posted December 17, 2019 07:14 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Hmmm, though I have Aqua Venus, I love affection, cuddling, kissing, etc. Maybe the combo of Leo Rising with strong Venus in general.

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posted December 18, 2019 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is interesting about your guy needing that affection from you but it doesn't come naturally to him to give out that affection bc his venus although in leo is altered by saturn which cools off the expressive nature of leo, aspects and house placements I feel over ride the sign placement or alter it significantly.

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His Venus/Saturn are in 9th house but I don't think that's the issue...I think Saturn's the one responsible for his hot/cold affection. He also has Cancer Mars trine Uranus but he has a very high sex drive so I think only certain Mars-Uranus combinations affect sex drive.

posted December 18, 2019 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
What are your Venus aspects?

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Don't think the aspects explain it as she is only connected to the outer planets: 11 second separating sextile with Sag Neptune, 18 second applying trine with Libra Pluto, and about 3 degree applying square with angular Scorpio Uranus. But she is an opposition aspect with the Leo Rising.

Besides the Leo Rising and strong Venus combo, I think moderate Moon also contributes. Since Saturn is the faster moving ruler of my Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Descendant, it's a fairly sensitive and receptive Planetary symbol, second only to the chart ruler the Sun. It being conjunct the Moon indicates that the Moon (and 12th House which it rules/connects with) gets more highlighted than it would be otherwise.

The Moon is very affection oriented, and even in a more touchy feely way than Venus, as she is closer to the physical level of vibratory range than Venus. She is like a lower octave, more animalistic version of Venus.

This is not to say that I'm especially Lunar attuned, because I'm not, but would call it moderately highlighted. Angularity, strong aspects with chart ruler, etc are often far more highlighting in nature.

It's likely the combination of Leo Rising, strong Venus, moderate Moon, and strong earth in general that outline/indicates the strong liking and tendency towards affection, cuddling, kissing, etc.

The very close Venus Pluto trine is more about the deep desire to merge with a partner in general and especially during sex. (with Venus ruling my 3rd, and being Venus in general, and Pluto being in the 3rd, I think it also connects with having a "sexy" voice and knowing how to manipulate with the voice).

posted January 04, 2020 05:53 PM            

You sound exactly like my husband. He forms strong unique connections with women and they’re all as valid as each other. We married almost a month ago. We’ve spoken AT LENGTH about this part of him. I came to believe it’s an energy which absolutely must be honored but expressed in a way that doesn’t hurt others. He’s terrified of hurting people and so he wants to get help to try and express this energy in other creative ways. He said he’s not one to have open rs.
I wonder if his 7th ruler square mars and Uranus allude to this need to form these connections? I do think he gets restless. But also he has Neptune on his DSC and it sextiles his sun/mercury/pluto in libra. Neptune also squares Saturn. His Mars sextiles Saturn so I think that must provide some sense of responsibility toward rs in him. His Venus quintiles Saturn.

Luckily we have his venus/Uranus conjunct my ASC/Uranus. In fact his whole Scorpio stellium (venus/moon/mars/Uranus) is on my Asc. I’m sure that helps to keep that excitement. Our sex life is passionate and hot as ever. It’s something that has never dwindled in the time I’ve known him.

posted January 08, 2020 12:36 AM            

Although I may seem flirtatious to others, I'm just a very friendly and bubbly person. I am very loyal in my relationships and absolutely HATE the idea of cheating/being cheated on. I have never been cheated on however I have felt similar insecurities in past relationships, and the thought of me cheating with someone else is just disgusting.

I am very upfront with my partners letting them know to end it with me they find happiness with someone else and that there would be no hard feelings bc in my mind you SHOULD be with someone who makes you happy and feel loved rather than pretend and lie to one another.

posted January 08, 2020 10:04 AM            

The directness about it though is partially symbolized by the Aries Mars.

Edit to add: Aqua Venus, perhaps more than most any other singlular position, is more apt to come to the objective and big picture insight that one can love and be in love with more than one individual at a time, and that is perfectly OK as long as all parties agree and honesty, openness, and communication are constantly engaged in.

But most aren't ready for that. The shadow fears, attachments, and insecurities are too strong.

posted January 09, 2020 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Hypatia!

You sound exactly like my husband. He forms strong unique connections with women and they’re all as valid as each other. We married almost a month ago. We’ve spoken AT LENGTH about this part of him. I came to believe it’s an energy which absolutely must be honored but expressed in a way that doesn’t hurt others. He’s terrified of hurting people and so he wants to get help to try and express this energy in other creative ways. He said he’s not one to have open rs.
I wonder if his 7th ruler square mars and Uranus allude to this need to form these connections? I do think he gets restless. But also he has Neptune on his DSC and it sextiles his sun/mercury/pluto in libra. Neptune also squares Saturn. His Mars sextiles Saturn so I think that must provide some sense of responsibility toward rs in him. His Venus quintiles Saturn.

Luckily we have his venus/Uranus conjunct my ASC/Uranus. In fact his whole Scorpio stellium (venus/moon/mars/Uranus) is on my Asc. I’m sure that helps to keep that excitement. Our sex life is passionate and hot as ever. It’s something that has never dwindled in the time I’ve known him.

Let me know your thoughts ?

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Well I tend to not be as restless if I am involved with someone I have a great sex life with this....so that should help a lot. Don't get me wrong the restless is still there on some level, mercury ruling my 7H on the 9th house retro squaring my nodes I think is why but the odds I would act out inappropriately are low bc my needs are been met, I am able to express my sexuality and intense side and longing to merge with someone if I am dating someone who is similar to me in bed.

posted January 15, 2020 12:19 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Ah yes. It’s all about getting your needs met.
I get insecure at times that I’m not meeting his hence the restlessness in him...

Thank you love! It’s been quite the journey with him ❤️

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How old is he? I do feel there comes a point were you have a culmination of life experiences and hit a certain level of insight about yourself and a certain level of maturity that regardless of your nature you simply want to do things right and not play more games or go around in circles.

posted January 15, 2020 07:56 AM            

In my case Saturn and Uranus are really modifying my rising Sagitarius colors so i am not "pure" in a sense. My Jupiter is in Aries, House 5.