posted August 13, 2016 01:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
@Faith,

oh, I've had moments where I've been rude. But it's probably my severe depression in my teens, rather than trying to be rude on purpose. Mental psychosis is a damning thing!

I guess I'm nice most of the time because of my Pisces rising. Well, also I'm a Sadge, a lot of Sadges are nice.

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Our closest friend in Colorado is a Sag, he is an angel on earth...

posted August 13, 2016 01:33 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Our closest friend in Colorado is a Sag, he is an angel on earth...

Add: lol he has moon and Saturn in Pisces! I just checked. He also has venus and mars in Capricorn, that explains why he is a workaholic.

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posted August 13, 2016 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
@Faith,
I guess I'm nice most of the time because of my Pisces rising. Well, also I'm a Sadge, a lot of Sadges are nice.

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Yes

Well honestly I think most people are nice most of the time.

To clarify, when I mentioned how being kind is difficult sometimes, I was only talking about those instances when kindness really is difficult.

There are those instances where most people would lose patience, push back, insult, or harden up. But a person who chooses kindness will let compassion for the other person dictate their responses.

It takes conscious effort and strength sometimes to diffuse any preliminary negative reaction to what another person is saying, and take the high road.

For those of us with a lot of tension in our charts, it can be even more of a challenge.

Sometimes it even requires a bit of self-sacrifice to sustain that effort.