But I'm just hesitant when I see someone with Moon in Taurus.

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Judge Judy has Moon in Pisces. I wonder if her Moon in Pisces squaring my Sun in Sagittarius would get into delicious verbal fights!

There definitely a tension with me, and Pisces Moon! I can definitely see me and them sparring for power!

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Many people don't like Leo people or planets in Leo. It's actually a cool sign, you shouldn't disappoint them too much, that's it, lol. not even once, for some Leo people

I find Sun in Scorpio difficult. I prefer Moon Scorpio or Scorpion ascendant
Mercury in Pisces is sometimes too silent and doesn't listen. but it depends
Sun in Virgo is kind but a little conformist (not too much, but in some way) and I'm Pisces
I don't really like Sun opposed Pluto

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