posted March 12, 2019 12:46 PM            

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Originally posted by vansio:
Yep — Neptune and Uranus in 7th house

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posted March 14, 2019 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[b]kani

Interesting, I wanted to ask you if you do a Neptunian related job because of your Mars in Pisces and in 10th H and you Neptune in 6th H.

So Uranus makes you indifferent towards flirt. Uranus is detatchment and I feel like that in my Uranus and Aqua houses.
I was told that my Uranus conjuncting DSC is what makes technology and astrology so interesting to me plus Saturn in 8th H aqua is what makes interested in them after so many years.

What you say about observing humans is bith Pluto square Moon which is very tight in your case and Mercury in 8th H.

Do you know your boyfriend's brother birthtime? I'm getting curious to compare your charts.

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I'll let you know if I ever find out his birth time but it's unlikely.
As a Cancer ascendant, do you ever get mood swings before and during your menstruation?
I feel like it really affects me.

posted March 14, 2019 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I'll let you know if I ever find out his birth time but it's unlikely.
As a Cancer ascendant, do you ever get mood swings before and during your menstruation?
I feel like it really affects me.

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posted March 15, 2019 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
I'll let you know if I ever find out his birth time but it's unlikely.
As a Cancer ascendant, do you ever get mood swings before and during your menstruation?
I feel like it really affects me.

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Oh ok. So he probably has defferent houses.

Hmmm I may get teary for the silliest things but that happens just a day before my menstruation starts. Then I'm my normal self. However my menstruation s*cks. Heavy bleeding and pain everywhere except of my hands. I have pcos.

posted March 15, 2019 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
In my case, although I'll be cherishing the single life for at LEAST another year, I think it'd be very serious, commited and serially-monogamist in a relationship, from the get-go. I hope that's not weird, lol.

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If I do move on, it is not « for » someone else
and I purposefully take 6 months or a year out to « get back to me » in case my needs were swallowed up by the couple and to avoid going on the rebound and hurting someone new.

I give 2nd and 3rd chances if the newly ex (former long-term) partner proves he is committed, even if I have formally left. As a marriage should be the same, prepared to make it work.

That said, in my experience that just adds 2 years on to something that should have ended. Nothing really changes. However, I’ve never actually been married I see it as a big deal and I wouldn’t go into it lightly.
I feel like a need preparation time for that.

posted March 15, 2019 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
feeling undervalued. Not sufficiently appreciated.

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Probably: being taken for granted, being made to feel small, manipulated, not respected, unheard, ignored, not a priority, questioning one ´s role in the rel’ship

That could translate as needing air to redefine oneself outside of the image of unworthiness that’s been projected. Although this could push someone (anyone) to seek refuge in another’s arms, I doubt they would have a dalliance with anyone especially if living in the same house as their partner.

Isn’t it easier to just leave a rotten rel’ship in order to breathe deeply again and start something new.

Then, one can always « go back « with a clear conscience if the page was turned first, I.e via a formal exit.

It wouldn’t be easy to explain a dalliance to a partner, the trust would just vanish. They would be offended even. Even if they treated the person bad, who is the Baddy now and the ultimate cause for the split !

Better to get out and go back if necessary. Keep those long-term options open in true Cappy style

posted March 20, 2019 05:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Oh ok. So he probably has defferent houses.

Hmmm I may get teary for the silliest things but that happens just a day before my menstruation starts. Then I'm my normal self. However my menstruation s*cks. Heavy bleeding and pain everywhere except of my hands. I have pcos.

I've read that Moon has to do with menstuation. In our cases it's also our chart ruler.

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posted March 20, 2019 10:38 AM            

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Originally posted by viviette:
Probably: being taken for granted, being made to feel small, manipulated, not respected, unheard, ignored, not a priority, questioning one ´s role in the rel’ship

That could translate as needing air to redefine oneself outside of the image of unworthiness that’s been projected. Although this could push someone (anyone) to seek refuge in another’s arms, I doubt they would have a dalliance with anyone especially if living in the same house as their partner.

Isn’t it easier to just leave a rotten rel’ship in order to breathe deeply again and start something new.

Then, one can always « go back « with a clear conscience if the page was turned first, I.e via a formal exit.

It wouldn’t be easy to explain a dalliance to a partner, the trust would just vanish. They would be offended even. Even if they treated the person bad, who is the Baddy now and the ultimate cause for the split !

Better to get out and go back if necessary. Keep those long-term options open in true Cappy style

And Integrity strikes me as a bit of a Cappy word

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posted March 20, 2019 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:
Of course it's easier and better to end a rl than to cheat but the question was about cheating and I gave my opinion. I know someone with a Cancer ascendant who cheated because of feeling underappreciated and she did it numerous times and she didn't feel guilty about it at all

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posted December 16, 2022 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by viviette:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
[b]In my case, although I'll be cherishing the single life for at LEAST another year, I think it'd be very serious, commited and serially-monogamist in a relationship, from the get-go. I hope that's not weird, lol.

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If I do move on, it is not « for » someone else
and I purposefully take 6 months or a year out to « get back to me » in case my needs were swallowed up by the couple and to avoid going on the rebound and hurting someone new.

I give 2nd and 3rd chances if the newly ex (former long-term) partner proves he is committed, even if I have formally left. As a marriage should be the same, prepared to make it work.

That said, in my experience that just adds 2 years on to something that should have ended. Nothing really changes. However, I’ve never actually been married I see it as a big deal and I wouldn’t go into it lightly.
I feel like a need preparation time for that.

Partly similar to you —-
Cancer Ascendant
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House is also in Sagittarius (but with Neptune , not Moon)[/B][/QUOTE]