posted January 21, 2017 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
I've always reply everyone when I posted something. And they usually never return. But I even spent like two hours just reading and writing everyone who helped me n some post.
Lately, I've been "offline". With no energy at all. Sad all the time. I can't get over my mom's death, so that's the reason why I'm not all the time writing to people but I don't ignore, I'm just not ok and I reply when I'm feeling better. So I'm sorry for that.

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good vibes to you Mila. do not rush yourself. just nurture yourself now. what have been said refers to general situations where people come to ask for readings and then never reply to those taking the time to review their charts and on top, they never contribute to help others with readings. on the other hand, not everyone can help if their knowledge of astrology is limited, but giving feedback it is always helpful because the person doing the reading get to know how accurate or not they are being with their reading. so it is helpful for the reader.

having said that, your situation is circumstantially different because you are going through a mourning period. you have not the same energy and motivation to go into this forum and participate as you did previously. that is understandable. just take of yourself.

posted January 22, 2017 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
I've always reply everyone when I posted something. And they usually never return. But I even spent like two hours just reading and writing everyone who helped me n some post.
Lately, I've been "offline". With no energy at all. Sad all the time. I can't get over my mom's death, so that's the reason why I'm not all the time writing to people but I don't ignore, I'm just not ok and I reply when I'm feeling better. So I'm sorry for that.

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It would help if we knew if someone replied to one of our responses. Right now, we only know a response was written if we were the person to post the topic.

posted January 24, 2017 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
good vibes to you Mila. do not rush yourself. just nurture yourself now. what have been said refers to general situations where people come to ask for readings and then never reply to those taking the time to review their charts and on top, they never contribute to help others with readings. on the other hand, not everyone can help if their knowledge of astrology is limited, but giving feedback it is always helpful because the person doing the reading get to know how accurate or not they are being with their reading. so it is helpful for the reader.

having said that, your situation is circumstantially different because you are going through a mourning period. you have not the same energy and motivation to go into this forum and participate as you did previously. that is understandable. just take of yourself.

best

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posted January 24, 2017 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Sorry you feel so bad, Mila.

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It's ok, thank you, but please, don't assume others life, like you did it with me “Mila, please check your thread in Personal Readings.

It's ironic if the people who complain about being ignored are the ones ignoring their own threads.“

I spend a lot of time writing in this forum, mostly because I'm perfectionist and this is not my maternal language, so it was a little bit offense. and most of the time it doesn't really matter if i reply or not when someone help me because they never come back and that happened with my last post in personal readings.

posted January 24, 2017 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
It would help if we knew if someone replied to one of our responses. Right now, we only know a response was written if we were the person to post the topic.

Kind of like on Faceback when you write @PersonName, that person gets notified.

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posted January 24, 2017 12:33 AM            

I posted a reply and got nothing.

Both of us got nothing and vented.

posted January 24, 2017 12:41 AM            

And people just piled in with charts. And I felt like I was going to end up having to read a lot of those charts if we couldn't get a system in order. Randall never helped with that. It was just a problem crying out to be solved.

posted January 28, 2017 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
It would help if we knew if someone replied to one of our responses. Right now, we only know a response was written if we were the person to post the topic.

Kind of like on Faceback when you write @PersonName, that person gets notified.

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posted January 29, 2017 05:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
But to clarify, one reason I was feeling annoyed that day is, THIS thread inspired Randall to post this thread:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/237199.html

And people just piled in with charts. And I felt like I was going to end up having to read a lot of those charts if we couldn't get a system in order. Randall never helped with that. It was just a problem crying out to be solved.

Not really your fault. But the whole thing was exasperating and messy.

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posted January 31, 2017 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
thank you! I understand what you wrote and it always happened to me here, like a few days ago in personal readings people gave me really cool replies but I replied and it's like talking to a wall because no one came back but it's ok, i'm ok with it.

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