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SoulOfABird
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posted August 07, 2018 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Help pleasee I really like this guy who happens to be a Libra with a Virgo Venus.. he has said to like simple girls, who are smart/wise and easy for him to converse with. The problem is, I don’t think Im simple enough. I don’t think Im his type so what can I do to my appearance to appeal to him? I’ve been told I look high maintenance which I don’t think is considered simple 😬 I don’t know what to do because Im not a natural beauty and I need eyeliner and usually Virgo Venus men like the more natural look. My eyeliner probably makes it look like I wear more makeup than I actually do. As an Aquarius rising I enjoy standing out a bit as far as appearance and looking exotic. How can I look a bit more like a simple girl yet still keep the look I’m going for? Lol Please don’t say just be yourself blah blah blah because I have been wanting to look more natural it’s just harf when you don’t have natural beauty...

Im a Pisces Venus and Libra mars btw so Im not sure if I would fit his type personality wise either 🤷🏻‍♀️

Any suggestions? Appearance wise? What can I change a bit to fit more into the venus virgo man’s type?

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posted August 07, 2018 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your makeup is too thick. If you wear makeup, make it look natural. Don't wear heavy perfume. They love the freshly showered smell. Basically, you want to appear low-maintenance and down to earth.

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posted August 07, 2018 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, Libra and Virgo might be a huge influence here.

I have Venus in Virgo. Let me tell you about my aesthetic. This might help you with this situation. After all, a man is usually attracted to his Venus relationship-wise.

I like my makeup to look natural and effortless. I put foundation, light eyeliner at the top of my lid (no wing), mascara, and red lipstick. Sometimes I don't even put eyeliner. The lipstick just makes it interesting, but I don't always wear it. Keep the contour to a minimal and only use it when it's a special occasion. Venus in Virgo likes things to be useful. What use is a lot of contour when you're just taking a walk in the park or doing groceries? I only wear heavy makeup now on special occasions. My daily makeup is light. Some days, I don't even wear any at all. My hair is usually down. Again, I don't do anything to it unless it's a special occasion. It helps to have healthy and natural beautiful hair. It's also good to have hair care and skin care routine. Feed your body with healthy food. You are what you eat.

For clothing, body-hugging clothes are the best. Dark and nude colors appeal very much. Bright colors only serve to cheapen one's appearance. If you think such colors are dull, you can opt for pastels. Flowy tops, dresses, and skirts must be kept to a minimal. You have to balance it out to look appealing (i.e. mix a flowy top with a tight skirt or a flowy skirt with a tight top). Always make sure to balance your outfit and accessories. If you are wearing a lot of patterns, wear small jewelry or none at all (like studs for earrings). Studs are more preferred than dangling earrings. Also if you are wearing plain clothes, you can match it up with big intricate jewelry. Just a few simple tips on aesthetics.

As for personality, Venus in Virgo, I would assume, likes a woman who knows all the little details about them. Figure out how he likes his sandwich made, his favorite color, if he likes you touching his hair or not, etc. The little details matter, and you are sure to impress him if you are thoughtful enough. Also, we like to do daily activities with the ones we love. The more time you spend with him helping out with groceries or laundry or maybe even going to the gym with him, the more likely he will be attracted to you. These all sound boring, especially to an Aqua ASC, but with Virgo, it's more about quality time than excitement itself. Do little things for him like back massages, making him lunch, etc. Venus in Virgo is very modest and does not like fairytale-like romance (unless Neptune aspects are present) . Think of how old people's relationships were back then. Their relationships were all about the little things that nurture the soul. It's less about getting swept off your feet, but knowing someone loves you for you, regardless of all the flaws you might have. Be practical and honest about yourself. Admit your flaws and have an interest for self-improvement. Venus in Pisces, I noticed, can be quite unaware of themselves. The more you pay attention to yourself, the better you will be at this.

And lastly, have something interesting to talk about. Virgo is still ruled by Mercury. With that Libra sun, he's bound to be into women who can mentally stimulate him.

DISCLAIMER: These tips are just based on one placement. The rest of the chart should be taken into consideration, along with the synastry and Moon placement.

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posted August 07, 2018 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Hmm, Libra and Virgo might be a huge influence here.

I have Venus in Virgo. Let me tell you about my aesthetic. This might help you with this situation. After all, a man is usually attracted to his Venus relationship-wise.

I like my makeup to look natural and effortless. I put foundation, light eyeliner at the top of my lid (no wing), mascara, and red lipstick. Sometimes I don't even put eyeliner. The lipstick just makes it interesting, but I don't always wear it. Keep the contour to a minimal and only use it when it's a special occasion. Venus in Virgo likes things to be useful. What use is a lot of contour when you're just taking a walk in the park or doing groceries? I only wear heavy makeup now on special occasions. My daily makeup is light. Some days, I don't even wear any at all. My hair is usually down. Again, I don't do anything to it unless it's a special occasion. It helps to have healthy and natural beautiful hair. It's also good to have hair care and skin care routine. Feed your body with healthy food. You are what you eat.

For clothing, body-hugging clothes are the best. Dark and nude colors appeal very much. Bright colors only serve to cheapen one's appearance. If you think such colors are dull, you can opt for pastels. Flowy tops, dresses, and skirts must be kept to a minimal. You have to balance it out to look appealing (i.e. mix a flowy top with a tight skirt or a flowy skirt with a tight top). Always make sure to balance your outfit and accessories. If you are wearing a lot of patterns, wear small jewelry or none at all (like studs for earrings). Studs are more preferred than dangling earrings. Also if you are wearing plain clothes, you can match it up with big intricate jewelry. Just a few simple tips on aesthetics.

As for personality, Venus in Virgo, I would assume, likes a woman who knows all the little details about them. Figure out how he likes his sandwich made, his favorite color, if he likes you touching his hair or not, etc. The little details matter, and you are sure to impress him if you are thoughtful enough. Also, we like to do daily activities with the ones we love. The more time you spend with him helping out with groceries or laundry or maybe even going to the gym with him, the more likely he will be attracted to you. These all sound boring, especially to an Aqua ASC, but with Virgo, it's more about quality time than excitement itself. Do little things for him like back massages, making him lunch, etc. Venus in Virgo is very modest and does not like fairytale-like romance (unless Neptune aspects are present) . Think of how old people's relationships were back then. Their relationships were all about the little things that nurture the soul. It's less about getting swept off your feet, but knowing someone loves you for you, regardless of all the flaws you might have. Be practical and honest about yourself. Admit your flaws and have an interest for self-improvement. Venus in Pisces, I noticed, can be quite unaware of themselves. The more you pay attention to yourself, the better you will be at this.

And lastly, have something interesting to talk about. Virgo is still ruled by Mercury. With that Libra sun, he's bound to be into women who can mentally stimulate him.

DISCLAIMER: These tips are just based on one placement. The rest of the chart should be taken into consideration, along with the synastry and Moon placement.


Thank you so much for this advice. It was really helpful. I have a lot of planets in the the 1st house, including my Mercury, and I usually wear darker colors, especially black, and my style is quite simple in my opinion, but some how people always think I look dressy. I also have Venus in the 1st so I care a lot about my appearance. I do go natural on most days mostly cause Im lazy and a homebody lol) but if Im going out somewhere special I like to look good. I try so hard to tune down my eyeliner and makeup. I dont even contour, just occasionally on my chin, but rarely. I just wear eyeliner, foundation, false lashes (more natural looking ones), eyeshadow, and blush yet somehow it still looks like a lot. Ugh it’s frustrating lol. I wish I have naturally beautiful eyes causr without liner they look weird. That’s what gets me. I wish I can pull off just top eyeliner like you but I can’t 😩 it looks weird on me. I guess I have to try some other techniques but it’s hard.

He also has a Virgo moon , so I found this very helpful. I hope I can do it though lol I mean Im a Pisces dominant Im the exact opposite of Virgo, and I am 2nd Aquarius dominant so I like being unique but Im tired of me wearing heavy makeup! ... the things we do for love

I will try out what you said and see how it works. Thanks again (: Im going to play close attention to details with him.

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posted August 07, 2018 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astra:
Your makeup is too thick. If you wear makeup, make it look natural. Don't wear heavy perfume. They love the freshly showered smell. Basically, you want to appear low-maintenance and down to earth.

What part of my makeup is too thick? My eyeliner? I’ve actually tuned down my eyeliner a lot. In fact my eyeliner has gotten much thinner and my eyeshadow is much lighter. Im not sure what to do to make it less thick? It’s hard because my eyes look different without eyeliner and to me my eyes are everything. How can I still make them look good without it looking too much? I dont knowww 😩 I really wish I was naturally beautiful. Girls like me aren’t fortunate to look effortless.
My current skin problems aren’t helping either.

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posted August 08, 2018 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are you talking about?? You’re so beautiful! Girl you should appreciate your own beauty💕
There’s a lot of pretty features you have and people like confidence. As modest as Virgo is, self deprivation is not something positive...
also venus in virgo loves a meeting of the minds. Honestly if you have a compatible mercury you’re good to go

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posted August 08, 2018 03:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What are you talking about?? You’re so beautiful! Girl you should appreciate your own beauty💕
There’s a lot of pretty features you have and people like confidence. As modest as Virgo is, self deprivation is not something positive...
also venus in virgo loves a meeting of the minds. Honestly if you have a compatible mercury you’re good to go

Thank you so much! (: That’s really nice of you to say (:
Luckily we do have compatibility Mercurys! Our Mercurys trine. His is in Scorpio, mine is in Pisces.
Hopefully he will like my personality

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posted August 08, 2018 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a virgo asc I totally agree with you Solar_leo_queen!

Especially the parts about being practical, thinking about details etc. Helpful with practical things.

I couldn’t disagree more about what you say about colours though. Like black being the best alternative and bright colours looking cheap? Its all about the quality and the fabric of the clothings if its looking cheap or not, also its all about knowing which colours suits your skin colour or not, and know your body type.

I agree neutrals like bone white, nude etc looks very good, I love monocromic looks like all white, or all bone white, or light grey on grey etc. Black, well that is a taste thing I guess. Also Bright bold red paired for ex with white jeans or light grey jeans is spectacular! Its all about knowing the “dosage”. I see colored clothings as a “color pop” thing, you should not overdo it and you should pair it with neutrals.

Also you are suggesting “pastel” colors to her. That’s the worse thing she ever can wear. As we can see in the picture she has dark olive skin. Pastel colours will make her skin look sallow and washed of. Pastels is horrible on olive skin. Only a person with cold skin undertones and light skin can pull of pastels.

But other then that I fully agree with you on everything you say, no disrespect! <3 <3

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posted August 08, 2018 05:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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As a virgo asc I totally agree with you Solar_leo_queen!

Especially the parts about being practical, thinking about details etc. For ex I will always have my phone charger with me and during the day I often ask my friends (or love interest) if they need to charge. They have older iphones that needs chargjng very often.

Or when we are at school and I’m going to the bathroom I will aleays ask if someone needs water refills etc. You know small thoughtful practical things.

Always on alert for ones friends or love interests needs. Like having extra napkins during lunch in case someone will need it. Having a pencil ready and give it out as soon as you see the other is starting to look for one etc. My venus cancer guy friend really likes this, as its like being babied haha. My venus-trine mercury guy friend likes this very much aswell as he is the same with his friends needs!


I couldn’t disagree more about what you say about colours though. Like black being the best alternative and bright colours looking cheap? Its all about the quality and the fabric of the clothings if its looking cheap or not, also its all about knowing which colours suits your skin colour or not, and know your body type.

I agree neutrals like bone white, nude etc looks very good, I love monocromic looks like all white, or all bone white, or light grey on grey etc. Black, well that is a taste thing I guess. Also Bright bold red paired for ex with white jeans or light grey jeans is spectacular! Its all about knowing the “dosage”. I see colored clothings as a “color pop” thing, you should not overdo it and you should pair it with neutrals.

Also you are suggesting “pastel” colors to her. That’s the worse thing she ever can wear. As we can see in the picture she has dark olive skin. Pastel colours will make her skin look sallow and washed of. Pastels is horrible on olive skin. Only a person with cold skin undertones and light skin can pull of pastels.

But other then that I fully agree with you on everything you say, no disrespect! <3 <3


Yes you’re right, I have olive skin but I think it’s more medium because the picture is a bit dark, I took it with my webcam computer. Maybe that is why my make looks so dark/heavy ? I dont know.. but yeah pastel colors don’t work on me at all 😂

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posted August 08, 2018 08:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, I just think you have very striking features as an Aqua ASC. People will always think you wear too much makeup as soon as you put on full eyeliner and fake lashes. If you have Scorpio MC, that doesn't really help either bc I find that Scorpio placements make someone look intense or over the top.

I don't think one should change much to try and impress a man. I've always struggled with this having Venus in Virgo, always trying to be "perfect" for them. I didn't know Venus in Pisces go through the same thing. But then again, it makes sense since the two are polar opposites.

I know it's hard for someone to change their aesthetic taste, but if that doesn't work for you, just be yourself. Just be real and honest about yourself. You can pay attention to things about him. I think this is the best option.

I find that I like men more when they don't try too hard to impress me, when they show me their flaws. True vulnerability. I can usually spot someone's insecurities but I respect them even more when they admit it rather than appearing perfect. Think about the earth, the mountains, the trees, the flowers. They're beautiful no matter how flawed they are. Virgo likes this down-to-earth essence.

On the other side of Virgo, they still like things that are natural and real--flawed, even. We might see people's flaws first, but that's not out of judgmentalism most of the time. We just notice things. And if he suggests things to you, don't take it personally. He is not trying to change you, but only help you improve (also watch the rest of his chart for Pluto aspects, that might change this).

Also, one more thing. Don't ever put him on a pedestal or think he's all great. It will make him feel less human and signal to him that you might be insincere. The worst thing you can do to earthy people is to make them feel like they're not really appreciated for being who they are, flaws and all.

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posted August 08, 2018 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And okay don't do pastels! I can't really see clearly from the picture, but yeah. If it doesn't suit your skintone, don't wear it. He will notice lmao

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posted August 08, 2018 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you so much! (: That’s really nice of you to say (:
Luckily we do have compatibility Mercurys! Our Mercurys trine. His is in Scorpio, mine is in Pisces.
Hopefully he will like my personality

I completely agree with Desiring shadows.

Never mind that he likes you. Do you like him? That is the most important thing

Nothing is more unsexy than someone who tries to change themselves to fit into someone elses ideals. Never do that!

Because you may "win" the person with that facade. But in time you we default up to who you really are. And he will say "you have changed. You are not the girl I fell in love with".

In truth he will be right. You are not. And in truth you will feel bad because you really are NOT!

Don't do it. Don't do it.

I am a male Sun in Libra/Venus in Virgo BTW in the draconic chart.


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posted August 08, 2018 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If your changes to yourself aren't sincere, and if you're just doing all this to "catch" him, the truth will come out, and he'll eventually feel deceived and upset.


Also, Virgo's opposite is Pisces. If I remember correctly, you've got a bit of heavy Pisces or 12th house going on? If he wants a "simple" person, that's just what he thinks he wants. Pisces is in no way simple, and if anything, you being you would probably intrigue him.

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posted August 08, 2018 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He has to respect you. Don't act cheap, coarse etc. He likes refinement lol

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posted August 08, 2018 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Honestly, I just think you have very striking features as an Aqua ASC. People will always think you wear too much makeup as soon as you put on full eyeliner and fake lashes. If you have Scorpio MC, that doesn't really help either bc I find that Scorpio placements make someone look intense or over the top.

I don't think one should change much to try and impress a man. I've always struggled with this having Venus in Virgo, always trying to be "perfect" for them. I didn't know Venus in Pisces go through the same thing. But then again, it makes sense since the two are polar opposites.

I know it's hard for someone to change their aesthetic taste, but if that doesn't work for you, just be yourself. Just be real and honest about yourself. You can pay attention to things about him. I think this is the best option.

I find that I like men more when they don't try too hard to impress me, when they show me their flaws. True vulnerability. I can usually spot someone's insecurities but I respect them even more when they admit it rather than appearing perfect. Think about the earth, the mountains, the trees, the flowers. They're beautiful no matter how flawed they are. Virgo likes this down-to-earth essence.

On the other side of Virgo, they still like things that are natural and real--flawed, even. We might see people's flaws first, but that's not out of judgmentalism most of the time. We just notice things. And if he suggests things to you, don't take it personally. He is not trying to change you, but only help you improve (also watch the rest of his chart for Pluto aspects, that might change this).

Also, one more thing. Don't ever put him on a pedestal or think he's all great. It will make him feel less human and signal to him that you might be insincere. The worst thing you can do to earthy people is to make them feel like they're not really appreciated for being who they are, flaws and all.


You’re right. Thank you! This was very wise advice. I do find myself always wanting to fit the mold of what the guy I like likes. I try to tell myself that he should love me for me if he’s a good man, but I still struggle to not care if I am his type or not. I am aware that people have their own types, and I can’t help if I don’t fit it, because you can’t really do that I guess. I know personally because for me specific qualities on a guy alone won’t make me like him even if it’s what I’m looking for, it’s the oversized vibe of him, so I can only imagine that even if I look more simple for him, if he isn’t attracted to me I can’t help that. I don’t know when I’ll stop caring about fitting the ideal type of the guy I like. But I do it all the time. It just so happens that I tend to fall for guys who like more natural girls. I do wish I could pull that off, but it’s hard for me to look good that way and I care way too much about my physical appearance.
But you are right people say confidence is the most attactive. I should be more confident flaws and all 😂 it’s just really hard to do so 😬 but again thank you for this wise advice

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posted August 08, 2018 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I completely agree with Desiring shadows.

Never mind that he likes you. Do you like him? That is the most important thing

Nothing is more unsexy than someone who tries to change themselves to fit into someone elses ideals. Never do that!

Because you may "win" the person with that facade. But in time you we default up to who you really are. And he will say "you have changed. You are not the girl I fell in love with".

In truth he will be right. You are not. And in truth you will feel bad because you really are NOT!

Don't do it. Don't do it.

I am a male Sun in Libra/Venus in Virgo BTW in the draconic chart.


Yes I do like him (: it’s true, you are right. I had trouble contemplating this because I know it isn’t healthy to want to fit the ideal of the guy I like, it’s not good to be someone you are not just for the sake of attraction. But you know that is something I struggle with everytime I like someone I just seem to want to attract him. Eventually myself will surface, but let’s be honest I really am not one to analyze every detail or be a perfectionist I’m the opposite of Virgo since I am a Pisces, and I highly lack earth in my chart I find it hard to be “down to earth” lol but I do want to say that I have for awhile been wanting to look more natural, I just don’t know how because like I mentioned previously I don’t look good without makeup. Gosh why does every guy I like have to like simple girls. I seem to be attracted to Virgo placements in guys 🤷🏻‍♀️

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posted August 08, 2018 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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If your changes to yourself aren't sincere, and if you're just doing all this to "catch" him, the truth will come out, and he'll eventually feel deceived and upset.


Also, Virgo's opposite is Pisces. If I remember correctly, you've got a bit of heavy Pisces or 12th house going on? If he wants a "simple" person, that's just what he [b]thinks
he wants. Pisces is in no way simple, and if anything, you being you would probably intrigue him. [/B]


Yes I do heavy Pisces/12th house you remembered! 😁 lol
I haven’t thought of it that way. I never thought I would intrigue him. I am definitely opposite of Virgo. Although I try to be more simple, I tend to gravitate to things that aren’t. I do feel in ways I am simple, like my style is but I think like I mentioned before I still come off like Im high maintenance. My family always teases me saying that Im a “rich girl” or that Im expensive lol. I don’t know why they say that, I don’t see myself that way.
I try to keep it simple but at the same time as an Aquarius rising and moon I love to be unique ! Just sometimes not all guys like that. And the guys I like to tend to have Virgo placements. Especially Virgo moon!


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posted August 08, 2018 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This Virgo man if interested in you, might want to "help you."
If he tells you he doesn't like what you are wearing that mean he likes you. XD They love to "help" those they care about, and that means being honest about what they think about your fashion choices.
Virgos have this complexity where they like to help, fix people they care about.

One might say a Virgo deeply cares for humanity. XD !!!

My boyfriend has a Virgo stellulum, I get feedback a lot of the time on my choices. He speaks up when he likes or dislikes something. It can be very difficult for them to hold back. I know this because my mom has Virgo Venus and Mars. LOL

He seems to like when I dress, polished, innocent, feminine(he likes a lot of my dresses), low maintenance sometimes... as in clean looking. Not the low maintenance baggy sweat pants look. He like the low maintenance leggings as pants looks or jeans.

I don't always dress to impress him. He doesn't like the noticeable make up looks.
He doesn't like street walker looks. Or if I dress too unfeminine.(baggy shorts and muscle tanks) His reactions crack me up sometimes, and I usually don't change my outfits when I get hilarious feed back.

Certain aspects in my chart I feel like I can't dress in a monotone. I have Aquarius Mars, Gemini Rising, and my Aries Sun likes to take risks sometimes. Plus my Leo IC and Scorpio Moon likes to have a bit of magnetism.
Like yourself, I have Venus Pisces. So I also have a bit of a romantic, feminine side to some of my outfits. He should like that side of your fashion sense.

My motto is; life is too short to wear make up all the time, but life is also too short to never wear make up.

I go with out it a lot these days, and just try to take care of my skin and hair. I'm in my late 20's so I try to keep it clean and moisturized. That it's self can be a great confidence boost!

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posted August 09, 2018 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You better be perfect or else lol they will constantly point out your flaws. If they don't like something about you they will let you know. You have to have thick skin to deal with a man with Venus in Virgo. I think they can be sleazy too. Even though they try to portray this perfect image.

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posted August 09, 2018 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg yes one of my guy friends is a real pain with his ”helpfulness” that really comes off as criticicim at best and right donw self righteousness and rudeness for real!

So helpful in his own mind, but constant nagging for me.

And he will never be like this with his guy friends! Just with me! Its really frustrating.

He has Sun virgo and Venus, not in virgo but in his 6th house. He will pick on me, my beliefs, thoughts and my belongins constantly! The only thing he won’t pick at is my clothing style and appearance, if he did that aswell, I really would slap him haha!

He will ask my opinion about, politics, or why I feel this or that. And then he would go like “Oh but thats not good! You should not think that way! Thats wrong!" etc etc.

I think in his mind he is “diplomatic” much like a libra. He seems to not understand, the way he delivers his opinions is downright annoying. He has mercury square saturn so he can be harsh as a blistering hot sun!

He will criticize my water bottle, he will criticize me being down. He will criticize my bag being heavy “why is this so heavy?! its not good! what do you have inside?!”
etc.

Its all about how one deliver things like that. If he had a concerned voice and if he had a sweetness and softness in his voice and manners then it would be concidered very charming and helpful etc.


I think that is what he deep inside wants but he sucks at being soft and sweet. It looks much worse bc our mutual friend is libra venus and he is the opposite, so very charming and soft and yeah real libra venus.

Its so frustrating and this is when I am virgo asc and even know about astrology and where he comes from haha!

This is one case and individual of course, not saying all virgo venus/venus 6th house people acts like him

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posted August 09, 2018 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
Omg yes one of my guy friends is a real pain with his ”helpfullness” that really cones of as criticicim at best and right donw self righteousness and rudeness for real!

So helpfull in his own mind, but constant nagging for me.

And he will never be like this with his guy friends! Just with me! Its really frustrating.

he has Sun virgo and Venus not in virgo but in his 6th house. He will pick on me, my beliefs, thoughts and my belongins constantly! The only thing he won’t pick at is my clothing and appearance, if he did that aswell, I really would slap him haha!

He will ask my opinion about, may it be politics, or why I feel this or that. And then he would go like “oh but thats not good! You should not think that way! Thats wrong etc etc.

I think in his mind he is “diplomatic” much like a libra. He seems to not understand, the way he delivers his opinions is downright annoying. He has mercury square saturn so he can be harsh as a blistering hot sun!

He will criticize my water bottle, he will criticize me being down. He will criticize my bag being heavy “why is this so geavy? its not good! what do you have inside?!”
etc.

Its all about how one delivers things lime that. If he had a concerned voice and if he had a sweetness and softness in his voice a d manner then it would be concidered very charming and helpful etc


I think that is what he deep inside wants but he sucks at being soft and sweet. It looks much worse bc our mutual friend is libra venus and he is the opposite, so very charming and soft and yeah real libra venus.

Its so frustrating and this is when I am virgi asc and even know about astrology and where he comes from haha!


Yep the one I know with this placement is a Virgo sun though so it's worse. I try to take what he says as constructive criticism but it does come off as rude. Like he's always telling me how I need to exercise lose weight and stop eating junk all the time etc. I know he's right I mean I honestly I do need to get in better shape. But it just makes me so sick like I'm not perfect jeez. I read somewhere that when a Virgo does this it's just his way of showing that he cares.

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posted August 09, 2018 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m cracking up Melinn!! I know that so well!

My boyfriends friends aren’t even safe!
He will comment if his friends need to cut their toe nails.
Comment on his friends hair thinning. 🙄
Comment on his friend not working.

I actually don’t have the same political stance as my boyfriend.
When we started dating I told him I am open to being with someone who has deferent political beliefs than me. He said he was too...
But I can tell he thinks he can change my beliefs...but my Mercury is in Taurus!! 😆
Keeps things interesting andmake us both better debaters.
We have both told each other that if either of us ran in politics we would vote for someone else.

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posted August 09, 2018 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What part of my makeup is too thick? My eyeliner? I’ve actually tuned down my eyeliner a lot. In fact my eyeliner has gotten much thinner and my eyeshadow is much lighter. Im not sure what to do to make it less thick? It’s hard because my eyes look different without eyeliner and to me my eyes are everything. How can I still make them look good without it looking too much? I dont knowww 😩 I really wish I was naturally beautiful. Girls like me aren’t fortunate to look effortless.
My current skin problems aren’t helping either.


Yes, your eyeliner is definitely too thick. Perhaps it's just the image, but you look like you have quite a bit of foundation on. Skip the eyeliner. If you have skin problems, the foundation will make things worse. If you have acne, ask your doctor to write you a prescription for spironolactone (it suppresses androgen production, which is the hormone that causes acne). Your skin will clear up faster. Be aware that this medication also causes your potassium levels to increase, so be careful about your potassium intake (beware of tomatoes and bananas). One of my friends has very bad cystic acne and her skin cleared up in 1 month while taking spironolactone.

Drink tons of water, Keep dairy to a minimum. Get as much vitamin C as you can from your diet.

You have pretty features. You don't need all of that makeup anyway.

Also, make sure you don't wear fake nails. Fake nails, lash extensions, weaves, etc are normally major turn offs for venus in virgo. I'm not saying you are using any of these products, but I thought I should point it out in case you are thinking about using them in the future.

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posted August 09, 2018 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
a virgo venus wont like the foto. you are attractive enough without make up. I am sure. my expatner was virgo venus sun in libra.. he hate make up...

if you want him to like your appereance change it to virgo venus like. my question is why do you want to be something you are not just to attract someone? that type of thinking always puzzle me... so many men would like you as you are, your style and you are very attractive anyway, just your make up do not look virgo type....

if you want to appeal virgo venus, be intelligent, analytical, organized, CLEAN.... virgo hates anything that has not practical value. so beauty without brain is not too much of use for virgo. he needs to keep the mind feeded. that is more important. if he finds you too needy or too frivolous about your physical appeareance, that is a total turn off

if i were you i would not bother to try to fit someone. if you fake it, it would be obvious sooner or later.

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posted August 09, 2018 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i am sure you look better without eyeliner.. and your features are just beautiful...

try little by little.. when i was younger i could not live without eyeliner. i found my eyes too small without them.. one day, i did not have time and only rimmel on my eyelashes and WOW, many people told me i look younger and more beautiful... now, i can see why...

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