posted December 17, 2018 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
The dude's got a load of cancer. "doesn't miss" my @zz. (if this is the same guy you mean, that is).

He probably just doesn't understand his own feelings, which is a common theme for some men in general. Plus Virgo likes to "rationalize."

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posted December 17, 2018 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You made it sound like I'll hurt him (haha) but actually I'm afraid that he'll hurt me instead because I do love him. Worse is someone saw our synastry and said he only sees me as a fling.

Like what Touche said, he rationalises a lot and that Cancerian vibe comes on really strong from him too - all passive aggressive but this crab refuses to come out of his shell even though I already bare my soul, which is really frustrating and makes me feel dejected.

But thanks for reading his natal. At least I know the type of person he is now, which is close to my guess actually because I can feel so much emotions in him. Perhaps I'll do what you suggest, that's if I've not died of frustration, lol.

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I feel you girl, he is doing that annoying overprotecting himself thing which gets old .

posted December 17, 2018 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I feel you girl, he is doing that annoying overprotecting himself thing which gets old .

Take people's readings of synastry with a grain of salt, can you post your synastry and Davison for me? Now I am curious.

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I don't know... I'm dying inside.
This is our synastry (I'm blue).

Davison (lotsa water):

posted December 18, 2018 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
ˆ^ For starters, I noticed that his chart ruler (Moon) is in 3rd house (Mercury/Gemini) and I've Asc in Gemini, and that's how we bonded actually - through conversations. We love telling each other about all kinds of things and it grew to a strong desire between us to keep our communication even when things were bad.

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And his chart ruler falls on your 5th...

There is enough going on in Davison that it could evolve into a relationship potentially between sun conjunct venus in cancer, moon conjunct northnode in the 5th and Mars square Jupiter 7H Ruler.

However it could end up been a friend's with benefits arrangement easily with 7H ruler Jupiter squaring sexual Mars and Mars happens to be ruling your 11th and falling in the 3rd house. Probably talking turns you guys on and it will lead to sex.

posted December 18, 2018 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
And his chart ruler falls on your 5th...

There is enough going on in Davison that it could evolve into a relationship potentially between sun conjunct venus in cancer, moon conjunct northnode in the 5th and Mars square Jupiter 7H Ruler.

However it could end up been a friend's with benefits arrangement easily with 7H ruler Jupiter squaring sexual Mars and Mars happens to be ruling your 11th and falling in the 3rd house. Probably talking turns you guys on and it will lead to sex.

The relationship been more sexual in nature is also reinforced by Mars square Pluto and Mars inconjunct Pluto in synastry so you have a Mars/Pluto double whammy.

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So our relationship has potential? What does Moon conjunct NN mean? And does Juno sextiles mean anything too?

posted December 18, 2018 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So our relationship has potential? What does Moon conjunct NN mean? And does Juno sextiles mean anything too?

We're very sexually attracted indeed just by being in each other's presence, and this FwB thing is what I fear if we were to part becos I've a feeling that might happen but I won't want that.

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Yes I can believe the sexual attraction is strong as is a repeated theme, mars/pluto double whammy with mars square jupiter in Davison, you will F*ck like bunnies lol.

posted December 19, 2018 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes I can believe the sexual attraction is strong as is a repeated theme, mars/pluto double whammy with mars square jupiter in Davison, you will F*ck like bunnies lol.

Since you have moon conjunct northnode in the 5th in Davison with his chart ruler moon in your 5th conjunct your pluto in the 5th in synastry with sun conjunct venus in cancer in Davison I feel you definitely also have an emotional dimension in the relationship that could lead to falling in love and a strong bond, a deep attachment can develop over time so yes there is potential for this to develop into a relationship, the ingredients are there. Also his DC ruler squares your AC ruler and trines your moon so he may see you as someone he can potentially get involved with but his juno is not doing much with your chart although it does conjunct your northnode out of sign so he may feel a pull to develop a relationship with you. I also like that your pluto conjuncts his psyche and that his Eros in the 4th conjuncts your chart ruler. I had his Eros conjunct my chart ruler with my ex and fell very hard for him.

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Thanks, hypatia, you really added a new dimension to the reading! I didn't know Mars-Jupiter can be interpreted like that.

Emotional bond is definitely there. When I saw Sun-Venus, Moon-Node, Juno-Sun/Venus, Pluto-Sun in the Davison chart, I knew this relationship can't be superficial. I just wanted to know if I'm the only one feeling all these so thanks for giving me a ray of hope.

He did say he feels attached to me. The destiny feel is strong like what the moon-node suggests that's why I'm interested in this aspect. Our paths have crossed many times before we eventually met. Destiny is a strange thing... maybe we're destined to fall in love and then go our separate ways or maybe we've to make a very big round to be together, I don't know.

posted December 19, 2018 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
His moon in libra conjuncts Davison Pluto in the 4th and his AC conjuncts Davison Sun, I feel the relationship aligns with his essence and that he is getting attached to you.

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