posted March 01, 2016 04:35 PM            

I am just starting to date a man with Mars retrograde (sag 16deg) in 12th, Square pluto 9th- 6degrees.

His fourth house cusp is aries.

This tells me there might be a spiritual side to his love making or maybe this is just me wishing

My moon Tau 21
My venus can 1

posted March 01, 2016 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All I can say is that if Mars is in the 6H you'd better be clean. Unless Neptune is messing with that Mars/house, or something.

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posted March 01, 2016 04:44 PM            

LOL DS xx

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posted March 01, 2016 05:05 PM            

"For me personally I think my house dictates more of what it takes to access my sexual style. Some of my requirements"

posted March 01, 2016 05:22 PM            

How would you describe someone who has Libra Mars, in the 7th???? Super duper Libra-y?

posted March 01, 2016 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Libra Mars is a hard one to peg...

How would you describe someone who has Libra Mars, in the 7th???? Super duper Libra-y?

In this example his Mars is conjunct Pluto and Saturn and square just about every other planet is his chart...but trine to Venus! :/

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Yes!

posted March 01, 2016 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All I can say is that if Mars is in the 6H you'd better be clean. Unless Neptune is messing with that Mars/house, or something.

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posted March 01, 2016 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All I can say is that if Mars is in the 6H you'd better be clean. Unless Neptune is messing with that Mars/house, or something.

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posted March 02, 2016 03:02 AM            

I would describe this position as someone who suppresses the “ugliness” of Mars/Aries energy.

So these guys tend to abhor aggression, extremists, impulsive action and self-centeredness/selfishness.

So when Pluto/Saturn aspects it, Saturn controls Mars(adding to Libra Mars energy to keep aggression in check).

Pluto in aspect to Mars simmers in the back before exploding. And when in Libra, this is a person who(when pushed for a long time) can go a long way to exact revenge and get their “justice”. They will seek it out to the end; retribution, re-balancing of scales, crime=punishment etc. Not aggressively of-course, but in a very persistent, exacting and firm way.

So when in Libra, these people tend to deny their more aggressive side. And they tend to redress/apologize or be embarrassed by letting it all show openly. Or “losing” control.

When this Mars is in the 7th house and the 7th house cusp is Libra, the need to be seen as the “do-gooder”, the one who will be just and fair, the one who will demand equality. The one who will fight for others. So long as that cause is somewhat reflective of their own ideal of-course.

The image that one has to the public is one who demands to be treated as an equal(especially if female). There is a tendency for one to be argumentative and be very mindful of “winning” their equal place in a relationship, social standing or friends. The definition of “equal” will of course be dependent on the person concerned.

In as far as the sexual side is concerned, it may suggest a person who prefers love-making. The sensual aspect of it is emphasized i.e. deep kissing, lingerie, oral sex, foreplay, role-playing etc. So the person likes the “idea” of sex. But when it comes to the actual physical part; the sweat, the smell, the awkwardness of it etc. That is all minimized and locked away. Almost as if the person wants to make love in a way that resembles a movie scene; it can be Intense and passionate-but “tasteful”. And never really a mirror of real life sex.

However if Saturn aspects Mars. The sexual style may have an added restrictive nature i.e. only in the bedroom with the doors closed. Or only in a monogamous relationship/marriage, only at certain days of the week, only after bathing, only after work etc. As Saturn tends to want a more “structured” approach or negates the more spontaneous nature of Mars(and to a certain extent Libra energy does too).

Pluto aspect to Mars tends to be “ all or nothing” in the sexual style that they prefer. Either they see themselves as the “submissive” and be very involved in that role. Seeing themselves as “subjects” but very much an integral part of the process(Libra always wants equality).

Or they may be more domineering(but again not aggressive) in their sexual style. They may see their partner is the complementary side to their nature and treat them as such. They will not be disrespectful or belligerent-as they do need the other to be able to be themselves and they are acutely aware of this. But there will be a clear role that you are the “female” to their “male” etc.

When Pluto is in the 7th and in Libra, the partnership/relationship tends to play a very important role of defining whom the individual is. So there tends to be obsessiveness and energy(albeit subtle) in looking for that “ideal” one. Or at-least to “project” on to the eligible candidate, the characteristics of the “one”. As if working(ever so subtly) to override the persons personality to that which is desired in a relentless manner.

posted March 02, 2016 08:30 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc, square Neptune. I am probably 50% aggressive and 50% sensual. Odd mix. I HATE dirty-anything! I HATE sex-talk. "Tell me who's your daddy".....I'll be so turned off that off will never be on again :-/

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Oh i like dirty talk just fine , just not physical uncleanness (dirty) in a partner, or if i find out they're promiscuous (or were promiscuous) that's a turn off also . STDs repulse me also.

posted March 02, 2016 08:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have Mars in Libra.

I would describe this position as someone who suppresses the “ugliness” of Mars/Aries energy.

So these guys tend to abhor aggression, extremists, impulsive action and self-centeredness/selfishness.

So when Pluto/Saturn aspects it, Saturn controls Mars(adding to Libra Mars energy to keep aggression in check).

Pluto in aspect to Mars simmers in the back before exploding. And when in Libra, this is a person who(when pushed for a long time) can go a long way to exact revenge and get their “justice”. They will seek it out to the end; retribution, re-balancing of scales, crime=punishment etc. Not aggressively of-course, but in a very persistent, exacting and firm way.

So when in Libra, these people tend to deny their more aggressive side. And they tend to redress/apologize or be embarrassed by letting it all show openly. Or “losing” control.

When this Mars is in the 7th house and the 7th house cusp is Libra, the need to be seen as the “do-gooder”, the one who will be just and fair, the one who will demand equality. The one who will fight for others. So long as that cause is somewhat reflective of their own ideal of-course.

The image that one has to the public is one who demands to be treated as an equal(especially if female). There is a tendency for one to be argumentative and be very mindful of “winning” their equal place in a relationship, social standing or friends. The definition of “equal” will of course be dependent on the person concerned.

In as far as the sexual side is concerned, it may suggest a person who prefers love-making. The sensual aspect of it is emphasized i.e. deep kissing, lingerie, oral sex, foreplay, role-playing etc. So the person likes the “idea” of sex. But when it comes to the actual physical part; the sweat, the smell, the awkwardness of it etc. That is all minimized and locked away. Almost as if the person wants to make love in a way that resembles a movie scene; it can be Intense and passionate-but “tasteful”. And never really a mirror of real life sex.

However if Saturn aspects Mars. The sexual style may have an added restrictive nature i.e. only in the bedroom with the doors closed. Or only in a monogamous relationship/marriage, only at certain days of the week, only after bathing, only after work etc. As Saturn tends to want a more “structured” approach or negates the more spontaneous nature of Mars(and to a certain extent Libra energy does too).

Pluto aspect to Mars tends to be “ all or nothing” in the sexual style that they prefer. Either they see themselves as the “submissive” and be very involved in that role. Seeing themselves as “subjects” but very much an integral part of the process(Libra always wants equality).

Or they may be more domineering(but again not aggressive) in their sexual style. They may see their partner is the complementary side to their nature and treat them as such. They will not be disrespectful or belligerent-as they do need the other to be able to be themselves and they are acutely aware of this. But there will be a clear role that you are the “female” to their “male” etc.

When Pluto is in the 7th and in Libra, the partnership/relationship tends to play a very important role of defining whom the individual is. So there tends to be obsessiveness and energy(albeit subtle) in looking for that “ideal” one. Or at-least to “project” on to the eligible candidate, the characteristics of the “one”. As if working(ever so subtly) to override the persons personality to that which is desired in a relentless manner.

This can also work in reverse i.e. they are drawn to someone who wishes to changes them on a fundamental level to live up to what that person wants them to be.

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I'm so glad you jumped in, I love the way you explain things! This makes a lot of sense actually.

Care to take a stab at Cap Mars in the 4th (Sag on the cusp)?

posted March 02, 2016 10:39 AM            

Cancer 1 (venus)
Cancer 17 (mars)= both in 11th.

I like good old fashioned love making but like to have it everywhere...in the car, outside, in the bushes,phone booths...etc etc. Of course these outdoor adventures rarely happen but it is what I think about.

posted March 02, 2016 02:08 PM            

My SO has cancer mars in his 1st house, he goes from being passive to very aggressive in whatever he does. He has a powerful sex drive, wants it all the time and isn't afraid to be direct about it.

posted March 02, 2016 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc, square Neptune. I am probably 50% aggressive and 50% sensual. Odd mix. I HATE dirty-anything! I HATE sex-talk. "Tell me who's your daddy".....I'll be so turned off that off will never be on again :-/

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posted March 03, 2016 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I'm so glad you jumped in, I love the way you explain things! This makes a lot of sense actually.

Care to take a stab at Cap Mars in the 4th (Sag on the cusp)?

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It may be inaccurate as I use the equal house system. So that would move Cap Mars to the 5th- I think.

posted March 03, 2016 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Virgo Mars 12H conj Asc, square Neptune. I am probably 50% aggressive and 50% sensual. Odd mix. I HATE dirty-anything! I HATE sex-talk. "Tell me who's your daddy".....I'll be so turned off that off will never be on again :-/

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posted March 03, 2016 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
It may be inaccurate as I use the equal house system. So that would move Cap Mars to the 5th- I think.

What is your Asc?

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Yes it would actually. Hmmm...equal house system pulls my Moon into the 2nd but everything else stays the same. Interesting.

ASC is 27 Virgo

posted March 03, 2016 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by mztiny:

"For me personally I think my house dictates more of what it takes to access my sexual style. Some of my requirements"

Sooo maybe the house dictates what we need for foreplay??

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posted March 03, 2016 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by mztiny:

"For me personally I think my house dictates more of what it takes to access my sexual style. Some of my requirements"

Sooo maybe the house dictates what we need for foreplay??

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