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Topic: Aspects you dont like in people and why?
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 19, 2022 03:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: I know several Aquarius Moons and I absolutely adore them. Stubborn? Yes, but I usually understand where they are coming from. I have a Libra Rising and Aquarius 5th house, so maybe that’s why I’m fond of Aquarius Moon.I don’t know any particular sign placements that I would avoid, but my experience with natal Mars square Pluto has not been pleasant. It’s a very tricky placement when it comes to anger.
Aquarius moons. I just think they can be kind of rude, and they try to push my buttons with my control freak Scorpio stellilum. Their rhetorical questions and comments. It seems like they try to get under my skin on purpose. My niece has this Moon. We love each other, but omg sometimes the defiance. It was frustrating when I nannied because she was the oldest but also the most demanding. She is very well behaved in public. I like to take her on girly outings. We bond over being into make up and fashion. I can click w/ straight men who have this moon sign. What can I say, I have mars here. I can give them a ragging hard on...but I need more of an emotional connection. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 1264 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted November 19, 2022 06:01 AM
I love how no one follows the thread topic which says which aspects do you not like, not which signs. I can have issues with mercury square Mars people. they can be too stupidly blunt sometimesIP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 1185 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted November 19, 2022 07:07 AM
In all honesty, I don't really dislike any particular aspect. I will admit I will get annoyed at times, but each aspect has a place and time for its use. I use to hate on particular aspects in people then I started realizing that you probably caught them in the moment were that person isn't meant to shine. Then wait for a moment and right transits to be present for that person to really show the pros of those placements. For example I really use to hate the intense energy and nasty bite scoprios give. Then a couple strong scorpio individuals started using that intense energy to help me. So I guess I think of every placement that way, it can be harnessed in a good way or in a bad way. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2502 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted November 19, 2022 11:51 AM
I try not to discriminate by placements/ aspects and I might don’t know anybody I don’t have a negative experience with. So goods and bads often go together.I used to like intense people with strong mars and Pluto, maybe Uranus. I thought they were kinda interesting, never boring. They could be helpful in war periods, but in peace time they often don’t know how to function and keep creating problems. I’m tired from it. I want to make deal with more chill, maybe boring, but supportive people nowadays. Also, their inability to communicate properly is annoying.
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angryant2021 Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Registered: Feb 2021
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posted November 19, 2022 12:34 PM
Someone said it here.. Female Aqua suns. They've got sth about them that comes off very haughty.. Female Cancer suns.. had a ton of ex-colleagues with this placement. Gossipy, they always wanna play the mom role despite being immature and unwise in many aspects. Taurus moons and their stubbornness is a handful. Pluto sq venus. Absolute creeps. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 20, 2022 03:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by kani: I love how no one follows the thread topic which says which aspects do you not like, not which signs. I can have issues with mercury square Mars people. they can be too stupidly blunt sometimes
I'm glad you love it too IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 20, 2022 03:50 AM
Moon square VenusHoly mommy self esteem issues! My husband and SIL have this! Their mom is psychologically abusive to them. Tries to pit same gender people in the family against each other. It works, and then they resent and hate that other person. They both were raised to be hard workers I give them that. But they both have self esteem problems. They hate themselves and project it on to other people that don't deserve it. Oh and they act like their mom is the queen. Obey just about her every command on short notice. They are obsessed with receiving validation from their mom. Their mom does like to give it to them, even if they accomplished something pretty awesome. My husband is decently aware. When we argue, sometimes he would say "you're just like my mom, nothing I do is ever good enough!" My mom has also done toxic things to pit my sister and I against each other. But nothing to the level of cruelty of my MIL. Or maybe it just feels like it because my mom usually showed favoritism to me in a way, but on the downside I was very helicopter parented. My sister pointed this out to me, and how it makes sense because my mom does not have a good relationship with her two sisters. My sister and I did not get along when we lived together. But we became like best friends once she moved out. We bond over talking about how crazy our mom is. I also think it helps that my sister and I were (and still are even after death) close with my Grandma and Great Aunt. They were close and supported each other. They survived the great depression, and my great aunt would watch my dad when my grandma had no choice but to work because of Grandpa's gambling problems. They role modeled good sisterhood to me and my sister. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 26857 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 20, 2022 03:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: apparently i'm annoying according to this 😅 oh well
I don't think you are. I'm always surprised if my aspects aren't mentioned. I'm a Gemini Moon conjunct Venus. Double trouble, to some. And they square Mars. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 20, 2022 03:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: In all honesty, I don't really dislike any particular aspect. I will admit I will get annoyed at times, but each aspect has a place and time for its use. I use to hate on particular aspects in people then I started realizing that you probably caught them in the moment were that person isn't meant to shine. Then wait for a moment and right transits to be present for that person to really show the pros of those placements. For example I really use to hate the intense energy and nasty bite scoprios give. Then a couple strong scorpio individuals started using that intense energy to help me. So I guess I think of every placement that way, it can be harnessed in a good way or in a bad way. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑
Scorpio woman are always hit or miss with me. If a Scorpio sun woman doesn't like me or see's me as competition they are on everything I say or do like a fly on shite. The Scorpio women I do get along with I like to go out with them and sizzle. There was one exception Scorpio woman I have a love/hate relationship with. We make better friends than coworkers. And the men, I'm obsessed with them to a point where it can get concerning. The early degree Scorpio's only trine and sextile in my chart, makes for great chemistry. (women too, not in that way, but affectionate.) I have Juno and Valentine in Scorpio...I would probably jump off a cliff if they told me too. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted November 20, 2022 04:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: Scorpio woman are always hit or miss with me…And the men, I'm obsessed with them to a point where it can get concerning…
You’re a Scorpio Pluto Moon right? I think that without romantic chemistry it explains a certain competitiveness to the point of power struggles with Scorpio Suns. With romantic attraction, I can see how it could eventually lead to obsession. Pluto Moon natal aspects are very difficult because it points to a “death and rebirth” (Pluto) proces of our most sensitive inner part (Moon). It’s also very much internalized, so people often have no clue what kind of emotional turmoil the Pluto Moon native actually is going through. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1323 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 20, 2022 10:27 PM
I don't really like intense, crazy, stupid (using feelings more than using the brain), emotional, unreasonable anger in people.If we talk only aspects.... - Mars/Pluto contact, especially the hard aspect (but the soft aspect can act like one too). Some people may like their sexual aura, but for me, I feel uncomfortable living like I am always afraid to make the person next to me angry because their anger can feel dangerous. What I have observed, once angered, people around them know that they could do something dangerous to knock you down and they are not someone who will regret about it. People are afraid of them because of the anger and "what they can possibly do to harm", nothing else. - Mercury/Mars contact, especially the hard aspect one. For some people their bluntness may be a fun thing, but in relationship, for me, I need someone who knows where to put their words at the right place, who knows how to control their anger in public. Sometimes they don't even know which one is private, which one is public. Once angered, they don't care who, when, where, the words are coming unexpectedly. They also don't even realize they could attract hidden enemy who take the advantage of their bluntness. Yeah, sometimes that stupid bluntness... - Any aspect that link to "easily irritated mood" person, like, please... it's not even worth it. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 21, 2022 02:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: You’re a Scorpio Pluto Moon right? I think that without romantic chemistry it explains a certain competitiveness to the point of power struggles with Scorpio Suns. With romantic attraction, I can see how it could eventually lead to obsession. Pluto Moon natal aspects are very difficult because it points to a “death and rebirth” (Pluto) proces of our most sensitive inner part (Moon). It’s also very much internalized, so people often have no clue what kind of emotional turmoil the Pluto Moon native actually is going through.
Misunderstood on steroids sometimes. Especially this entire month. I cannot wait for the Sagittarius stuff to move 11 degrees. I do not like having a 6th house Scorpio. Besides making me more into alternative health. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 21, 2022 02:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by diamondbaby: Moon in Scorpio 🤮
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 9039 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 21, 2022 12:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Oh yes. Mars is in Libra 
I like this Mars. My dad has it, and one of my best friends has it. One of my childhood best friends has it too. IP: Logged |
M1313 Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Dec 2020
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posted November 06, 2023 02:06 AM
My grandma has her Saturn and Pluto conjunction on her asc. She is the most controlling, manipulative and bigotted person I know. We do love each other but she is toxic. Like very very toxic. To everyone in the family, not just me. I agree about Venus square moon meaning self esteem issues because of mother's psychological abuse. My aunt has it. And what my grandma has done (and continues doing) to her emotionally is nothing short of horrendous. Outside of that my aunt is a very nice person. About only Saturn on the asc (Pluto Saturn conjunction is rare I suppose) my dad and a friend have it. In the least negative expression it makes them afraid of life and very very serious and introverted. In the more negative expression it makes them controlling, abusive and authoritarian because they are profoundly insecure about themselves and attack others first because they are convinced others don't like them. Also depressive IP: Logged |
93nov Knowflake Posts: 276 From: Registered: Oct 2019
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posted November 06, 2023 07:14 AM
Moon- Pluto hard aspects, especially the square. Male or Female.I have 5 planets in Scorpio loosely conjunct Pluto with Pluto also ruling my 7H.. conjunct mars.. so I am very self-aware and willing to dig. People with moon-pluto hard aspects seem to shy away from digging below the surface despite the plutonic energy. It's very annoying.. because they're also usually very strong-willed and arrogant, in an emotional sense. They want undying love and loyalty, but run most people off with their mistrusting nature. No one in their right mind would stick around and endure endless tests just to be rejected anyway. It never ends. IP: Logged |
StrangeCat Knowflake Posts: 140 From: Kangarooland Registered: Nov 2023
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posted November 13, 2023 07:02 AM
I second Saturn Pluto conjunctions as being short hand for “hard arse.” I know that wasn’t the phrase used but it’s all just semantics when you are up against that level of toxicity. Another that I dislike is Sun opposite Saturn; there’s the unwillingness to assume responsibility. There’s the constant Debbie downer attitude and simultaneous yearning for public stature and status. If supported by an ill-placed Chiron, and a thwarted chart ruler, the self-esteem issues are so overwhelming as to make any contact feel like walking on eggshells. These people can hurt you simply by shrinking from their own imagined slights. IP: Logged |
problematique Knowflake Posts: 151 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted November 24, 2023 06:47 AM
moon/saturn difficult aspects **** me off because they can’t move on from their terrible childhood/life events and somehow think they just “have to suffer”, that life “has to be that way” when in reality every adult can change their entire surroundings in a matter of hours. sort of “written” in stone kinda people, jealous of others who have it easier and extremely insecure.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 26857 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2023 12:45 PM
I can’t change my surroundings in a matter of hours. But I’m not going to get into it. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 184578 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 11, 2023 06:24 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 184578 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 12, 2024 01:55 PM
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 203 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted January 12, 2024 03:09 PM
I don't hate these people but it usually doesn't work out like 70%+ of the time. For me, as a Moon in Leo I have a hard time getting along with those with Moon in Taurus!I get it it's a square, so there's always going to be tension there! But I'm just hesitant when I see someone with Moon in Taurus. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 184578 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2024 06:59 PM
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 203 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted January 29, 2024 01:43 PM
Judge Judy has Moon in Pisces. I wonder if her Moon in Pisces squaring my Sun in Sagittarius would get into delicious verbal fights!There definitely a tension with me, and Pisces Moon! I can definitely see me and them sparring for power! ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
arcturus90 Knowflake Posts: 631 From: Arcturus Registered: Nov 2017
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posted February 15, 2024 08:09 PM
Many people don't like Leo people or planets in Leo. It's actually a cool sign, you shouldn't disappoint them too much, that's it, lol. not even once, for some Leo peopleI find Sun in Scorpio difficult. I prefer Moon Scorpio or Scorpion ascendant Mercury in Pisces is sometimes too silent and doesn't listen. but it depends Sun in Virgo is kind but a little conformist (not too much, but in some way) and I'm Pisces I don't really like Sun opposed Pluto IP: Logged |