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Melinn
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posted May 20, 2018 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you guts think about a non-plutonic male who has only mercury squaring their pluto?

But also have Progressed Venus in Scorpio conj Pluto?
Would that by itself make that man being interested in Plutonic females?

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posted May 20, 2018 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:

Still it would be great interesting to meet a Gemini woman with her moon around 18 degrees scorpio (trine my sun).

I’m a Gemini sun with scorpio asc at 15 degrees.

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posted May 24, 2018 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 27, 2018 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the best part of having a Scorpio Moon is destroying your ex afterhe breaks your heart by stalking the f out of him, having him become friends with you again and then doing the exact same thing to him when he finally likes you again. Because I just... well LOST INTEREST. 😂
Actually that’s not true. The relationship was very toxic and if I stayed with him he would have most likely killed me. I had a traumatic incident with a. Scorpio venus one time he asked me to leave his house and I didn’t want to. I’m a Virgo mercury, I fix things I Talk them out. And well basically his weird pisces Moon went off the deep end crazy and took out a knife and almost killed me. He didn’t stab me he just pretend he was going to and it was horrible. I cut off all of my hair. I hid in my house. Ihe was so scary. He’s also a sun scorpio and venus scorpio. He was evil. And evil as evil can be. I’m glad he is gone for good because if I had to deal with his toxic ass again I will tell the authorities that he is an illegal citizen.

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posted May 27, 2018 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perfect song to describe Venus in Scorpio or 7th house http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aMidL_YL1Ys

Only when it’s true love, that is. 😅

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posted May 29, 2018 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW desiring… this sounds like the TOTAL opposite of the guy I was talking about (also sun/venus in scorp and Moon pisces).. but well who knows, still waters run deep ey..

(also scorp moon me)

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posted May 29, 2018 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes my ex with sun in scorpio and moon in pisces would never in a millions years pull a knife on me, I would show up to his house unannounced after we broke up and he was always very nice and we would have sex, sometimes go eat somewhere. I stopped doing that though, it was time to break that habit.

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posted May 29, 2018 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I have sun / venus scorpio and moon in pisces square mars, pluto conjuc mercury in scorpio and I have never been able to hurt a woman physically speaking or verbally .. it is strange the case mentioned above, if I have done such damage time with my confusions, emotional instability, hot / cold, surely known as the games of scorpio .. (I think many of us are not aware of what we provoke psychologically) but very far from drawing a knife or a threat .. if I have an explosive personality for what my acquaintances try to reassure me, generally knowing when I get angry I flee.

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posted May 29, 2018 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Franco:

I have sun / venus scorpio and moon in pisces square mars, pluto conjuc mercury in scorpio and I have never been able to hurt a woman physically speaking or verbally .. it is strange the case mentioned above, if I have done such damage time with my confusions, emotional instability, hot / cold, surely known as the games of scorpio .. (I think many of us are not aware of what we provoke psychologically) but very far from drawing a knife or a threat .. if I have an explosive personality for what my acquaintances try to reassure me, generally knowing when I get angry I flee.

Encima de la luna en piscis eres escorpio, con venus en escorpio, capricornio ascendente y hasta el nombre tuyo es bonito. Que pena que no vives en Colorado.

Tienes martes en geminis no? Naciste a finales the octubre en 1990 por casualidad?

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posted May 30, 2018 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Encima de la luna en piscis eres escorpio, con venus en escorpio, capricornio ascendente y hasta el nombre tuyo es bonito. Que pena que no vives en Colorado.

Tienes martes en geminis no? Naciste a finales the octubre en 1990 por casualidad?


Me sonrojas hypatia!! :$:$ gracias!! sisi, tengo esas ubicaciones, como lo sabias?

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posted May 30, 2018 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Perfect song to describe Venus in Scorpio or 7th house http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aMidL_YL1Ys

Only when it’s true love, that is. 😅


Omg so true lol

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posted May 30, 2018 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Franco:
Me sonrojas hypatia!! :$:$ gracias!! sisi, tengo esas ubicaciones, como lo sabias?

Bueno da la casualidad que los ultimos dos chicos con quien he salido, uno el ano pasado y el otro este ano, nacieron Octobre 31 1990 y Noviembre 1 1990. No me los busque asi a proposito, ha sido una casualidad. Asi como es una casualidad que naciste por ahi cerca tambien y yo no sabia que eras escorpio.

Lamentablemente tienen la luna en aries jajaja, prefiero piscis. No se que me pasa a mi con la luna en aries pero ya no mas. El unico escorpio que de verdad he querido y tiene un muy buen corazon es mi ex que es escorpio con luna en piscis, bueno el es la persona que mas he querido incondicionalmente.

En que grado tu tienes la luna en piscis? siento claro tu luna en piscis.

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posted May 30, 2018 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Bueno da la casualidad que los ultimos dos chicos con quien he salido, uno el ano pasado y el otro este ano, nacieron Octobre 31 1990 y Noviembre 1 1990. No me los busque asi a proposito, ha sido una casualidad. Asi como es una casualidad que naciste por ahi cerca tambien y yo no sabia que eras escorpio.

Lamentablemente tienen la luna en aries jajaja, prefiero piscis. No se que me pasa a mi con la luna en aries pero ya no mas. El unico escorpio que de verdad he querido y tiene un muy buen corazon es mi ex que es escorpio con luna en piscis, bueno el es la persona que mas he querido incondicionalmente.

En que grado tu tienes la luna en piscis? siento claro tu luna en piscis.


Que increible tu experiencia!! Tambien eran ascendente capricornio? Yo soy del 30 oct,y mi luna esta a 21 grados, en que sentido sentis la luna piscis? La verdad la astrologia es increible.

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posted May 30, 2018 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Franco:
Que increible tu experiencia!! Tambien eran ascendente capricornio? Yo soy del 30 oct,y mi luna esta a 21 grados, en que sentido sentis la luna piscis? La verdad la astrologia es increible.

No uno tenia virgo ascendiente y el otro leo ascendiente. Pero sali una vez con un capricornio ascendiente y tenga una muy buena amiga mia con capricornio ascendiente, me llevo bien con ascendientes en tierra o en scorpio como yo.

Yo tengo luna en pisces en 20 grados

Bueno siento un poco de telepatia. Tambien tu luna esta paralela a mi sol en 0 grado norte.

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posted May 31, 2018 05:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I’ll admif that I did provoke him psychologically, many times. But I didn’t expect all of that. Oh well. LOL

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posted June 08, 2018 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Franco read this and tell me what you think, if it resonates with you. I would appreciate your feedback. Thanks.

VENUS IN SCORPIO:

Its such a dichotomy with Venus in Scorpio. There is a strong desire to meet someone that they can't walk away from, that will overpower them but their instinct to protect themselves often is stronger than the love they feel for someone or the potential love they can allow themselves to feel for someone, they will ultimately choose survival over love. I feel their desire to protect themselves is often stronger than their desire for an all-consuming love. There is a battle in their heart between these opposing needs.

I feel this placements has many flings/casual sex or friends with benefits arrangements throughout their life. When you ask them about love there is usually one person they feel they truly felt in love with all the way that they put in a different category to everyone else. Usually they self sabotage that relationship themselves bc of their strong desire nature or other reasons, e.g. inability to remain faithful. They are very attracted to the idea of open relationships because of this. I feel they are unlucky in love but I feel that they bring that to themselves, there may be a compulsion to self-sabotage good things maybe coming from a place of feeling they don't deserve good things subconsciously since Venus rules self-worth and does not feel comfortable in Scorpio. I feel this placement is prone to self loathing at least subconsciously.

Also since Scorpio rules death I feel part of the reason they self-sabotage and are on the defense is bc they know everything comes to an end more than other Venus placements giving them a dark outlook on love to start with. They associate love with trauma to some extent, with death, loss, betrayal, longing/pain, forbidden love etc. Love is associated with crisis or barriers and feels unpredictable, they are always waiting for the other shoe to drop.

In a sense love activates their fight or flight mechanism!!!!!! Hence the hot and cold, back and forth issues famous with this placement. Their body is saying "danger! this is not safe, you can get hurt, better run and hide, you need to protect yourself." The interesting thing is that when the Venus in Scorpio individual does not run and actually sticks around I think the intensity of this placement ends up activating the fight or flight mechanism of the other person instead. Their lover ends up playing out the shadow side of this placement.

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posted June 08, 2018 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Hypatia! How are you?
The text is true, I personally had 4 relationships ... in all I ended up going away, it was always me that let go, they were relationships of 2 to 3 years each. When I feel that I lose my freedom, I flee because of fear, it wins me, as also the big commitments cost me, going to live together for example.

Something that I never lacked in my relationships were: Jealousy, obsessions from the beginning and above all drama ... I think all this defines Venus in Scorpio. The drama and the fight for anything is inevitable but still there was something in my couples since they never let me go and they always supported me. The theme of venus in scorpio is obsession, everything starts with a simple thought and instead of forgetting it you start to question it more and ready .. when you realized it won you, fear starts, drama starts and you get away from people fears ... even when you have everything in the relationship. Another thing is that after years is "hooked" with a former partner, I think that was the framework and I will not easily overcome .. our sinastria had our sun, venus, mercury, pluton and jupiter in conjunction all in scorpio .. also my pluton exact conjuction with his North Node and my South Node conjuction with his moon in house 7. puff .. unforgettable. I hope I've helped! anything we follow!

sorry for my bad english haha

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posted June 08, 2018 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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@Franco read this and tell me what you think, if it resonates with you. I would appreciate your feedback. Thanks.

VENUS IN SCORPIO:

Its such a dichotomy with Venus in Scorpio. There is a strong desire to meet someone that they can't walk away from, that will overpower them but their instinct to protect themselves often is stronger than the love they feel for someone or the potential love they can allow themselves to feel for someone, they will ultimately choose survival over love. I feel their desire to protect themselves is often stronger than their desire for an all-consuming love. There is a battle in their heart between these opposing needs.

I feel this placements has many flings/casual sex or friends with benefits arrangements throughout their life. When you ask them about love there is usually one person they feel they truly felt in love with all the way that they put in a different category to everyone else. Usually they self sabotage that relationship themselves bc of their strong desire nature or other reasons, e.g. inability to remain faithful. They are very attracted to the idea of open relationships because of this. I feel they are unlucky in love but I feel that they bring that to themselves, there may be a compulsion to self-sabotage good things maybe coming from a place of feeling they don't deserve good things subconsciously since Venus rules self-worth and does not feel comfortable in Scorpio. I feel this placement is prone to self loathing at least subconsciously.

Also since Scorpio rules death I feel part of the reason they self-sabotage and are on the defense is bc they know everything comes to an end more than other Venus placements giving them a dark outlook on love to start with. They associate love with trauma to some extent, with death, loss, betrayal, longing/pain, forbidden love etc. Love is associated with crisis or barriers and feels unpredictable, they are always waiting for the other shoe to drop.

In a sense love activates their fight or flight mechanism!!!!!! Hence the hot and cold, back and forth issues famous with this placement. Their body is saying "danger! this is not safe, you can get hurt, better run and hide, you need to protect yourself." The interesting thing is that when the Venus in Scorpio individual does not run and actually sticks around I think the intensity of this placement ends up activating the fight or flight mechanism of the other person instead. Their lover ends up playing out the shadow side of this placement.


Very Well written, thank you

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posted June 08, 2018 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"another thing is that after years is "hooked" with a former partner, I think that was the framework and I will not easily overcome .. our sinastria had our sun, venus, mercury, pluton and jupiter in conjunction all in scorpio .. also my pluton towards its North Node and my South Node conjugate its moon at house 7. puff .. unforgettable."

Gracias Franco. Que quieres decir? que despues de muchos anos todavia estas enamorado de el aunque estas en otra relacion? Los dos son escorpios? Dices que en la sinestria tenian sol, venus, mercurio, pluto y jupiter conjuntos pero tu tienes sol, venus, mercurio y pluto en escorpio osea que el jupiter de el se unio a tu stellium no? O el tenia otros planetes como tu en escorpio? el es el que mas has querido?

^acabo de darme cuente que dijiste El...

Pero es verdad con venus en escorpio las relaciones tienen on tono de obsession desde el principio por el lado del uno o el otro o ambos, porque todo se siente como vida o muerte, el cuerpo se pone en un estado de emergencia.

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posted June 08, 2018 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Very Well written, thank you

Thank you!

Have you noticed this too in venus in scorpio individuals? Do you have that placement?

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posted June 08, 2018 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Franco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
"another thing is that after years is "hooked" with a former partner, I think that was the framework and I will not easily overcome .. our sinastria had our sun, venus, mercury, pluton and jupiter in conjunction all in scorpio .. also my pluton towards its North Node and my South Node conjugate its moon at house 7. puff .. unforgettable."

Gracias Franco. Que quieres decir? que despues de muchos anos todavia estas enamorado de el aunque estas en otra relacion? Los dos son escorpios? Dices que en la sinestria tenian sol, venus, mercurio, pluto y jupiter conjuntos pero tu tienes sol, venus, mercurio y pluto en escorpio osea que el jupiter de el se unio a tu stellium no? O el tenia otros planetes como tu en escorpio? el es el que mas has querido?

^acabo de darme cuente que dijiste El...

Pero es verdad con venus en escorpio las relaciones tienen on tono de obsession desde el principio por el lado del uno o el otro o ambos, porque todo se siente como vida o muerte, el cuerpo se pone en un estado de emergencia.


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posted June 08, 2018 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Exacto, con la persona (mujer, jaja me exprese mal anteriormente, si no debes pensar que era un hombre) que quede "obsesionado" tiene un stellium en scorpio al igual que yo, todo en un rango de 10 grados.. todos los planetas estaban en contacto, incluso su NN y su jupiter. pero su luna en mi nodo sur creo que es lo que me quedo de la relación, ya que me sentia tan comodo y uno mas en su familia, la relación con su familia era excelente y aun lo sigue siendo. Otro detalle, nunca me intereso volver a intetarlo con ninguna ex pareja, es como que tengo rechazo, incluso no puedo volver a hablarles, borro completamente de mi vida hasta en redes sociales.. pero debo admitir que me obsesiono rapidamente y doy todo al principio, tan intensamente que en 2 años ya no tengo nada para dar, pierde emocion la relación, empienzan los miedos y exigencias y corro..

jajajajaja (*mujer)

Tu sabes siento que oigo tu voz cuando leo lo que escribes hahaha, creo que se como suenas cuando hablas.

"es como que tengo rechazo"

^^se puede traduzir a "no quiero nada contingo, no quiero saber nada de ti." O "esto no funciono, no va a fucionar y no me voy a riesgar otra vez." O es repugnacion? o Rencor? o varia de chica a chica?

Elabora...no sera que duele dejar las puertas abiertas y por eso entonces las cierras por completo o que quieres decir? que sientes como odio/rechazo por ellas porque no supieron manejar la intensidad de la relacion? o el rechazo es porque les perdiste respeto for eso? estoy explorando contigo de donde viene la emocion de "es como que tengo rechazo," que esta debajo de eso? el deseo to protegerte? resentimiento? las dos cosas?. Suena como un instinto fuerte.

Es como que la naturaleza fija de ese elemento hace que cuando tu cerebro determina que no va funcionar nada te puede cambiar la mente!

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Okay so In one of the systems I’m a Mars Scorpio and in that system I did date a Venus in Scorpio and we weren’t really that into each other.. but he was kind of clingy. Looking back he wasn’t my type I was desperate or something. He held my hands in public major PDA and we kissed in public a lot at a concert. Something I’d never do these days because that’s gross and inappropriate and too much affection.
Anyways
He was super jealous and there was this whole saga where at the time I had a soul mate dude and the entire reason I got with the venus in scorpio was to make my soul mate jealous because he wouldn’t commit.. idk, Libra games. Mars in scorpio games, specifically. And it actually didn’t work out. When I tried to make the other dude jealous it did work because he gave in and was going to be with me, but I was at a point where I didn’t feel very certain that it would pan out and I already felt pretty comfortable with the venus in scorpio.
In tropical I’m venus Libra mars scorpio
My soul mate was a venus Capricorn mars leo

And the other dude that I kind of used but enjoyed as well was a venus scorpio mars Virgo or Libra not sure and too lazy to look it up sorry

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posted June 10, 2018 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The guys that I know (Venus in Scorpio) tend to obsess over women who hurt them?

. sorprendida por tanto texto en español .

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posted June 11, 2018 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^Interesting.

The more I encounter this placement the more I realize its a really tough placement.

I think Franco having moon in pisces has helped a lot with him been more open hearted and neutralizing some of the effects of this placement.

El se expresa mejor en espanol y quiero entenderlo lo mejor possible.

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