posted February 09, 2016 12:38 PM            

I like how matter of fact they are and straightforward. I admire their maturity and ability to nurture too.

posted February 09, 2016 01:09 PM            

One memory of her that hasn't disappeared over the years, was of my very shy sister, totally rocking out in the corner of a large hall, where a party was taking place. She definitely has a sense of humour, and once told me that something would be no fun if I didn't go with her (Aries and Cappy, getting along just fine, a lot of the time - until she decided that I had to die, basically).

posted February 09, 2016 01:25 PM            

Yes I do love Cap's propensity for surprises! I've never found them to be boring, ever. Their "aura" is very neutral, yes, but not their personalities etc.

posted February 09, 2016 01:42 PM            

Seriously, you worry too much about trying to get people to like you and they probably smell that on you, for a lack of a better way to put it.

posted February 09, 2016 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I made *one* thread (that I can remember) calm yourself before you assume I'm insecure in any way around these peoole.

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I'm perfectly calm because I have no emotional investment in this, its not my life.

You seem a bit angry though.

Why are you always trying to figure out how to make someone like you? If you were secure your stance would be more along the lines of "I'm fabulous and either you get it or you don't".

posted February 09, 2016 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Spongebob, stop trolling.

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posted February 09, 2016 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob

You seem a bit angry though.

Why are you always trying to figure out how to make someone like you? If you were secure your stance would be more along the lines of "I'm fabulous and either you get it or you don't".

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Angry? Lol. If I was angry I wouldn't have responded. Put off by your tone, yeah.

Always is a bit of a stretch, but I guess...thanks for paying such close attention?

posted February 09, 2016 03:02 PM            

Geez, there's some negativity here. <rolls eyes>

Anyways,
Hannarama, if you want a guy to like you, be the best version of yourself you can be. Sometimes people need the ugly to feel comfortable. (So you can't be too perfect)

Also
If you're not yourself , you won't feel comfortable.. Which means you won't enjoy the relationship .. You will just be advancing it to where you think it needs to be. Which is good but the idea of life is to enjoy it..
And maybe if he doesn't like the real you, he isn't the one for you... And if you think your real you isn't the best, like I said, improve it. That's all you
But don't try too hard because that can be a turn off also...
Or a turn on....
Really, with the right person, anything you do could work out magically

posted February 09, 2016 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How can I be Capricorn's favorite person while still being myself? And how can I nurture a Capricorn Sun or Moon better?

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So nice of you to ask

I think you are very cool...you don't advertise yourself as being cool, you sorta keep a low profile, which could delay the process of people figuring it out...

I mean, you're subtle.

But then it makes you all the more interesting as time goes on, and people learn your value for themselves, knowing it's not some promotional thing you do, but your steady, ongoing nature.

Capricorn thinks long-term and Taurus (your moon) is slow and steady, so I think, time will create alliances naturally.

posted February 09, 2016 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:
I'm perfectly calm because I have no emotional investment in this, its not my life.

You seem a bit angry though.

Why are you always trying to figure out how to make someone like you? If you were secure your stance would be more along the lines of "I'm fabulous and either you get it or you don't".

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posted February 09, 2016 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Nyctea:
it wasnt a bad word omg lol

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posted February 09, 2016 08:11 PM            

Ime, there are many ways to make caps feel nurtured, but offering help and/or lending a helping hand when we ask - now that stick with us.

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playful AND mature

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posted February 09, 2016 09:20 PM            

Well I'm a Cap that loves Fiery folks, especially Aries and Sag. My chart pretty much explains way. Those Caps with personal planets in Sag or Aqua trine or sextile your Aries planets will like your company for sure.

The only thing that really puts off Caps that I can think of are people that are hopelessly irresponsible. As in your life is mess... You're in debt up to your eyeballs, you're in trouble with the law, regularly engage in reckless life endangering behavior, and you sleep around and could have all manner of diseases. This freaks us out and makes us run a mile. Most people are not that extremely irresponsible though. Even the fire signs. I think most Caps also have a thing about loyalty. We give it hardcore, and expect it hardcore back. Because of this it can take a while for us to open up and trust. But if we like you this will happen eventually.

I think most Caps actually admire the fire signs for their freedom of expression, outgoing nature, passion, spontaneity, and courage. I know I do. I'm certainly massively attracted to fire sign guys, and do feel there are some things I can learn from fire sign women too. Caps like to plan their moves before they take action, and are capable of contemplating are person or situation for a long time before the decide firmly on what to do about. We're keen observers.

I think signs like Aries actually make an excellent compliment to Caps, because they encourage us to act more quickly (which is needed sometimes), and their infectious enthusiasm helps us to be more direct and open up.

So my main advice is to be your authentic Aries self, and the right kind of Cap will adore you. As long as you're not a hot mess, are reasonable, and are not too rude and arrogent (Not that I think you're any of those things). Caps generally need someone who treats them with respect, is straight with them, and who has the patience to wait for us to come out of our shell. Knowing to to encourage this gently (with out being too demanding) is really appreciated to. The trick is to be friendly but not push them to hard. Just leave the door open for a connection, and we'll take you up on it (if we like) you bit by bit.

posted February 09, 2016 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Hi Hannarama,

Well I'm a Cap that loves Fiery folks, especially Aries and Sag. My chart pretty much explains way. Those Caps with personal planets in Sag or Aqua trine or sextile your Aries planets will like your company for sure.

The only thing that really puts off Caps that I can think of are people that are hopelessly irresponsible. As in your life is mess... You're in debt up to your eyeballs, you're in trouble with the law, regularly engage in reckless life endangering behavior, and you sleep around and could have all manner of diseases. This freaks us out and makes us run a mile. Most people are not that extremely irresponsible though. Even the fire signs. I think most Caps also have a thing about loyalty. We give it hardcore, and expect it hardcore back. Because of this it can take a while for us to open up and trust. But if we like you this will happen eventually.

I think most Caps actually admire the fire signs for their freedom of expression, outgoing nature, passion, spontaneity, and courage. I know I do. I'm certainly massively attracted to fire sign guys, and do feel there are some things I can learn from fire sign women too. Caps like to plan their moves before they take action, and are capable of contemplating are person or situation for a long time before the decide firmly on what to do about. We're keen observers.

I think signs like Aries actually make an excellent compliment to Caps, because they encourage us to act more quickly (which is needed sometimes), and their infectious enthusiasm helps us to be more direct and open up.

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YES! So much "yes" to all three posts!

Yeah the way Capricorns can execute something is what I want to cultivate! Just for my own kicks and giggles. Capricorns know just what and when to say something, it's brilliant.

The loyalty thing is a bit difficult for me. For some reason my oppositional nature comes out with a Capricorn and even though I love the consistency they offer - it feeds my Taurus moon afterall - I don't give it back. I have good intentions, I want to (maybe want to be able to), but I don't. ME having to do it bores me. THEM doing it for me is enjoyable. Uhm.. maybe that's called being selfish? Oops.

posted February 09, 2016 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

So my main advice is to be your authentic Aries self, and the right kind of Cap will adore you. As long as you're not a hot mess, are reasonable, and are not too rude and arrogent (Not that I think you're any of those things). Caps generally need someone who treats them with respect, is straight with them, and who has the patience to wait for us to come out of our shell. Knowing to to encourage this gently (with out being too demanding) is really appreciated to. The trick is to be friendly but not push them to hard. Just leave the door open for a connection, and we'll take you up on it (if we like) you bit by bit.

If you like Cap guys, he might think about you for a long time before asking you out. Here again, I'd recommend just being friendly and cordial to him, and waiting for him do decide he wants to make a move. You could even flirt a little or say you like guys just like him. But let him do the actually asking. Caps are cautious but he's still a man, and he'd like to feel he's done something to 'win' you. These are just my observations.

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I catch feelings more for Capricorn moons, but Capricorns suns like me (weird, or not...). Thankfully I've been un-boy crazy for a year now! I posted this more because I was thinking about an old friend who was a Scorpio Sun / Capricorn moon and even through 8 years and more ups than downs I never felt like she got how awesome I was lmao! In return I think my Aries planets and carefree air ASC etc. was too detached for her.

posted February 09, 2016 10:10 PM            

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Who are you more loyal to as a Capricorn? People that you've known a long time who may not be the best people, or those you feel your equal

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I like people who bring different things to the table. Compared to people who are close to me, I'm definitely one of the most reliable ones out of the bunch. But they have other qualities that I admire. So I appreciate them and I don't need them to be similar/the same as me.

I need someone who is at least nearly as reliable as me for romantic relationship though.

And I'm loyal to people who truly "touch" me in some ways.

Hah I make it sound weird.

One of my best friends, is not really responsible. Beautiful person, has a tendency to bite off more than she can chew. I diligently help her clean up her messes every now and then.