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Brenda_S
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posted March 05, 2020 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Characteristic-wise... As well as necessary skill to attain customers...

I never really thought I'd consider doing this... I'm more on the shy side... Plus other reasoning... But lately it has got me thinking... What are the chances of me being successful in this? I dunno if money is my drive here, I just think I'm more interested in the escape it provides. But of course if I put the time in money has to follow lol.

I'm wondering though, what characteristics do people generally seek out in dancers? Aside from the classic physical attributes of course.

My chart below. Thanks 😁

(Also if it helps...

Mars parallels my ASC and Uranus contra-parallels it

Eris in 17 Aries/11th house opposes Ceres, squares my North Node/Neptune/Uranus and also squares my Venus/Mars midpoint and inconjuncts Pluto)

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posted March 05, 2020 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ULT12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IDK about "successful" as a stripper, but I've wondered about charts as a whole indicating sex/illicit work. My favorite Vedic site kept mentioning "prostitution" for Rahu-6 lol, so I was curious.

Anyhow, your chart has a ton of pointers. Does this mean you'll be successful, or you're fated/there's nothing else you can do? Dunno.

As for success, I'd imagine Venus-1 is good (know how to put others 'at ease'). H12 influence is great as it makes one a 'blank slate'/open to projection/fantasies (both Sun and Moon - aka our Wannabe and Natural Selfs - there is a boon for this).

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posted March 05, 2020 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol I don't think I'd go as far as prostitution. Lately I'm trying to be a bit more careful with my body lol. But I'd totally go for the tease 😅.

But wait what other pointers would make you think so aside from the first house Venus?

Edit: gotcha yeah the 12th house stuff would make sense. There's a pretty good energy exchange between my 12th and 1st I realized lately lol. 12th house ruler in the first and its ruler back in the 12th.

But besides that what else should I be looking at.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini is associated with good dancing.

If you were good looking enough to be an exotic dancer, there are many wealthy men that would marry you.

If I were a woman, I'd go that route.

But it would only be for love.

You could avoid the underworld, so to speak (drugs, sex, etc.).

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posted March 05, 2020 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha I hear ya. To be honest wealth doesn't really excite me. Meaning it's nice, but not without the stuff that actually matters. When it comes to long term love I mean... AKA marriage. (likely due to my SN in my second house)

But yeah I definitely wouldn't do it for the sake of marrying. Literally just as my escape. Like, I'm pretty sure I'd still consider doing it if I'd have a successful money making business at the side, where this will be 'this thing' about me nobody knows about so to speak. Well except for you guys on here loll.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Generally, the whole thing is hot.

I'd take a safe side to express yourself.

I'm sure there are many persons you could find to make it mutual.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I expect it would depend more on their charts than yours, though your chart should give insight on how you could handle the pressure. (Not just of the customers, but the places you work at, and a load of crap many strippers have to put up with.)

In any case, just as people find different physical types (and activities) attractive, same for personality. Some will be irresistibly drawn to those who exude confidence while others are turned off and instead are drawn to the shy one who seems there out of desperation, or even trying to find someone to "save" (which typically leads to co-dependence at best).

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posted March 05, 2020 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@SecretGeek

Safe as in disease transmission or as in protecting myself from violence?

And it's true I can find persons to make it mutual. But, the beauty of this IS the idea that I don't know those persons. I feel that my 12th house placements make me feel comfortable with the unknown. In other words, knowing them is more intimate true... But at the same time that level of going for it and killing it isn't there around the people I actually do know. Me not knowing them, I can kinda be in my own world if you know what I mean.

But again I'm curious what you meant re safety precautions. Cuz there are levels of physical contact there, which is up to me as to what level I wanna take it to. Is there anything I'm missing?

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posted March 05, 2020 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@PixieJane

Yeah I hear ya. That's true, regarding people finding different types attractive.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's a whole bunch of dangerous holes in the public approach.

Too many variables.

I'd try a controlled environment so you could experiment with your desires safely.

I'd try to pinpoint the terms (fetish) you're looking for and research them first.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
There's a whole bunch of dangerous holes in the public approach.

Too many variables.

I'd try a controlled environment so you could experiment with your desires safely.

I'd try to pinpoint the terms (fetish) you're looking for and research them first.


Lol appreciate the 'gentle guiding' there. I'm curious where your Saturn is at, which degree and sign? I'm thinking attached somewhere to my Mercury, in a soft way. Or maybe vice versa, your Mercury on my Saturn? Or Saturn to Moon something. Cuz I'm definitely considering your advice there lol appreciate it actually.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
While there are different strokes, for different folks, generally speaking, a non arrogant level of confidence seems to be one of the more universally attractive things.

Keep in mind that the stripper scene comes with more baggage than the obvious. Drugs, prostitution, violence, coercion from male bosses, stalking from male clients, etc, etc are not uncommon.

It's beyond a typical job in a lot ways, and not just because you're taking your clothes off and dancing for money. There is potentially a very Plutonian, Martian, and/or Saturnian seedy underbelly to the scene.

Also, consider the energetic aspect of things. If you have any above average psychic/intuitive sensitivity, keep in mind you will be constantly immersed in very red auric fields, and absorbing a lot of low, leaden red vibrations from those around you (i.e. very slow vibratory).

If you do decide to go into this profession, then would suggest a few things.

1. Keep detached from, and only professional with both co-workers and clients. Keep work at work, and don't bring work home ever.

2. Learn how to develop psychic shielding. It's not hard to do, and it would keep you from absorbing too much of all that slow vibratory red energy.

3. Don't let yourself become accustomed to a certain level of lifestyle and material comfort. If you do, and you ever decide that stripping is not for you, trying to maintain that cost of living will make it very hard for you to get out. "But I have these massive bills to pay, what am I going to do. Oh well, guess I'll just have to keep stripping". Well, eventually, you won't make as much money in it.

Astrologically, if this is truly more of a fun and joyous thing for you, then the 5th House would be a good place to look at. The 5th is where we find our deepest pleasure and joy at. It is the house of beauty in the sense of that which turns on our right brains and our hearts, and makes us feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

I have Sagittarius on my 5th with Sag Neptune (ruler of 8th), and Cap Merc (ruler of 2nd and 11th) in same. Philosophizing, exploring the far realms of Spirit and/or the higher mind, mystical/transcendent experiences, "preaching" (sharing/outpouring information with a positive intention), strongly psychic/spiritual oriented sexual merging, writing about spiritual/philosophical topics, group/community work, etc are some of the things that I'm most passionate about and most deeply enjoy.

Venus also shows us where we find pleasure and what we find beautiful and pleasing to us.

Jupiter shows where we find deeper, more spiritual fulfillment in. It's a very "feel good" place of the chart as long as Saturn, Pluto, etc are not also there counter balancing.

Anyways, please really think this through very deeply and holistically before making a decision.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Lol appreciate the 'gentle guiding' there. I'm curious where your Saturn is at, which degree and sign? I'm thinking attached somewhere to my Mercury, in a soft way. Or maybe vice versa, your Mercury on my Saturn? Or Saturn to Moon something. Cuz I'm definitely considering your advice there lol appreciate it actually.

I could figure out what it is after the steam clears. LOL

To be cooperative, my Saturn is at 25 Capricorn and my Mercury is at 21 Cancer.

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posted March 05, 2020 02:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

The Jupiter in Leo/3rd opposite Saturn in Aquarius/9th is the key to personal success as a stripper.

"I really want to strut-my-stuff (Jupiter) ... but have been raised/conditioned to believe that I should not (Saturn)".

[Mary Poppins pops-out?]

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posted March 05, 2020 03:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would really advise against this. Two of my friends were murdered when they worked as strippers to pay their way through college. It's not as simple as being on stage and doing a striptease or giving someone a lap dance. There are men who will become very obsessed with you. You don't even need to be a classic beauty, though that helps. As long as you have a good body and exude confidence, then you will be very popular.

If you decide to become a stripper, please make sure you are great at self-defense. If your plan consists of only calling 911 and hoping they will save you in time, then you will end up dead.

Astrologically speaking, a person with very strong Neptune/12th house energy in their chart would be most successful as a stripper since people often project their fantasies onto Neptunian individuals. Men can imagine being with you without even touching you.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@GalacticCoreExplosion

Wow thanks for your insights.

"Also, consider the energetic aspect of things. If you have any above average psychic/intuitive sensitivity, keep in mind you will be constantly immersed in very red auric fields, and absorbing a lot of low, leaden red vibrations from those around you (i.e. very slow vibratory)."

It's interesting you're mentioning this. I think this is one of the reasons that got me wanting to do this in the first place, actually. See, I'm religious and pretty much grew up this way. However, I don't wanna be this way without knowing how the lowest vibratory energy feels like. In my mind, I feel like reaching the deepest pit energy-wise before deciding the life I actually want. And it's low-key part of the reason I want this so much. I wanna drip in it lol. Maybe it's messed up. But I feel too pure almost. Too spiritual. Too in sync. I wanna experience the opposite. The dark. The nasty. Of course I'll take measures to keep myself alive lol. But still.

"1. Keep detached from, and only professional with both co-workers and clients. Keep work at work, and don't bring work home ever."

I think my approach in general is pretty standoffish. I don't think this will be a problem lol.

"2. Learn how to develop psychic shielding. It's not hard to do, and it would keep you from absorbing too much of all that slow vibratory red energy."

Although what I've mentioned before, I don't think I'll ever be able to truly disconnect myself from the spiritual realm, I feel like it's a very core part of me. Although it is possible, I'll still be able to bounce back pretty easily. My belief of course.

"3. Don't let yourself become accustomed to a certain level of lifestyle and material comfort. If you do, and you ever decide that stripping is not for you, trying to maintain that cost of living will make it very hard for you to get out. "But I have these massive bills to pay, what am I going to do. Oh well, guess I'll just have to keep stripping". Well, eventually, you won't make as much money in it."

Lol it would be nice if I'd have this issue. I quit jobs in the blink of an eye. Even if it pays me well. Thankfully I have pretty good references to back me, don't really have an issue finding well paying jobs. Guess I'm just lucky that I had a somewhat stable past.

"Astrologically, if this is truly more of a fun and joyous thing for you, then the 5th House would be a good place to look at. The 5th is where we find our deepest pleasure and joy at. It is the house of beauty in the sense of that which turns on our right brains and our hearts, and makes us feel all warm and fuzzy inside."

In my case, my 5th AND my 12th are ruled by Venus in my first that opposes Uranus conjunct Neptune in the eighth. Which I guess would explain this interest of mine somewhat.

"Jupiter shows where we find deeper, more spiritual fulfillment in. It's a very "feel good" place of the chart as long as Saturn, Pluto, etc are not also there counter balancing."

My Jupiter in my 3rd opposes Saturn. Maybe though it only helps this, cuz Saturn is the traditional ruler of my MC and also rules my eighth.

"Anyways, please really think this through very deeply and holistically before making a decision."

Gotta say I appreciate that level of care. I do.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
See if your Venus and Moon are out of bounds and parallel, in addition to them being parallel Priapus and contra-parallel Lilith.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I could figure out what it is after the steam clears. LOL

To be cooperative, my Saturn is at 25 Capricorn and my Mercury is at 21 Cancer.


😅😅😅😅 Best comment yet lol

So first I was right with the Mercury thing. Somewhat lol cuz it squares it and opposes my Mars. Which is interesting I didn't feel the harshness in it. Saw it as an awareness I didn't realize before. Meaning the way you articulated it. Perhaps the opposition in your own chart makes it easier on me lol. Or the fact that your Mercury is on my Mars. Something lol.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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😅😅😅😅 Best comment yet lol

So first I was right with the Mercury thing. Somewhat lol cuz it squares it and opposes my Mars. Which is interesting I didn't feel the harshness in it. Saw it as an awareness I didn't realize before. Meaning the way you articulated it. Perhaps the opposition in your own chart makes it easier on me lol. Or the fact that your Mercury is on my Mars. Something lol.


You hide being hot well.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Graham:

The Jupiter in Leo/3rd opposite Saturn in Aquarius/9th is the key to personal success as a stripper.

"I really want to strut-my-stuff (Jupiter) ... but have been raised/conditioned to believe that I should not (Saturn)".

[Mary Poppins pops-out?]


Lollz I hear ya. It's actually somewhat true lol but not really. Meaning, it's true that I wasn't raised to be conditioned to it, but I don't think it would affect my decision necessarily.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ULT12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astra is a retard, just for everyones information.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astra:
I would really advise against this. Two of my friends were murdered when they worked as strippers to pay their way through college. It's not as simple as being on stage and doing a striptease or giving someone a lap dance. There are men who will become very obsessed with you. You don't even need to be a classic beauty, though that helps. As long as you have a good body and exude confidence, then you will be very popular.

If you decide to become a stripper, please make sure you are great at self-defense. If your plan consists of only calling 911 and hoping they will save you in time, then you will end up dead.

Astrologically speaking, a person with very strong Neptune/12th house energy in their chart would be most successful as a stripper since people often project their fantasies onto Neptunian individuals. Men can imagine being with you without even touching you.


First you're right, learning self defense is something on my to do list regardless lol. You're right though I definitely wouldn't go into this without being able to keep myself alive.

Also, I feel like the clubs you work at/the level of security plays into it too. In general keeping yourself safe is a good idea. But that wouldn't scare me off necessarily, there are factors you need to consider of course prior though. But, people get killed all the time. And strippers are no different. I'm not saying it's in any way the same. What I'm saying though is, there are factors that can mitigate risk.

I'm sorry for your friends though. It certainly hurts.

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posted March 05, 2020 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Astra is a retard, just for everyones information.

Ouch lol no stripping on here. C'mon apologize

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posted March 05, 2020 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You hide being hot well.

LMFAO it's part of the game

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posted March 05, 2020 04:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LMFAO it's part of the game

I fold with you having a hand like that.

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