posted May 31, 2018 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
I really don't know why there is so much hype on the internet about a man's moon and Venus sign in regards to compatability. There's is a strong drive with their Mars placements as well. So the man I am seeing is a cancer Mars. I have a cancer ascendant. There is an affinity there. His moon and Venus are in aries and I am aries sun. It is the whole picture and
Never one placement. Ever.

That is why it is so important to try and wrap your head around all of the energy that is being transmitted from one person to another...one prounouced aspect will never do. And our jobs as astrologers is to explore the bigger picture, and that can be taxing. But, it will give a clearer perspective on The relationship overall.

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My ascendant conjuncts his mars and the attraction is very strong. Strong affinity as you say. His moon and Venus are there too. Bam! But yes the whole picture needs to be taken into account,

posted May 31, 2018 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
In my case 7th house more dominant than 5th I guess.
Have Mars and Saturn in Libra 5th.
Uranus in 7th.
I'm more attracted to Uranian type Girs.
http://imgur.com/Tgw6POI

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I think it's because Uranus is right on your 7th H cusp! Neptune is in tight conjuct to the 8th H cusp and same goes for Mars being right on the 6th H cusp. I am wondering if your Mars affects you like it's in your 6th H and your natal Neptune like it's in the 8th H?

posted June 01, 2018 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[B] How does Child = Mercury? And I don't have any of those p!acements in my chart though.

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Mercury rules writing, post, thinking, neighbours, siblings, short travel etc. and also children.

Yeah, you have none of the things I mentioned.

posted June 01, 2018 12:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I think it's because Uranus is right on your 7th H cusp! Neptune is in tight conjuct to the 8th H cusp and same goes for Mars being right on the 6th H cusp. I am wondering if your Mars affects you like it's in your 6th H and your natal Neptune like it's in the 8th H?

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Thanks.
You are right.
Mars and Pluto very near to 6th Cusp and Neptune near to 8th Cusp.
Also Lilith and SN in 8th too.

Don't know why exactly I'm still single.
May be my expectations are high(different) ?
I attracted to those who are not available or beyond my social status.
I have to do things very consciously to solve these issue.
And I'm trying to help myself through Astrology now.

posted June 01, 2018 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
Mercury rules writing, post, thinking, neighbours, siblings, short travel etc. and also children.

Yeah, you have none of the things I mentioned.

You have your male planets Sun and Mars in Taurus and Gemini respectively. The only possible explanation that comes to mind is that those guys have a Taurus or Libra Ascendant and its ruler Venus being in Gemini. Thus fulfilling the energies required by the positions of your Sun and Mars.

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posted June 01, 2018 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Thanks.
You are right.
Mars and Pluto very near to 6th Cusp and Neptune near to 8th Cusp.
Also Lilith and SN in 8th too.

Don't know why exactly I'm still single.
May be my expectations are high(different) ?
I attracted to those who are not available or beyond my social status.
I have to do things very consciously to solve these issue.
And I'm trying to help myself through Astrology now.

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Sorry to the OP for being out of topic, I hope you don't mind since there isn't another way to contact someone via this site.

Somna7H
People who have problem with relationships have Capricorn DSC/ Saturn in 7th H/ Uranus in 7th H / Venus in Aqua and there are some other problematic combinations too but like 80% of the time it's Saturn in 7th / 7th H in Cap/ Uranus in 7th H.
I've seen 3 posts the last few days of different people asking why they haven't been in a relationship or why it's so difficult for them to find someone and I can't cound how many I've seen through the last 6-7 years..
Like i said 80% of them if not more have one or more of the above placements I mentioned.

Luckily you don't have Cap/Saturn in 7th H.
Uranus in there doesn't deny relationships like Saturn does.
Uranus is attracted to foreigners/weird/intelligent/detached/independent/unavailable. Uranus loves freedom and unconvetional relationships.
You may attract people with Aqua personal planets, or personal planets in aspect to Uranus or planets in 11th H.
Relationships via internet / relationships with a big distance or people who are unavailable offer Uranus the freedom it nees while keeping him mentally stimulated which is what it needs.

You have to understand that you are attracted to those people because they show you parts of yourself you haven't understood/accepted.

Neptune in 7th H in conjuction to the 8th H cusp, opposite Moon (emotions) and Venus (values, love) does not help at all.
Neptune likes being saved or saving their soulmate, needs spitritual connection and complete blending with the one if possible.
Neptune rules addictions like alcohol and drugs, people who need to be saved, hospitals and prison, creative people, artists.
As the planet of unconditional love Neptune can

Neptune just like Uranus is attracted to unavalaible people for a completely different reason. The unavalaibility helps Neptune keep the perfect image of the loved one for longer.
The thing with Uranus being on the 7th H cusp is that it speeds up the Neptunian process (seeing someone as a God and then being disappointed when you realise he is a human being).

Neptune may make you have high standards or even intangible ones. Both Neptune and Uranus are idealistic planets.

Moon and Venus in Gemini indicate a need for mental stimulation too.

posted June 02, 2018 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Sorry to the OP for being out of topic, I hope you don't mind since there isn't another way to contact someone via this site.

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Plu0nian2 a lot of what you are saying resonates especially with the charts of people I've done readings for "interestingly". I wanna know if your open in discussing your opinion on this natal placement but what do you think about a man with his 7th ruler URANUS in scorpio SQUARE his SATURN IN LEO/ASCENDANT/DESCENDANT AXIS? VENUS SEXTILE URANUS AS WELL. just curious to know your views on this placement?

posted June 02, 2018 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Plu0nian2 a lot of what you are saying resonates especially with the charts of people I've done readings for "interestingly". I wanna know if your open in discussing your opinion on this natal placement but what do you think about a man with his 7th ruler URANUS in scorpio SQUARE his SATURN IN LEO/ASCENDANT/DESCENDANT AXIS? VENUS SEXTILE URANUS AS WELL. just curious to know your views on this placement?

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Hey angel4845,
I am open in discussing whatever you want actually, but I am not a pro, I know the VERY basics. I just happen to have these placements natally and I've seen so many posts to the point that I can already understand just from the title of the thread that the op has one of the placements/aspects I mentioned. That is why I feel like I can understand well this particular pattern. Unfortunately I am not good in astrology generally. I could give you my opinion but don't count on it.

So the man you're talking about has Leo ASC with Saturn in the 1st H.
7th H cusp in Aqua is not the same as having Uranus in 7th H in my opinion. I consider signs to be the weakest (I mean planets and houses in signs unless the planet is unaspected or the house is empty) while planets in houses are the strongest along with the natal aspects.

Saturn in 1st H, may give Saturn qualities both appearance and personality wise but when he feels familiar with someone he will show Uranian qualities (both Uranus in 4th H and Aqua DSC) Uranus in 4th H makes it sound like a good idea to not have his own family if he wants to have one in the first place. He must be born somewhere in between 1975-1978. Does he have one? Uranus in 4th might indicate distance literal or emotional with his family, even sudden death of family member would be possible. I have very few examples of Uranus in 4th H and they are distant emotionally with their family members but tjey are all Aqua Moons so they might not feel like it but they really are.

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posted June 03, 2018 01:35 AM            

Thanks for your help.
Yes,I guess higher standard stopping me to engage in romantic relationship till now.
May be in near future I will engage with someone when proper transit gonna run.
Uranus and Neptune gonna effect deeply my future partnership and I can't deny that now.

posted June 04, 2018 12:01 AM            

8th H cusp in Aqua too, so ruler is Uranus in 4th, Aqua is as detached as it can get so in the 8th H which is the house of depth Aqua doesn't work well.

Lets say his 8th H cusp is in Pisces just in case. Pisces is an emotional sign so it's good in there, wants to blend with other completely mau be taken advantage of in the 8th H sharimg part but it's still better than Aqua.

The problem is that Neptune is in his 5th H..
All of his love houses are problematic..
He may be atracted to Neptunian women.. the problem here is that after the 5th H phase ends he will be disappointed.. Neptune is idealistic like Uranus, he may see women like he wants them to be instead of what they really are, or he might have high standars.

Not only that, but Neptune is in square with his Moon, natural ruler of the 4th H.
His Moon being in Virgo the opposite of Pisces..
He must idealise both love and family in a romantic way not thinking about it from a practical view point which is Saturn's job.. Neptune is far away from reality.
He might have been in love with being in love and with having a family.
He might also be confused about his own emotions.

In my case with Neptune in 7th H I thought of relationships being something magical, you fall in love with someone and that's the end.. everything would be beautiful.. Until transit Pluto conjucted my 7th H cusp and I finally woke up from that dream.

It's like you always see the bright side and even that you fantasize it as a much better version of what it actually is in reality..

He has air Sun, Mercury and Mars..
Air is not emotional and needs mental stimulation like Uranus.. Mars in Gemini is getting bored quickly and wants variety.
Venus in Leo is nice, the way he shows his love is warm and emthusiastic in a Leo way. His ASC in Leo too.. So he might seem really "warmer" and more serious (Satunr in 1st) than he actually is.

Another thing that makes all those Uranian placements even more difficult is the North Node in 4th H.

The Neptune aspect and placement he has are not easy, they bring disappointment, delusion, confusion amd all that Neptunian stuff but it wouldn't be enough by itself.. In fact Neptune makes the native endure longer than it should in a relationship most of the times. And I definately find it less problematic in the 5th H than in 7th H.

His empty Aqua 7th H and its ruler Uranus in 4th H are enough to explain the situation with his first family and the one he created himself AND his problematic relationships.

Since Moon is 4th H natural ruler and it's in square with Neptune I suspect that he doesn't take care of his kid 24/7.. If he had to take care of his kid by himself he would show his Uranian side once more..
Uranus gets attached to someone when that someone is away for the most part (distant relationships) or is independent.
Neptune helps in that too.

Yes you're right, he may feel like he doesn't know how to harmonize the unconvetional things he needs because the Saturn-Uranus square but I think Neptune square Moon plays it's role in this too.

Indeed Uranian people most of the time do not understand their need for freedom until it's too late I was one of those and I didn't even understand that I was detached. I thought I was shy and that I need more time which is true but the need to run away everytime someone I was in love with was coming closer to me didn't seem normal at some point.

When Neptune works with Uranus definately the native doesn't understand his Uranian needs because Neptune idealises things and fantasizes them in a very romantic way.. That is why the person is confused (Neptune)..
But Neptune is in love with the ideal version he has in his head which most of the times can not even be possible for that thing to exist. Uranus is idealist too and gets easily enthusiastic..

The chart of that man is not an emotional one nor an earthy one. He is heavy in air mental stimulation and easily bored but he doesn't get it because he idealizes things.

I am sorry for my English I am not a native English speaker and also sorry for the typos ( I am using my smartphone)

posted June 04, 2018 12:16 AM            

If you have time please read my last response to angel. I want you to understand hlw Uranus and Neptune work together because you will definately have Uranian problems and I don't want you to find out when it will be too late.

posted June 04, 2018 03:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Somna7H you're welcome

If you have time please read my last response to angel. I want you to understand hlw Uranus and Neptune work together because you will definately have Uranian problems and I don't want you to find out when it will be too late.

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Thanks!