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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 09, 2018 12:49 PM
  
Mars in cancer often struggles with some anger issues and I have noticed they are often victims of violence at home either violence towards them or witness violence at home which really impacts them, they internalize this and this makes it hard to self soothe and regulate their emotions.IP: Logged |
Radium
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posted December 09, 2018 08:59 PM
As a heavy Neptunian/Water person I really can't stand most Virgos after getting to know them.Imho they are abnormally convenient oriented and close out a lot of spirituality in their lives. Hate their arrogant attitudes. Virgos can be mean to people for the simple reason they actually have a heart. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 516
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted December 10, 2018 05:23 AM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well that's interesting, because cancer mars can be assertive when there's no reason to be and then not at all when they should bemy mother has cancer mars, so did an ex friend with benefits, and a friend of mine i speak to infrequently too that being said i do think it's afactor, but i actually dont know anyone with that placement who's particularly cruel but it can definitely explain some of the misplaced energy, probably along with the other placements can i see his chart actually?
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Melinn
Knowflake Posts: 1037
From: Sweden
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted December 10, 2018 06:14 AM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i'm not even mad though lol or anythingi think we just don't communicate well, or aren't right now oh well, either way, don't change or stop talking even if it offends people that was the only thing you said that i actually found troublesome, that you would consider altering yourself over nothing or someone else's perception of you only thing i've been legit ****** today has been fitted sheets, i ******* hate those
haha I feel you  No I would not wanna change my personality, only "improve" and grow where I need improvement in order for healthier relationships! Transformation and improvement. Being selfaware and have the power to transform oneself. I can't stand fakeness or being untrue to oneself though, so no risk of my personality to wither away ahaha! I will improve where its needed and try to create balance "within" myself foremost and with others. Especially having Pluto in 3rd oppo mercury, I have always transformed my communication skills little by little, because its exciting and gives me a good challenge. And I could be quite dogmatic and repulsive in my ways previous years, so I have to be careful!
But my main charecter and personality is what it is, take it or leave it! em I right?  IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
Knowflake Posts: 620
From: Toronto, Ontario
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 10, 2018 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well that's interesting, because cancer mars can be assertive when there's no reason to be and then not at all when they should be
My Cancer Mars is Square my Aries moon so thats the reason why I can be extremely direct and assertive. Othertimes, passive-aggressiveness. My Planets
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11209
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 10, 2018 02:09 PM
It would not surprise me if mars in cancer square neptune may be prone to displacing anger unto others more than the average person (we all do that sometimes). Like projecting anger they feel unto others and displacing anger and vice versa, perhaps others doing that to them too. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11209
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 10, 2018 02:17 PM
Come to think about it, been mean to others that comes from a place of aggression, been passive aggressive or aggressive, I mean it would make sense that is more a Mars thing than anything else in the chart. In this case his Mars is ruled by the MOON in Leo and squares Neptune so all that is playing a role. Add his Moon in Leo is afflicted because it conjuncts Saturn, that is also playing a role so like everything once we look at the chart we see that it is not as simple as "Oh he is a D*ck bc he has sun in Virgo" LOL.His mars is at FALL and his moon is afflicted to start with and rules his Mars at fall! SO double the affliction! These are the facts of his chart, everything else I feel is people projecting bc they dont like a sign  hahaha IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 11209
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 10, 2018 02:22 PM
And with his moon in Leo afflicted! I would not be surprised if one of his parents had a narcissistic personality disorder and he developed a superiority/inferiority complex bc of it like I pointed out earlier in this thread, this confirms my instincts are probably right. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted December 15, 2018 08:26 AM
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