posted March 08, 2018 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
In regards to the incest guy, he prolly inherited it, meaning he shows being abused in the same category.

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posted March 08, 2018 12:42 PM            

Since I'm taurus sun and I'm plutonic, I get the fixed energy leos have, and the "pride".

My beloved aunt is Leo sun, and she is soo charismatic and I love her humor and warmth.

I have a friend and I have only now resently understod how prideful and sensetive he is to me being negative towards him. I often give him sinsere compliments. He always waves them away (capri mars) but I know he deep down really likes getting nice compliments.

I did not notice how sensetive he is towards negativity though.

He just last week sulked bc I did not comment his new hair cut (because it does not look good, why would I lie haha). I sensed he got irritated by that, bc I did comment an other guy friends hair cut once.

It was also not before he lashed out on me when our mutual friend said "I'm gonna get a hair cut soon". And I looked at his hair and said "But whyyy?! It looks great! All wavy and perfect lenght". He did not even care, he was just neutral. But my Leo friend, he got all defensive "its his hair! He can do as he like!". He does things like that, he does often defend others if I'm being negative. But he does not defend me if someone gets negative with me, so I don't understand his double standards :/

posted March 08, 2018 01:05 PM            

Interesting bc Leo opposes Aquarius, I feel they want to feel like part of the tribe but want to be valued and not blend in either, they want to be seeing "like I want to belong to this tribe and feel accepted by it but I want to be seeing and valued for been a member of this tribe and what I offer to it, not get lost in the masses like I am not there." That feels like disrespect, like you are excluding me, like you feel I am not worthy, like I don't really matter.

posted March 08, 2018 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
He probably feels you are giving love and attention to others and not him, like he feels excluded and I feel like you know you are doing that and he knows that you know LOL yet you are surprised hahaha, thanks for sharing though . I mean I get it about not wanting to lie but find something else to say unrelated to his hair, maybe qualities he has you love etc..

Interesting bc Leo opposes Aquarius, I feel they want to feel like part of the tribe but want to be valued and not blend in either, they want to be seeing "like I want to belong to this tribe and feel accepted by it but I want to be seeing and valued for been a member of this tribe and what I offer to it, not get lost in the masses like I am not there." That feels like disrespect, like you are excluding me, like you feel I am not worthy, like I don't really matter.

I feel is that balance between Leo and Aquarius, somewhere in the middle would feel nice between individualism and collectivism and maybe these signs struggle with finding that middle ground sometimes and feeling comfortable fully at times bc of this.

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You always hit the nail on the head! I really agree with your assesment about the Leo/aquarius energy. I have moon Oppo Uranus, and that is really how I feel! I wanna be included in the group/tribe sociaty. But also I have to make it clear in some ways, maybe psychologically, that I'm unique, and have other values and I have to show it off etc. For some people it can be about exteriour things, like purple hair, different clothes. For me it has been about showing off my intellect, or my "weird" ideas and idelogies. However yes I get how you mean.

Omg you read me like a book!
Well yes, I knew what I was doing. But really, I did not sense he was so "upset" about it!. We both are in a vicious cycle :/.

Basically, I feel he is showering his male friend with attention and niceness, and does not give me the same. So maybe I wanna pay back, and a cycle it is.

BUT I have always shown him extra attention, and actually I have very very often made snarky commenst to our mutaul friend.

But ALWAYS been respectful to this leo guy, tating his positive charecteristics, like him having a high EQ. And things like "you can be such a great leader/manager", Or "you are so strong and focused", so kind. How much I apreciate him etc.

I have NEVER complimented our mutual frind like this! I even haave put our mutual friend down so many times in such obvious ways!

So to me it seems he has been very spoiled by me! However, its frustrations that plays out, inner tension, I guess in both sides.

posted March 08, 2018 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Interesting yes, it could be a venus in the 3rd or a venus in virgo thing in combo with sun in leo perhaps or sun in leo in combo with venus in cancer in some cases. In the case of sibling rivalry that feels like is bordering on abusive or is abusive dejanira may be involved such as mercury in aspect to dejanira etc....

Is your venus in the 3rd house in aspect to mars or pluto? thinking that could lead to power struggles or sibling rivalry too....

Your sister sounds so cuteeeeeeeeeeee, she adores you awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. I always wanted a little sis Darn it. She will eventually grow up and stop looking up towards you and then it might turn around and you will look up towards her.

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Both my Mercury and Venus are conjunct and square Pluto in Sag. My sister has a T-square between her Venus, Saturn, and Pluto (with Saturn & Pluto making the opposition). I can see where this plays out. I can she she somehow always had to prove she could measure up to me (Venus square Saturn). I always was in the spotlight and seemed bigger than life to her. I excelled in arts, music, and academics. I couldn’t do sports though, but she can. She was also the “prettier” one according to everybody else. I was kind of the golden child in the family, mainly because my parents expected more of me than my siblings. Even though she’s really good in athletics (was MVP and captain of her volleyball team in elementary), she still wants to be artistic.

I’m the oldest. My siblings are all Leo suns, but I think I have the rivalry more with my sister because she’s the other female. My brother and I get along very well. We have air ascendants and water moons. She, however, has Scorpio ascendant and Aries moon. The oddball, chartwise. Her energy is also more feminine than masculine, even with all the Leo in her chart. She and my brother don’t get along. We get along but with a hidden rivalry.

posted March 08, 2018 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Both my Mercury and Venus are conjunct and square Pluto in Sag. My sister has a T-square between her Venus, Saturn, and Pluto (with Saturn & Pluto making the opposition). I can see where this plays out. I can she she somehow always had to prove she could measure up to me (Venus square Saturn). I always was in the spotlight and seemed bigger than life to her. I excelled in arts, music, and academics. I couldn’t do sports though, but she can. She was also the “prettier” one according to everybody else. I was kind of the golden child in the family, mainly because my parents expected more of me than my siblings. Even though she’s really good in athletics (was MVP and captain of her volleyball team in elementary), she still wants to be artistic.

I’m the oldest. My siblings are all Leo suns, but I think I have the rivalry more with my sister because she’s the other female. My brother and I get along very well. We have air ascendants and water moons. She, however, has Scorpio ascendant and Aries moon. The oddball, chartwise. Her energy is also more feminine than masculine, even with all the Leo in her chart. She and my brother don’t get along. We get along but with a hidden rivalry.

Now that I think about it maybe I should check our synastry.

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posted March 08, 2018 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes my cousin is a sun in leo with venus in cancer, she is the oldest child and has two sisters. I can imagine is really hard for you to be an only child . Do you have friends that feel like family? I hope you find that if you haven't yet, I know is hard though in this hectic globalized world to maintain those deep connections on a day to day basis with friends .

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posted March 11, 2018 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I have a few friends, but honestly no deep connection friends. I just ficus mistly on my kids home life.

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