posted January 04, 2017 06:33 PM            

If people do choose to post their personal life online, then that's their choice. In doing so, they may reap the consequences of such. However, out of respect, one should not bring up their personal life in order to be used as an insult. CandyCrush did the same thing with Hypatia, and it was rude.

If Nine had a problem with Ceri's agreement with Doux, she could've addressed that specifically, but choosing to bring Ceri's personal life into the whole thing was what made it personal, and what made it such a big deal in the first place.

Remember that Mercury is Rx right now! It's probably why this whole thing started in the first place.

posted January 04, 2017 06:33 PM            

This thread makes me sad.

@soren, I knew you wouldn't get my point. Dunno why I bothered trying to explain.

You could've easily stayed out of this, btw, and not ended up making yourself look -ahem, sorry- so foolish.

That's why I was saying that part about defending certain types of people. You wanna jump in and look all empathetic and non-judgmental. But you end up being exactly the opposite. And your tenuous grasp of the situation, not-too-bright. The sooner you realise this, the better for you.

posted January 04, 2017 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
yes that was addressed that it was your fault that you ever spread your life on here in the first place, making it accessable to EVERYONE. so you shouldnt be surprised if anyone brings it up. it's on a public domain where ANYONE can easily access it.

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So it`s my fault I get insulted. Nice.

Anyway, first of all, the quote mentioned COMMENTS on personal matters, which to me implied comments of a third person about someone else`s lives, but I see how you can read it differently. okay.

Secondly you`re right I might have shared too much in the past, that does not give anyone the right to personally attack me.

Then, it`s not even true. lol
Or at least partly not true anymore, partly never has been true.

Just assuming to know me when she clearly doesn`t.

Nothing of that would really bother me except for her lack of integrity to try to use that as bait and personal attack and why? Just because I did not agree with her astrological statement.

As for you, you are disrespectful, too, cause I clearly told you I donīt want you to talk about me anymore.
Of course I can`t keep you from talking about me. So by all means go on.
But by ignoring my repeated several posts about you not talking about me anymore, you simply show disrespect towards me.

I donīt really converse with people who disrespect me, so have a nice life. Our communication just ended.

Nine, same goes for you. We actually had good astro conversations in the past, which I enjoyed.
But I am not your punching bag, so have a nice life yourself. Our communication also just ended.

posted January 04, 2017 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:

If Nine had a problem with Ceri's agreement with Doux, she could've addressed that specifically, but choosing to bring Ceri's personal life into the whole thing was what made it personal, and what made it such a big deal in the first place.

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^ Yep, this is all Faith & I were trying to say.

But sorry, no I don't believe Merc Rx is responsible for this - since I've seen similar behaviour from them in the past.

posted January 04, 2017 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Oh, so, because we all post here, it's our fault if someone comes on here and slanders us.

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This is somewhat true unfortunately. Once the information is shared on the web, we really can't control how the information is used... That is why the disclaimers and rules on the forum so we can respect each other on here.

posted January 04, 2017 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
^ Yep, this is all Faith & I were trying to say.

But sorry, no I don't believe Merc Rx is responsible for this - since I've seen similar behaviour from them in the past.

Normally I would just ignore this stuff. But there's a time & place for being tolerant - unprovoked attacks are not it. It's really cheap, not to mention petty, to use someone's personal life like that.

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I'm not saying that Mercury Rx would be responsible, but I definitely believe that it can make matters worse. I just wanted to mention it to try to lighten up the situation and make things better <3

posted January 04, 2017 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
It doesn't need to go on like this.

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soren believes it does, apparently.

The Champion of the "Underdog" wants to remind us over and over and over what a valiant deed he accomplished, and what heavy a price it cost him, considering all the assailants roundabout.

Bravo, brave soren.

Bravo again, soren.

Encore, encore!!!

posted January 04, 2017 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
it was pretty clear what happened, no one really needed to point it out. instead of waiting for a barage of attacks on nine, i decided to try to help them.

never did i say i supported what nine said, instead i reffered to the astro info. just because id id not adress it, does not mean anything.

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Nope, you still don't get it.
Don't try to wriggle out of it by saying you "never said you supported what she said". Defending malice is championing malice, remember? Your responses to Faith were clearly in defense of Nine.

Do you see what your thought process reads like? It's something like this ---

Boy playing in a park. Puppy frolicking around, nowhere near boy. Boy *snickers*, throws stones at puppy.
People rush to puppy's aid, you rush to boy's aid. Although no-one has actually harmed boy at all.

posted January 04, 2017 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
This is somewhat true unfortunately. Once the information is shared on the web, we really can't control how the information is used... That is why the disclaimers and rules on the forum so we can respect each other on here.

In any case, I'm not sure why the drama is still going on? Get back to the OP. Give her astrological or friendly support regardless of what anyone wants to talk about on this thread.

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Well, like I said, I usually let things slide. But it's a matter of principle. Not drama. -- Might be a by-product, though. But yes, I do believe we need to address these things.

posted January 04, 2017 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
ok, so every criminal should just die, instead of trying to help them get better? nice logic.

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What kind of quantum leap is that from what I said?

posted January 04, 2017 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
As for you, you are disrespectful, too, cause I clearly told you I donīt want you to talk about me anymore.
Of course I can`t keep you from talking about me. So by all means go on.
But by ignoring my repeated several posts about you not talking about me anymore, you simply show disrespect towards me.

I donīt really converse with people who disrespect me, so have a nice life. Our communication just ended.

Nine, same goes for you. We actually had good astro conversations in the past, which I enjoyed.
But I am not your punching bag, so have a nice life yourself. Our communication also just ended.

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posted January 04, 2017 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Cerulean:
I feel like, it would be a shame not to go out at least once as we both have great energy and even HE thinks we make an adorable couple. But urgh it’s so frustrating waiting for him! I want to know whether I should bother with him or just leave it.

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IMO, his Cancer mars & Scorp moon both need some kind of emotional reassurance.
Do you guys hang out at office these days?

posted January 04, 2017 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
What kind of quantum leap is that from what I said?

Ugh. Forget it. Talking to you is impossible.

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posted January 04, 2017 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
you are right i dont respect you much because you have false info and you butt into my true info and repeat the false info you know as if my true info is not accurate, until you learn i am making leaps in astro and you stop butting in because you know much less than me. so i dont respect you much, especially for what i see as trying to be "someone who knows what it's all about" when you dont know much from my opinion. so i dont respect it. but i dont say that.

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"you are right i dont respect you much" ??
I never said that. But, good to know, thanks.
I, unlike you, never claim to know any more than I do. I'm the first to admit how little I know about astrology - I absolutely don't see the problem in that.

posted January 04, 2017 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
IMO, his Cancer mars & Scorp moon both need some kind of emotional reassurance.
Do you guys hang out at office these days?

Maybe you could try touching on the topic of weekend plans, or mention a show you've been meaning to see - in your next conversation.
Yes, his placements do point to a cautious personality - very much so! So don't worry if it's taking time. Don't give up on him just yet.

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posted January 04, 2017 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:

Well, like I said, I usually let things slide. But it's a matter of principle. Not drama. -- Might be a by-product, though. But yes, I do believe we need to address these things.

Anyway --------- back to OP ------------

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Sorry it came up after you posted your thoughts, Elysia! This thread is going so fast lol! I just wanted to stick to the OP and hence why I said let's stop and go back to it.

Yes I agree that we need to follow forum rules and rule breakers should be disciplined! And to be honest, imagine if we were all in a room, having this exact conversation? Even then, I would feel it is unfair for Ceriwden! So to me, the comment should have never been said, virtually or in real life.

But yes the sag guys! My guy has Cancer moon so he's very sensitive and yet he would say he would act out.. There is no one specific aspect that explains everything!

posted January 04, 2017 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
that wasn't directed at you, read faith's quote before yours

my natural land scape is troll, i live inside of one, i eat off of it, i am naturally born part troll. it is in my style, but i was jsut saying the truth, you are all saying dont help someone who did something wrong, punish them, and i am saying, i am helping them. really which one seems nicer?

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LOL, as if you care what anyone else besides yourself actually thinks......

Soren soren
Off the wall
YOU are obviously
Nicest of all