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Topic: Fellow Cancer Risings: How does having Capricorn in the 7th House influence you?
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Leo-Cancer98
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posted March 06, 2019 05:25 PM
  
In my case, although I'll be cherishing the single life for at LEAST another year, I think it'd be very serious, commited and serially-monogamist in a relationship, from the get-go. I hope that's not weird, lol.------------------
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 06, 2019 06:26 PM
Have you ever dated anyone with an Aquarius ASC?IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted March 06, 2019 07:24 PM
my natal Uranus (6th H), Neptune (7th H) and North Node (7th H) all in Cap conjunct my Cap DSC. Obviously relationships are difficult for me to the point that I had none.
Saturn and North Node bring delays and obstacles which may very well last forever if other natal aspects and/or placements "help". I take relationships VERY seriously, I consider them to be a burden. I suffer from intense emotions but love alone is not enough so I wait a few years untill I get over someone.
Due to Uranus and Neptune both being platonic and non-realists I had platonic relationships. Capricorn DSC doesn't give long lasting effects by any means and I'm not interested in marriage let alone children. So Uranus definately "wins".
I'm loyal for many different reasons but Uranus again is the main reason.. I can't stay with someone once I lose interest, however when I fall for someone (I know once I do) I'm not getting bored quickly. He has to pressure me to be in a real relationship for me to stop communication with him. Don't get me wrong I'll still be in love and I suffer for a few years but for some reason I choose it instead of a real earthy relationship everytime. I highly believe Saturn makes someone practically immature which is the opposite of what it's supposed to do. But I see it this way: Saturn is earthy and wants practical experience in order to learn, however it brings delays so the person doesn't experience things when it's normal to. We have lack of experience or at least fear to experience (Saturn rules fears too) which both lead to practical immaturity. Also I've rarely seen Saturn work as it's supposed to (making the person responsible practically) usually it's Saturnian and Uranian people who are scared of responsibility to the point that they prefer to avoid the matter altogether.
So Saturn may make you theoritically mature but that's where it stops imo. It may be my case since Saturn is in my 8th H in Aqua and it has the same negative effect there too. I would like to know how other planets in 7th H and Saturn's sign and placement affect others with Cap DSC. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted March 06, 2019 08:23 PM
Im a little cold in romantic relationships and know exactly what I want. Feel like love isn't happening again. Honestly alot of pessimism towards romance but I crave it too. Just seems slow coming. Had a breakup last year and just healing but will start dating soon although sometimes I have my doubts.IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
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posted March 07, 2019 03:03 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Have you ever dated anyone with an Aquarius ASC?
Been single since birth, so nope! IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted March 07, 2019 05:09 AM
What will cause a Capricorn-Dsc person to cheat? Considering the ruler is even conjunct Venus.IP: Logged |
kani
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posted March 07, 2019 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
What will cause a Capricorn-Dsc person to cheat? Considering the ruler is even conjunct Venus.
feeling undervalued. Not sufficiently appreciated. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted March 07, 2019 07:41 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
feeling undervalued. Not sufficiently appreciated.
But they will stay on due to responsibilities? Does a Cap-dsc person like to be taken care of? Or they prefer to take care of others? Do you need to show them a lot of TLC? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 08:37 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
But they will stay on due to responsibilities?Does a Cap-dsc person like to be taken care of? Or they prefer to take care of others? Do you need to show them a lot of TLC?
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kani
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posted March 07, 2019 09:36 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
But they will stay on due to responsibilities?Does a Cap-dsc person like to be taken care of? Or they prefer to take care of others? Do you need to show them a lot of TLC?
I like balance in taking care and being taken care of. What I hate is when I feel I'm doing and giving more than the other. That's when I get ****** off and get a wandering eye. I am a very independent person and I see no reason in staying with someone who doesn't give in equal measure. I'm expressing this a bit exaggeratingly now, cause I know that it's never perfectly balanced all of the time but you get the jist.
Also, I would never stay with someone out of responsibilities. If the feelings are gone, I am gone. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted March 07, 2019 09:42 AM
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kani
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posted March 07, 2019 09:42 AM
To answer the thread question:it took me until my 30s until I was willing to enter a romantic relationship. I did have flings before but nothing too serious. I have been in a relationship for 4 years now and it is a long distance one.
I am very choosy who I let in emotionally and I'm quite slow to open my heart.
Other things - especially sorting myself out emotionally - was more important than being in a relationship so that's why it took so long.
Also, I never understood how people could just jump from one rl to the other. Why is it so hard for some people to be alone? Besides, it's so rare that I find someone attractive at all - even physically attractive - that's why the rl jumpers are so mind boggling to me Edit I don't want to get married at all. I don't see the point IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 07, 2019 10:01 AM
Every Cancer riser I know is either married, has been, is remarried, or is thinking about getting married for the first time.
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 07, 2019 10:17 AM
I think you have to look at more than just the rising sign in regards to marriage. What if someone has a Fire or Air Moon? They might not be too keen about being married. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted March 07, 2019 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think you have to look at more than just the rising sign in regards to marriage. What if someone has a Fire or Air Moon? They might not be too keen about being married.
Also the aspects to moon and ascendant.
I am a Cancer rising and moon and I do not want to get married. I don't understand some people's obsession with it.
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Lalafortunaea
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posted March 07, 2019 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
Also the aspects to moon and ascendant.
I am a Cancer rising and moon and I do not want to get married. I don't understand some people's obsession with it.
Are you around your 30's or 40's?
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kani
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posted March 07, 2019 11:06 AM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Are you around your 30's or 40's?
in my 30's IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted March 07, 2019 11:32 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
in my 30's
Ah, well, friend used to think the same as you, then in his 40's he finally got married. And was like "how did this happen, lol?" IP: Logged |
kani
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posted March 07, 2019 11:43 AM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Ah, well, friend used to think the same as you, then in his 40's he finally got married. And was like "how did this happen, lol?"
I don't think I'll change my mind though unless I meet a 100 year old billionaire (jokes) I also never wanted kids IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted March 07, 2019 03:44 PM
kani
We have so many similarities, would you mind posting your chart or a link of it? I'm curious to see if we have similar planetary energies.IP: Logged |
kani
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posted March 07, 2019 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[b]kani
We have so many similarities, would you mind posting your chart or a link of it? I'm curious to see if we have similar planetary energies.[/B]
Sure. here's a link to a thread I posted a while ago with my chart in it. I'm curious to know what you think - if we have similar stuff going on in our charts
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/240549.html IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
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posted March 08, 2019 01:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by kani:
Also the aspects to moon and ascendant.
I am a Cancer rising and moon and I do not want to get married. I don't understand some people's obsession with it.
Hmm, a Cancer Rising AND Moon native not interested in marriage? How surprising. If you don’t mind me asking, which house is your Cancer Moon and what its tighest aspects? What sign is on your 5th cusp and what sign is intercepted in it? What is the ruler of your 5th House sign and is it placed anywhere in your chart? As for the marriage aspect of things, what sign is your Saturn in and is it placed in the 5th House of Children or 6th House of Routine & Everyday Life? ------------------
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Leo-Cancer98
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posted March 08, 2019 02:20 AM
quote:
Originally posted by kani:
To answer the thread question:it took me until my 30s until I was willing to enter a romantic relationship. I did have flings before but nothing too serious. I have been in a relationship for 4 years now and it is a long distance one.
I am very choosy who I let in emotionally and I'm quite slow to open my heart.
Other things - especially sorting myself out emotionally - was more important than being in a relationship so that's why it took so long.
Also, I never understood how people could just jump from one rl to the other. Why is it so hard for some people to be alone? Besides, it's so rare that I find someone attractive at all - even physically attractive - that's why the rl jumpers are so mind boggling to me
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Leo-Cancer98
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posted March 08, 2019 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think you have to look at more than just the rising sign in regards to marriage. What if someone has a Fire or Air Moon? They might not be too keen about being married.
Hmm, even someone who has a Libra Moon in the 7th House? It does square Uranus by 3 degrees ... he’s turning 32 this year if its of relevance. I have a Fire Moon, yet I can’t wait to get married and 4 beautiful babies!! Successfully finishing university, traveling at LEAST 3 times a year, getting to and maintaining 10-12% body fat, achieving 33-22-38 body measurements by December 31st, getting into and completing law school are my top 5 priorities at the moment; therefore, I’m definitely not getting married before I’m at LEAST 28, if not just 30, haha. IP: Logged |
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posted March 08, 2019 02:40 AM
Imperfection is
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