posted November 21, 2016 07:44 AM            

Juno in Aries
Venus in Scorpio
Mars conjunct the 7th
Uranus in the 8th
Mars square Ic
Juno square Moon
Juno opposite Mars
Juno opposite the Dsc
Juno opposite Pluto
Mars square Mercury
Juno square Mercury
Mars square Moon
Saturn conjunct Venus(ruler of the 7th)
Saturn in 7th
Ruler of the 5th conj Neptune
Pluto in the 7th.

posted November 21, 2016 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
I have Venus opposite Neptune, I think what I want is in conflict to my desires, I swear I feel this aspect in particular for me works as in having high standards in love which makes it difficult to find love.

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posted November 21, 2016 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I have this aspect too and it's tough. The best thing I've learned is what love really is and what a guy should be like when he is serious about you (passionate vs compasionate) while also understanding that nobody is perfect. That if someone is willing to grow with you, work with you and show you the same kind of compassion that you yourself deserve and show to others.

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posted November 21, 2016 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Bearee:
I find it difficult to let men who are interested in me close to me. One of the reasons I haven't had a boyfriend ever and I'm a (not ugly ) 25 year old.
I get feelings for men who are distant in a way. Emotional and/or physical distance.

I have moon in cancer opposite saturn
Saturn is conjunct the IC.
And venus in cancer is opposite uranus and neptune.

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posted November 22, 2016 06:26 AM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
This feels like me, I do that a lot, physical distance, I've been dealing with that kind of relationships for a while now, frustrated now cause I'm in my late 20's

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posted November 22, 2016 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
I can think of venus hard aspect saturn and venus in 12th.

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posted November 22, 2016 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Kibriana:
Yep, that's it. I've got 12th house Venus square 4th house Saturn and I have no love life whatsoever. None. Zero. Nonexistent. Well, ok, my imagination used to run wild so I had those famed unrequited and illusionary loves Venus in 12th is so fond of, but not anymore, so now I've got nothing. I also have Venus opp. Uranus, which makes it even harder for me to commit. At this point in my life I don't care about love anymore, and, in fact, I don't want it to happen to me, I'm quite satisfied to be on my own. I just gave up.

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posted November 22, 2016 05:06 PM            

venus hard aspect to uranus ("the" overall unstable placement)

also a bit if venus is hard aspecting jupiter (I see a pattern of someone who always switch partner a lot)

venus in hard aspect with neptune as well (I feel that people with this is pretty unlucky with whom they attract, cause they often attract someone bad for them)

unstable moon aspects (difficult to be close emotionally with someone)

difficult sun aspects....(the person is to independant and hard to figure out)

venus in hard aspect with pluto (jealousy problems) - also goes with scorpio venus sometimes I would say

too much gemini (too restless, always thinks the grass is greener on the other side)

posted November 22, 2016 11:54 PM            

I was in a relationship for 4 1/2 years and ended it a year, so this is probably just the year of adjustment.

posted November 23, 2016 01:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Moon square Venus could be one. My ex has this. This aspect is said to give the natal person a hard time deciphering what their needs and wants are in love, and thus prone to having unsatisfying relationships because they're needs and wants are at odds. When the natal person is older this aspect is a lot easier to handle. So it could be that love life is difficult when younger but easier when older. I wish I knew more people with this aspect to observe and find out each of their solutions dealing with it when it comes to relationships.

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posted November 23, 2016 02:05 AM            

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Originally posted by SalemsEnd:

I have this at 0 degrees and you're right, there's a clashing between needs and wants. I've also seen it manifest as not feeling comfortable (moon) with your attractiveness (venus). Literally all the women in my family have this aspect, while the men have trines and sextiles. Talk about astro family karma....
The inconjunct is far worse though imo.

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posted November 23, 2016 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
That's really interesting, Salems
By not being comfortable by your attractiveness did you mean not being comfortable by how you attract others or who you attract? Most articles I've read says people with this aspect has problems with the latter but that's with males and with females it's the former

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I think a bit of both tbh. Although if that’s true regarding how it operates differently in males vs. females then I would be the former.

For the former- yes, there’s an antagonism with the ways of attracting others. There’s an offish feeling to it.
For the latter-The people I attract (Virgo Venus) are earthy, feminine signs. I love them. They make me feel valued, and in return I really value them. But after a while a hollowness sets in. I start to resent the attachment to the material, I miss my intellectual, up-in-the-air debates and idea trades, and I start to feel stifled (gemini moon).
If I do happen to be with people with a lot of air or masculine signs I feel comfy as pie, but never valued. Never loved QUITE in the way I want to be, and my style of affection isn't what they need nor want.

posted November 23, 2016 04:35 AM            

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Originally posted by vertiver:

But I have Saturn conjunct Uranus in Sag in the 1st house opposite Gemini Venus in the 7th H. This is such a weird combo of wanting independence but also wanting a stable saturnian relationship. I hope my saturn return will smooth things out. Which is coming up in February.

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wow that is a difficult combo in deed! But venus in the 7th house is really good, so don't worry How close is the opposition between venus and uranus?