posted July 12, 2017 08:14 PM            

I have a lot of strong sun contacts and barely any moon aspect.I had a lot of problems with my father when I was a kid,we clashed a lot but it's all resolved now.No mark was left.

The reason I create this thread ia because is intriguing how that show up on our natal..

posted July 27, 2017 04:41 PM            

whe you are older

It also shows a lot in the sinastry.

My mars squares my mothers moon

My Saturn opp. the Moon of my Father.

posted July 27, 2017 05:28 PM            

My Dad was/is present for everything, but is a rather passive person and "stayed out of it" unless intervention was necessary. My relationship with him is fine.

posted July 30, 2017 12:58 AM            

But the thing is he didn't deserve any of those mean thoughts
He was just going through something his business wasn't doing well sod he was depressed and decided to kind of cruise through life not really paying much attention to his children sort of neglecting them

He still showed up for dinner and worked but he didn't really go out of his way to make an effort

My mom on the other hand went above and beyond she was a friend and a role model she helped if you needed it she was both parents basically
I haven't moved out yet I'm 21 and I'm mature for my age by far but living with my parents still I have learned to appreciate my dad and not hate him anymore and become more tolerant of him

Which is good

posted July 31, 2017 06:19 AM            

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Originally posted by TensionEmpire:
Yeah, I have big issues, too
In the Natal it shows in the 4th house,
I have Neptune, Uranus and Saturn in the 4th. shen you are younger

whe you are older

It also shows a lot in the sinastry.

My mars squares my mothers moon

My Saturn opp. the Moon of my Father.

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posted July 31, 2017 01:56 PM            

In your 20's you go through a formula of transits designed to liberate you from your parents. There's a 3/4 square of Saturn squaring Saturn. It's called "Individuation."

Reminds me of gardening... Ever have to separate perennials that have reproduced and hold together tightly in a crowded-cluster? You have to get two gardening forks, back to back, then like using a lever, you separate the bunch apart, creating lots of separated roots and stems, for replanting.

Maybe you can keep them in the same bed or row, but with greater space and growing-room between them. (attitude between you and parents)

You begin the uneasiness to separate yourself from them, and, from their clumpy bed (house).

You also get to sort and fork-separate yourself from childhood and teenage friends... in favor of future college and business associates. It's hard to leave 'what is known'?

It's not intended as "mean" (I hope)... it's just the ripping process is a bit uncomfortable--- especially if your parents didn't ingrain in you a sense to prepare for independence-- from time of your youngest years and through the growing up teen years.

mom and dad ... fork 1
you ........... fork 2

and restlessness and crowded feeling starts ... and you both chafe and begin the pulling away process...

It's a natural thing.

haha... I was going to find a vid of my fork-method of dividing perennials in the garden, but the ones I found used shovels pretty violently! ... I don't want you to see 'brutality' .... If you were a clump-transplant from my own garden days, you would have felt the Love!!!