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Topic: What are aspects that could cause you to dislike your parents?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 03, 2016 08:16 PM
I guess Moon square Pluto and Sun square Pluto in a natal chart?IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2683 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 04, 2016 09:12 AM
Saturn.Saturn/Moon. Saturn in the 4th/10th. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 488 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 11:41 AM
I have sun (aqua sun) square pluto wide aspect as well as my brother (leo sun), but he has closer aspect.We both love our parents and care deeply and with intensity. I have aries moon and my brother has cancer mars, we both very protective of people we love but I am more upfront and will quick to jump to help than he is. Overall, we will always try to make our parents not worry about us because of our love, although I am more honest and he is more quiet. lol. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 03:48 PM
I just wish they would go away.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 03:49 PM
I'm not surprised I have Saturn in the 4th house and I hate it. quote: Originally posted by Nine: Saturn.Saturn/Moon. Saturn in the 4th/10th.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 04, 2016 04:45 PM
Michael Jackson had Saturn in his 10th house, and he hated his father.He's cordial and diplomatic about it in interviews, but a tape once showed him basically dissing his father, and other family members. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 05:22 PM
I'm in my Saturn Return and everything is horrible. I have Saturn in my 4th house. I want to travel but my parents are giving me a hard time about it I'm really tired of them more than ever now. Right now I hate that I'm still living at home. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 07:23 PM
He hated him? I didn't know that. quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: Michael Jackson had Saturn in his 10th house, and he hated his father.He's cordial and diplomatic about it in interviews, but a tape once showed him basically dissing his father, and other family members.
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jadave Knowflake Posts: 95 From: usa Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 04, 2016 08:54 PM
My daughter may have moon square Pluto if born on due date.We also will have my mars conjunction to her Pluto. I worry about her hating me, when she gets older. IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1227 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 04, 2016 09:34 PM
Pluto in the 4th... conjunct Jupiter? Idk, that's what I had, and I've seriously never gotten along with my mom (who I lived with), but we also have crazy awful synastry. I've also had Saturn transiting my 4th for a long time. And Moon sq. Uranus / Neptune, 1 degree and 3 degrees.IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted October 04, 2016 09:39 PM
I have Saturn in 4th too along with sun...I like my mom she's a typical mom, my dad is a dpuche don't talk to him really ever..he visited when I started college in 2013 but that's it really, I'm only 21 but I'm hoping by my Saturn return I'll have all my domestic life situated ..or else I'll probably end up in the 27 club IP: Logged |
Ayelet Knowflake Posts: 1977 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 04, 2016 10:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by jadave: My daughter may have moon square Pluto if born on due date.We also will have my mars conjunction to her Pluto. I worry about her hating me, when she gets older.
I don't know you, but by your concern I can bet you'll do your best, and have nothing to worry about. Mars conjunction Pluto can make for power struggles, but also for much enlightenment bestowed from Pluto to Mars.
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Ayelet Knowflake Posts: 1977 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 04, 2016 10:41 PM
I have moon square Saturn and I adore my mom. Also have moon Mars conjunction and had many quarrels with her as a teen..IP: Logged |
Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 911 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 04, 2016 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by jadave: My daughter may have moon square Pluto if born on due date.We also will have my mars conjunction to her Pluto. I worry about her hating me, when she gets older.
I have moon square Pluto and love my mom.
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 882 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted October 05, 2016 01:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by jadave: My daughter may have moon square Pluto if born on due date.We also will have my mars conjunction to her Pluto. I worry about her hating me, when she gets older.
I have saturn square pluto with my mom, and we've had a rough relationship. I also have a pretty afflicted moon. I can honestly say now that it's much better. Now I am closer to her, and she was my favorite parent when I was young. The trick is for you to harness that square energy and use the power rightly that comes with it. Squares can be overcomed. Our charts are not 100% determining of the future or future behavior. The moon also represents the emotions. Each interpretation can be different. My boyfriend has his moon in the 12th house, but his mother has always been there, helpful, healthy, and overall a great mom. He just hides his emotions. So take into account more than just 1 interpretation ------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 665 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted October 05, 2016 01:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I'm in my Saturn Return and everything is horrible. I have Saturn in my 4th house. I want to travel but my parents are giving me a hard time about it I'm really tired of them more than ever now. Right now I hate that I'm still living at home.
It's funny, I just had the same issue! I nearly had a breakdown bc I made plans to travel and my parents made me think I was actually insane for considering it. I felt so controlled and powerless and so angry... BUT I realized my mistake is in letting them have the power over me, I need to take the power back... Take back control IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 05, 2016 02:05 AM
They know I like going to LA but they don't like me going alone. So I don't tell them when I'm going. Like I want to after I spend time with my family in Atlanta. But I know if I tell my parents they will just go off on me. My dad told me I have to let him know where I'm going or I can't go. But I'm still going to LA I'm not a child anymore. quote: Originally posted by missblyss: It's funny, I just had the same issue! I nearly had a breakdown bc I made plans to travel and my parents made me think I was actually insane for considering it. I felt so controlled and powerless and so angry... BUT I realized my mistake is in letting them have the power over me, I need to take the power back... Take back control
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 818 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted October 05, 2016 05:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: He hated him? I didn't know that.
Pretty much. I mean, Michael's nice about it when he was asked in interviews, but he had a pretty bitter/abusive relationship with his father. I also feel that perhaps that he wasn't fully estranged from his father, because there's a part of him that still wants to love his father/be accepted by him. But I also doubt that Michael visited him every month, even if he could, or anything like that. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20020 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 05, 2016 09:15 AM
*Please* do not quoteSun square Pluto, and I loved my dad. However, I couldn't live with him after I got out of college....edit.... Just had some difficulties. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 1206 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 05, 2016 09:25 AM
@Faith I really think I would feel better not having my dad around. I wish I could afford my own apartment. My mother is controlling as well I have Moon square Pluto in my chart as well. But I'd never push her away.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3499 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 05, 2016 01:42 PM
I would look at the 4th,6th,8th and 9th house.
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Southern Sun Knowflake Posts: 248 From: USA Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 05, 2016 02:31 PM
I have an empty 4th house, only Pluto is in 10th, and Saturn is well aspectedI have a very difficult relationship with my mother... Perhaps with women in general. Sometimes she would look out for me. At times the differences between us was too much to bear. For me it may have more to do with her sun squaring my moon, my moon in 12th and asteroid dejanira on my moon. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3089 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 05, 2016 02:34 PM
jupiter square pluto in composite can lead to this bitter resentment that one person (usually the parent = pluto) is holding the other person back from growth.And yes to Saturn conjunct MC. As to moving out of home early and what not, every single Aries moon i know do not stay with their parents. This has very little to do with love or hate. Some of us were born to be independent souls. A child can already have qualities that lead to a tendency to resist others' pressure, to go his/her own way. And the parents should not expect the child to just follow their way for the rest of his/her life. Every parent should account for the fact that you didnt choose your child's personality. IP: Logged |
leo_moon Knowflake Posts: 35 From: neptune Registered: Oct 2016
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posted October 08, 2016 12:05 AM
Saturn in 10th, pluto sextile moon. My dad says, "You met the wrong parents". I was an obedient child (Virgo Sun)-- studious, got along with my siblings and other kids. Home never felt right. As a kid, I used to think something was wrong with me. Turns out I just dont like my parents.IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 362 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted October 08, 2016 03:05 AM
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