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Geminiyoungster
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posted January 29, 2016 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
please ppl dont get in your feelings again..

I'll start.. It something about scorpio placements I dislike, and capicorn suns or mercury. Idk, but I dont I dont want them being my manager if they dont have an air moon to balance out like libra!

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posted January 29, 2016 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
please ppl dont get in your feelings again..

But I'm scared.
What if they do?!
I'm actually half serious. I don't want anyone to think that I'm going to dislike them due to a bad history with placements. It's silly, but there is a history.

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posted January 29, 2016 11:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I guess, with that.

Leo sun (they're surprisingly quiet)
Leo asc

Leo moon or mars. No. After 10 minutes I'm afraid that I'm going to be forced to hit you in the face.

I'm not even sure why. They seem bossy and arrogant to me.
Sun and asc seem more chill.
Mercury, I'm not sure. I haven't known anyone with only that in Leo.

Gosh, I think I've been around 7-8 moons and maybe 4-5 mars. Initially things are great but always ends in disaster.

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posted January 30, 2016 05:28 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't like moon/mars hard aspects. In my experience they react and speak and get angry before they listen things through and can get themselves into a lot of embarrassing misunderstandings. And they can be selfish and arrogant too. I`m not a fan of strong gemini or pisces influence either, i have no time and can't stand the two (or more) faced silliness and lies. And i`m like you i am also not a fan of cap mercuries i usually find conversations with them boring, for me its like listening to a teacher in class and waiting for the bell to ring so i can get out of there haha.

Btw this is just my opinion and experiences with these influences in a chart you might have a different experience with them

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posted January 30, 2016 08:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Edit.

I didn't say anything bad. I simply decided to change my mind about posting.

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posted January 30, 2016 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:

Leo sun (they're surprisingly quiet)
Leo asc


Thanks and ditto...I like these placements.

I also like Leo moon & Mars.

Leo outer planets are a worthwhile struggle for me. I'm used to it. But sometimes I still grit my teeth at their energy.

Worst Leo placement for me is Leo Mercury, probably because of the opposition to my Mercury. (Not talking about you, venus2tinkerbell, your Jupiter conjunction modifies it.)

The pattern I've seen is, they state things in definitive terms and assume the role of teacher. Other people can do that and I'm fine with it. The style of Leo Mercury grates on me, however. It feels to me like they are begging for an argument. Distracting.

Any time someone acts like they have a major superiority complex, it probably triggers my own and basically stirs me up too much inside.

Sag placements, especially the moon, can also assume that "I AM THE GREATEST!" role...but sometimes they really don't...so I'd hate to sound biased against them when I'm not.

My only true bias is probably against Leo Mercury. Too many bad experiences with it.

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posted January 30, 2016 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 30, 2016 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
And i`m like you i am also not a fan of cap mercuries i usually find conversations with them boring, for me its like listening to a teacher in class and waiting for the bell to ring so i can get out of there haha.

Cap Mercuries tend to make me feel insecure unless it's conjunct a dynamic planet like Mars.

Just their short answers for everything...it feels abrupt to me, sometimes.

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posted January 30, 2016 10:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The pattern I've seen is, they state things in definitive terms and assume the role of teacher. Other people can do that and I'm fine with it. The style of Leo Mercury grates on me, however. It feels to me like they are begging for an argument. Distracting."

This is exactly how my brother is and why i find him irritating but he got a leo moon.

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posted January 30, 2016 11:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@faith We got compatible moons, mercury and venus probably why i like you hehe The thing is i love pisces good side and can get along with them bc i am neptunian myself but i just don't like the lies and mimicking that i`ve seen from them many times and it makes it hard for me to want to get close with one.

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posted January 30, 2016 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh you saw my comment Sorry I didn't mean to put you on the spot.

Yes, granted, Pisces has flaws like everyone.


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posted January 30, 2016 11:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha yes i did and no problem

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posted January 30, 2016 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Well I guess, with that.

Leo sun (they're surprisingly quiet)
Leo asc

Leo moon or mars. No. After 10 minutes I'm afraid that I'm going to be forced to hit you in the face.

I'm not even sure why. They seem bossy and arrogant to me.



Damn you probably would hate me!hahahahahahaha.
My moon is conjunct mars in leo. Why would you say this though? I'm pretty quiet with people though..

And yea, Leo suns are quiet and not most textbook leos at all!!

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posted January 30, 2016 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by DopGang:
[b]Well I guess, with that.

Leo sun (they're surprisingly quiet)
Leo asc

Leo moon or mars. No. After 10 minutes I'm afraid that I'm going to be forced to hit you in the face.

I'm not even sure why. They seem bossy and arrogant to me.



Damn you probably would hate me!hahahahahahaha.
My moon is conjunct mars in leo. Why would you say this though? I'm pretty quiet with people though..

And yea, Leo suns are quiet and not most textbook leos at all!![/B][/QUOTE]


Im glad to see people admitting this. Most of the stereotypical leo traits I've never seen in other leo suns, its always the ascendants, or leo moon, barring someone whose other placements i think mitigated and calmed down his leo moon.

I don't like people with outer planet stellium in Virgo. Ive never encountered one who wasn't an a.ss

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posted January 30, 2016 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've really liked Leo mars/moon, a lot. It just didn't last. It always ends with me icing them out.
Could it be my Saturn in Leo?

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

I don't like people with outer planet stellium in Virgo. Ive never encountered one who wasn't an a.ss



hehe I as well tend to have difficulties with this generation....

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posted January 31, 2016 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:

Could it be my Saturn in Leo?

I was reading in another thread. Yep, that's exactly what it is. My Saturn.

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posted February 01, 2016 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquagembaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
capicorn suns or mercury. Idk, but I dont I dont want them being my manager if they dont have an air moon to balance out like libra!

quote:
Originally posted by Dreaminess:
And i`m like you i am also not a fan of cap mercuries i usually find conversations with them boring, for me its like listening to a teacher in class and waiting for the bell to ring so i can get out of there haha.

quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Cap Mercuries tend to make me feel insecure unless it's conjunct a dynamic planet like Mars.

Just their short answers for everything...it feels abrupt to me, sometimes.


I have Mercury in Cap

You guys did accurately describe me though lol. I'm pretty dry w/ my speech and on top of that, I talk so slow. I was insecure about it in the past for a bit but now I feel like there's nothing I can do about it haha.

The only way to have a good interaction w/ a Mercury Cap for sure is if you have a good sense of humor. It will definitely be appreciated and reciprocated.


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posted February 04, 2016 11:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aspects that I do not like in people.

Hmmm....

That is a very hard question for me as I hate hating people for things that they cannot control. I like healthy outlets. Just as long as you are doing something that benefits yourself.

I have to really think about this to find one that I "don't like" though.

If I really had to think of aspects that I didn't like it would probably be the ones that involve pride so I guess I could see some Leo aspects getting on my nerves because I can't stand pride. At the same time a lot of Leo aspects are inspiring and uplifting. I guess I don't really understand Pisces energy either so basically any aspect in Pisces would probably be hard for me to understand on a deeper level. I can understand it intellectually based on what I observe (which isn't much more than Sun sign Pisces) through experience and what I think I can gather from it based on what I've read about Pisces aspects. I read this one thing on the internet that said something along the lines of "any planet with Pisces in it will be as if it were on drugs" or something like that. To be honest it seemed offensive even if it was meant as a joke.

Aries I get, Taurus I get, Gemini I get, Cancer I sort of get, Leo I get, Virgo I get, Libra (kind of hard to understand but I know they like balance) I sort of get, Scorpio I get, Sagittarius I sort of get, Capricorn I get, Aquarius; well we both kind of fuel each other since I'm a Gemini, Pisces on the other hand is probably the people that I will struggle with the most in my life I feel like or I think. I think it's mostly because we live 2 different styles. I don't think air and water mix well anyways.

Pisces is wishy washy where as Gemini is indecisive. Something a Gemini can understand to a certain extent but not to the level of actually being a Pisces. I don't know what it is, I really find them interesting but I just can't ever seem to take anything any where with Pisces energy. Honestly, it sucks to be honest. I love their souls though and they have a funny/weird sense of humor.

I would think that my high water influence would mesh well with them but for some reason it just doesn't seem to be the case in real life. Maybe because I'm really emotional just like they are but just in a different way if that makes any sense at all.

All in all though basically anything that is harmful to any form of health or pride based aspects are not my style. Oh and carelessness that effects everyone even though I can be guilty of this one a lot of times.

Hopefully I didn't say anything to offend anyone. I was just trying to be honest. Even if it is brutally honest. I am opposite Sagittarius after all. This is something that we share in common, if only Sag could learn how to not be so damn clumsy and actually THINK before they said something. lol

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Moon square Mars.

I know one girl who has this and was a major Scorpio (had a lot of Pluto in her chart) and she was too competitive. Being competitive isn't a bad thing, but I'M competitive. A friendship that turns into frenemies because you're competing against each other sucks.

A girl I work with now also has it and she gets very heated during arguments, and I can sense competitiveness in her but she's a Gemini / Leo so it's different and more tolerable.

I don't deal with guys who have Moon square or opposition Venus. Nope!

Mars / Neptune or Mars in Pisces. NOPE! Too passive. You just push and push and fall over yourself vs. making them do something they don't want to or hashing anything remotely aggressive out with them. They can't handle it. Sometimes you just have to deal with -ish, you know? Bye.

Mercury / Neptune or Mercury in Pisces. With my Mercury in Aries? Mercury sextile Mars? Mercury conjunct Sun? BYE! I'd rather live in my Aries War Zone where I will at least acknowledge some people are in the wrong and some aren't. The aforementioned always seems to make excuses for whatever. Not even anything about THEM personally or relating to your own friendship / 'ship with them but instead of analyzing critically it just *makes wind blowing sound*. They don't communicate what they really mean very well - at least not compatible with my Mercury.

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posted February 04, 2016 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Female Aquarius Suns. I wish I had the actual birthdates of the ladies that I really haven't gotten along with, because I'm sure it's a range of degrees that is really the problem. I don't, sadly.

I'm not even sure how to really describe it. It's a weird vibe. Like, intellectually, it's great - my Gemini Moon/Mars is down for a quality intellectual discussion (and even debate) pretty much any time, unless I'm in a mood.

The vibe I've gotten from the Aquarius Sun females that I've had issues with has been like, "It's all fun and games, but I'll throw you under the bus if I have to." Which I have issues with - I am a very loyal person. Period. Which means that I would be pulling a friend back from a bad situation, rather than setting them up for it. Of course, this is probably more of a synastry issue than anything else - I think Aquarius falls in my 12th house, so maybe that's why it's unsettling to be around some of them? It's also possible that their Suns may be opposite my Jupiter in Leo.

I've also noticed that they tend to have more issues with the mood swings that are characteristic of my Gemini Moon/Mars. They don't really seem to understand that sometimes I don't want to talk, or even see someone, but that doesn't mean that I don't care about them. I'm just going through a funk, which I'll likely be out of in just a few hours. Even explaining this to an Aquarius Sun female never goes over well for me - again, I don't really know why. I'm sure they're lovely people...I just can't get past the weird feeling I have around them. That kind of makes me think it's a 12th house synastry issue, but I'm not sure.

Interesting note: I don't have these issues with any other Aquarius placements, except for maybe Aquarius Moon (I get the same kind of vibe from them sometimes, but not all the time). Mercury, Venus and Mars Aquarius placements usually result in awesome, long-lasting friendships and relationships. I've never had a problem with Aquarius males, either.

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posted February 05, 2016 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since this topic is still here...

Scorpio or 8th house Moon can give me fits. My 8th house Gemini Sun and Merc want you to tell me how you feel, but Scorp Moon is the black hole on that score.

Me "I can't read your mind. Use your words."
Them "..."

I don't typically have this problem with other Scorpio placements.

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