posted August 09, 2018 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
a virgo venus wont like the foto. you are attractive enough without make up. I am sure. my expatner was virgo venus sun in libra.. he hate make up...

if you want him to like your appereance change it to virgo venus like. my question is why do you want to be something you are not just to attract someone? that type of thinking always puzzle me... so many men would like you as you are, your style and you are very attractive anyway, just your make up do not look virgo type....

if you want to appeal virgo venus, be intelligent, analytical, organized, CLEAN.... virgo hates anything that has not practical value. so beauty without brain is not too much of use for virgo. he needs to keep the mind feeded. that is more important. if he finds you too needy or too frivolous about your physical appeareance, that is a total turn off

if i were you i would not bother to try to fit someone. if you fake it, it would be obvious sooner or later.

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For a long time I’ve been trying to go easy on the makeup. It may seem strange since people think Im wearing too much makeup in this picture, maybe it’s the dark lighting.. I dont know.. but I’ve toned down a lot on the makeup.
I used to wear my eyeliner even thicker, and lashes thicker, dark eyeshadow, etc. But then I realized it didn’t look good on me, and rather took away from my features which I tried to accentuate. So now I went a lot lighter, but it still is too much I guess.

I wanted some tips on how I can still accentuate my features, and have the overall style I go for, but look more natural. I’m not the type to just be practical. That’s not me, but I do want to look good for him.

I understand Im probably not Virgo Venus type, but I dont see how it’s bad to try to look a bit more natural. Im not trying to change everything about me.

posted August 09, 2018 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i am sure you look better without eyeliner.. and your features are just beautiful...

try little by little.. when i was younger i could not live without eyeliner. i found my eyes too small without them.. one day, i did not have time and only rimmel on my eyelashes and WOW, many people told me i look younger and more beautiful... now, i can see why...

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Well thank you for saying that I have nice features(: buy I feek like that probably is because the makeup lol
You might not be able to tell in the photo, but my eyelids slightly protrude. And it’s more obvious without makeup. I have strange eyes. They look like an iguana or something lol that’s why eyeliner opens up my eyes. I will try to go little by little like you said. See how it goes. I do go without makeup most days actually. And I look good without my contacts on(cause my face is a bit blurred since Im blind) but then I put them on then forget it lol my skin is horrible. Everything. You may just ge more fortunate to have natural beauty. I guess for Virgo Venus you gotta be naturally pretty.

Also are you a Virgo rising?

posted August 09, 2018 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yep the one I know with this placement is a Virgo sun though so it's worse. I try to take what he says as constructive criticism but it does come off as rude. Like he's always telling me how I need to exercise lose weight and stop eating junk all the time etc. I know he's right I mean I honestly I do need to get in better shape. But it just makes me so sick like I'm not perfect jeez. I read somewhere that when a Virgo does this it's just his way of showing that he cares.

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Oh yes it sure means the virgo person cares! And the more pressure the person puts in it, the more he/she cares. I'm like you describe this guy, sadly But only to my siblings and parents, and more so bc of the pluto personality in me or whatever. Its so... I cant find the word.. but, nonconstructive? But the "irritation" virgos often feel when they deliver their "helpfulness" comes from a place of anxiety and care. The person feels anxiety about your health bc he/she wants you to live long and healthy. But yeah granted some virgos just likes to nagg, ehum "say" what they think you should do to improve yourself even when you did not ask for the persons damn opinions.

posted August 09, 2018 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I’m cracking up Melinn!! I know that so well!

My boyfriends friends aren’t even safe!
He will comment if his friends need to cut their toe nails.
Comment on his friends hair thinning. 🙄
Comment on his friend not working.

I actually don’t have the same political stance as my boyfriend.
When we started dating I told him I am open to being with someone who has deferent political beliefs than me. He said he was too...
But I can tell he thinks he can change my beliefs...but my Mercury is in Taurus!! 😆
Keeps things interesting andmake us both better debaters.
We have both told each other that if either of us ran in politics we would vote for someone else.

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Haha great how people can relate! Makes me happy!<3

OMG toe nails ok that I get, but hair thinnings?! As if its in the hair owners hands? Like he choose to have thinning hair!?
ahaha those poor friends of his, I have huge sympathy for them awww!

I too have mercury taurus! Yes good luck changing the opinions of ours haha

Hope he has gotten better with holding in his criticism? Do you feel like his criticism gets worse when he is under pressure and stressed out?

posted August 09, 2018 06:25 PM            

I think we were worried you would try to change your personality for him, but I understand totally where you come from and how it feels like when you have feelings for a guy and just wanna look good`=feel good (that one of my mottos!)

For some its an insecurity thing. For some, its just about wanna be seen as a person he would wanna feel closer to. The exterior is in our world the fisrt thing people look at afterall.

I totally think more about my clothings and makeup and about interesting things I lately read, when I'm gonna see my crush.

I just wanna feel good, not bc of my looks, but yeah so I won't worry about how my t-shirt looks, how my jeans feels, if my mascara sits ok etc, so I can just relax when I interact with the guy right?

Anyways, I think I understand where you come from.

posted August 10, 2018 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Yes, your eyeliner is definitely too thick. Perhaps it's just the image, but you look like you have quite a bit of foundation on. Skip the eyeliner. If you have skin problems, the foundation will make things worse. If you have acne, ask your doctor to write you a prescription for spironolactone (it suppresses androgen production, which is the hormone that causes acne). Your skin will clear up faster. Be aware that this medication also causes your potassium levels to increase, so be careful about your potassium intake (beware of tomatoes and bananas). One of my friends has very bad cystic acne and her skin cleared up in 1 month while taking spironolactone.

Drink tons of water, Keep dairy to a minimum. Get as much vitamin C as you can from your diet.

You have pretty features. You don't need all of that makeup anyway.

Also, make sure you don't wear fake nails. Fake nails, lash extensions, weaves, etc are normally major turn offs for venus in virgo. I'm not saying you are using any of these products, but I thought I should point it out in case you are thinking about using them in the future.

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Alrighty thanks for the tips (:
It may be too late to say , but you can’t see in the picture but I have a tiny rhinestone nose piercing. It barely noticeable even in real life, but I doubt Virgo Venus men like that. Also I wear false lashes, natural looking ones, but still... I guess Aquarius rising and Virgo really don’t mesh well...

posted August 10, 2018 09:44 AM            

You DO have beautiful features. And I am not saying this to be nice but it doesn't matter if I or the others keep saying you are beautiful if you don't see it yourself.

Start by working on your self confidence and self love and the rest will follow.

posted August 10, 2018 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Haha great how people can relate! Makes me happy!<3

OMG toe nails ok that I get, but hair thinnings?! As if its in the hair owners hands? Like he choose to have thinning hair!?
ahaha those poor friends of his, I have huge sympathy for them awww!

I too have mercury taurus! Yes good luck changing the opinions of ours haha

Hope he has gotten better with holding in his criticism? Do you feel like his criticism gets worse when he is under pressure and stressed out?

I remembered just now, you were gonna change to a new work place, how you done it? Hope its all is well with your workplace? <3

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I think part of commenting on his friends hair, is that he is insecure about his hair thinning. He told me a few years it was starting to thin. That kind of freaked me out at first since he was 24 at the time.
He starting taking supplements and I started buying him better shampoo.

He is also able to talk about his feelings when he is really stressed or upset.

Yes I got a new job! Higher pay, 30 hour work weeks AND paid time off! I start on the 20th

You think right now, I would be enjoying my freedom while I can. But instead I am wrapping up two online condensed bachelor level classes.

Okay these damn discussion boards, can we not not have any when we have projects due? Lol

It’s nice that I can finish up just focusing on school now, but still a pain in the ass.

With my new hours, I don’t feel as much pressure to get everything done before the school year starts.

posted August 10, 2018 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Sunnya:
Stop saying you are not a natural beauty. Stop saying your eyes are weird or this or that. Stop berating you.

You DO have beautiful features. And I am not saying this to be nice but it doesn't matter if I or the others keep saying you are beautiful if you don't see it yourself.

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I agree, maybe for your venus in pisces you are not attractive naturally because you have an idea how attractive should be, but you are and many men will find it so...

as per make up, have you tried brown eyeliner instead. if you want to use make up, brown would go more natural to your features. brown looks too strong. brow make up with shades and maybe using shades or pencil rather than eyeliner. that would look awesome..

I am not virgo rising, but my venus conjunct 3rd house (mercury influence?)i remember my ex-fiance hates when i paid too much attention to my appeareance.. I am very venusian with rising taurus, venus conjunct sun and sextile ascendant... so i understand your sensitivity to beauty issues...

posted August 10, 2018 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Yes, your eyeliner is definitely too thick. Perhaps it's just the image, but you look like you have quite a bit of foundation on. Skip the eyeliner. If you have skin problems, the foundation will make things worse. If you have acne, ask your doctor to write you a prescription for spironolactone (it suppresses androgen production, which is the hormone that causes acne). Your skin will clear up faster. Be aware that this medication also causes your potassium levels to increase, so be careful about your potassium intake (beware of tomatoes and bananas). One of my friends has very bad cystic acne and her skin cleared up in 1 month while taking spironolactone.

Drink tons of water, Keep dairy to a minimum. Get as much vitamin C as you can from your diet.

You have pretty features. You don't need all of that makeup anyway.

Also, make sure you don't wear fake nails. Fake nails, lash extensions, weaves, etc are normally major turn offs for venus in virgo. I'm not saying you are using any of these products, but I thought I should point it out in case you are thinking about using them in the future.

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I almost forgot that I had a photo that is more clear where you can see my eye makeup. Actually this pic is older than the op picture. The op picture is more recent.

In the pic in the op it looks quite thick, but I have been laying low on it. Maybe this will help to see how I wear my eyeliner. You can see it better here. Thank you all for the makeup tips. It’s still a lot though lol

posted August 10, 2018 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I agree, maybe for your venus in pisces you are not attractive naturally because you have an idea how attractive should be, but you are and many men will find it so...

as per make up, have you tried brown eyeliner instead. if you want to use make up, brown would go more natural to your features. brown looks too strong. brow make up with shades and maybe using shades or pencil rather than eyeliner. that would look awesome..

I am not virgo rising, but my venus conjunct 3rd house (mercury influence?)i remember my ex-fiance hates when i paid too much attention to my appeareance.. I am very venusian with rising taurus, venus conjunct sun and sextile ascendant... so i understand your sensitivity to beauty issues...

and hey opposite attracts... virgo may search the chaotic in you as a way to balance their analytical energy... just do not worry too much.. ask a person with refine taste to see you with different make up style. it may take you a while to get used to different styles when you are so used to eyeliner..

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You’re advice was very helpful. Thank you. Im going to try that. Brown eyeliner. I usually wear liquid eyeliner so hopefully they sell it in brown lol I think you’re right, I think I am so accustomed to eyeliner that it’s just so hard for me to see myself without it. I gotta find other styles that’ll suit me. Thanks (:

posted August 11, 2018 06:07 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Wow, that picture is beautiful. you have so much expressivity in the second picture. from my taste, you dont need eyeliner. seriously!!! but if you think you need while you transition to something more natural maybe only on the upper eyelid (brown better option in my opinion). an option is to use pencil inside the eye (brown) rather than outside.

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Thank you (: I’m going to try that and see how it looks!

posted August 11, 2018 06:10 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
You better be perfect or else lol they will constantly point out your flaws. If they don't like something about you they will let you know. You have to have thick skin to deal with a man with Venus in Virgo. I think they can be sleazy too. Even though they try to portray this perfect image.

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Uh oh I am quite sensitive when it comes to that stuff...

posted August 11, 2018 06:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Omg yes one of my guy friends is a real pain with his ”helpfulness” that really comes off as criticicim at best and right donw self righteousness and rudeness for real!

So helpful in his own mind, but constant nagging for me.

And he will never be like this with his guy friends! Just with me! Its really frustrating.

He has Sun virgo and Venus, not in virgo but in his 6th house. He will pick on me, my beliefs, thoughts and my belongins constantly! The only thing he won’t pick at is my clothing style and appearance, if he did that aswell, I really would slap him haha!

He will ask my opinion about, politics, or why I feel this or that. And then he would go like “Oh but thats not good! You should not think that way! Thats wrong!" etc etc.

I think in his mind he is “diplomatic” much like a libra. He seems to not understand, the way he delivers his opinions is downright annoying. He has mercury square saturn so he can be harsh as a blistering hot sun!

He will criticize my water bottle, he will criticize me being down. He will criticize my bag being heavy “why is this so heavy?! its not good! what do you have inside?!”
etc.

Its all about how one deliver things like that. If he had a concerned voice and if he had a sweetness and softness in his voice and manners then it would be concidered very charming and helpful etc.

I think that is what he deep inside wants but he sucks at being soft and sweet. It looks much worse bc our mutual friend is libra venus and he is the opposite, so very charming and soft and yeah real libra venus.

Its so frustrating and this is when I am virgo asc and even know about astrology and where he comes from haha!

This is one case and individual of course, not saying all virgo venus/venus 6th house people acts like him

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What are your other placements?

My grandpa is a Virgo to the T , my mom has a Virgo moon, and from my experience Im not too fond of it. My mom also has Scorpio placements and I think it makes her very jealous and reactive as well. Mix jealousy with criticism, not fun to be around.. it’s one of those things that you have to be therd to know

My grandpa on the other hand, is a Virgo Sun and I could swear he’d have more placements like the moon in Virgo because he fits it to the T. Even his jokes are like a Virgo lol puns galore I find him a bit more tolerable than my mother but still it puzzles me when they care about small things so much.
They can be very critical lol like to the point that Im like “Who cares?!” “Who cares if they pay their phone bill late?” “Who cares if that mirror will sit perfectly on my wall?” “Who cares if if that man isnt wearing shoes!?”

Everything has to be perfect and precise, Im just like lets wing it let lthe wind guide you

posted August 11, 2018 09:58 AM            

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If you have skin problems, the foundation will make things worse.

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YES YES YES!

I cannot agree more.

If anyone has skin problems, in the long run, foundation WILL mess up your skin EVEN more, thus making you continue to use foundation to cover up the damage the foundation is doing. And the vicious cycle continues!

Cease and desist with foundation except on rare occasions.

If you break out easily, just put dabs of minty toothpaste on and leave it there for an hour, and repeat as necessary. By the next day, the pimple should be greatly reduced, or even gone.